FabSwingers.com forum: It's a clicky spot

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Welcome to the clique!

Blow-ins have a hard time being accepted by the other established members who were themselves also blow-ins not so long ago.

But they persevered, made the effort, attended a few socials, gained the trust of others and it gradually turned around for them. Their patience paid off!

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

As Jubal said.

But also, while it gets frustrating a lot on here, don't expect anything even IF you are verified.

Verifications help prove you're genuine in some cases but it's not exactly like you've joined a VIP club.

I'd suggest taking a small break and then coming back if you want, it's not an easy place sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah no I agree I can't attend clubs

I'm well known, I manage a team therefore renders me out I'm either busy sat night or very early sun, it's more a club scene fabs than singles which it cools and I've met great people that went to parties, I just wish was bit more personable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As Jubal said.

But also, while it gets frustrating a lot on here, don't expect anything even IF you are verified.

Verifications help prove you're genuine in some cases but it's not exactly like you've joined a VIP club.

I'd suggest taking a small break and then coming back if you want, it's not an easy place sometimes."

It can be an easy place to be if you don't have high expectations, patience is the best thing to have in mind, you never know when the meet will show up from, it may surprise you even. In my opinion trying to be as much active in the forum helps also.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

naas which is South West of Dublin

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??"

You’re not being judged on your choices, you are being judged on your profile, the same as everyone else…..

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

You’re not being judged on your choices, you are being judged on your profile, the same as everyone else….."

That pretty much sums it up right there.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not sure where you got the idea that fab is a club scene? The vast majority on fab have never been to a club or a party and many have no interest in either.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??"

What gave you the idea that people wouldnt judge here? How is anyone to choose who they would like to have sex with, and not judge anything or anyone. We make judgements all day every day. Let's not pretend we don't. Deciding to have sex with someone (or not) IS using your judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard work alright, not for the faint hearted, or the impatient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its hard work alright, not for the faint hearted, or the impatient.

Mostly for the impatient ones...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yes the I'm not getting a ride cause I'm not in the clique line.

I mean I could list 6 or 7 other reasons if you wanted them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is your shop window make it appealing

That legal garbage is a waste of time. Never been to a club and no interest.

And the whole a woman in each county would make me run a mile

And yes you are judged we are all , just like in normal.every day life.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Ah yes the I'm not getting a ride cause I'm not in the clique line.

I mean I could list 6 or 7 other reasons if you wanted them

Gowan so, I'll bite - why are you not getting a ride, 6 or 7 reasons please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah yes the I'm not getting a ride cause I'm not in the clique line.

I mean I could list 6 or 7 other reasons if you wanted them

Gowan so, I'll bite - why are you not getting a ride, 6 or 7 reasons please

Oh mine! I may need more space.

A general meh

Time

More meh

Micro penis

I generally hate other people

More micro penis

Lately I've been forgetting to login

The clique admin work has me snowed under

A final dollop of meh with a bot of ick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats a lie 90% of people's veri are from clubs, not actual meets

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Thats a lie 90% of people's veri are from clubs, not actual meets "

And 87% of all statistics are made up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats a lie 90% of people's veri are from clubs, not actual meets

And 87% of all statistics are made up"

47% of my penis is a virgin

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Ah yes the I'm not getting a ride cause I'm not in the clique line.

I mean I could list 6 or 7 other reasons if you wanted them

Gowan so, I'll bite - why are you not getting a ride, 6 or 7 reasons please

Oh mine! I may need more space.

A general meh

Time

More meh

Micro penis

I generally hate other people

More micro penis

Lately I've been forgetting to login

The clique admin work has me snowed under

A final dollop of meh with a bot of ick"

Now that's 9 really, really valid reasons - I couldn't agree more except for clique admin, I'm afraid I'm in the unpopular clique, no admin to be attended to here whatsoever.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Thats a lie 90% of people's veri are from clubs, not actual meets

And 87% of all statistics are made up

47% of my penis is a virgin"

Which end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??"

Oh God, work hard for attention?

If it's not fun then why do it?

You're genuine - great

All you've done is drawn a mass of the be patient brigade to give their 2 cents in an effort to get attention for themselves and show you as an outcast and them as a nice guy / girl.

