FabSwingers.com forum: Polite and respectful

By *ongueado OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Hello everyone.

I've been on this site for a good while now. And I've always tried to polite and respectful to whoever I have messaged on here.

But I'm basically in the same position as when I joined. Which is no where.

So I'm starting to wonder if being polite and respectful is the wrong attitude to have here?

Because it hasn't gotten me anywhere on here. Maybe I'm coming across as too nice? Is that a problem on here?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's just sheer weight of numbers. Your profile seems OK. Maybe get involved more here in for forums or in the chatrooms. Get yourself a coffee meet and then an I vote to a social.

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By *oulernerMan
over a year ago

Dublin City

I haven't gotten a first verification myself but I'm not in a rush. You could try the "Help a fabber out" (https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1277990) to get one.

I guess many fabbers view a verification as a must have as it shows you can be trusted to actually show up and not waste their time.

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By *ongueado OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Thank you for the advice.

I've tried for the coffee meet, but getting a reply seem to be my biggest problem.

But thanks again for your advice. I'll get more involved in the forum's and chat rooms when I can

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By *ongueado OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Oh I didn't realize there was a " help a fabber" advice forum.

Thank you for the heads up.

I hope you get your verification soon man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out Alt Desires profile they run unverified only socials. They are based in Dublin

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By *ongueado OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Check out Alt Desires profile they run unverified only socials. They are based in Dublin"

Haven't heard of them. But I will definitely check it out.

Thank you so much for the advice. I really appreciate it.

It's nice to see that their are people on here who are willing to help a struggling guy out.

Cheers. I really do appreciate it.

You have all been a great hello to me.

I Just hope that someday I can return the favour.

Thank you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just takes patience unfortunately. Get involved in more forum chat and discussions.

Best to luck

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By *ongueado OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"It just takes patience unfortunately. Get involved in more forum chat and discussions.

Best to luck

Thank you. I've been trying to get involved in them the last few hours.

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By *onty_400Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm in the same position. It's very hard but I'll keep trying and hopefully I'll be meet verified soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in the same position. It's very hard but I'll keep trying and hopefully I'll be meet verified soon"

Most people are not going to engage with blank silhouette profiles. Ladies especially get so many messages a message from a blank profile will be deleted

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

I say hello to the women, but all i get is deleted, wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you actually suggesting though OP?

Start being a disrespectful dick to get meets?

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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime

I have read your profile o.p and I think its quiet good, but for me I like to get to know a little about what makes you different that's what will grab my attention. Polite and respectfull are the givens anyone who isn't just gets a instant block for me. But it is when you show a little bit of humour or more personality it stands out for me.

I feel hypocritical saying that when I give as little away as possible but maybe that is my way of keeping intrigue... as everyone says take part in the chats if you can.

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By *huntMan
over a year ago

North clare

At a guess, looking at your profile, fact you are a smoker prob knock 75% of your potential matches...

Give your chance a boost and enjoy a much better quality of live with more money in your pocket if you give em up

Not preaching, just an ex smoker myself and know from experience..

Happy hunting

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