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Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent  ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
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"There's multiple threads describing a perfect bj, but I've yet to see a thread where people describe perfect cunnilingus. Obviously it's a personal preference, so everyone's answer will be different
Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
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"There's multiple threads describing a perfect bj, but I've yet to see a thread where people describe perfect cunnilingus. Obviously it's a personal preference, so everyone's answer will be different
Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
Missus "Im a bit like you Missus! Slowly, gently, with long slow strokes. And be consistent. If i moan in pleasure that does not mean go faster and harder. It simply means keep doing exactly what you were doing same pressure, same speed, same spot. Its not complicated!! | |||
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"There's multiple threads describing a perfect bj, but I've yet to see a thread where people describe perfect cunnilingus. Obviously it's a personal preference, so everyone's answer will be different
Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
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Im a bit like you Missus! Slowly, gently, with long slow strokes. And be consistent. If i moan in pleasure that does not mean go faster and harder. It simply means keep doing exactly what you were doing same pressure, same speed, same spot. Its not complicated!! "Swoooooon.. 
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"There's multiple threads describing a perfect bj, but I've yet to see a thread where people describe perfect cunnilingus. Obviously it's a personal preference, so everyone's answer will be different
Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
Missus
Im a bit like you Missus! Slowly, gently, with long slow strokes. And be consistent. If i moan in pleasure that does not mean go faster and harder. It simply means keep doing exactly what you were doing same pressure, same speed, same spot. Its not complicated!!
Swoooooon..
You had me at "I'm" "Lol typical man not listening to a word i said!! (Im kidding xx) | |||
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"From my point of view there's no such thing as a perfect cunnilingus. It does very little for me, it's ok as a foreplay but to peak it takes forever, gets boring and the orgasm is rather mediocre. In regards of fingerplay I'm on the same stroke as the op. Based on my experience, most are too rough and too fast and therefore imprecise. It normally ends in overstimulation of the whole area and peaking escapes into eternity. There's a difference in fiddling and playing a sweet tune. "U meana little light foot tapping rather than foot stomping  | |||
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"From my point of view there's no such thing as a perfect cunnilingus. It does very little for me, it's ok as a foreplay but to peak it takes forever, gets boring and the orgasm is rather mediocre. In regards of fingerplay I'm on the same stroke as the op. Based on my experience, most are too rough and too fast and therefore imprecise. It normally ends in overstimulation of the whole area and peaking escapes into eternity. There's a difference in fiddling and playing a sweet tune. "U meana little lught foit tapping rather than foot stomping | |||
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"There's multiple threads describing a perfect bj, but I've yet to see a thread where people describe perfect cunnilingus. Obviously it's a personal preference, so everyone's answer will be different
Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
Missus
Im a bit like you Missus! Slowly, gently, with long slow strokes. And be consistent. If i moan in pleasure that does not mean go faster and harder. It simply means keep doing exactly what you were doing same pressure, same speed, same spot. Its not complicated!!
Swoooooon..
You had me at "I'm"
Lol typical man not listening to a word i said!! (Im kidding xx) "Sorry, did you say something? I was transfixed by the profile pic! | |||
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"I go at it like a culchi at a carvery. Get stuck in and don’t lift your head til you’ve licked the plate clean" Including seconds... | |||
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"There is no reason not to discribe how you like it to help a guy out... its not a test. What drives one girl wild might turn another off. Be clear. It's in your advantage after all." Too true, but there's nothing better than a man who can read signals and instictively knows what is working and what isn't. | |||
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"There's multiple threads describing a perfect bj, but I've yet to see a thread where people describe perfect cunnilingus. Obviously it's a personal preference, so everyone's answer will be different
Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
Missus
Im a bit like you Missus! Slowly, gently, with long slow strokes. And be consistent. If i moan in pleasure that does not mean go faster and harder. It simply means keep doing exactly what you were doing same pressure, same speed, same spot. Its not complicated!!
Swoooooon..
