FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for a aingle woman playing with a couple

By *lassy lady 216 OP Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Hi all after a very sucessful meet with a couple and a good friend i have decided that i would like to explore this avenue more unfortunetly my friend isnt always available so will probably have to go solo just wondering has abyone any advice dos and donts etc am nervous but excited lol

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Try and engage with both people equally and don't get hung up and anything

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Prepare for the bombardment of messages

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By *I TwoCouple
over a year ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24

"Hi all after a very sucessful meet with a couple and a good friend i have decided that i would like to explore this avenue more unfortunetly my friend isnt always available so will probably have to go solo just wondering has abyone any advice dos and donts etc am nervous but excited lol"

Lie back and let them spoil you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only played solo with a couple once so my experience is limited but I guess as the F half of a couple myself I can speak from that perspective too.

Every couple will have a different dynamic so be aware of what it is with each individual couple.

Talk beforehand so you all know what is OK and what's not before, during and after playing.

Read the room. Always. Is everyone happy and having fun? If you think anyone is feeling like a spare part, communicate.

Don't ignore or leave anyone out, and be aware that one half of the couple may be so enthusiastic about the new third person they might forget about their own partner. As above, read the room.

Ensure you're also getting what you want from the experience. Your desires aren't secondary to theirs. It's equally important that you all enjoy it.

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By *asterandhissparklesCouple
over a year ago

tipperary

"I've only played solo with a couple once so my experience is limited but I guess as the F half of a couple myself I can speak from that perspective too.

Every couple will have a different dynamic so be aware of what it is with each individual couple.

Talk beforehand so you all know what is OK and what's not before, during and after playing.

Read the room. Always. Is everyone happy and having fun? If you think anyone is feeling like a spare part, communicate.

Don't ignore or leave anyone out, and be aware that one half of the couple may be so enthusiastic about the new third person they might forget about their own partner. As above, read the room.

Ensure you're also getting what you want from the experience. Your desires aren't secondary to theirs. It's equally important that you all enjoy it.

This... Absolutely

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By *lassy lady 216 OP Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Thanks for all the advice guys wi definetly take it all on board

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Try to find out their own preferences beforehand and then size up the situation as best you can on arrival

As you have quite a lot of experience they may be depending on you to take the lead, at least in the early stages.

Be flexible; adjust as best you can to the vibe.

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