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"You are writing to the wrong people so If they have read your message and no reply...think of it as 'no interest'"Ye thats true lots dont even read it probs due to the amount of messages they get | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying "Can I ask why you would continue messaging when it clearly isn't working? Plenty of better ways to get noticed here. | |||
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"You are writing to the wrong people so If they have read your message and no reply...think of it as 'no interest'
Ye thats true lots dont even read it probs due to the amount of messages they get "I don't get many messages mabey a handful, if im not interested i won't reply,it's the same if i message anyone if they don't reply i take it as there not interested..... | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying
Can I ask why you would continue messaging when it clearly isn't working?
Plenty of better ways to get noticed here.
"i wouldnt message someone again if they didnt reply i take it as there not interested ...so what yould you recommend to get more attention | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. " cheers for the advice  | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying
Can I ask why you would continue messaging when it clearly isn't working?
Plenty of better ways to get noticed here.
i wouldnt message someone again if they didnt reply i take it as there not interested ...so what yould you recommend to get more attention "So glad you asked
Have a read of this but it's only my opinion https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1293198 | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying "Have you tried sending dick pics? | |||
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"To me it’s frustrating the many messages I've sent that are in yellow. Some of them weeks :/" Delete the message once sent...then you won't worry about it anymore | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying
Have you tried sending dick pics?"Guaranteed success! | |||
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"To me it’s frustrating the many messages I've sent that are in yellow. Some of them weeks :/ Delete the message once sent...then you won't worry about it anymore " Not a bad idea actually lol | |||
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"To me it’s frustrating the many messages I've sent that are in yellow. Some of them weeks :/ Delete the message once sent...then you won't worry about it anymore Not a bad idea actually lol" A very wise man in cork posted it before...he's taking a break so just posting it since he wont | |||
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"To me it’s frustrating the many messages I've sent that are in yellow. Some of them weeks :/ Delete the message once sent...then you won't worry about it anymore Not a bad idea actually lol A very wise man in cork posted it before...he's taking a break so just posting it since he wont "A wise man in Cork 
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"To me it’s frustrating the many messages I've sent that are in yellow. Some of them weeks :/ Delete the message once sent...then you won't worry about it anymore Not a bad idea actually lol A very wise man in cork posted it before...he's taking a break so just posting it since he wont
A wise man in Cork
You sure he was from Cork?? "I knew someone would say it | |||
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"To me it’s frustrating the many messages I've sent that are in yellow. Some of them weeks :/ Delete the message once sent...then you won't worry about it anymore Not a bad idea actually lol A very wise man in cork posted it before...he's taking a break so just posting it since he wont
A wise man in Cork
You sure he was from Cork??
I knew someone would say it "Bleedin' Corkonians, just know-it-alls  | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying
Can I ask why you would continue messaging when it clearly isn't working?
Plenty of better ways to get noticed here.
i wouldnt message someone again if they didnt reply i take it as there not interested ...so what yould you recommend to get more attention "Go to a pub, cafe, and chat to a real live human. Much more interesting and youll have a higher response rate. | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying "Why are you sending messages? Stand out from the crowd let them message you. You are verified so you are doing a lot better then most. Use that to your advantage and get to parties and M&G. You'll make more of an impression in 10 mins in person than months mailing | |||
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"To me it’s frustrating the many messages I've sent that are in yellow. Some of them weeks :/ Delete the message once sent...then you won't worry about it anymore Not a bad idea actually lol A very wise man in cork posted it before...he's taking a break so just posting it since he wont
A wise man in Cork
You sure he was from Cork??
I knew someone would say it
Bleedin' Corkonians, just know-it-alls "Correction Some THINK THEY KNOW IT ALL ! !
Be rude to mention who lol
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying "its actually soul destroying on here | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying its actually soul destroying on here "If anyone's soul is being destroyed on here they should really move on | |||
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"I had the privilege of being a fabministrator/sexcetrary to a female friend yesterday Cleared 207 messages There were 5 that deserved a response imo Numerous were super short , asking if this lady was having fun on fab , wanted to meet for fun etc and nothing else Many were repeat messages with no response A waste of time for all parties Kik, socials and the forum seem like a far better way of connecting tbh " Nice to hear the male perspective on what comes in to a single woman's profile. It gives an idea of the ratio of those messages which are a little different, better thought out or original (whether anyone thinks it's response worthy is a different question!). I mean that's what? - 2-3% of messages which you think "deserved" a reply. I so wonder whether your friend thought the same! | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled." The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone | |||
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"I had the privilege of being a fabministrator/sexcetrary to a female friend yesterday Cleared 207 messages There were 5 that deserved a response imo Numerous were super short , asking if this lady was having fun on fab , wanted to meet for fun etc and nothing else Many were repeat messages with no response A waste of time for all parties Kik, socials and the forum seem like a far better way of connecting tbh " I wonder if you asked the 90% of guys who never see a message come in would they take that | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone "Did you mean Snitch | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
Did you mean Snitch "That would be a really clever post is Snitch ment anything in context | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying "I know that we exchanged message recently. Being honest, can’t remember what they were but we replied which means that it couldn’t have been too bad. Fab is playing the numbers to a degree, but you don’t have to play every number. A bespoke and light message will do wonders but at the end of the day, couples get a serious amount of messages so don’t take slow/no replies personally | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying "I wouldn't reply to your messages just because the way I see what you're saying in your profile is "been here before, know the score. I'm not interested in you as a human being, don't expect socials because I wouldn't be seen with other fabbers in public, meet me for sex in private or don't meet me at all" So no matter how polite and respectful your message would be - I'd pass. Missus | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess "Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm. I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums "Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles. Sure your not | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not "Was joking man… no harm meant. | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant."God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant.
