FabSwingers.com forum: new clique

By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

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starting a new clique. Men or women complaining about cliques.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

That rules me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP this is epic

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"starting a new clique. Men or women complaining about cliques. "

Men women, TVs/TS, couples all welcome.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I get wicked clicks in my knees lately.

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"I get wicked clicks in my knees lately.

Use a pillow

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"I get wicked clicks in my knees lately.

Use a pillow"

Hmm i sleep on my belly so that could prove difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get wicked clicks in my knees lately.

Use a pillow"

I bought one of them pillows for between my legs, it's a disaster

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I get wicked clicks in my knees lately.

Use a pillow

I bought one of them pillows for between my legs, it's a disaster"

Do you not put it over your head.....so you can't hear the clicks

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

i see the cliques are getting bored and want to join this one. Welcome guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get wicked clicks in my knees lately.

Use a pillow

I bought one of them pillows for between my legs, it's a disaster

Do you not put it over your head.....so you can't hear the clicks "

Have ear plugs for that

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"i see the cliques are getting bored and want to join this one. Welcome guys. "

But there's no cliques apart from this one

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I have always been so intrigued to know who is meant to be in the cliques

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

What happens when people start complaining about this clique?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I have always been so intrigued to know who is meant to be in the cliques "

Anyone that doesnt agree with a profile posting about how horrible the cliques are on fab...cause hes right and everyone is wrong

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"I have always been so intrigued to know who is meant to be in the cliques "

Cant name names but YOU know who YOU are.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I have always been so intrigued to know who is meant to be in the cliques "

Me too, and how does one go about gaining entry into these cliques?

Is there an exam?

What are the perks?

Asking for myself, I don’t have friends, they’re a bit cliquey I find…

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I have always been so intrigued to know who is meant to be in the cliques

Me too, and how does one go about gaining entry into these cliques?

Is there an exam?

What are the perks?

Asking for myself, I don’t have friends, they’re a bit cliquey I find…"

It would help you to get into one if you didn't go around with a big ax in your hand.....unless you're a fireman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always been so intrigued to know who is meant to be in the cliques

Me too, and how does one go about gaining entry into these cliques?

Is there an exam?

What are the perks?

Asking for myself, I don’t have friends, they’re a bit cliquey I find…

It would help you to get into one if you didn't go around with a big ax in your hand.....unless you're a fireman

I have a fireman's outfit Linden can borrow he just needs to bring his pole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am cliqueless so I’ll happily apply to any haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I guess I'm a mean girl wow there's a new ah well at least I'd didn't get called the fat one

Funny I don't remember disagreeing with anything on this thread

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By *umon337Man
over a year ago

Offaly

"starting a new clique. Men or women complaining about cliques. "

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"starting a new clique. Men or women complaining about cliques. "

If we're already in a clique can we join this one?

Are you allowed to do that or is it only one clique at a time?

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"starting a new clique. Men or women complaining about cliques.

If we're already in a clique can we join this one?

Are you allowed to do that or is it only one clique at a time?"

U can join this only but have to leave others. Aim of this clique is disagree with other cliques even if they are right. We basically dislike other cliques.

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By *UReadyMan
over a year ago

fairview

"starting a new clique. Men or women complaining about cliques.

If we're already in a clique can we join this one?

Are you allowed to do that or is it only one clique at a time?"

Yes one clique at a time verified by how many verifications and recommendations from the original 10 couples . Please wait for your golden star

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"starting a new clique. Men or women complaining about cliques.

If we're already in a clique can we join this one?

Are you allowed to do that or is it only one clique at a time?

Yes one clique at a time verified by how many verifications and recommendations from the original 10 couples . Please wait for your golden star "

U are banned from the cliques as no asses allowed, u are just making up the rules.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I have always been so intrigued to know who is meant to be in the cliques

Me too, and how does one go about gaining entry into these cliques?

Is there an exam?

What are the perks?

Asking for myself, I don’t have friends, they’re a bit cliquey I find…

It would help you to get into one if you didn't go around with a big ax in your hand.....unless you're a fireman

I have a fireman's outfit Linden can borrow he just needs to bring his pole

Noted and noted….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i see the cliques are getting bored and want to join this one. Welcome guys. "

love it

Wanna watch out though you’ll be soon frozen out if you keep going against the grain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will never understand why people get so obsessed with this clique stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will never understand why people get so obsessed with this clique stuff

Not obsessed… just an observation, and when the issue is raised it’s funny to see the “cliques” reaction.

It never used to be so cliquey on here. I’ve rejoined several times over the last few years, but have to say the last six months it’s got pretty bad

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I get wicked clicks in my knees lately.

Use a pillow

I bought one of them pillows for between my legs, it's a disaster"

Perhaps other implements should be considered for between the legs then?

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"starting a new clique. Men or women complaining about cliques. "

Ah sure, I'll join in just for the morbid curiosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will never understand why people get so obsessed with this clique stuff

Not obsessed… just an observation, and when the issue is raised it’s funny to see the “cliques” reaction.

