FabSwingers.com forum: 50 or 55+ women

By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

Hi everyone,

I'm going to meet a woman who 50+ for a Tantric massage and she also wants to enjoy a strong orgasm.

I have done it the past for few(who are sexually active) but just wanted to know if there are tips or Do's & Dont's.

I'm concerned because of the fact that with age there are physical changes in the body and don't want to hurt her in any way.

Can someone experienced please guide?

1. Things to avoid

2. Pleasurable points

3. and other tips.

Thank you so much in advance!

Note - Tantric massage is not at all about having sex but sometimes it's the demand from the women along with the massage.

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By *ux555Man
over a year ago

monaghan

If you need tips on how to pleasure a woman your in the wrong place buddy. Prepare to ripped a new one...

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

If you think you know it all where pleasuring a woman is concerned then you're in the wrong place buddy

The above comment wasn't directed at you OP

Honestly? Just communicate with her and tune in to what she is responding to. You'll only hurt her by being rough, same as with any other age. Enjoy

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By *ux555Man
over a year ago

monaghan

Didnt see any comments about anyone knowing all but some on here seem to think they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Era no one knows it all and that’s the fun of it. As long as you’re not a slow learner. Haha

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Hi everyone,

I'm going to meet a woman who 50+ for a Tantric massage and she also wants to enjoy a strong orgasm.

I have done it the past for few(who are sexually active) but just wanted to know if there are tips or Do's & Dont's.

I'm concerned because of the fact that with age there are physical changes in the body and don't want to hurt her in any way.

Can someone experienced please guide?

1. Things to avoid

2. Pleasurable points

3. and other tips.

Thank you so much in advance!

Note - Tantric massage is not at all about having sex but sometimes it's the demand from the women along with the massage."

Sorry but I'm confused. You're a masseur? A tantric masseur? If so, you'd have done some form of qualifications, workshops and practiced this. Or are you giving a tantric massage without ever having attended a workshop at least?

Tantric massage is a lot more than just giving a massage with a happy ending (for men and women alike). It goes much deeper into a sexually healing experience... it's like therapy! And should also never come with the expectation of experiencing an orgasm by the receiver. Otherwise it's just a massage with a happy ending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he’s just feeling his way around. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you bluffing a little bit OP? Come on you can tell us. We’re all friends here

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

Hey,

I agree with you totally.

Actually the problem is people misunderstand the Tantric massages.

I don't claim to know everything and that's why just wanted to know more from the experienced people here.

To be honest, I never expect sex or any kind of sexual pleasure for me during the tantric massage.

It's all about the receiver and their healing & relaxation.

The above post is only to know more considering the physical changes in a woman's body.

Thanks for the reply.

"Hi everyone,

I'm going to meet a woman who 50+ for a Tantric massage and she also wants to enjoy a strong orgasm.

I have done it the past for few(who are sexually active) but just wanted to know if there are tips or Do's & Dont's.

I'm concerned because of the fact that with age there are physical changes in the body and don't want to hurt her in any way.

Can someone experienced please guide?

1. Things to avoid

2. Pleasurable points

3. and other tips.

Thank you so much in advance!

Note - Tantric massage is not at all about having sex but sometimes it's the demand from the women along with the massage.

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

I don't need to bluff anything man.

I'm just asking for more info from the more experienced or people of that age.

I'm new to this platform but practicing the massages since 5 years.

Can you please tell me what is OP?

"Are you bluffing a little bit OP? Come on you can tell us. We’re all friends here "

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"What is OP?

I'm new to this platform here but practicing massages since 5years.

OP - original poster, in other words - you.

If you are experienced, particularly with 5 years, why do you need pointers on how to touch a woman intimately during a tantric massage session?

Always get your feedback from the recipient - and the general stuff you *should* know, particularly if you're qualified and experienced...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check if she has a peacemaker first

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

Thanks for the information.

Yes, I can definitely say that I know the touching points in general but don't have much experience when it comes to women above 55.

Also, the women I have met as mentioned in my 'Original Post' were Sexually Active and thus, there was nothing much different.

But in this case, the lady seems to be inactive and that's why I have typically asked for guidance regarding 50 or 55+ woman.

I hope this answers your Q.

"What is OP?

I'm new to this platform here but practicing massages since 5years.

OP - original poster, in other words - you.

If you are experienced, particularly with 5 years, why do you need pointers on how to touch a woman intimately during a tantric massage session?

Always get your feedback from the recipient - and the general stuff you *should* know, particularly if you're qualified and experienced..."

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Dont see what the ladies age has to do with it tbh unless she has health issues!