God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war"A lot never got the memo | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant.
God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war
A lot never got the memo "Yeah there’s a few big bad wolves about, mind yourself… | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant.
God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war"Not many on a swinger site here to make “love” lol. forums should be full of debate and differing opinions it’s healthy, myself and Corklad have disagreed previously but there’s no bad feeling, just differing opinions no need to get out knickers in a twist. | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant.
God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war"But I've loads of pms telling me make war | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant.
God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war
A lot never got the memo
Yeah there’s a few big bad wolves about, mind yourself…"I would be more concerned about the big white knights fishing | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant.
God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war
A lot never got the memo
Yeah there’s a few big bad wolves about, mind yourself…
I would be more concerned about the big white knights fishing "White knight radar is always on  | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant.
God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war
But I've loads of pms telling me make war "Imagine how boring this place would be without us. Full of good morning posts  | |||
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"My thing with posts like this is when people say they are genuine and respectful like that shouldn't be the barest of minimums on here. Take more pics and maybe rewrite your bio it's a bit jumbled. The Fab whisperer…. We have got our very own Hitch here everyone
I mean it's better than acting like a cunt on every thread for a tiny bit of attention I guess
Dude you’ve been on several forum posts today advising people how to adjust their profile(advising the guy to take better pics not selfies) , no need for the profanities it was said in jest, I meant no harm.
I’ll have you know I get plenty of PM’s here agreeing with my comments, in no way looking for attention here… I get enough of it in the real world, here’s a bit of craic on the forums
Yip both on threads where the OPs have asked for advice on their profiles.
Sure your not
Was joking man… no harm meant.
God Damnit guys, we’re literally here to make love not war
A lot never got the memo
Yeah there’s a few big bad wolves about, mind yourself…
I would be more concerned about the big white knights fishing
White knight radar is always on "Never doubted it us Ulster folk are tuned different | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile." I’d say it’s because she has blocked Manchester United supporters…. Can’t blame here tbh | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile." A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages " But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on " Using fake information i presume | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume " Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons " Take it easy man You’re lashing out a bit and it’s spoiling the fun for everyone else | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons " Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter | |||
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"It’s all about being noticed on here Pics, forums, chat rooms, status updates etc "Well we’ve been on here awhile now and we have been told to put more pics up on our public but if you read a profile and they don’t want what you want then why would you expect a response | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter " Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
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"To me it’s frustrating the many messages I've sent that are in yellow. Some of them weeks :/ Delete the message once sent...then you won't worry about it anymore " Great advice | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it….."I know what you're getting at but what about if you don't have site supporters then you don't want your partner seeing it on your credit card bill | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I know what you're getting at but what about if you don't have site supporters then you don't want your partner seeing it on your credit card bill "If your in together then that shouldn’t matter | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I know what you're getting at but what about if you don't have site supporters then you don't want your partner seeing it on your credit card bill "There’s more discreet payment methods than credit card here….and alternative prepaid card options. Have had more success on “dating apps” than here if I’m honest… | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I know what you're getting at but what about if you don't have site supporters then you don't want your partner seeing it on your credit card bill
There’s more discreet payment methods than credit card here….and alternative prepaid card options.
Have had more success on “dating apps” than here if I’m honest… "Say hello the dating apps from me
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it….."I see it as a great filter to get less messages overall, and also less faff messages from fake accounts and people who might be more likely to be flakes. Nothing to do with being able to afford any amount of euros. People who choose this filter aren't on commission. Missus | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I know what you're getting at but what about if you don't have site supporters then you don't want your partner seeing it on your credit card bill
There’s more discreet payment methods than credit card here….and alternative prepaid card options.
Have had more success on “dating apps” than here if I’m honest…
Say hello the dating apps from me
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I see it as a great filter to get less messages overall, and also less faff messages from fake accounts and people who might be more likely to be flakes.
Nothing to do with being able to afford any amount of euros.
