FabSwingers.com forum: how many messages per day do ladies get on here?

By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Hi,

its obvious to see theres like 11 men to every woman on here so I'm curious to know how many messages a day/session women gets on here?

I wonder if theyre overrun and cant keep up and I wonder if overall theyre abit stressed from this and the immature messages Im sure they also get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one today

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Hi,

its obvious to see theres like 11 men to every woman on here so I'm curious to know how many messages a day/session women gets on here?

I wonder if theyre overrun and cant keep up and I wonder if overall theyre abit stressed from this and the immature messages Im sure they also get

How many messages on average would you send a day

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Id imagine the ratio is a lot more than 11 to 1....a hell of a lot more

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Laura doesn't use her own profile much... but when she does login she can get 5 or 10 messages within a few mins.

This couples profile might get 5 or so a day but we have tight filters.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Well each woman here gets about ten a day from me, and I'm just about an average, mediocre man at best, so do the calculation from that.

It's ok though as I just copy and paste the sane message to everyone so it's not too much of a strain on me.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Maybe 4-5 … if I remember to login

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Maybe 3 or 4 but mostly off ppl I already chatting to for ages or met!

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Set up your own account and pretend to be a woman op. It's the only way you'll get an accurate answer.

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By *herry...Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Very few because I have set filters

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I don't get too many cos I'm a fat lass with a lot of filters. Lol But I have 2 friends that get 100s of messages a day. It can be very overwhelming.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"I don't get too many cos I'm a fat lass with a lot of filters. Lol But I have 2 friends that get 100s of messages a day. It can be very overwhelming. "

U are a sexy as hell lass full stop..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much I'm on. 15-100. I'd say 40-50 on average xx

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

looked at your profile and youve beautiful complexion and bod, overall really sexy so shocked youve had 1 today tbh

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

a day id say bout 8-10

women dont message me unless i message them first

i wonder if they even see my messages to tbh

but my own fault i dont have pics up

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

wow

id say most women are over run and they just dont get to read the messages properly

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

you look great btw. youre not fat youre beautiful!

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

full time job!

amazing bod btw

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

yeah tried to message you and couldnt and was disspointed cause your bod is so good and you sound nice

youre filtering only from site supporters. youd obviously get 10 times that otherwise!

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

i think so bog man

alot more than 11-1

imagine if it was a swinging club with those kind of ratios

its a stampede!

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

u might be fat but you look sensuous and a great lover

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

are you happy with that?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"u might be fat but you look sensuous and a great lover"

You charmer!

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

did that too but left in the name once or twice and got blocked v quick!

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

no im honest and straight talking

thats not a good thing on this site

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

did occur to me once but thought no cant do that.

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

i see now, youre site supporters only. pity couldnt message you

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"i see now, youre site supporters only. pity couldnt message you"

Use the reply and quote button or we won't know who you're replying to

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Mabey a handful on a good day but if i upload a new pic or status update it might increase

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Mabey a handful on a good day but if i upload a new pic or status update it might increase

New pics are amazing

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

19 new contacts so far today. Some of them have sent. 4 or 5 messages.

Gah

I don’t want to take my profile down cos I love the banter but, really, I’m not meeting new people outside socials.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Mabey a handful on a good day but if i upload a new pic or status update it might increase

Jaysis I message you more than that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mabey a handful on a good day but if i upload a new pic or status update it might increase

Loving the new pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back when I was single regularly had over a 100mails in my inbox at any one time. Then more mail filters were introduced so that cut it down drastically.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"hi

you look great btw. youre not fat youre beautiful!"

Fat and beautiful are not mutually exclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi

you look great btw. youre not fat youre beautiful!

Fat and beautiful are not mutually exclusive

Preach

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By *omebirdWoman
over a year ago

SFA

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"SFA"

I was going to correct that for you by sending you at least ten of my copy and paste masterpieces but your filters don't allow me. God I hate women with standards!

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"wow

id say most women are over run and they just dont get to read the messages properly

No we read them. We just think that some messages are shit, especially when some men message you over and over even when we don’t reply.

