FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have being on this site for while and I am getting nowhere anyone have any tips

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By *on655Man
over a year ago

east suburbs

Duno if your doing anything wrong but maybe try and do something different. All your public photos are dick pics, leave something to the imagination. Get a bit of variety, maybe look at other fellas profiles for ideas. Change up how you message people, be quirky, interact on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Duno if your doing anything wrong but maybe try and do something different. All your public photos are dick pics, leave something to the imagination. Get a bit of variety, maybe look at other fellas profiles for ideas. Change up how you message people, be quirky, interact on the forums. "

Good advice

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trim the bush

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Trim the bush"

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Another whinging post from a man who thought all he had to do was join fab and fight off pussy

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By *oudiniHMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You need to remember for every single lady on here there is 20+ Raging men. Women have the monopoly here, so unless our profiles are appealing to a woman why would she respond. Just try engage on the site and let it happen naturally, try get a social first off.

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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"You need to remember for every single lady on here there is 20+ Raging men. Women have the monopoly here, so unless our profiles are appealing to a woman why would she respond. Just try engage on the site and let it happen naturally, try get a social first off."

"Raging men" I love this description great advice there and going to your first social might me neeve wracking but you will be glad you did. X

Good luck

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Another whinging post from a man who thought all he had to do was join fab and fight off pussy

But we do

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Your main issue is your pictures

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

put more pics of u with ur toilet in the back ground. Seat up ! Mmmmm sexy sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s important to remember that you can do everything right and still not get anywhere here. Nobody owes anybody anything on this site.

My profiles not perfect and it often goes unnoticed too but you just have to get in the mix and have fun!

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1308234

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1308076

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/1305482

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1303843

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1313924

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1311857

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/1313091

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1313100

Bedtime read to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fill out your profile text a bit. Have a look at your pictures and decide are they good or not. If you're really stuck have a look at the more successful single males on here and see what they are doing with their profiles. I don't know what your approach is when it comes to mails but I would say look at them as well. Are they any good? do they catch people's attention etc. Also remember single males are in the majority here. Figure out a way to stand out among the masses. Hope this helps you a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"put more pics of u with ur toilet in the back ground. Seat up ! Mmmmm sexy sexy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *entlegiant64Man
over a year ago

craigavon

Your a man .........thats it ... Plain and simple ..lol

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By *oxy_xxxWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I've only started to meet guys outside my couple's profile and my meets have all been because I have originally met the guy at a meet n greet.

I find the more personal approach is better.

Your profile doesn't tell me enough about you.

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By *tarboy300Man
over a year ago

kikdare/Dublin

"I have being on this site for while and I am getting nowhere anyone have any tips "

You might like somone, they might not like you thats life. Always remember there is someone for everyone. Change Your approach, adjust the profile and be fun not robotic. Have a good day lad!!

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"It’s important to remember that you can do everything right and still not get anywhere here. Nobody owes anybody anything on this site.

Sound comment !

My profiles not perfect and it often goes unnoticed too but you just have to get in the mix and have fun!"

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By *isses loverMan
over a year ago

Naas

Try escort-Ireland

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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

"I have being on this site for while and I am getting nowhere anyone have any tips "

Yep, grow a pair of boobs

No offence, but being desperate will get you nowhere.

Don't expect anything, don't push it, it might happen, it might not. Just sit back and enjoy perving on other people's lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found about (a little less than) 7% of couples and women are looking for men. The majority of these couples and women, as well as the other 90% odd (I have not taken note of the men only looking for men on my study) are also looking for the attention of the same 7% that straight men are.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

"I have being on this site for while and I am getting nowhere anyone have any tips "

Have you registered with Dial-A-Ride?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trim the bush

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what is wrong with that ha

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Trim the bush

what is wrong with that ha"

The thoughts of a sweaty bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have being on this site for while and I am getting nowhere anyone have any tips "

So have we and we came on here with a specific intention but unfortunately it didn’t happen at the moment but we’ll keep looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trim the bush

what is wrong with that ha

The thoughts of a sweaty bush

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lol I get ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure take the advice giving. Makes sense.But the hard truth is it probably wont make any difference and that's no disrespect to you.

Yes improve it but get to a social.

Meet and mingle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have being on this site for while and I am getting nowhere anyone have any tips

So have we and we came on here with a specific intention but unfortunately it didn’t happen at the moment but we’ll keep looking "

Hi there give time time , patience is needed, there's lots of socials happening around so get to one of them to get the ball rolling for ye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have being on this site for while and I am getting nowhere anyone have any tips "

Join Tinder, I have actually met more women on dating sites who have been on Fab (more likely to get a ride as well).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start sending some girls unsolicited pictures of your dick with no comments...

It shows them that your assertive yet mysterious

You're welcome

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Another whinging post from a man who thought all he had to do was join fab and fight off pussy

Lmao

Holy batwoman.... come on strong much

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