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By *B1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid down

Are there any people that a Fab virgin should be aware of??

I'm scared! Lol.

PM me please!

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By *B1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid down

By that I mean how do you know that you aren't gonna turn up at a nice girls house to find a couple of big guys waiting to beat the crap outa ya???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By that I mean how do you know that you aren't gonna turn up at a nice girls house to find a couple of big guys waiting to beat the crap outa ya???"

you will know when they open the door !!!

The real danger you must worry about is she open the door and has them waiting inside !!!

You love it when she slips the blindfold on you !!

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By *B1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid down

Lol, thanks for that, like I'm not nervous enough! My arse is doing 5p - 50p lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

The best thing is chat on phone meet In public place at the end of the day its a trust issue and if she brings out the blindfold open ur mind ahemm and possibly a lot more happy swinging

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"By that I mean how do you know that you aren't gonna turn up at a nice girls house to find a couple of big guys waiting to beat the crap outa ya???"
Think you are being over dramatic, if that's how you think then if I was you I'd leave the website right now and there you go all your worries are sorted.

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By *B1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

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Aww, give me a break.

I'm a country lad and am nervous in the city as it is lol.

Well I'll find out tonight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww, give me a break.

I'm a country lad and am nervous in the city as it is lol.

Well I'll find out tonight!

"

We were all new to the scene at some stage. Hope it all goes great for you!!

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By *ippcoupe2Couple
over a year ago

cahir/cashel


"By that I mean how do you know that you aren't gonna turn up at a nice girls house to find a couple of big guys waiting to beat the crap outa ya???Think you are being over dramatic, if that's how you think then if I was you I'd leave the website right now and there you go all your worries are sorted."

agree strongly with this statement, if you are that paranoid and insecure this is not for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always an element of risk when you go to meet a relative stranger in an isolated or unfamiliar place. But I have never heard of a situation where the guy ends up in a Pulp Fiction style rape scene. I suppose the worst thing you will encounter is ending up confronted with someone you actually don't want to get naked with, in their living room and then you need to have the balls to walk away and deal with the prospect of an embarrassing confrontation.

Still, it's wise to let someone know where you're going or at least some information to let them know how to find you.

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By *B1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

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Well I survived anyway!

I'd find the walking away difficult I think, it would have to be really bad for the big head to over rule the wee one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I survived anyway!

I'd find the walking away difficult I think, it would have to be really bad for the big head to over rule the wee one "

I aint your momma, nor your conscience but do be careful. Try to listen to your "Spidey Sense," and I'm sure you'll have safe fun. As for the wee head over-ruling the big one, I know this is a symptom very commonly found in 'Homo Erectus' but do try to listen to the big one every now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering your age it's more likely you'd be lured and rolled by a younger female (possibly with a thuggish male waiting somewhere in the wings should you prove too much of a handful).. so be weary of thin girls that are out of your league usually who are excessively eager to play ;p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Considering your age it's more likely you'd be lured and rolled by a younger female (possibly with a thuggish male waiting somewhere in the wings should you prove too much of a handful).. so be weary of thin girls that are out of your league usually who are excessively eager to play ;p"

Good lord, how unbelievably rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rude?

Statistically men his age are likelier to fall victim to "honey traps" perpetrated by younger women possibly with the assistance of a male accomplice - they go largely unreported because of the embarrassment / stigma associated with that type of scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"rude?

Statistically men his age are likelier to fall victim to "honey traps" perpetrated by younger women possibly with the assistance of a male accomplice - they go largely unreported because of the embarrassment / stigma associated with that type of scenario.

"

I find the phrase 'out of your league' very rude indeed, who are you to say who is out of anyone's league?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"rude?

Statistically men his age are likelier to fall victim to "honey traps" perpetrated by younger women possibly with the assistance of a male accomplice - they go largely unreported because of the embarrassment / stigma associated with that type of scenario.

I find the phrase 'out of your league' very rude indeed, who are you to say who is out of anyone's league? "

Honey traps tend to work along that principle - if it wounds your ego that's your issue and it doesn't really enter into it.

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By *B1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mid down

Hey!

Go easy on me lol!!

I'm not that minging or that old!

Though i may be daft enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"rude?

Statistically men his age are likelier to fall victim to "honey traps" perpetrated by younger women possibly with the assistance of a male accomplice - they go largely unreported because of the embarrassment / stigma associated with that type of scenario.

I find the phrase 'out of your league' very rude indeed, who are you to say who is out of anyone's league?

Honey traps tend to work along that principle - if it wounds your ego that's your issue and it doesn't really enter into it.

"

You miss the point entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, who said anything about wounding my ego. That has nothing to do with it. You are the one using the terminology therefore you are the one with issues regarding how you view certain groups of society. Nothing to do with wounding my ego, more your assumptions on a person based on their age?? Get real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're a 37 year old man.. Bit ridiculous having to explain the "rules of attraction" considering .

A 20 year old woman may look at you and think "too mature" or "I'm out of his league" that's life - not promoting that mentality or suggesting it's acceptable.

anyway to the original poster - follow your instincts and if something seems too good to be true - it probably is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're a 37 year old man.. Bit ridiculous having to explain the "rules of attraction" considering .

A 20 year old woman may look at you and think "too mature" or "I'm out of his league" that's life - not promoting that mentality or suggesting it's acceptable.

anyway to the original poster - follow your instincts and if something seems too good to be true - it probably is!"

Excuse me I am a 33 year old woman. There's those assumptions again. You don't need to explain anything to me young man, just because you think you know it all, doesn't mean you actually do. Just a little tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're a 37 year old man.. Bit ridiculous having to explain the "rules of attraction" considering .

A 20 year old woman may look at you and think "too mature" or "I'm out of his league" that's life - not promoting that mentality or suggesting it's acceptable.

anyway to the original poster - follow your instincts and if something seems too good to be true - it probably is!

Excuse me I am a 33 year old woman. There's those assumptions again. You don't need to explain anything to me young man, just because you think you know it all, doesn't mean you actually do. Just a little tip."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Excuse me I am a 33 year old woman. There's those assumptions again. You don't need to explain anything to me young man, just because you think you know it all, doesn't mean you actually do. Just a little tip."

Irrespective of your gender the point still stands - a 20 year old man / woman may look at you / probably has in the past and thought "too fat" "too average looking" "insert appropriate observation here" ect

Not sure what your point was tbh - the laws of attraction are not democratic. people are either attracted to you physically or not irrespective of your dislike of chosen terminology.

If you want to rally against that good luck but picking fights with others who merely describe the practice in words isn't going to achieve alot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Excuse me I am a 33 year old woman. There's those assumptions again. You don't need to explain anything to me young man, just because you think you know it all, doesn't mean you actually do. Just a little tip.

Irrespective of your gender the point still stands - a 20 year old man / woman may look at you / probably has in the past and thought "too fat" "too average looking" "insert appropriate observation here" ect

Not sure what your point was tbh - the laws of attraction are not democratic. people are either attracted to you physically or not irrespective of your dislike of chosen terminology.

If you want to rally against that good luck but picking fights with others who merely describe the practice in words isn't going to achieve alot."

Case closed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Case closed!"

oblique two word responses don't constitute a meaningful counter argument.

case closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Case closed!

oblique two word responses don't constitute a meaningful counter argument.

case closed. "

You should go into politics, I'd vote for you!

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