And not everyone that commented fits that btw

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By *UReadyMan
over a year ago

fairview

Couldn’t agree more , fab is just a small clique of around 20 people I’m convinced of it .

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"Ah yes the I'm not getting a ride cause I'm not in the clique line.

I mean I could list 6 or 7 other reasons if you wanted them

The entitlement some people have is unreal. Just sign up to a website and start complaining how everybody they approach won't have sex with them.

Everybody that meets us judges us, and we do likewise! If there is attraction you'll meet, if there is not you won't!

What did people actually expect?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"And not everyone that commented fits that btw"

Nice save

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Couldn’t agree more , fab is just a small clique of around 20 people I’m convinced of it . "

Nah there’s multiple 20 person cliques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just speaking from my point of view everyone I have contacted about fab on here have been a great help to us sure sum didn’t respond but that’s there choice and they need to protect their lives outside of fab but I would say 80% have been lovely

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Thats a lie 90% of people's veri are from clubs, not actual meets "

I'm sure the owners of the multiple Irish clubs can confirm these stats. They must be bunged every night.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I checked out your profile and it’s pretty much the same as the rest of the can’t be arsed to make my profile stand out single man brigade who still expects women to drop their knickers for no effort

And yes our profile isn’t great either but I’m a woman so I wouldn’t need to make an effort

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I'm here for years and still feel on the outskirts, and that suits me. My advice is

A) Don't take Fab too seriously

B) Under no circumstances be seen as desperate

C) its a great site, but don't take it personal

D) Rejection is inevitable no matter who you are male/female

E) Make it fun

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By *rprotonMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Which is why I gave up on being serious about my profile. If someone is curious better make an effort and communicate, rather then having it all spelled out on a profile.

After all, I think profiles half life time is around 3 months, by which time it is either outdated or changed as people evolve over time with their tastes and preferences

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By *UReadyMan
over a year ago

fairview

"I checked out your profile and it’s pretty much the same as the rest of the can’t be arsed to make my profile stand out single man brigade who still expects women to drop their knickers for no effort

And yes our profile isn’t great either but I’m a woman so I wouldn’t need to make an effort

You’ve just proven my point ; you don’t have to make an effort because you’re a woman and part of the little clique .

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"Which is why I gave up on being serious about my profile. If someone is curious better make an effort and communicate, rather then having it all spelled out on a profile.

After all, I think profiles half life time is around 3 months, by which time it is either outdated or changed as people evolve over time with their tastes and preferences "

You should definitely be serious about your profile as its the window that other fabbers see you through.

You should adopt the stance that Fab is fun and craic and can be a gateway to great sex but its not the only one. Just don't be dependent solely on Fab. Not every interaction should lead to sex/intimacy, and the sooner you realise that the more enjoyment you'll get from it.

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By *UReadyMan
over a year ago

fairview

"Which is why I gave up on being serious about my profile. If someone is curious better make an effort and communicate, rather then having it all spelled out on a profile.

After all, I think profiles half life time is around 3 months, by which time it is either outdated or changed as people evolve over time with their tastes and preferences

You should definitely be serious about your profile as its the window that other fabbers see you through.

I agree with your point about fab only being one section . kik is a far superior forum where there’s more transparency and not dependent on the “clique”

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Which is why I gave up on being serious about my profile. If someone is curious better make an effort and communicate, rather then having it all spelled out on a profile.

After all, I think profiles half life time is around 3 months, by which time it is either outdated or changed as people evolve over time with their tastes and preferences

You should definitely be serious about your profile as its the window that other fabbers see you through.

I agree with your point about fab only being one section . kik is a far superior forum where there’s more transparency and not dependent on the “clique”"

This wins the award for funniest comment so far

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"Which is why I gave up on being serious about my profile. If someone is curious better make an effort and communicate, rather then having it all spelled out on a profile.

After all, I think profiles half life time is around 3 months, by which time it is either outdated or changed as people evolve over time with their tastes and preferences

You should definitely be serious about your profile as its the window that other fabbers see you through.

I agree with your point about fab only being one section . kik is a far superior forum where there’s more transparency and not dependent on the “clique”"

I give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

And yes our profile isn’t great either but I’m a woman so I wouldn’t need to make an effort

You’ve just proven my point ; you don’t have to make an effort because you’re a woman and part of the little clique ."

