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By *omebird OP Woman
over a year ago

When your really struggling with confidence and self-esteem?

Does Fab help or hinder your progress in this area?

Thoughts and tips appreciated x

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

Bit of both tbh, when the good comments roll in then we are buzzing. However the bad comment can push you into negative thoughts.

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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

Find the things that you like in yourself

(Looking at your pics I’d like the legs, the boobs, the ass)

Dress so that you present the bits that you like.

But most importantly try to see yourself with someone else’s eyes.

And those compliments - take them. Take them all.

You know the voice that says they are not genuine? Shush it. Kick it. Listen to the one that says you’re beautiful.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"When your really struggling with confidence and self-esteem?

Does Fab help or hinder your progress in this area?

Thoughts and tips appreciated x"

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There are people on Fab who you'll feel better having meet

and some you'll feel worse afterwards

so although dating and meeting people can build confidence and self esteem (versus esteem through sexual validation) real change is first and foremost an inside job...

- All about mentally rehearsing and developing a positive self concept in your mind about how you see yourself in your mind

- Also meditations followed by affirmations at the end of each day

- Also a guided visualisation or hypn0sis recording on self esteem can help as well as exercise and eating better just to create a healthy emotional headspace

You'll get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look at your profile you sound lovely and you look great does it really matter what people think of you it’s about loving your self and living your life to the fullest

Stephen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When your really struggling with confidence and self-esteem?

Does Fab help or hinder your progress in this area?

Thoughts and tips appreciated x"

Social media definitely won't help if you're struggling with self esteem in fact a social media presence has been linked to depression and anxiety, constantly looking for approval looking at how many likes you got..

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

Don't block people who are interested in you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve made some decent fab friends, haven’t met due to my own reservations. But I know the real people and I’m definitely in a better place chatting to them here.

But as usual, it’s Saturday night, I’m watching the hurling and all I can think about is sex with others, now! I want to be naked with both men and women.

I would be thinking the same if I wasn’t on this but at least I can verbalise my frustration.

We are all beautiful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve made some decent fab friends, haven’t met due to my own reservations. But I know the real people and I’m definitely in a better place chatting to them here.

But as usual, it’s Saturday night, I’m watching the hurling and all I can think about is sex with others, now! I want to be naked with both men and women.

I would be thinking the same if I wasn’t on this but at least I can verbalise my frustration.

We are all beautiful!"

Plus your pics are damn hot!!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

"Find the things that you like in yourself

(Looking at your pics I’d like the legs, the boobs, the ass)

Dress so that you present the bits that you like.

But most importantly try to see yourself with someone else’s eyes.

And those compliments - take them. Take them all.

You know the voice that says they are not genuine? Shush it. Kick it. Listen to the one that says you’re beautiful.

Yes, accept the compliments. Looking at your pics, and reading your profile, you seem like two different women.I love your pics, but wouldn't be drawn to your profile. At the same time your post is open, honest , from the heart. So, very endearing and attractive.

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By *omebird OP Woman
over a year ago

Well that went downhill quickly. Thanks for the feedback. Was talking general advice but appreciate the honesty lads

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By *e MasseurMan
over a year ago

I come to fab then I see that a lot of ppl that look worse than I do have more sex than I do, then I close fab and go to cry on shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that went downhill quickly. Thanks for the feedback. Was talking general advice but appreciate the honesty lads "

Op, one or two have mentioned a few things already in regards working on your own self esteem and confidence. Finding the right people in swing to connect with is good, people who accept you for who you are . The ones who will be there for you give you good suggestions and support no matter what.

What I have learned about myself is that was i had been feeling shameful for being a sexual being, but by watching and listening to fabbers has helped me believe in myself more in this area of my life .

I work on myself alot outside of fab, i do meditation, prayer, exercise, journal and i talk alot about my life to really good friends. I try not suppress my life anymore as i find it's very unhealthy for me, easier said then done sometimes though. I wish you all the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I masturbate to my life-size ice pop stick doll of myself.

Wooden me give me wood so it makes me feel better about fleshy me

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I never look to any form of social media for affirmation, in fact I actively avoid it . Then I look to the good things in my life that are real and learn to appreciate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came onto this a while ago and my confidence got pummelled lol, but I gave it a second chance and am expecting nothing and its just kinda a website I look at every now and again

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