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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Given the ratio of men to women on here, do you think it gives some women a falsely inflated ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's what known as a loaded question

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I think it gives some the same levels of confidence that some white, cishet men have in the real world.

Tends to be those men who lash out at women who know what they want on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No one lashing out here…. Just an observation.

The online world gives people false confidence

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Given the ratio of men to women on here, do you think it gives some women a falsely inflated ego. "

It's not inflated if it's true. Being more in demand here is the reality.

The more interesting question is...

Does it make you feel better about yourself to knock down girls who have turned you down ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Given the ratio of men to women on here, do you think it gives some women a falsely inflated ego.

It's not inflated if it's true. Being more in demand here is the reality.

The more interesting question is...

Does it make you feel better about yourself to knock down girls who have turned you down ?"

You would have to direct that question to someone who has been turned down by women here.

Not here for meets….

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

I dont think egos are falsely inflated, I think we/they have more confidence due to basic supply and demand.

But then everyones here for their own selfish needs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think egos are falsely inflated, I think we/they have more confidence due to basic supply and demand.

But then everyones here for their own selfish needs."

Absolutely but do they find it different to the real world

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Given the ratio of men to women on here, do you think it gives some women a falsely inflated ego.

It's not inflated if it's true. Being more in demand here is the reality.

The more interesting question is...

Does it make you feel better about yourself to knock down girls who have turned you down ?

You would have to direct that question to someone who has been turned down by women here.

Not here for meets…."

You should probably change your bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence. "

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds "

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards "

How would you know that though how many of the women,men or TV,Cds have you actually met in real life?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards "

Another generlisation

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

It’s not false if it’s true.

I wouldn’t go out in a bar and get an iota of the attention I get on here. I’d be surrounded by young fit beautiful girls in their prime. Men would feast their eyes on them before even noticing me. (In fairness, so would I).

However, on here, I’m surrounded by straight guys offering blowjobs and gay guys cruising. And I’m posed in beautiful underwear with flattering lighting and clever filters. And I’m not exhausted looking with groceries, kids and a mountain of laundry and two day old mascara.

It’s not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards "

You said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards

How would you know that though how many of the women,men or TV,Cds of fab have you actually met in real life?"

Oh let me fix this actually so when we go to meet people from swing whether it be private or parties , is that actually classed as a "fake" life then or am i missing something here. Isn't swing just a choice of lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards

Another generlisation "

A white knight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards

How would you know that though how many of the women,men or TV,Cds of fab have you actually met in real life?

Oh let me fix this actually so when we go to meet people from swing whether it be private or parties , is that actually classed as a "fake" life then or am i missing something here. Isn't swing just a choice of lifestyle. "

Swing parties are an extension of here….

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards "

Speak for yourself, I'm very choosey about who I meet and have sex with.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If they self inflate is that still false?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I can imagine some get a bit of a boost on here, sure why not. They might even become embolden and state their preferences - we're all entitled to have our very own ones. I think there's nothing wrong with it unless it affects your behaviour towards others in a negative way.

If you don't like a profile or an inflated ego, it it's easy enough to steer away.

Btw my ego was huge already before fab.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Given the ratio of men to women on here, do you think it gives some women a falsely inflated ego. "

1. Ratio of men to women thingy:

I genuinely don't see how a thousand "hi", "Nice ass", "wanna fuck" messages is in any way flattering or boosting anyones confidence as what it says to me is that a thousand men looked at my half naked photos, thought to chance their arm at getting their dick wet and sent me that. Completely disregarding my preferences which are clearly written in a profile that they consciously chose not to read because I'm not worthy of 30 seconds of their precious time. I'm just a whore on a sex site.

2. Most men turning their nose at an idea of meeting just for a social.

Again, I'm not worthy of having drinks/coffee with if I don't put out - what's the point in meeting me? I'm just a another whore on a sex site.

So yeah, I genuinely don't see how anyone with an ounce of self respect would ever get a confidence boost from fab.

Except women who like posting many photos and getting many fabs - those are no different from Instagram. That's what they come here for and that's what they're getting and there's nothing wrong with it at all.

Re mentioned angry profiles:

Nobody comes here with an angry profile. Those profiles slowly grow overtime. The more disrespect and disregard of preferences a person is facing on a daily basis - the more frustrated they get and the more they take that frustration out on their profile.

