FabSwingers.com forum: Good first message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have seen profiles saying not to send a bland message. What would constitute a good first message?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

One that makes is clear that you match what the other profile is looking for... and explains what you have to offer rather than concentrating on what you want to receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The full lyrics to uncle fucker from South Park... guaranteed ride or your money back

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

Personalise it, read the profile and in general, just be nice and say what you might be looking for

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By *illiwontiCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"The full lyrics to uncle fucker from South Park... guaranteed ride or your money back"

That song is stuck I'm my head now

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"One that makes is clear that you match what the other profile is looking for... and explains what you have to offer rather than concentrating on what you want to receive."

This pretty much describes it.

Although I'd hold off the bringing to the table bit for later conversation or in person social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ones that let me know why you've specifically clicked on my profile and messaged me in the first place. Not the generic "great ass" "I'd do you" messages!

Love a bit of cheeky flirting too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones that let me know why you've specifically clicked on my profile and messaged me in the first place. Not the generic "great ass" "I'd do you" messages!

Love a bit of cheeky flirting too

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Just send a dick pic, says it all

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"Ones that let me know why you've specifically clicked on my profile and messaged me in the first place. Not the generic "great ass" "I'd do you" messages!

Love a bit of cheeky flirting too

Be happy you get more than one word. Just recently got..."meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones that let me know why you've specifically clicked on my profile and messaged me in the first place. Not the generic "great ass" "I'd do you" messages!

Love a bit of cheeky flirting too

This! It shows you actually are interested in my profile and meeting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones that let me know why you've specifically clicked on my profile and messaged me in the first place. Not the generic "great ass" "I'd do you" messages!

Love a bit of cheeky flirting too

Be happy you get more than one word. Just recently got..."meet""

I one got just a full stop, not even one word

Oh and a manky dick pic attachment

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

How U

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How U"

Any fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones that let me know why you've specifically clicked on my profile and messaged me in the first place. Not the generic "great ass" "I'd do you" messages!

Love a bit of cheeky flirting too

Be happy you get more than one word. Just recently got..."meet""

Wow a full word I get X messages

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"How U

Any fun?

How you getting on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones that let me know why you've specifically clicked on my profile and messaged me in the first place. Not the generic "great ass" "I'd do you" messages!

Love a bit of cheeky flirting too

Be happy you get more than one word. Just recently got..."meet""

Ah shur they were probably so distracted by the great pic they couldn't get anymore out. But seriously at least make an effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How U

Any fun?

This ^^^ 100% , I've about 30 of them in my inbox!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always good to add in a face pic.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Always good to add in a face pic. "

Just make sure it's someone else's

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

Best messages we ever recieve are funny, light hearted and honest.

Lots of times the person/ couple is not for us but we would always reply and appreciate the effort.

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