It never used to be so cliquey on here. I’ve rejoined several times over the last few years, but have to say the last six months it’s got pretty bad"

I've been here over ten years on and off. I've only encountered one clique and that was a long time ago now. People really need to stop blaming imaginatary cliques for their own short comings on this site.

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"Will never understand why people get so obsessed with this clique stuff

Not obsessed… just an observation, and when the issue is raised it’s funny to see the “cliques” reaction.

It never used to be so cliquey on here. I’ve rejoined several times over the last few years, but have to say the last six months it’s got pretty bad"

Think its mainly civil service people in cliques.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Here's the tricky bit:

Fabbers that are perceived by onlookers as clique members don't regard themselves as such, nor do they see the group of fabbers they interact with regularly as clique.

However I can easily understand that a newbie or outsider has the perception of a clique on here.

Anyhow I'll keep my seat on the fence and watch the clique feud developing.

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

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"Here's the tricky bit:

Fabbers that are perceived by onlookers as clique members don't regard themselves as such, nor do they see the group of fabbers they interact with regularly as clique.

However I can easily understand that a newbie or outsider has the perception of a clique on here.

Anyhow I'll keep my seat on the fence and watch the clique feud developing.

Ooooh so u are in the "sit on the fence clique"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear Clique and collect is very handy

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Here's the tricky bit:

Fabbers that are perceived by onlookers as clique members don't regard themselves as such, nor do they see the group of fabbers they interact with regularly as clique.

However I can easily understand that a newbie or outsider has the perception of a clique on here.

Anyhow I'll keep my seat on the fence and watch the clique feud developing.

Ooooh so u are in the "sit on the fence clique""

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"Here's the tricky bit:

Fabbers that are perceived by onlookers as clique members don't regard themselves as such, nor do they see the group of fabbers they interact with regularly as clique.

However I can easily understand that a newbie or outsider has the perception of a clique on here.

Anyhow I'll keep my seat on the fence and watch the clique feud developing.

This seems to summarise it fairly well.

The problems then start for some people when they are not instantly riding every person they contact, ego takes a hit, the paranoia starts to kick in and of course its someone's fault!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Will never understand why people get so obsessed with this clique stuff

Not obsessed… just an observation, and when the issue is raised it’s funny to see the “cliques” reaction.

It never used to be so cliquey on here. I’ve rejoined several times over the last few years, but have to say the last six months it’s got pretty bad"

You must have missed the vulture club few years back, circling over the forum until a single man dared to say 'beep'. There was a fair bit of carnage ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hear Clique and collect is very handy"
that gold...????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will never understand why people get so obsessed with this clique stuff

Not obsessed… just an observation, and when the issue is raised it’s funny to see the “cliques” reaction.

It never used to be so cliquey on here. I’ve rejoined several times over the last few years, but have to say the last six months it’s got pretty bad

You must have missed the vulture club few years back, circling over the forum until a single man dared to say 'beep'. There was a fair bit of carnage ...

Last I remembered was the banterville crew and their tiresome derailing of threads they didn't like. The vultures must have been during a break we had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is undeniably full of cliques. It's natural, groups and sub groups held together by common interests and those who hold similar views and interests.

We are hardwired for both connection to others and protection for ourselves and to others by association. Those inside usually don't realise and respond in a defensive way to the observation.

Defensiveness is an impulsive and reactive mode of responding, usually with a overprotective mentality to a situation that perhaps doesn't warrant it.

A defensive approach usually only confirms what the onlooker has noticed and providing proof to the onlooker. To be more inclusive and try to find out why they may think that and acknowledge that their observations have validation would be better, rather than just discard it thus demonstrating a cliquey approach to them.

Maybe we are far more cliquey than we believe, we do exclude many often and make them feel unwelcome. Many comments in this post unfortunately only go to demonstrate this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there groups of people who like to interact mainly with each other? Yes

Is there one massive cabal of people plotting to stop you having a good time on fab and getting the ride? Well if someone thinks the answer is yes I can see why they would struggle.

It's natural that people gravitate and agree with those who have the same mindset. It's also natural that people defend their friends at times even if they are clearly in the wrong.

None of that is preplanned or malicious and it happens in every walk of life.

The other thing that happens here that gets thrown in with clique is that women get in the most part an easier ride ( and can get a ride easier) though I'm my time here I've notice that those who will agree with anything a woman says in the hopes of increasing their chances, are the ones who end up coming back complaining that the women here think they are on a pedestal

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

We have been here many years and the way i see it is that a thread is started , and on alot of them , a "group" of people will just derail the thread by chatting to eachother and going way off topic , its not really cliques as such its just that people get along and unfortunately use the threads to interact in some sort of way , ive posted on many threads over the years and my comments get lost in said convos , its just the way it is here unfortunately

Just my tupence worth

Mrs crazy

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By *acob12369 OP Man
over a year ago

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"We have been here many years and the way i see it is that a thread is started , and on alot of them , a "group" of people will just derail the thread by chatting to eachother and going way off topic , its not really cliques as such its just that people get along and unfortunately use the threads to interact in some sort of way , ive posted on many threads over the years and my comments get lost in said convos , its just the way it is here unfortunately

Just my tupence worth

Mrs crazy

Exactly, mainly civil servants

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