Missus

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards

Another generlisation

A white knight "

Sorry for not stroking ur ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has taken me alot of hard work on my confidence so i won't say it's false at all. I actually would say the opposite nothing to do with the numbers of men to women here now , i'm talking about the way fabbers haven't supported me in growing as a sexual being. So I shall thank fabbers for that and actually not as just a sexual being as a human too, I just learn so much about myself all of the time. OP whether women or men or whomever has real confidence or "false confidence" as you are calling it actually define false confidence then?. Live and let live i say and let people be as they are and get on with you own confidence.

100% agree, but you just have to read some womens bios on here and think wow…. You’re head is in the clouds

I agree with OP in the real world no one is checking for these people, but online they're hot candy because men don't have standards

How would you know that though how many of the women,men or TV,Cds of fab have you actually met in real life?

Oh let me fix this actually so when we go to meet people from swing whether it be private or parties , is that actually classed as a "fake" life then or am i missing something here. Isn't swing just a choice of lifestyle.

Swing parties are an extension of here…. "

Yes I know but what my point is , is it a "fake" life seeing as people are talking about meeting fabbers in real life and not being hot lol. I think I am lost so they are hot a parties but not in "real" life.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I can imagine some get a bit of a boost on here, sure why not. They might even become embolden and state their preferences - we're all entitled to have our very own ones. I think there's nothing wrong with it unless it affects your behaviour towards others in a negative way.

If you don't like a profile or an inflated ego, it it's easy enough to steer away.

Btw my ego was huge already before fab. "

I'm gna hop in and White Knight right here, yer hotness

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I can imagine some get a bit of a boost on here, sure why not. They might even become embolden and state their preferences - we're all entitled to have our very own ones. I think there's nothing wrong with it unless it affects your behaviour towards others in a negative way.

If you don't like a profile or an inflated ego, it it's easy enough to steer away.

Btw my ego was huge already before fab. "

In all fairness u do like things inflated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest in the last few months I've noticed some men too here that have over inflated egos. They come across as arrogant cocky and feel their opinion holds weight over others here. So its not just women.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"To be honest in the last few months I've noticed some men too here that have over inflated egos. They come across as arrogant cocky and feel their opinion holds weight over others here. So its not just women. "

Women, cpls ,men its not an afliction that is gender based that I would totally agree with

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Given the ratio of men to women on here, do you think it gives some women a falsely inflated ego. "

Totally, such women wouldn't get near as much attention in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest in the last few months I've noticed some men too here that have over inflated egos. They come across as arrogant cocky and feel their opinion holds weight over others here. So its not just women. "

Definitely and not just the last few months. Seen some right arrogant guys come through over the years on the forums. Some even believing their own gimmicks. Thankfully their gone now.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I can imagine some get a bit of a boost on here, sure why not. They might even become embolden and state their preferences - we're all entitled to have our very own ones. I think there's nothing wrong with it unless it affects your behaviour towards others in a negative way.

If you don't like a profile or an inflated ego, it it's easy enough to steer away.

Btw my ego was huge already before fab.

In all fairness u do like things inflated "

That's what I'm here for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say its inflated egos!!

It like bringing in a kid into a sweet shop, theres such a selection, they don't know what to pick!

Same here, theres such a selection of guys to choose from, its probably more flatterly than inflated egos! I think!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Of course fab gives SOME people SOME women inflated egos .Why wouldn't it. They get loads of attention told they are right 99 per cent of the time and will always have SOME men leaping to their defense no matter what they say or do. (I use capitals because it only a few who do this or get an ego).

Most women though see through the false adoration and see it for exactly what it is .Which most of the time it is guys thinking they will get a meet if they blow smoke up people's asses or white knight or act as someone's puppet on here.And who knows it may work for them so why not do it if it works.

And so what if someone has an ego,or is demanding on their profile etc. It's pretty easy to avoid those that you aren't compatible with anyhow so I don't see why it has to be such a big deal .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think egos are falsely inflated, I think we/they have more confidence due to basic supply and demand.

But then everyones here for their own selfish needs.

Absolutely but do they find it different to the real world"

In one word...yes

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary


"Given the ratio of men to women on here, do you think it gives some women a falsely inflated ego. "
shots fired

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By *egsyWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"Given the ratio of men to women on here, do you think it gives some women a falsely inflated ego.