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By *asual_eyesMan
over a year ago

Sallins/Naas

Women over 50+ are not as different as you seem to think. Most I know are just as active.

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

Thanks, that's helpful

"Dont see what the ladies age has to do with it tbh unless she has health issues!"

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Thanks for the information.

Yes, I can definitely say that I know the touching points in general but don't have much experience when it comes to women above 55.

Also, the women I have met as mentioned in my 'Original Post' were Sexually Active and thus, there was nothing much different.

But in this case, the lady seems to be inactive and that's why I have typically asked for guidance regarding 50 or 55+ woman.

I hope this answers your Q.

What is OP?

I'm new to this platform here but practicing massages since 5years.

OP - original poster, in other words - you.

If you are experienced, particularly with 5 years, why do you need pointers on how to touch a woman intimately during a tantric massage session?

Always get your feedback from the recipient - and the general stuff you *should* know, particularly if you're qualified and experienced..."

If this lady is menopausal, her periods are a thing of the past. She may have (had) hot flushes, night sweats, gained weight, suffer with insomnia and mood swings.

Commonly breasts may feel more tender, vaginal dryness is a thing which may impact on sex drive (who wants sex when it's painful?). Incontinence may have become a problem, chronic urinary tract infections can be a part of her medical issues and she may be suffering with anxiety/depression.

A thorough consultation should give you all the information you need, along with consent where you are permitted to touch - externally and internally.

As a holistic therapist myself (though I don't practice tantra), you will and should very much be guided by your intuition, the cues her body gives you and any verbal and non-verbal communication from this lady. If in doubt, always ask, look for feedback! That goes for any kind of massage really...

Like with anything, be aware of her boundaries and make your own boundaries clear.

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

Hey,

This is super helpful.

THANK YOU soo much for the detailed reply !!

I always ask and set the boundaries in advance and follow them strictly.

I will be careful about the dryness. In past, I have separately used the water based lubricants for Vaginal massage instead of using the same body oil which they like for the full body massage.

Also, will be careful about the breasts and check with her about that.

Thanks again.

"Thanks for the information.

Yes, I can definitely say that I know the touching points in general but don't have much experience when it comes to women above 55.

Also, the women I have met as mentioned in my 'Original Post' were Sexually Active and thus, there was nothing much different.

But in this case, the lady seems to be inactive and that's why I have typically asked for guidance regarding 50 or 55+ woman.

I hope this answers your Q.

What is OP?

I'm new to this platform here but practicing massages since 5years.

OP - original poster, in other words - you.

If you are experienced, particularly with 5 years, why do you need pointers on how to touch a woman intimately during a tantric massage session?

Always get your feedback from the recipient - and the general stuff you *should* know, particularly if you're qualified and experienced...

If this lady is menopausal, her periods are a thing of the past. She may have (had) hot flushes, night sweats, gained weight, suffer with insomnia and mood swings.

A thorough consultation should give you all the information you need, along with consent where you are permitted to touch - externally and internally.

Like with anything, be aware of her boundaries and make your own boundaries clear."

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Hey,

This is super helpful.

THANK YOU soo much for the detailed reply !!

I always ask and set the boundaries in advance and follow them strictly.

I will be careful about the dryness. In past, I have separately used the water based lubricants for Vaginal massage instead of using the same body oil which they like for the full body massage.

Also, will be careful about the breasts and check with her about that.

Thanks again.

Thanks for the information.

Yes, I can definitely say that I know the touching points in general but don't have much experience when it comes to women above 55.

Also, the women I have met as mentioned in my 'Original Post' were Sexually Active and thus, there was nothing much different.

But in this case, the lady seems to be inactive and that's why I have typically asked for guidance regarding 50 or 55+ woman.

I hope this answers your Q.

What is OP?

I'm new to this platform here but practicing massages since 5years.

OP - original poster, in other words - you.

If you are experienced, particularly with 5 years, why do you need pointers on how to touch a woman intimately during a tantric massage session?

Always get your feedback from the recipient - and the general stuff you *should* know, particularly if you're qualified and experienced...

If this lady is menopausal, her periods are a thing of the past. She may have (had) hot flushes, night sweats, gained weight, suffer with insomnia and mood swings.

A thorough consultation should give you all the information you need, along with consent where you are permitted to touch - externally and internally.

Like with anything, be aware of her boundaries and make your own boundaries clear."

You're welcome. Apologies if I sounded sceptical in my first reply.

I personally use coconut oil for my treatments. This is perfectly suitable for using as a lubricant in intimate parts too (as many other Fabbers will confirm) - provided there are no allergies.

I would be careful with your choice of lube as that is a very personal choice - what one woman likes, another may not. I hate lubes that get sticky and tacky. Texture is not a problem with coconut oil.

