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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

Hey everyone,

Fun little question for the group, but first a little background story:

Mr Wolf enjoys having me (my heat) as dessert pretty much every night. Yesterday He very sincerely asked me if I was getting bored of it because he doesn't want it to become too much of a routine if I am not going to enjoy myself. My response was to fall into an immediate giggle fit that lasted a good 10-15 minutes before I asked if He had lost His mind. (Keep in mind I am a complete brat.) I believe I compared it to a child at an amusement park asking their parents to go home because they were bored of having too much fun...

So, am I an a$$hole for laughing at the question or is there someone out there who would get bored of cumming almost every night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are because there was communication with you to ensure you were happy. Lots of people would be more selfish.

You could communicate your desires, more often, in your bratty way so that your partner knows that you are not getting bored so you can both giggle

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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

That is 100% true, which is also what made it funny to me because we check in quite regularly, so questioning that I was enjoying myself and not just "suffering through" for his sake just did not compute at the time.

Thank you for your perspective, next time I'll be nicer about it.

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

What does AITA mean?

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By *ford dudeMan
over a year ago

County


"What does AITA mean? "

Am I the asshole

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"What does AITA mean? "

Am I the a$$hole...had to Google it too

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Hey everyone,

Fun little question for the group, but first a little background story:

Mr Wolf enjoys having me (my heat) as dessert pretty much every night. Yesterday He very sincerely asked me if I was getting bored of it because he doesn't want it to become too much of a routine if I am not going to enjoy myself. My response was to fall into an immediate giggle fit that lasted a good 10-15 minutes before I asked if He had lost His mind. (Keep in mind I am a complete brat.) I believe I compared it to a child at an amusement park asking their parents to go home because they were bored of having too much fun...

So, am I an a$$hole for laughing at the question or is there someone out there who would get bored of cumming almost every night? "

I'm a little confused at what it is you're actually asking.

Was he upset with the fit of giggles his question evoked in you? To me it sounds like both your sex drives and the regular fun you have, is aligned.

Having a laugh and a giggle along the way is what it's about.

Talk to him about how he feels about your response and sort it by talking to him...my tuppence worth, for what it's worth

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

Aaaaah fair enough. Every days a school day

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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork


"Hey everyone,

Fun little question for the group, but first a little background story:

Mr Wolf enjoys having me (my heat) as dessert pretty much every night. Yesterday He very sincerely asked me if I was getting bored of it because he doesn't want it to become too much of a routine if I am not going to enjoy myself. My response was to fall into an immediate giggle fit that lasted a good 10-15 minutes before I asked if He had lost His mind. (Keep in mind I am a complete brat.) I believe I compared it to a child at an amusement park asking their parents to go home because they were bored of having too much fun...

So, am I an a$$hole for laughing at the question or is there someone out there who would get bored of cumming almost every night? "

Mr wolf here. Basically, the type of person I am, I have routines. One of which is I enjoy giving oral before sleep. Then pull in to tight spoon position and drift off. My worry was that it could loose its appeal or boring. My reaction was not a good one when hers was to fall in to a laughing fit.

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By *ary 200Man
over a year ago

ennis

Yeah if you do the the same routine every night it could get repetive and stale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah if you do the the same routine every night it could get repetive and stale "

Agreed, part of the appeal of other people is the novelty of not knowing exactly what they are going to do. It's very easy for things to get stale in a LTR if there isn't communication and both parties don't put in some effort.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"Yeah if you do the the same routine every night it could get repetive and stale

Agreed, part of the appeal of other people is the novelty of not knowing exactly what they are going to do. It's very easy for things to get stale in a LTR if there isn't communication and both parties don't put in some effort. "

Having sex every night or even multiple times a week is going to get stale in any LTR. Quantity is certainly not a good indicator of a good sex life. A little bit of abstinence can be a good thing...but not too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah if you do the the same routine every night it could get repetive and stale

Agreed, part of the appeal of other people is the novelty of not knowing exactly what they are going to do. It's very easy for things to get stale in a LTR if there isn't communication and both parties don't put in some effort.

Having sex every night or even multiple times a week is going to get stale in any LTR. Quantity is certainly not a good indicator of a good sex life. A little bit of abstinence can be a good thing...but not too much "

Life tends to throw the abstinence at times whether we like it or not!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Yeah if you do the the same routine every night it could get repetive and stale

Agreed, part of the appeal of other people is the novelty of not knowing exactly what they are going to do. It's very easy for things to get stale in a LTR if there isn't communication and both parties don't put in some effort.

Having sex every night or even multiple times a week is going to get stale in any LTR. Quantity is certainly not a good indicator of a good sex life. A little bit of abstinence can be a good thing...but not too much

Life tends to throw the abstinence at times whether we like it or not! "

Aaah but absence (aka abstinence) makes the heart grow fonder (and the sex better). Very frequent sex is over-rated in my opinion. Mrs

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