FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

no

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever think when your talking to someone and thinking of meeting instead of dragging it out and wasting time you would rather hear no I'm

not interested? I know that's what we do,wish other people had the same courtesy!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your right there if ya think its not for you say so straight away no point beatin around the mulberry bush wastin time , get in, get it, get out lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would much rather that than mucking around and playing games

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's a question of degrees? A balance between how interested you are to try something with someone, as opposed to how far away that person is from your ideal. eg, you might be a newbie fem, looking to try playing with another woman, but the one you're most likely to get is maybe not exactly what you have in mind. So you might go ahead with a meet just to get the feel of them and decide if it's something you could go through with.

That said, there's no point in wasting anyone's time or raising false hopes by meeting with someone on the pretext of, "This might lead to us playing." Far better to be honest at the start. You'll end up being more respected in the long run. Of course, just how you say, 'No,' will depend on whether the other person feels about you afterwards.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *itkatcpl187Couple
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Well said Magic

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ntheMan
over a year ago

kent

I totally agree there mrs M would very much prefer the straight up "no thanks" than waste everyones time.

Also like to add when people get an email from someone even if they are not interested, a short thanks but no thanks costs nothing....... or does it????

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever think when your talking to someone and thinking of meeting instead of dragging it out and wasting time you would rather hear no I'm

not interested? I know that's what we do,wish other people had the same courtesy!"

I know this won't go down too well, but I'd definitely agree with this when it comes to over here!

I know all about the 'craic', but a number of women over here seem to think that this is a social chatting site, except they don't actually tell you. Probably my worst experience over here so far, was chatting to a lady for at least 4 months, before I gave up!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top