And then women read what these men say on the forums and we block them and consider a lucky escape.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Why would they be stressed over the number of messages they get?

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Why would they be stressed over the number of messages they get? "

This. The number doesn’t bother me. It’s the quality that’s shit.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't get many messages just a handful in a week but then I keep very tight filters I have done for a long time and it makes my fab journey so much easier. I've never gotten stressed over messages and now I just delete ones that I don't want to answer .

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By *exysamXXXWoman
over a year ago

The Land of Make Believe

I don't get too many messages but when I post a new pic or attend events they level increases

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"hi

you look great btw. youre not fat youre beautiful!

Fat and beautiful are not mutually exclusive

Thank you. You got to say it before I did. You can be fat AND beautiful. xx

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

10-15 a day. More if I post a pic or something.

It’s not unmanageable but that doesn’t mean I’m obliged to reply to an unsolicited mail.

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

"I don't get too many cos I'm a fat lass with a lot of filters. Lol But I have 2 friends that get 100s of messages a day. It can be very overwhelming.

U are a sexy as hell lass full stop.."

Thank you my dear. The cheque is in the post. xx

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There are a lot of factors that effect how many messages profiles get. Here is my completely unscientific off the cuff guide to getting lots of messages. In order of importance...

1) Own a vagina

2) Have no filters so everyone can message you

3) Have facepics on your profile

4) Have any pictures on your profile

5) Allow your location on who's near and be in a well populated area

6) Make mention of a popular fetish. BDSM / feet / pregnancy / bareback

7) Be online a lot

8) Be hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of factors that effect how many messages profiles get. Here is my completely unscientific off the cuff guide to getting lots of messages. In order of importance...

1) Own a vagina

2) Have no filters so everyone can message you

3) Have facepics on your profile

4) Have any pictures on your profile

5) Allow your location on who's near and be in a well populated area

6) Make mention of a popular fetish. BDSM / feet / pregnancy / bareback

7) Be online a lot

8) Be hot"

Any tips for the elusive single male?

I think I average 5 messages a month!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

anoth3rone - Nothing wrong with your profile at all! Work on your networking and get to as many social events as you can.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"There are a lot of factors that effect how many messages profiles get. Here is my completely unscientific off the cuff guide to getting lots of messages. In order of importance...

1) Own a vagina

2) Have no filters so everyone can message you

3) Have facepics on your profile

4) Have any pictures on your profile

5) Allow your location on who's near and be in a well populated area

6) Make mention of a popular fetish. BDSM / feet / pregnancy / bareback

7) Be online a lot

8) Be hot"

9) post pics regularly

10) post status updates regularly

11) be active on the forum.

12) live somewhere like Dublin.

Essentially, the more visible you are on site, the more messages you will get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi

you look great btw. youre not fat youre beautiful!

Fat and beautiful are not mutually exclusive

Exactly, I like to think im a bit of both myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty decent profile, great pics, there's a few socials on up belfast direction check.out the forums for details

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By *ublinjason OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

9.) be a woman

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"9.) be a woman"

See no1

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"9.) be a woman

See no1"

Not the same thing nesessarily

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"9.) be a woman

See no1

Not the same thing nesessarily"

Do those identifying as women but without vaginas get as many messages as everyone with vaginas?

I've no idea

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Usually about 5 or 6 a day unless there’s a new photo put up and then the messages increase

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Usually about 5 or 6 a day unless there’s a new photo put up and then the messages increase"
I don’t send many as I Assumed you were undated and also equal rights for ladies , Ladies first

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By *uccubus1Woman
over a year ago

unknown

About 150-200 more if a photo is in a hot list then it's 250+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 or 8 maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet if the ladies who are posting low numbers removed the filters on who can mail them, the number would be a lot higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on days of the week, your location, filters, if you're active in the forums, if you have recent verify you just displayed, if you posted a photo or if you posted status update.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All depends on days of the week, your location, filters, if you're active in the forums, if you have recent verify you just displayed, if you posted a photo or if you posted status update. "

100% agree

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