I wish you all the best with the massage

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

Hey,

At first many felt that I'm bluffing here for some attention :D

Thanks again for the detailed response again.

I agree with you on the lube. Even I use the coconut oil for massages generally and it goes well with private parts as well.

Thanks again.

I hope all my previous receivers of massage can write a review for me here :D

Happy to know that you also practice massages.

"Hey,

This is super helpful.

THANK YOU soo much for the detailed reply !!

I always ask and set the boundaries in advance and follow them strictly.

I will be careful about the dryness. In past, I have separately used the water based lubricants for Vaginal massage instead of using the same body oil which they like for the full body massage.

Also, will be careful about the breasts and check with her about that.

Thanks again.

Thanks for the information.

Yes, I can definitely say that I know the touching points in general but don't have much experience when it comes to women above 55.

Also, the women I have met as mentioned in my 'Original Post' were Sexually Active and thus, there was nothing much different.

But in this case, the lady seems to be inactive and that's why I have typically asked for guidance regarding 50 or 55+ woman.

I hope this answers your Q.

What is OP?

I'm new to this platform here but practicing massages since 5years.

OP - original poster, in other words - you.

If you are experienced, particularly with 5 years, why do you need pointers on how to touch a woman intimately during a tantric massage session?

Always get your feedback from the recipient - and the general stuff you *should* know, particularly if you're qualified and experienced...

If this lady is menopausal, her periods are a thing of the past. She may have (had) hot flushes, night sweats, gained weight, suffer with insomnia and mood swings.

A thorough consultation should give you all the information you need, along with consent where you are permitted to touch - externally and internally.

Like with anything, be aware of her boundaries and make your own boundaries clear.

You're welcome. Apologies if I sounded sceptical in my first reply.

I personally use coconut oil for my treatments. This is perfectly suitable for using as a lubricant in intimate parts too (as many other Fabbers will confirm) - provided there are no allergies.

I wish you all the best with the massage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check for a pulse is a good start I guess

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

I agree with you.

Many often misunderstand it for Sexual fun.

"Hi everyone,

I'm going to meet a woman who 50+ for a Tantric massage and she also wants to enjoy a strong orgasm.

I have done it the past for few(who are sexually active) but just wanted to know if there are tips or Do's & Dont's.

I'm concerned because of the fact that with age there are physical changes in the body and don't want to hurt her in any way.

Can someone experienced please guide?

1. Things to avoid

2. Pleasurable points

3. and other tips.

Thank you so much in advance!

Note - Tantric massage is not at all about having sex but sometimes it's the demand from the women along with the massage.

Amen. The word “tantric” is bandied around a lot on here. I’d personally be looking for qualifications.

Orgasms are not the be-all and end-all of tantra either, they’re only part of the journey. Sigh. "

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Im glad you've found someone to receive your massage.

To make HER experience more enjoyable, here are a few hints.

Make sure the room is warm, with lots of warm towels.

Make time for her, to suit her schedule , 2 hours or so.

Play music that SHE likes.

You say she is sexuallly inactive, so have a long chat with her first, to find out what she desires.

Get consent, and agree on both your boundaries before starting the massage.

Turn OFF your own erotic charge, the last thing she will want is a horny man in the room, if its her first Tantra massage.

Dont TAKE your pleasure from her, you are there to GIVE pleasure, and to allow her to RECEIVE pleasure. She might not be used to this.

Be fully present for her during the entire session, have a cold drink, strawberries or oranges for after.

Let us know how you get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A defibrillator beside the bed and Radio bingo on the wireless she'll love it lad

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By *asseurindublin OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Naas

Hey,

THANK YOU for the detailed reply and tips!

To be honest, I always focus on Giving pleasure instead of Receiving anything.

Also, I don't any sexual returns during the massage.

I'm sure with all your suggestions, I will give my best 3

Thanks again

"Im glad you've found someone to receive your massage.

To make HER experience more enjoyable, here are a few hints.

Make sure the room is warm, with lots of warm towels.

Make time for her, to suit her schedule , 2 hours or so.

Play music that SHE likes.

You say she is sexuallly inactive, so have a long chat with her first, to find out what she desires.

Get consent, and agree on both your boundaries before starting the massage.

Turn OFF your own erotic charge, the last thing she will want is a horny man in the room, if its her first Tantra massage.

Dont TAKE your pleasure from her, you are there to GIVE pleasure, and to allow her to RECEIVE pleasure. She might not be used to this.

Be fully present for her during the entire session, have a cold drink, strawberries or oranges for after.

Let us know how you get on.

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