You had me at "I'm"
Lol typical man not listening to a word i said!! (Im kidding xx)
Sorry, did you say something? I was transfixed by the profile pic! "Lol thank you x | |||
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus" How would you name it? | |||
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"There is no reason not to discribe how you like it to help a guy out... its not a test. What drives one girl wild might turn another off. Be clear. It's in your advantage after all. Too true, but there's nothing better than a man who can read signals and instictively knows what is working and what isn't. " Thats called working off your own initiative. Some of us actullay have that trait lol | |||
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? " Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now: | |||
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"Oral Going down on Eating out Tasting Anyore " Munching on a snatch box? | |||
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"Oral Going down on Eating out Tasting Anyore Munching on a snatch box?" Eating a clamburger | |||
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"Oral Going down on Eating out Tasting Anyore Munching on a snatch box?" I can just hear you whispering into her ear - I want to munch on your snatch box
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now: "Do you announce every action you're about to take when getting hot and steamy with someone? Like: "I'm going to kiss you now". Mmm "good good, now I'm going to pull your bra to the side and suck your nipple" "I'm now going to pinch your other nipple between my fingers" "I'm about to take your top off and kiss your belly" Mmm "suck my dick" "Good good, thanks, now I'll pull your pants down and gently caress your lady garden with my tongue" (I'm sorry, I laughed way too hard typing that) 
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now:
Do you announce every action you're about to take when getting hot and steamy with someone?
Like:
"I'm going to kiss you now".
Mmm "good good, now I'm going to pull your bra to the side and suck your nipple"
"I'm now going to pinch your other nipple between my fingers"
"I'm about to take your top off and kiss your belly"
Mmm "suck my dick"
"Good good, thanks, now I'll pull your pants down and gently caress your lady garden with my tongue"
(I'm sorry, I laughed way too hard typing that)
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"Shopping at the fishmarket" PMSL That just made my day | |||
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now:
Do you announce every action you're about to take when getting hot and steamy with someone?
Like:
"I'm going to kiss you now".
Mmm "good good, now I'm going to pull your bra to the side and suck your nipple"
"I'm now going to pinch your other nipple between my fingers"
"I'm about to take your top off and kiss your belly"
Mmm "suck my dick"
"Good good, thanks, now I'll pull your pants down and gently caress your lady garden with my tongue"
(I'm sorry, I laughed way too hard typing that)
Missus "I come with audio description as an option
I like to be inclusive | |||
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"There is no reason not to discribe how you like it to help a guy out... its not a test. What drives one girl wild might turn another off. Be clear. It's in your advantage after all. Too true, but there's nothing better than a man who can read signals and instictively knows what is working and what isn't. " How are you supposed to know she can't cum with her legs straight? | |||
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"There is no reason not to discribe how you like it to help a guy out... its not a test. What drives one girl wild might turn another off. Be clear. It's in your advantage after all. Too true, but there's nothing better than a man who can read signals and instictively knows what is working and what isn't. How are you supposed to know she can't cum with her legs straight? "Clearly her left ear lobe twitch gives this away | |||
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now:
Do you announce every action you're about to take when getting hot and steamy with someone?
Like:
"I'm going to kiss you now".
Mmm "good good, now I'm going to pull your bra to the side and suck your nipple"
"I'm now going to pinch your other nipple between my fingers"
"I'm about to take your top off and kiss your belly"
Mmm "suck my dick"
"Good good, thanks, now I'll pull your pants down and gently caress your lady garden with my tongue"
(I'm sorry, I laughed way too hard typing that)
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"I go at it like a culchi at a carvery. Get stuck in and don’t lift your head til you’ve licked the plate clean"
Like a dog at a bag of rubbish.
I can orgasm at oral if he get it right, lots of firm targeted tongue, switching it up between licking from top to bottom with good proactive hands.
However if you get me on my knees and know what you’re at with your fingers (summoning a genie rather than stuffing a turkey) I will cum hot and fierce and all over you. Only happened with three men ever, the first freaked out and the next two cheered | |||
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now:
Do you announce every action you're about to take when getting hot and steamy with someone?
Like:
"I'm going to kiss you now".
