FabSwingers.com forum: Opinions quick

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right, after chatting to this girl for a while, sharing pics, seeing each other naked, finally shared face pics and she went 1st and...its my sister in law, I'm guessing he has no clue, and she never mentioned it, what do I do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do nothing. You'll only create a very awkward family situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, after chatting to this girl for a while, sharing pics, seeing each other naked, finally shared face pics and she went 1st and...its my sister in law, I'm guessing he has no clue, and she never mentioned it, what do I do??"

Depends on what your morals are like

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Block her and move on...say nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block abd move on although let's hope she doesn't read the forums

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

You have 3 options:

1) Listen to your willy and make the drama perfect by meeting her, if she doesn't panic when she learns who you are.

2) tell your brother and get shot (symbolically)

3) just tell her you're not interested and move on.

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By *raigkMan
over a year ago

Arklow

Just say she’s not your type and leave it

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By *oulernerMan
over a year ago

Dublin City

Tell her she looks like one of your exes and you couldn't go ahead with it even if you tried.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Send your face pic and tell her its her buisness shes on here and that u hope she wont tell the family that u to are on here

Block her and be labled a cee u next tuesday but at least ull know its for good reason

Reply sorry to close to home but ur secret is safe

Reply with a face pic and ask is she happy to meet for coffee first

Id pick the second one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you send her your picture ?

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By *heekyDubMan
over a year ago

County

Anything in her profile about her being part of a couple? maybe he does know.

If not tell her you recognise her and you know she's married and ask her what's the craic. See what sort of answer you get an act accordingly.

If it's on the malicious side tell the bro, if she's just a bit jaded see if she's any plans to try and fix it up, if not, tell the bro.

IMO about 90% of this turns out you telling your brother.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything in her profile about her being part of a couple? maybe he does know.

If not tell her you recognise her and you know she's married and ask her what's the craic. See what sort of answer you get an act accordingly.

If it's on the malicious side tell the bro, if she's just a bit jaded see if she's any plans to try and fix it up, if not, tell the bro.

IMO about 90% of this turns out you telling your brother.

Good luck."

Oh dear OP, thats a hornets nest

But probably this. if you are close with your brother it will be hard to keep this secret ..

or Houleners answer 'too close to home' then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, your brother may know, if he doesn't you'll get no thanks for telling him. Do your best not to wank to the pics because that's creepy as fuck.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"if he doesn't you'll get no thanks for telling him."

Do you know the brother in question then? I'm sure there are plenty of people and brothers in that situation who would be thankful that they were told.

Certainly more thankful then if they covered it up.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Your brothers wife? Or your wife’s sister

Either way, step back slowly and politely. Leave the site. Get a new profile if you want to risk it again.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

That's a really tricky one. In nearly all situations I would immediately block and forget I ever saw it...but this might be an exception for me. I would first try and establish if she is there with his knowledge, in which case block and forget. If she is there without his knowledge then I would probably find a way to talk to my brother about it. My priority would be my blood relation who deserves to know that she is being unfaithful.

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By *amsonite69Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Your brothers wife? Or your wife’s sister

Either way, step back slowly and politely. Leave the site. Get a new profile if you want to risk it again. "
i think this question, for me, decides my next move..

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"You have 3 options:

1) Listen to your willy and make the drama perfect by meeting her, if she doesn't panic when she learns who you are.

2) tell your brother and get shot (symbolically)

3) just tell her you're not interested and move on.

Oh, oh, I've got one better!

Ask your brother if he wants to double team on this super hot chick you met online, she's into MFM, and all that...

Suggest to her as well how you got this friend you sometimes pair up for spit roasting and stuff...

Then set up the meet... (wear bullet proof vest)...

Make videos and post it for general public consumption

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if he doesn't you'll get no thanks for telling him.

Do you know the brother in question then? I'm sure there are plenty of people and brothers in that situation who would be thankful that they were told.

Certainly more thankful then if they covered it up. "

He's not covering anything up, he has no information on what's going on and his brother could also be here. Either way, it's not his relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your brothers wife? Or your wife’s sister

Either way, step back slowly and politely. Leave the site. Get a new profile if you want to risk it again. "

"I'm guessing he has no clue" says its his brother's wife

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"if he doesn't you'll get no thanks for telling him.

Do you know the brother in question then? I'm sure there are plenty of people and brothers in that situation who would be thankful that they were told.

Certainly more thankful then if they covered it up.

He's not covering anything up, he has no information on what's going on and his brother could also be here. Either way, it's not his relationship. "

He is covering up the fact his brothers wife sent him naked pictures. His relationship with his brother most certainly is his relationship though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if he doesn't you'll get no thanks for telling him.

Do you know the brother in question then? I'm sure there are plenty of people and brothers in that situation who would be thankful that they were told.

Certainly more thankful then if they covered it up.

He's not covering anything up, he has no information on what's going on and his brother could also be here. Either way, it's not his relationship.

He is covering up the fact his brothers wife sent him naked pictures. His relationship with his brother most certainly is his relationship though. "

His brother may get off on the idea of his wife sending naked pics to people, horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run Forrest, run!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step one... tell her to check out the forums

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"You do nothing. You'll only create a very awkward family situation. "

Gonna be awkward no anyways so u might aswel give her one

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I guess she knows now if she reads the forum's

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By *amsonite69Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I dont know if this has been said, but how about, instead of sending her your face pic, send her partners face pic... see qhat her reaction is.

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"I dont know if this has been said, but how about, instead of sending her your face pic, send her partners face pic... see qhat her reaction is."

Send her a pic with u and ur bro in it.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I dont know if this has been said, but how about, instead of sending her your face pic, send her partners face pic... see qhat her reaction is."

I don't think sending a potentially threatening message is the answer. It's for her husband to deal with in his way (if she is cheating).

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By *usietranslutTV/TS
over a year ago

carlow

Time to get the name of being a pic hunter or time waster. Do nothing.

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By *heCumBackMan
over a year ago

Cork

Does your brother know your on here? Does she know your on here?

Tough scenario....... damned if you or damned if don't tell your brother

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

She may be cheating, they Nay have a open relationship. It's not that difficult.

If you are not going to tell your brother, don't respond to her message, block her profile and forget about it!

If you are going to tell your brother, then get on with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send her pic arange a meet and your both in same situation then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She may be cheating, they Nay have a open relationship. It's not that difficult.

If you are not going to tell your brother, don't respond to her message, block her profile and forget about it!

If you are going to tell your brother, then get on with it!"

And don't forget to fill us all in on the outcome!

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

does ur wife know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and forget about her and mover on, no1 needs extra drama in their life. Leave it be

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By *umon337Man
over a year ago

Offaly

A lot of good points above but only you know what your relationship is like with your brother and what your moral code is.

If she was upfront about being married and you're confident that he is supporting her being in fab then it could be an embarrassing occurrence that you'll all laugh about in years to come but if everything is being done in secret then you have to decide if you want to step away or keep going and possibly break up their marriage and your family.

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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I am curious how this worked out? I think to be fair she trusted you to send her face pic .... what if you had gone first, how would you have liked her to react? maybe you could just be honest with her. If your brother knows about it great .. might be a bit awkward but could be fun, if he doesn't know maybe ye stop it at that. Either way she doesn't deserved to be judged or outed, maybe just help her get to a honesty place with her partner x

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