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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey I'm a big guy I got a belly and a big beard ?? . Are any ladies into that sort of thing ?? ? If so pm me or reply here ????. I am yet to be verified ?. I have met about 4 people but never left review ????? or got review. So I will be looking to change that also ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s funny how women of that physique are celebrated and empowered to be sexy etc in media advertising etc. yet men of the same physique are never mentioned or celebrated.

Double standards ? When have you ever heard of BBM like BBW ?

This is not a sly at overweight people, just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s funny how women of that physique are celebrated and empowered to be sexy etc in media advertising etc. yet men of the same physique are never mentioned or celebrated.

Double standards ? When have you ever heard of BBM like BBW ?

This is not a sly at overweight people, just an observation "

There was that whole "dad bod" thing that was popular a few years ago.

I suppose women are more likely to use platforms like IG to celebrate their bodies than men are, maybe that's where the discrepancy comes in?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Why would you want to be a fetish? I'm fat, I only want to play with people that fancy me, not my size... I don't choose lovers by their bodytype... I have to like the face and the person, fat or thin makes no odds once attraction to those is established

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"It’s funny how women of that physique are celebrated and empowered to be sexy etc in media advertising etc. yet men of the same physique are never mentioned or celebrated.

Double standards ? When have you ever heard of BBM like BBW ?

This is not a sly at overweight people, just an observation "

I always thought all men were excepted, regardless of size... Women on the other hand have only just got there and now the world is trying to make up for lost time, I think. Being wanted just because your fat is not a win tho... Someone is attractive to you or they aren't, right?

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS


"It’s funny how women of that physique are celebrated and empowered to be sexy etc in media advertising etc. yet men of the same physique are never mentioned or celebrated.

Double standards ? When have you ever heard of BBM like BBW ?

This is not a sly at overweight people, just an observation

There was that whole "dad bod" thing that was popular a few years ago.

I suppose women are more likely to use platforms like IG to celebrate their bodies than men are, maybe that's where the discrepancy comes in? "

What, dad bods aren't popular anymore? Better hit the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy women in all shapes and sizes, they are all attractive. But I find men especially in media advertising, films etc that are carrying extra weight are never portrayed as attractive like women of the same body frame.

A dad bod is a guy with a few extra pounds, not overweight

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

fat thor is still sexy

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's a thing in the gay community for sure. Big heavy men hairs men are called bears, and are very popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s funny how women of that physique are celebrated and empowered to be sexy etc in media advertising etc. yet men of the same physique are never mentioned or celebrated.

Double standards ? When have you ever heard of BBM like BBW ?

This is not a sly at overweight people, just an observation

There was that whole "dad bod" thing that was popular a few years ago.

I suppose women are more likely to use platforms like IG to celebrate their bodies than men are, maybe that's where the discrepancy comes in?

What, dad bods aren't popular anymore? Better hit the gym."

They could well be, I'm just not really up to date with trends I do like one myself I have to say

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"It's a thing in the gay community for sure. Big heavy men hairs men are called bears, and are very popular."

I'm gonna try that post again because it makes me sound like a fucking idiot... yeah yeah, just like ALL my posts...

"It's a thing in the gay community for sure. Big heavy hairy men are called bears, and are very popular.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre


"Hey I'm a big guy I got a belly and a big beard ?? . Are any ladies into that sort of thing ?? ? If so pm me or reply here ????. I am yet to be verified ?. I have met about 4 people but never left review ????? or got review. So I will be looking to change that also ??"

To be honest women on here appreciate a well written message so posting with 50 question marks isn’t going to help your case too much.

People of all shapes and sizes are getting their rocks off here so I wouldn’t be putting it all down to body type

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS


"It’s funny how women of that physique are celebrated and empowered to be sexy etc in media advertising etc. yet men of the same physique are never mentioned or celebrated.

Double standards ? When have you ever heard of BBM like BBW ?

This is not a sly at overweight people, just an observation

There was that whole "dad bod" thing that was popular a few years ago.

I suppose women are more likely to use platforms like IG to celebrate their bodies than men are, maybe that's where the discrepancy comes in?

What, dad bods aren't popular anymore? Better hit the gym.

They could well be, I'm just not really up to date with trends I do like one myself I have to say"

Ooooh u flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a thing in the gay community for sure. Big heavy men hairs men are called bears, and are very popular."

In heterosexual?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There meant to be emojis. Not sure why there not working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you want to be a fetish? I'm fat, I only want to play with people that fancy me, not my size... I don't choose lovers by their bodytype... I have to like the face and the person, fat or thin makes no odds once attraction to those is established "
lovely post

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"There meant to be emojis. Not sure why there not working "

The only ones that work are the ones under the message box

I think you can only see them if you're a site supporter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks a million

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"It's a thing in the gay community for sure. Big heavy men hairs men are called bears, and are very popular.

In heterosexual?"

It's not really a "thing" for straight girls to like their guys that way... but that's not to say that nobody enjoys it. Its just not a cosmo/insta/love island popularity thing so noone shouts about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main thing is to feel good about yourself no matter what size you are.once you do that other people will want your company by getting to know you not just on what photos you post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey I'm a big guy I got a belly and a big beard ?? . Are any ladies into that sort of thing ?? ? If so pm me or reply here ????. I am yet to be verified ?. I have met about 4 people but never left review ????? or got review. So I will be looking to change that also ??

To be honest women on here appreciate a well written message so posting with 50 question marks isn’t going to help your case too much.

People of all shapes and sizes are getting their rocks off here so I wouldn’t be putting it all down to body type"

If you ever see these question marks on fab it’s due to people using emojis. The fab site is quite dated when it comes to modern day web development so it doesn’t know how to display android or iOS emojis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a thing in the gay community for sure. Big heavy men hairs men are called bears, and are very popular.

In heterosexual?

It's not really a "thing" for straight girls to like their guys that way... but that's not to say that nobody enjoys it. Its just not a cosmo/insta/love island popularity thing so noone shouts about it."

Yes because media and media advertising do not portray overweight guys the same as overweight women. Take for example a womens dove add compared to any mens grooming products, the men are always toned fit good looking guys.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"Hey I'm a big guy I got a belly and a big beard ?? . Are any ladies into that sort of thing ?? ? If so pm me or reply here ????. I am yet to be verified ?. I have met about 4 people but never left review ????? or got review. So I will be looking to change that also ??"

What's with all the question marks??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a thing in the gay community for sure. Big heavy men hairs men are called bears, and are very popular.

In heterosexual?

It's not really a "thing" for straight girls to like their guys that way... but that's not to say that nobody enjoys it. Its just not a cosmo/insta/love island popularity thing so noone shouts about it.

Yes because media and media advertising do not portray overweight guys the same as overweight women. Take for example a womens dove add compared to any mens grooming products, the men are always toned fit good looking guys. "

This is a direct counter movement to the fact there has been years and years of toxic body shaming of women in particular in media.

Should there be more positivity and acceptable about mens body types also? Hell yes.

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