Your half right. A woman had no need to be in a clique in order get meets.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride "

I think he’s complaining because he’s not getting rides to enjoy

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

I agree with your point about fab only being one section . kik is a far superior forum where there’s more transparency and not dependent on the “clique”"

Far superior?

Where even the fakers are faked and is about as transparent as a set of blackout blinds for a blind person

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride

I think he’s complaining because he’s not getting rides to enjoy

Sure all he needs is a bottle of Peach schnapps and JD Apple (Done deal)

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By *hin_chillinWoman
over a year ago

secret location Cork

"Thats a lie 90% of people's veri are from clubs, not actual meets

And 87% of all statistics are made up

47% of my penis is a virgin"

Ha ha ha ha ha

We need some gifs in here, damn emojis just aren’t cutting it

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride

I think he’s complaining because he’s not getting rides to enjoy

Sure all he needs is a bottle of Peach schnapps and JD Apple (Done deal)

Now alcohol Is an excellent idea but if he can clean my bedroom and still have enough stamina for the ride well then we can discuss it further

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride

I think he’s complaining because he’s not getting rides to enjoy

Sure all he needs is a bottle of Peach schnapps and JD Apple (Done deal)

Now alcohol Is an excellent idea but if he can clean my bedroom and still have enough stamina for the ride well then we can discuss it further

Now THAT will be the deal breaker…. We saw your room in Limerick and still shudder

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride

I think he’s complaining because he’s not getting rides to enjoy

Sure all he needs is a bottle of Peach schnapps and JD Apple (Done deal)

Now alcohol Is an excellent idea but if he can clean my bedroom and still have enough stamina for the ride well then we can discuss it further

Now THAT will be the deal breaker…. We saw your room in Limerick and still shudder

Yep, some things you just can't unsee

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride

I think he’s complaining because he’s not getting rides to enjoy

Sure all he needs is a bottle of Peach schnapps and JD Apple (Done deal)

Now alcohol Is an excellent idea but if he can clean my bedroom and still have enough stamina for the ride well then we can discuss it further

Now THAT will be the deal breaker…. We saw your room in Limerick and still shudder

Yep, some things you just can't unsee

I could say I’m being victimised but I did release the video into the public domain

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride

I think he’s complaining because he’s not getting rides to enjoy

Sure all he needs is a bottle of Peach schnapps and JD Apple (Done deal)

Now alcohol Is an excellent idea but if he can clean my bedroom and still have enough stamina for the ride well then we can discuss it further

Now THAT will be the deal breaker…. We saw your room in Limerick and still shudder

Yep, some things you just can't unsee

PMSL

You saw it too!?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Suppose you just got to hang around and enjoy the ride

I think he’s complaining because he’s not getting rides to enjoy

Sure all he needs is a bottle of Peach schnapps and JD Apple (Done deal)

Now alcohol Is an excellent idea but if he can clean my bedroom and still have enough stamina for the ride well then we can discuss it further

Now THAT will be the deal breaker…. We saw your room in Limerick and still shudder

Yep, some things you just can't unsee

PMSL

You saw it too!?

I saw it and thought the hotel will never get a skip up in the lift to clear it

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By *heekyDubMan
over a year ago

County

Ah yeah, it's not a silver bullet that's for sure. A little tougher for the single male also.

Maybe chance some of the dating apps too. 6'2 is a nice statistic, you shouldn't have too much trouble at least getting swiped right on a few profiles. I mean, I'd like to be 6'2

I just have to compensate by being absolutely hilarious and a great, eh, hugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah yeah, it's not a silver bullet that's for sure. A little tougher for the single male also.

Maybe chance some of the dating apps too. 6'2 is a nice statistic, you shouldn't have too much trouble at least getting swiped right on a few profiles. I mean, I'd like to be 6'2

I just have to compensate by being absolutely hilarious and a great, eh, hugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??"

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

What, Where and who are the "Fab clique” are they not just groups of people that have gotten to know each other over time?

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

What, Where and who are the "Fab clique” are they not just groups of people that have gotten to know each other over time? "

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Is it a new club this “cliquey spot “???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

Holy crap thats some assumption to make and a load of bull.

Forums are only one tiny section of Fab but statements like that wont do you any favours

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

Holy crap thats some assumption to make and a load of bull.