Mmm "good good, now I'm going to pull your bra to the side and suck your nipple"
"I'm now going to pinch your other nipple between my fingers"
"I'm about to take your top off and kiss your belly"
Mmm "suck my dick"
"Good good, thanks, now I'll pull your pants down and gently caress your lady garden with my tongue"
(I'm sorry, I laughed way too hard typing that)
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Hahahhaha lady garden??!!??"There are people out there who still say "lady garden" with a perfectly straight face  | |||
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now:
Do you announce every action you're about to take when getting hot and steamy with someone?
Like:
"I'm going to kiss you now".
Mmm "good good, now I'm going to pull your bra to the side and suck your nipple"
"I'm now going to pinch your other nipple between my fingers"
"I'm about to take your top off and kiss your belly"
Mmm "suck my dick"
"Good good, thanks, now I'll pull your pants down and gently caress your lady garden with my tongue"
(I'm sorry, I laughed way too hard typing that)
Missus
I come with audio description as an option
I like to be inclusive "That would be one awesome audio book to listen to! | |||
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now:
Do you announce every action you're about to take when getting hot and steamy with someone?
Like:
"I'm going to kiss you now".
Mmm "good good, now I'm going to pull your bra to the side and suck your nipple"
"I'm now going to pinch your other nipple between my fingers"
"I'm about to take your top off and kiss your belly"
Mmm "suck my dick"
"Good good, thanks, now I'll pull your pants down and gently caress your lady garden with my tongue"
(I'm sorry, I laughed way too hard typing that)
Missus
I come with audio description as an option
I like to be inclusive
That would be one awesome audio book to listen to! "Playing in the garden of oral delights.. With fingers , tongue, lips , and make up brush. Heaven. | |||
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"Ever they hot and cold sensation while being licked cold of the tongue after water and then hot drink too? Not for all but hot for some " Think it's a fun thing to do, but can't see how change of temperature would make a woman climax  | |||
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"Ever they hot and cold sensation while being licked cold of the tongue after water and then hot drink too? Not for all but hot for some Think it's a fun thing to do, but can't see how change of temperature would make a woman climax "It’s about the journey AND the destination….
Personally I find it a kin to the humble egg, it can be enjoyed in a variety of different ways by different people…..
My favourite being the crème egg by Cadburys, which coincidentally I also find can be great practice for cunnilingus, biting or nibbling only be special permission…..
How do you eat your yours…..
Muff burger and drinking from the furry mug are another two names I’ve heard in reference to the beautiful art….. | |||
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"I find the best first step is to never refer to it as cunnilingus How would you name it? Honestly it depends on the person I was with.... But I could never envisage myself whispering into her ear.... "I'm gonna preform cunnilingus now:
Do you announce every action you're about to take when getting hot and steamy with someone?
Like:
"I'm going to kiss you now".
Mmm "good good, now I'm going to pull your bra to the side and suck your nipple"
"I'm now going to pinch your other nipple between my fingers"
"I'm about to take your top off and kiss your belly"
Mmm "suck my dick"
"Good good, thanks, now I'll pull your pants down and gently caress your lady garden with my tongue"
(I'm sorry, I laughed way too hard typing that)
Missus "I suppose that's the way it's going... we're all trendy, PC people now. Joking. | |||
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"Different ppl have different levels of sensitivity, when performing cunnilingus myself the clue is how wet. Also I’ve found some women like having their clits sucked . But if you’re down there and she’s soaking wet then you’re on the right path. I know it’s seen as foreplay, i could spend hours eating pussy" Do you meet many women who enjoy it for hours? I would find it boring and monotonous and from what I've seen on the forums so would most women. | |||
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"I go at it like a culchi at a carvery. Get stuck in and don’t lift your head til you’ve licked the plate clean
Like a dog at a bag of rubbish.
I can orgasm at oral if he get it right, lots of firm targeted tongue, switching it up between licking from top to bottom with good proactive hands.
