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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all have little things to look out for on here,

But what a rule you set for yourself when using Fab?

For me, it's never texting someone the morning after a night out, I may be a bit eager, lol!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Avoid the arse yodellers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be too close to home

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By *nalcumslutWoman
over a year ago

navan

To always say thank you

;-)

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Always sleep in a bed overnight just us afterwards.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Same as with everything in life - remain cook, calm, collected; polite, kind and with a splash of humour. I don't take anything too seriously or personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a few. Avoid drama

Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.

Have fun.

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By *axlecool03Man
over a year ago

Dublin

[Removed by poster at 03/05/22 16:38:45]

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By *axlecool03Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Respect all trust no one…

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By *umpkinnMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Nervous when sending the first message? just imagine them naked. Works best when they have naked pictures

Be as honest as possible and if its too good to be true, it's most likely too good to be true.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Boys rule girls drool, one rule that’s never left me down

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Boys rule girls drool, one rule that’s never left me down "

Is that right ger??

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"Boys rule girls drool, one rule that’s never left me down

Is that right ger??"

Sure is

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

My No1 rule is not to take Fab too seriously. I like the forum and perv regularly and I very rarely message anyone

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By *oulernerMan
over a year ago

Dublin City


"To always say thank you

;-)"

I like this rule

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Boys rule girls drool, one rule that’s never left me down

Is that right ger??

Sure is"

Yeah we see about that one

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"Boys rule girls drool, one rule that’s never left me down

Is that right ger??

Sure is

Yeah we see about that one"

Bring your napkin

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Boys rule girls drool, one rule that’s never left me down

Is that right ger??

Sure is

Yeah we see about that one

Bring your napkin"

Oh i think ul be the one needing a napkin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as with everything in life - remain cook, calm, collected; polite, kind and with a splash of humour. I don't take anything too seriously or personally "

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a few. Avoid drama

Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.

Have fun. "

Another very good one

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Ours is as soon as either of us stop enjoying the lifestyle then we walk away

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Block anyone that looks at my profile under the age of 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a few. Avoid drama

Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.

Have fun. "

That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Have a few. Avoid drama

Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.

Have fun.

That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou "

Oh but they will. Do not fear that. Judgemental asses are rife here.

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By *iggy200Man
over a year ago

beside the seaside

To many fucking snakes in here not minding Thier own fucking buisness

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Have a few. Avoid drama

Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.

Have fun.

That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou "
As swing say’s being none judgemental towards everyone who is swinging the light fantastic

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Anyone who has uncredited photos of someone else in their public photos are a huge no. They don’t respect privacy.

Don’t veri a coffee meet unless you aren’t meeting them again.

Check veris. Who they associate with regularly can tell you all you want to know.

Stay on speaking terms with everyone, there is no reason to be rude. Most people are kind.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Check veris. Who they associate with regularly can tell you all you want to know "

That’s my number 1 rule.

Also, use fab how you want to use it, not how the holier than thou and self proclaimed “real swingers” think you should.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Check veris. Who they associate with regularly can tell you all you want to know

That’s my number 1 rule.

Also, use fab how you want to use it, not how the holier than thou and self proclaimed “real swingers” think you should. "

YES!!! I said that to a friend ages ago and shocked myself with my wisdom. Just cos the relationship you end up with isn’t the reason you joined, doesn’t mean it’s not fucking amazing. Sure Jaysis, look at me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be myself.

Communicate clearly.

Give respect and dont waste time on people who dont understand the concept.

and treat it all lightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block anyone that looks at my profile under the age of 30 "

No one blocked so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a few. Avoid drama

Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.

Have fun.

That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou "

No judgement. If others want to fuxk around behind their partners backs that's cool. We just don't want to be part of it. Simple as that

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Block anyone that looks at my profile under the age of 30

No one blocked so "

Burn.....last time I'm making you a cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as in life I've learnt some people are acquaintances not friends, so I appreciate the friends.

Always a social first and make my own opinion of someone. Very mean Jack shit

And lastly don't get involved in the drama

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

When looking at a profile: could I envision myself spending a whole 24 hours with this person/couple; after the introductory period and the small talk, what would there actually to converse about; would it be just a series of awkward pauses; or: would we just get on with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe what people tell you..a lot of liers here..

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Go with my gut and be true to myself.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"Have a few. Avoid drama

Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.

Have fun.

That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou

No judgement. If others want to fuxk around behind their partners backs that's cool. We just don't want to be part of it. Simple as that "

“No judgement” but youll happily lambaste, pass comment openly and giggle at anyone who admits to struggling or not conforming to your exacting standards. Ah. Ok!!

Simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a few. Avoid drama

Avoid attached people playing behind their partners backs.

Have fun.

That's true but everyone isn't in a perfect relationship, nobody can judge anyone here, we are all adults, all here for our own reasons .. we can choose who we want or don't want to meet, x lou

No judgement. If others want to fuxk around behind their partners backs that's cool. We just don't want to be part of it. Simple as that

“No judgement” but youll happily lambaste, pass comment openly and giggle at anyone who admits to struggling or not conforming to your exacting standards. Ah. Ok!!

Simple as that "

If you can point out where we have done that please do. Last we checked we are free to choose who we play with. It's a choice like everything else. Not our fault you have such a problem with it.

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

Read the profile, enter the secret codeword on the message header and compile a disappointing message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One "rule" as such, our relationship comes first so honesty at all times and either of us has the right to veto a third party

Otherwise we do as we do in "normal" life - avoid the shit-stirrers, shoulder chippers, blowhards, people who are constantly looking for an argument, liars, drama queens and gossips. That's second nature at this stage of our lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One "rule" as such, our relationship comes first so honesty at all times and either of us has the right to veto a third party

Otherwise we do as we do in "normal" life - avoid the shit-stirrers, shoulder chippers, blowhards, people who are constantly looking for an argument, liars, drama queens and gossips. That's second nature at this stage of our lives."

Christ this place must be a minefield for ye at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One "rule" as such, our relationship comes first so honesty at all times and either of us has the right to veto a third party

Otherwise we do as we do in "normal" life - avoid the shit-stirrers, shoulder chippers, blowhards, people who are constantly looking for an argument, liars, drama queens and gossips. That's second nature at this stage of our lives.

Christ this place must be a minefield for ye at times "

On the contrary, it saves us a lot of wasted time and effort and all that angst some people seem to constantly suffer from

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Check veris. Who they associate with regularly can tell you all you want to know

That’s my number 1 rule.

Also, use fab how you want to use it, not how the holier than thou and self proclaimed “real swingers” think you should.

YES!!! I said that to a friend ages ago and shocked myself with my wisdom. Just cos the relationship you end up with isn’t the reason you joined, doesn’t mean it’s not fucking amazing. Sure Jaysis, look at me!! "

I do look at you Red

Often, probably to often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself without compromise

Prioritise our relationship

Never take one for the team

If either of us is uncomfortable then it doesn't happen

Communicate

Don't suffer fools

Stop when it stops being fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One "rule" as such, our relationship comes first so honesty at all times and either of us has the right to veto a third party

Otherwise we do as we do in "normal" life - avoid the shit-stirrers, shoulder chippers, blowhards, people who are constantly looking for an argument, liars, drama queens and gossips. That's second nature at this stage of our lives.

Christ this place must be a minefield for ye at times

On the contrary, it saves us a lot of wasted time and effort and all that angst some people seem to constantly suffer from "

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I just do fab my way I don't have rules as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite. It costs nothing but can make all the difference

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

To put our relationship first and foremost ,enjoy the lifestyle for what it is and avoid all that drama shit !

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