FabSwingers.com forum: Social

By *oaopauloie OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin24

Hi guys! After one month of my 3rd return to fab, I have in my collection 3 meetings canceled at the last moment. Including one 75km travel (Each way).

About me,

1st - I know how fab works and this time is a bit more difficult to get my first verification than usual, I would love to hear thoughts on the reason behind it

2nd - I'm never pushy, I swear, I never ask twice.

3rd - I always offer social meetings of any sort in a public space where the person or couple can be sure that I'm real and not a psycho lol.

With all that pointed out, why are people so afraid to go have a coffee or a pint in a public place and meet some new people nowadays? Is there anything wrong with my profile?

Ps: I know that from time to time you guys always have a post here from men complaining about this same situation, but maybe they don't offer a social meeting, or maybe they do, so apologies in advance.

So, please, senior fabs I would love to hear your thoughts about this

Thanks to all and happy fab

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Can any of your previous veris help you this time

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By *oaopauloie OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin24

I had two veris from my last profile, but I think they are not here anymore! Could not find them!

From my first profile, well, that one was a very long time ago and was only one verification that I don't even remember the profile name!

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I’m at a loss to be honest. Been struggling to find a very specific type of person for a 3some and we’ve been let down about 3 times now, last minute. I’m very well verified as are they and it’s driving me nuts.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Instead of asking for a social why not go to some of the events that are being organised at the moment once people see what you are like and how you behave in person they will be more willing to meet you you have to remember meeting a complete stranger who you know very little about is very hard for some women given what has happened to a few women/guys in the last few months the only thing i can see that would put me off your profipe is the fact that you cant accomodate puts alot of ladies off and also gives off the notion that you arent single

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By *oaopauloie OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin24

"Instead of asking for a social why not go to some of the events that are being organised at the moment once people see what you are like and how you behave in person they will be more willing to meet you you have to remember meeting a complete stranger who you know very little about is very hard for some women given what has happened to a few women/guys in the last few months the only thing i can see that would put me off your profipe is the fact that you cant accomodate puts alot of ladies off and also gives off the notion that you arent single "

Well, usually there are no events for unverified males, which honestly makes sense!! About can't be able to accommodate, yeah, that might be one of the reasons! Thanks for the advice

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You could also post in this thread

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1316856

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Well, usually there are no events for unverified males, which honestly makes sense!!"

This social is for verified and unverified: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1302674

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I'd meet ya for a social tea sometime if ya want to get verified..

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By *oaopauloie OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin24

"I'd meet ya for a social tea sometime if ya want to get verified.."

Definitely, thank you very much

Just let me know when you are free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m at a loss to be honest. Been struggling to find a very specific type of person for a 3some and we’ve been let down about 3 times now, last minute. I’m very well verified as are they and it’s driving me nuts. "

I’ll ride ya

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