Forums are only one tiny section of Fab but statements like that wont do you any favours

Probably hasn’t had 1st coffee of the day and doesn’t know what he wrote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

Holy crap thats some assumption to make and a load of bull.

Forums are only one tiny section of Fab but statements like that wont do you any favours

Not looking for any favours… not here to blow smoke up someones …..in the hope of getting the r!de.

That’s how things work around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

Holy crap thats some assumption to make and a load of bull.

Forums are only one tiny section of Fab but statements like that wont do you any favours

Probably hasn’t had 1st coffee of the day and doesn’t know what he wrote

Need more than coffee

an Irish one maybe??!!

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Don't work hard at it or any of that shite. Sit back, be who you are and the cream will rise to meet you. Don't be someone you're not just to get laid. Be who you are to meet someone you'll like as a friend and ALSO get laid. Apologies if my use of the word "laid" offends anyone. I only mean it to describe the sexual act or whatever floats your boat on here.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Its a site set up to facilitate people meeting and having sex with other people

Of course there's groups of people that know each other,meet at socials and parties and have sex with each other if they want to

Everyone starts off not knowing anyone else but nothing is handed to you on a plate...you have to give others a reason that they want to meet you and maybe play with you

Starting a thread about cliques or why dont I get replies doesn't exactly help you to be honest

All you do is get men

( always men ) complaining together

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

"Its a site...

Starting a thread about cliques or why dont I get replies doesn't exactly help you, to be honest.

A point about punctuation in Bogman's last, frank and refreshingly honest, posting.

The addition of a comma, between you and to, totally changes the meaning of the sentence!

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Its a site...

Starting a thread about cliques or why dont I get replies doesn't exactly help you, to be honest.

A point about punctuation in Bogman's last, frank and refreshingly honest, posting.

The addition of a comma, between you and to, totally changes the meaning of the sentence!

Perhaps it was deliberate J ?

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By *UReadyMan
over a year ago

fairview

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

Didn’t think I’d ever be giving a big thumbs up to your posts Alan but you hit the nail on the head with this one . You’re bang on correct. Look at the passive ( actually not so passive ) aggression in the posts that followed someone daring to go against the narrative . Nasty alright and then they still come back with the same crap about peoples character just because they’re in the closed “clique “

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"Its a site set up to facilitate people meeting and having sex with other people

Of course there's groups of people that know each other,meet at socials and parties and have sex with each other if they want to

Everyone starts off not knowing anyone else but nothing is handed to you on a plate...you have to give others a reason that they want to meet you and maybe play with you

Starting a thread about cliques or why dont I get replies doesn't exactly help you to be honest

All you do is get men

( always men ) complaining together

This is basically it. There are a lot of blokes in this thread that just need to log off and possibly close their accounts. It's just not for them,it's not what they're looking for and thats fine.

But this talk of cliques and groups like everybody is secretly conspiring against them is just hilarious...Talking like a Trump supporter or some nut from Qanon and then wonder why nobody wants to meet you!!?

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

I'm starting a clique with just men complaining about cliques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a site set up to facilitate people meeting and having sex with other people

Of course there's groups of people that know each other,meet at socials and parties and have sex with each other if they want to

Everyone starts off not knowing anyone else but nothing is handed to you on a plate...you have to give others a reason that they want to meet you and maybe play with you

Starting a thread about cliques or why dont I get replies doesn't exactly help you to be honest

All you do is get men

( always men ) complaining together

This is basically it. There are a lot of blokes in this thread that just need to log off and possibly close their accounts. It's just not for them,it's not what they're looking for and thats fine.

Shhh don't say that, they'll say that you are passive aggressive towards them because they go against the narrative and expose the cliques

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin, Belfast

What is this “narrative” everyone’s going against?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is this “narrative” everyone’s going against?"
some lads are saying that they are ignored and that there's groups of cool kids and plebs(non verified or very new people)

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"What is this “narrative” everyone’s going against? some lads are saying that they are ignored and that there's groups of cool kids and plebs(non verified or very new people)"

Im trying to start a group containing plebs only

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin, Belfast

"What is this “narrative” everyone’s going against? some lads are saying that they are ignored and that there's groups of cool kids and plebs(non verified or very new people)"

Oh that’s definitely true, I’m one of the cool kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is this “narrative” everyone’s going against? some lads are saying that they are ignored and that there's groups of cool kids and plebs(non verified or very new people)

