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By *oulerner OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin City

Which of the many options are you using?

Are you looking at the "Near Me" list on the phone? Using the recent updates section? Actively using the search? Going to the forums and looking there for interesting people? Check out recent pictures and/or videos for people who look hot? Use the meets section? Or just go to social events to meet others there? Something else I haven't included?

There seem to be many avenues to take here, so I think it would be interesting to find out how everyone does things.

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

East Cork

Mixture of everything mentioned

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Those I’ve met have been due to forum interaction or at socials

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I let them find me.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I have found the most effective way to engage is to post on the forum, not just Ireland, but on any forum that piques your curiosity. I rarely contact people, as it hasn't worked for me on this site. Your profile is honest and interesting, and i think, once you establish yourself as an interesting, safe, sane, intelligent man,through your forum contributions you will attract attention . Its probably best to ask women here what kind of pics they find attractive. Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly meet at parties and socials now or I reach out to the profiles I'm interested in.

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By *axlecool03Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes.. social interaction and forums are the best

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I send them pictures of me mickey.

Just you watch, I will get a positive reply one of these days!

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Which of the many options are you using?

Are you looking at the "Near Me" list on the phone? Using the recent updates section? Actively using the search? Going to the forums and looking there for interesting people? Check out recent pictures and/or videos for people who look hot? Use the meets section? Or just go to social events to meet others there? Something else I haven't included?

There seem to be many avenues to take here, so I think it would be interesting to find out how everyone does things. "

*All of the above except...

We use status update section to find the red flaggy people and block them before any contact.

*Checking out recent photos/videos - someone's erect penis or another photo of an ass doesn't make us want to meet them. We're into personalities.

*And never ever use meets section - those are usually full of types of meets we're not interested in.

Missus

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"I mainly meet at parties and socials now or I reach out to the profiles I'm interested in. "

I'm the Same as this now

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I usually message someone ive interacted with on the forum page or maybe they said something that caught my attention,other than that it's through social night's

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

All of the aforementioned.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

I sit like a trap door spider, quietly, patiently waiting for my moment to strike and reel in some unsuspecting young one.

Did I say that out loud??

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"I sit like a trap door spider, quietly, patiently waiting for my moment to strike and reel in some unsuspecting young one.

Did I say that out loud?? "
Same only older lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sheer luck at this stage

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

I’m just relying on fate at this stage

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By *oodieMan
over a year ago

Mayo

Not a clue at this stage

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Usually a bit of all mentioned

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Socials,meet and greets including ones I helped organise as things were slowly getting back together.

The forums....do you know how many puzzles and quizzes I had to start because it gave me a chance to chat to someone that I fancied

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By *ligolad321Man
over a year ago

Donegal

I find the old fashioned way the best, hang around outside there house and follow them around.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Initially a bit of everything for me

"Near Me" list on the phone

updates section

Actively using the search

Going to the forums and looking there for interesting people?

Checking out recent pictures and/or videos .

Use the meets section

Once a bit more established actually organise as well as going to social events

After that you ll find you ll get as many if not more messages than you send and kik is a great source of interactions as well but it works much better if people have seen you on forums or socials

If there is a female friend you see regularly meeting as a couple and setting up a couples’ profile (making it clear that you’re fwbs) works wonders

It depends how much time you have , how immersed you want to be and how ‘busy’ you want to be

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By *exysamXXXWoman
over a year ago

The Land of Make Believe

Socials and parties are the way I go these days. So many let downs over the years by arranging straight from a profile

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Socials and parties are the way I go these days. So many let downs over the years by arranging straight from a profile"

Bastards ruining it for the rest of us….

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By *etaversionCouple
over a year ago

BELFAST


"Socials and parties are the way I go these days. So many let downs over the years by arranging straight from a profile

Bastards ruining it for the rest of us…. "

Agreed!!

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Socials and parties are the way I go these days. So many let downs over the years by arranging straight from a profile

Bastards ruining it for the rest of us….

Agreed!!"

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