Totally, such women wouldn't get near as much attention in real life"

I get just as much attention in real life actually

(That was a joke)

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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Off topic but don't ever worry about being a white Knight x it's a very attractive quality. As for our egos (Mrs here) I think you take from our profiles what you will, some ladies are stronger and more out spoken some are more demure and gentile, but accross the board each lady is 100% entitled to feel whatever they like and express that and if you don't like what you read just jog on by. Simple

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By *egsyWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Theres nothing wrong with having confidence, its an attractive quality actually in my book.

Do i like getting 100s of messages everyday asking me if i fancy a quick fuck? No actually i dont at all, neither would i like it if a guy walked up to me in the pub and asked me if i wanted a fuck in the toilets.

Its funny though, men think its ok to ask that online, but I seriously doubt they have the confidence in a pub, so maybe its the men who have false confidence on fab??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *amsonite69Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I get what OP is saying... but I think that most online platforms allow people to have or show another facet to their personality that they wouldnt often do IRL.. I messaged a girl on here, nice respecful message, she's very hot, explained it was a new account (3 days old at the time)and i hadnt been verified or finished completing the profile, her reply was "sort it out twat". now i was reluctant even to message in the first place as she was so hot and her profile kinda gave the impression the she mightve been dickish so on reflection i maybe shouldnt have but are there guys who behave in the same way? I'm sure there are.. just block and move on..

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"I get what OP is saying... but I think that most online platforms allow people to have or show another facet to their personality that they wouldnt often do IRL.. I messaged a girl on here, nice respecful message, she's very hot, explained it was a new account (3 days old at the time)and i hadnt been verified or finished completing the profile, her reply was "sort it out twat". now i was reluctant even to message in the first place as she was so hot and her profile kinda gave the impression the she mightve been dickish so on reflection i maybe shouldnt have but are there guys who behave in the same way? I'm sure there are.. just block and move on.. "

JESUS!!

I do NOT get that at all!!! I’ve seen on male friends messages women being absolutely horrid, yet perfectly lovely on the forums. I dont get it. Equallh, I don’t understand why men can turn on a hairpin and be abusive cos they were told no. I’m

Online has a lot to answer for.

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By *ildatlanticMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Beautiful result last night.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I get what OP is saying... but I think that most online platforms allow people to have or show another facet to their personality that they wouldnt often do IRL.. I messaged a girl on here, nice respecful message, she's very hot, explained it was a new account (3 days old at the time)and i hadnt been verified or finished completing the profile, her reply was "sort it out twat". now i was reluctant even to message in the first place as she was so hot and her profile kinda gave the impression the she mightve been dickish so on reflection i maybe shouldnt have but are there guys who behave in the same way? I'm sure there are.. just block and move on..

JESUS!!

I do NOT get that at all!!! I’ve seen on male friends messages women being absolutely horrid, yet perfectly lovely on the forums. I dont get it. Equallh, I don’t understand why men can turn on a hairpin and be abusive cos they were told no. I’m

Online has a lot to answer for. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all, well done on turning off the majority if not all of your potential matches that might read this.

You seem to be confused about other people's motivation to have sex outside how it might benefit you, which makes me feel a little bit sorry for anyone you might have managed to bed already.

Personally, I think I'm hot and I only really want to have sex with people who think I'm hot. I don't think the whole world thinks I'm hot, neither do I care. So I will walk around with "an inflated ego", which the rest of us know as confidence and set standards for who I interact with because as others have mentioned, fielding dozens of messages a day with no substance isn't a turn on and I'm really just here to be turned on and then be satisfied.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Some men and women suffer from fanny blindness and will say and do anything to grab the attention of someone they are interested in. Even to the extent of elevating all women to the highest available pedestal.

A lot of those women don't want to be on those pedestals and can see through the sychophantic comments but then they are accused of being up their own hole when they say thanks but no thanks.

Some women and men encourage it though and want and need that validation and tag themselves with so called popular individuals in public.

The ego issue is usually more about the amount of effort they put into shit stirring in the background and undermining those very people they want to be seen with in public.

Their ego doesn't allow them to see any difference in what they are doing and what they accuse others of doing.