Oh that’s definitely true, I’m one of the cool kids

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to be honest I don't think there's those type of groups, it depends on how much you interact in the forum

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin, Belfast

"What is this “narrative” everyone’s going against? some lads are saying that they are ignored and that there's groups of cool kids and plebs(non verified or very new people)

Oh that’s definitely true, I’m one of the cool kids

to be honest I don't think there's those type of groups, it depends on how much you interact in the forum"

Nah there’s definitely those type of groups, we’ve the best packed lunches and have the coolest clothes on non-uniform days

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

I think people in the “Fab clique” lack something in the real world and come on here to feel empowered and make up for what they are lacking in everyday life.

Dare go against their “narrative” here and you’ll be blacklisted …. Just like in secondary school

Are you not guilty of the same thing if you complain about people going against your narrative? Does conversation and debate not require multiple points of view and opinions?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Boo hoo more than 1 person disagreed with something I said and that means I'm being conspired against by a clique.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

100 %. Mate

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By *umon337Man
over a year ago

Offaly

"As Jubal said.

But also, while it gets frustrating a lot on here, don't expect anything even IF you are verified.

Verifications help prove you're genuine in some cases but it's not exactly like you've joined a VIP club.

I'd suggest taking a small break and then coming back if you want, it's not an easy place sometimes.

I agree, patience is required. The club scene isn't the be-all and end-all as loads of people on here don't go to them. There's something for everyone on here, it just takes time to find it.

Maybe switch it off and back on again?

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By *UReadyMan
over a year ago

fairview

"As Jubal said.

But also, while it gets frustrating a lot on here, don't expect anything even IF you are verified.

Verifications help prove you're genuine in some cases but it's not exactly like you've joined a VIP club.

Or admit that it’s the same 10 couples running the show . Enjoy , kik is open to real people looking to have fun with singles and couples without all the bullshit here.

I'd suggest taking a small break and then coming back if you want, it's not an easy place sometimes.

I agree, patience is required. The club scene isn't the be-all and end-all as loads of people on here don't go to them. There's something for everyone on here, it just takes time to find it.

Maybe switch it off and back on again?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"As Jubal said.

But also, while it gets frustrating a lot on here, don't expect anything even IF you are verified.

Verifications help prove you're genuine in some cases but it's not exactly like you've joined a VIP club.

Or admit that it’s the same 10 couples running the show . Enjoy , kik is open to real people looking to have fun with singles and couples without all the bullshit here.

I'd suggest taking a small break and then coming back if you want, it's not an easy place sometimes.

I agree, patience is required. The club scene isn't the be-all and end-all as loads of people on here don't go to them. There's something for everyone on here, it just takes time to find it.

Maybe switch it off and back on again?

Kik is where all the bullshit from here turns to slurry and is spread by the resident muckspreaders.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

naas which is South West of Dublin

"Boo hoo more than 1 person disagreed with something I said and that means I'm being conspired against by a clique."

And if more than one person agrees, you’re in a click, simples….

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

naas which is South West of Dublin

Kik is where all the bullshit from here turns to slurry and is spread by the resident muckspreaders.

And if you always manage to come up smelling of roses after all that, you’re in a different clique……

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

When you're on the inside track, having established a trusting relationship with a group of friends who aspire to a particular lufestyle, it's never derided as a clique;

but when you're persona non grata, on the outside looking in, enviously, then it is definitely a clique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a real clicky spot u got to work hard for attn, I came on here to be not judged but u a 100% are, its supposed to be fun but its far from it I've verifications, I'm genuine ??

Well said to be fair

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

[Removed by poster at 24/05/22 06:40:21]

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

If this place is like a slightly seedy backstreet sex club... then kik is the bucket and mop that's used to clean the playrooms at the end of the night.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Not sure where you got the idea that fab is a club scene? The vast majority on fab have never been to a club or a party and many have no interest in either. "

This, exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a clicky spot in my shoulder, cracks every time I raise my arm

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"If this place is like a slightly seedy backstreet sex club... then kik is the bucket and mop that's used to clean the playrooms at the end of the night."

I thought the guy in the porn video arcade in spain had the worst job in the world having to empty the bins ....but you've just described a worse one

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

city

Just when I thought punctuation was a thing of the past. The comma is making a comeback.

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