However if you get me on my knees and know what you’re at with your fingers (summoning a genie rather than stuffing a turkey) I will cum hot and fierce and all over you. Only happened with three men ever, the first freaked out and the next two cheered "I can vouch for that! | |||
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"Slow build up, starting with kissing and undressing. Playing with other erogenous zones first. Slowly moving down the body and slowly peeling of the knickers. Savour the sight and just let her feel your breath on her. Slow gentle tongue strokes, with the tip of the tongue, from bottom to top, gently grazing the head of the clit. Firmer licks along the part covered by skin. Do this for a while to set a rhythm. After a while, ignore the clit altogether just to tease and watch her as she moves her hips trying to get you to focus on her clit again. Give it some attention before ignoring it again. Continue this for a while but always giving the clit the attention it's looking for. Explore the rest of the vulva with the fingers and the tongue. Stroking and licking the different layers of the lips like a cat, cleaning itself. Start of with one finger inside and gently do the "come here" gesture while flicking the tongue over the clit. Let the index finger of the other hand tease around the anus to see if she's open to having a finger in there. You'll know by how she moves. Use another finger inside to do the come here motion and suck on the clit while using the tongue. Do this for a while. Then just stop. Tease her a bit. Tell her to do some work. Tell her to grind against your tongue and see if she can make herself cum. When she gets tired, go again with fingers and mouth. Do this for a while. If you can tell she can hardly take any more teasing keep the fingers pressed into the g-spot and press the gums against the clit and suck on her until she starts convulsing. Guage how long to let her rest between convulsions before going again. Repeat until she tells you she can't take anymore. Or something like that "Wow  | |||
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"Slow build up, starting with kissing and undressing. Playing with other erogenous zones first. Slowly moving down the body and slowly peeling of the knickers. Savour the sight and just let her feel your breath on her. Slow gentle tongue strokes, with the tip of the tongue, from bottom to top, gently grazing the head of the clit. Firmer licks along the part covered by skin. Do this for a while to set a rhythm. After a while, ignore the clit altogether just to tease and watch her as she moves her hips trying to get you to focus on her clit again. Give it some attention before ignoring it again. Continue this for a while but always giving the clit the attention it's looking for. Explore the rest of the vulva with the fingers and the tongue. Stroking and licking the different layers of the lips like a cat, cleaning itself. Start of with one finger inside and gently do the "come here" gesture while flicking the tongue over the clit. Let the index finger of the other hand tease around the anus to see if she's open to having a finger in there. You'll know by how she moves. Use another finger inside to do the come here motion and suck on the clit while using the tongue. Do this for a while. Then just stop. Tease her a bit. Tell her to do some work. Tell her to grind against your tongue and see if she can make herself cum. When she gets tired, go again with fingers and mouth. Do this for a while. If you can tell she can hardly take any more teasing keep the fingers pressed into the g-spot and press the gums against the clit and suck on her until she starts convulsing. Guage how long to let her rest between convulsions before going again. Repeat until she tells you she can't take anymore. Or something like that "You may continue........ | |||
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"There's multiple threads describing a perfect bj, but I've yet to see a thread where people describe perfect cunnilingus. Obviously it's a personal preference, so everyone's answer will be different
Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
Missus
Im a bit like you Missus! Slowly, gently, with long slow strokes. And be consistent. If i moan in pleasure that does not mean go faster and harder. It simply means keep doing exactly what you were doing same pressure, same speed, same spot. Its not complicated!! "Absolutely | |||
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"There's multiple threads describing a perfect bj, but I've yet to see a thread where people describe perfect cunnilingus. Obviously it's a personal preference, so everyone's answer will be different
Personally I love my clit being touched very slowly and very gently, with a toy or fingers inside, legs must be straight (genuinely can't cum with my knees bent ) no picking up the pace, no flicking, biting or sucking just gradually getting teased into a huge, sensual orgasm.
Missus
Im a bit like you Missus! Slowly, gently, with long slow strokes. And be consistent. If i moan in pleasure that does not mean go faster and harder. It simply means keep doing exactly what you were doing same pressure, same speed, same spot. Its not complicated!!
Swoooooon..
You had me at "I'm"
Lol typical man not listening to a word i said!! (Im kidding xx) "No, he is probably typical of most of us. Didn't even wonder why men can't message you. Just assumed he would be the one to turn you lol. Actually I don't know him at all and mean him no offense. | |||
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