Then again they can get away with it because some men and women suffer from fanny blindness.

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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Some men and women suffer from fanny blindness and will say and do anything to grab the attention of someone they are interested in. Even to the extent of elevating all women to the highest available pedestal.

A lot of those women don't want to be on those pedestals and can see through the sychophantic comments but then they are accused of being up their own hole when they say thanks but no thanks.

Some women and men encourage it though and want and need that validation and tag themselves with so called popular individuals in public.

The ego issue is usually more about the amount of effort they put into shit stirring in the background and undermining those very people they want to be seen with in public.

Their ego doesn't allow them to see any difference in what they are doing and what they accuse others of doing.

Then again they can get away with it because some men and women suffer from fanny blindness."

"Fanny blindness" this had me laughing out loud,as I know you mean it differently but, I'm thinking of those adds "do you suffer from lack of focus.... dry irritated eyes... you could be suffering from a condition known as fanny blindness, you should go and see your closest fab fanny provider to get tested for this condition immediately

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By *olves at bayCouple
over a year ago

cork

In my single profile I mention fab inflated ego. My aim on the type is specific. And not just to one gender. My aim is at those who know the perceived power they have and believe the utter shite they are told. They have the worst stinking shit but believe the pussy/cock hungry limp wristed twoddle saying their shit is the nicest smelling shit anyone has ever smelled. And then gain the attitude to match.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

In a free market economy, when the demand for a product or commodity is high due to scarcity a premium can often be demanded by the provider or seller.

But the women on this site are sentient beings not products or commodities.

It is bound to enhance a woman's sense of well-being that she can choose from the pick of the crop.

However, over-inflated egos are not attractive or desirable and will be avoided and ignored, and have diminished value.

Men should very quickly realise that they must raise their game, and present themselves in a much more attractive fashion in order to succeed.

They must be prepared to work harder and be more respectful; respect is the premium in this instance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've a fucking huge ego.

So I dunno I'd ratios play a part

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By *ac147Man
over a year ago

Belfast East

I personally don't believe that egos are inflated as such. I think the hardest part is getting past the first message. Let's face it the ladies are getting a lot of mail on a daily basis so trying to make your first message count is hard. It can easily get lost in the pile of mail a girl will receive. Also, it is so hard trying to strike up a meaningful conversation in one message, it can take a few messages to get into a bit of banter and chat. Let's face it if the rolls were reversed and guys were getting inundated with messages we would most likely go to "our" personal preferences too. Whether that's dark hair, ginger, blonde whatever. Just my 2 cents worth

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

My ego is on a sabbatical

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside


"It’s not false if it’s true.

I wouldn’t go out in a bar and get an iota of the attention I get on here. I’d be surrounded by young fit beautiful girls in their prime. Men would feast their eyes on them before even noticing me. (In fairness, so would I).

However, on here, I’m surrounded by straight guys offering blowjobs and gay guys cruising. And I’m posed in beautiful underwear with flattering lighting and clever filters. And I’m not exhausted looking with groceries, kids and a mountain of laundry and two day old mascara.

It’s not rocket science.

Very Well said

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

I guess it depends on the person after all …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people do start believing their own hype. Comments made in general seem to make them think they are about them for some reason. For those people I always think "you're so vain, I bet you think this post is about you"

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"My ego is on a sabbatical "

Is that her name, can’t seem to find the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do start believing their own hype. Comments made in general seem to make them think they are about them for some reason. For those people I always think "you're so vain, I bet you think this post is about you""

I mean when you dig up a week old thread "randomly" I think some people might be on to something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do start believing their own hype. Comments made in general seem to make them think they are about them for some reason. For those people I always think "you're so vain, I bet you think this post is about you"

I mean when you dig up a week old thread "randomly" I think some people might be on to something "

Ah I just remembered something I had to say then and had forgotten about till earlier.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who doesn't like some ego massaging flattery.

..a fab on a pic, a positive verification?

Remember the compliments forget the negativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people do start believing their own hype. Comments made in general seem to make them think they are about them for some reason. For those people I always think "you're so vain, I bet you think this post is about you""

Lol and the beat goes on .

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By *olves at bayCouple
over a year ago

cork

In my honest opinion. Fab is a bit of a gathering place for the common narcissist/s. You can tell by their profile.

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