People who choose this filter aren't on commission.
Missus "No doubting your valid points… but if you were out in a club, and you seen people behind a rope and the only way you could talk to those people, regardless if you are attractive or even liked their personality you had to pay for their attention… what does that say ? Not someone I’d like to be associated with anyway | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I know what you're getting at but what about if you don't have site supporters then you don't want your partner seeing it on your credit card bill
There’s more discreet payment methods than credit card here….and alternative prepaid card options.
Have had more success on “dating apps” than here if I’m honest…
Say hello the dating apps from me
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I see it as a great filter to get less messages overall, and also less faff messages from fake accounts and people who might be more likely to be flakes.
Nothing to do with being able to afford any amount of euros.
People who choose this filter aren't on commission.
Missus
No doubting your valid points… but if you were out in a club, and you seen people behind a rope and the only way you could talk to those people, regardless if you are attractive or even liked their personality you had to pay for their attention… what does that say ? Not someone I’d like to be associated with anyway "If I was at the club and a hundred strangers were all trying to talk to me at all times by just repeatedly saying "hi, looking fun? Hi, hi how are you, hi, hi any fun? Hi, hi, hello, hi, hi sexy, hi, cocks throbbing, hey" like a mob of zombies, damn right I'd be rushing behind that rope and the curtains and whatever other barriers there might be. At least I'd know there will be less of those zombies to deal with. Very logical step if you ask me. Missus | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I see it as a great filter to get less messages overall, and also less faff messages from fake accounts and people who might be more likely to be flakes.
Nothing to do with being able to afford any amount of euros.
People who choose this filter aren't on commission.
Missus
No doubting your valid points… but if you were out in a club, and you seen people behind a rope and the only way you could talk to those people, regardless if you are attractive or even liked their personality you had to pay for their attention… what does that say ? Not someone I’d like to be associated with anyway "But you've paid into the club | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I see it as a great filter to get less messages overall, and also less faff messages from fake accounts and people who might be more likely to be flakes.
Nothing to do with being able to afford any amount of euros.
People who choose this filter aren't on commission.
Missus
No doubting your valid points… but if you were out in a club, and you seen people behind a rope and the only way you could talk to those people, regardless if you are attractive or even liked their personality you had to pay for their attention… what does that say ? Not someone I’d like to be associated with anyway
But you've paid into the club "Yes but I would still be on the same level as everyone else… | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I see it as a great filter to get less messages overall, and also less faff messages from fake accounts and people who might be more likely to be flakes.
Nothing to do with being able to afford any amount of euros.
People who choose this filter aren't on commission.
Missus
No doubting your valid points… but if you were out in a club, and you seen people behind a rope and the only way you could talk to those people, regardless if you are attractive or even liked their personality you had to pay for their attention… what does that say ? Not someone I’d like to be associated with anyway
But you've paid into the club
Yes but I would still be on the same level as everyone else… "Some clubs have vip areas. Do you have a problem with people who pay for vip tickets too? | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I see it as a great filter to get less messages overall, and also less faff messages from fake accounts and people who might be more likely to be flakes.
Nothing to do with being able to afford any amount of euros.
People who choose this filter aren't on commission.
Missus
No doubting your valid points… but if you were out in a club, and you seen people behind a rope and the only way you could talk to those people, regardless if you are attractive or even liked their personality you had to pay for their attention… what does that say ? Not someone I’d like to be associated with anyway
But you've paid into the club
Yes but I would still be on the same level as everyone else… "Do you think supporters are on a higher level than those that aren't....there's reasons to pay the few Euro extra ...see video's, See who's looked at you | |||
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"Ms Lolly the reason why you don’t get many messages is probably because site supporters can only send you messages. You looking stunning and I’m for sure you’ll get plenty of messages from people if site supporters only was knocked off your profile. A lot of people use filters to stop getting lots of messages ...Quantity of messages has nothing to do with Quality of the messages But you have to ask how many have slipped through the net with filters on Using fake information i presume Not at all, law of averages from actual real world experience!!! Just because someone is a site supporter they can still be an asshole. You’re probably insulated from all that for OBVIOUS reasons Joke over my head..but its true theres no arsehole filter Vert true, too many on here, but above all the site supporters filter is the most pertinent of all here. If you can’t afford X amount of euros a month you are not worthy of my attention
Think about it…..
I see it as a great filter to get less messages overall, and also less faff messages from fake accounts and people who might be more likely to be flakes.
Nothing to do with being able to afford any amount of euros.
People who choose this filter aren't on commission.
Missus
No doubting your valid points… but if you were out in a club, and you seen people behind a rope and the only way you could talk to those people, regardless if you are attractive or even liked their personality you had to pay for their attention… what does that say ? Not someone I’d like to be associated with anyway
But you've paid into the club
Yes but I would still be on the same level as everyone else… "Aland your standard for talking shite on threads has decreased dramatically. 2/10 for this one, must try harder in future. | |||
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"The other advantage for the site supporter element is showing a degree of commitment. It’s very easy to ghost , take your profile into hiding , and not communicate Even though you’ve arranged a meet . The person you’re meeting might be driving across the country to meet you . If you’re a site supporter it suggests you’re a bit more invested . A fiver a year or whatever it is is not in anyway excluding of anyone financially . it does however give a touch more reassurance that you might actually meet the person you’ve committed time and effort for (plus petrol and money and possibly a non cancellable hotel rate ) " Not necessarily. I’ve been a site supporter almost a month and even though I got more access to people reply wise is more or less the same. One problem to me is not having verification and the other I’m guessing there’s a lot of fake profiles. I know the both issues are linked. | |||
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"There's a bang of bitterness on this thread. " Lol Could be but something it feels a little bit like that here. | |||
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"There's a bang of bitterness on this thread. Lol Could be but something it feels a little bit like that here. " I was single guy here years ago and I wouldn't whinge like some have on this thread. "oh I can't get a meet because of this, this and this". Some would do well to check their attitude and see if that's the reason they get no where. (Not directed at the OP) | |||
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"There's a bang of bitterness on this thread. Lol Could be but something it feels a little bit like that here. I was single guy here years ago and I wouldn't whinge like some have on this thread. "oh I can't get a meet because of this, this and this". Some would do well to check their attitude and see if that's the reason they get no where. (Not directed at the OP) " I’m sure that attitude matters. But I’d say that sometimes you aren’t lucky lol. I just can speak for Myself and of course I tried to be nice when I’m messaging. I think this is a man problem caused by too many of us sending messages at the same time lol. | |||
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"I've been a successful single guy on here. You don't have to be great looking or have a 6 pack. Normal guys with good attitudes can make it. " Anyone ca make it. I’ve spoke with guys here that they think they are great and they’re having lots of action. | |||
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"I've been a successful single guy on here. You don't have to be great looking or have a 6 pack. Normal guys with good attitudes can make it. Anyone ca make it. I’ve spoke with guys here that they think they are great and they’re having lots of action." I wouldn't say anyone. I'd say male singles need to be 5+/10, be clean, and be able to communicate. The rest is attitude and experience. | |||
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"There's a bang of bitterness on this thread. Lol Could be but something it feels a little bit like that here. I was single guy here years ago and I wouldn't whinge like some have on this thread. "oh I can't get a meet because of this, this and this". Some would do well to check their attitude and see if that's the reason they get no where. (Not directed at the OP) I’m sure that attitude matters. But I’d say that sometimes you aren’t lucky lol. I just can speak for Myself and of course I tried to be nice when I’m messaging. I think this is a man problem caused by too many of us sending messages at the same time lol. " That's not an issue because if people don't want a load of mail they can use filters to cut most if not all of it out . Inconsistencies between what is said in profiles on here and in PM's can often be a red flag to people in fact there are a load of reasons why people don't reply or meet others .Being nice in messages and that covers everyone should be the norm not seen as as a bonus. And those that aren't will just get deleted anyhow . | |||
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"There's a bang of bitterness on this thread. Lol Could be but something it feels a little bit like that here. I was single guy here years ago and I wouldn't whinge like some have on this thread. "oh I can't get a meet because of this, this and this". Some would do well to check their attitude and see if that's the reason they get no where. (Not directed at the OP) I’m sure that attitude matters. But I’d say that sometimes you aren’t lucky lol. I just can speak for Myself and of course I tried to be nice when I’m messaging. I think this is a man problem caused by too many of us sending messages at the same time lol. That's not an issue because if people don't want a load of mail they can use filters to cut most if not all of it out . Inconsistencies between what is said in profiles on here and in PM's can often be a red flag to people in fact there are a load of reasons why people don't reply or meet others .Being nice in messages and that covers everyone should be the norm not seen as as a bonus. And those that aren't will just get deleted anyhow ." Yeah all what you said is true. And is also true that sometimes you are in a bad luck lol. | |||
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"You are writing to the wrong people so If they have read your message and no reply...think of it as 'no interest'
Ye thats true lots dont even read it probs due to the amount of messages they get
I don't get many messages mabey a handful, if im not interested i won't reply,it's the same if i message anyone if they don't reply i take it as there not interested....."That explains my 650 unread messages so... | |||
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"Just looking for a bit of advice finding it hard to get a reply off ppl . Im respectful and genuine suppose ill just keep trying "------- If you can imagine a woman or couple here getting 200+ messages a day with "Hi" followed by a bland message. The chances are slim that they'll open the message, let alone read it and reply 
Now a photo that stands out (without being a dick pic ) with a good opener and a catchy message ups your chances of getting a reply...
Even then, there are no givens so patience, persistence and positivity without being a prat  pays off!
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