FabSwingers.com forum: "Who's looked @ me today"

By *exesranger OP Man
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

So I've got a question, if I may?

(I'll take your silence as permission to continue)

So as you all know there's the "looked @ me" counter...shall we call it on the home page. Its nice to come in and be greeted with something. So on we go scrolling down to updates to have a little nosy only to find out that you've been lied to and in actually fact.. nobody has looked at you today.

Now I know the option is there to turn off this so that it doesn't show up but surely everyone can't have it turned off.

I do understand that this for the ladies/ couples ect as it will likely only invite unwanted interest. But id be interested to hear the guys input on it too.

So do you hide it are you happy enough to show yourself?... or is fab just lying to us haha

Answers on a postcard please and don't forget to add your eircode as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to show most things to be honest!

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

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I have mine turned off. I like to perve in peace

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

No it’s hidden.

I sometimes need to look at a profile to read my notes and if they’ve seen I’ve looked I get bombarded with messages “are you interested in meeting again?”

Easier to leave it off.

If I’m interested in someone I’ll message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women are in ninja mode we are very sneaky creatures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it’s hidden.

I sometimes need to look at a profile to read my notes and if they’ve seen I’ve looked I get bombarded with messages “are you interested in meeting again?”

Easier to leave it off.

If I’m interested in someone I’ll message them. "

Interested then are you?

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Most women are in ninja mode we are very sneaky creatures!"

Ninja mode!!! So true!!!

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I use stealth mode. If I need to get someone’s attention I’d message.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have it turned off because I used to get messages from people wanting to know why I looked and didn't say hello and on a few occasions told to feck off as we had nothing in common so why was I looking at them?

I have men blocked so they don't show on the looked at me list and 99% of those that do look don't fab or wink or get in touch so it's not really something I worry too much about.

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By *irishladMan
over a year ago

Malahide

I think possibly what the OP is asking why the site is telling him that a number of people looked at him but he can't see who?

Seeing who looked at you is a site supporter feature, so the site saying that someone has and you can't see who is them trying to get you to upgrade to paid membership

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

We usually have it in stealth mode especially seeing as there's 2 of us looking at profiles - I think it creeps some people out when we look at a profile a few times (when we're back and forth discussing well what do ye make of this lot, worth a wink, a message even

)...but occasionally we, or should I say - I? may want to get noticed to put the feelers out, if you get my drift

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I think possibly what the OP is asking why the site is telling him that a number of people looked at him but he can't see who?

Seeing who looked at you is a site supporter feature, so the site saying that someone has and you can't see who is them trying to get you to upgrade to paid membership "

True, it is a site supporter feature.

But in your updates, it also tells you who has looked at your profile as an update.

I just checked mine, and OP is correct - the numbers don't add up...as in I don't see all the profiles who've looked at me in the update but as a site supporter can see who's looked at me and when...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're hidden due to the fact some guys think looking at their profile is reason enough to send pictures of their dicks to us.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I love ninja mode I'm quite the perv

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By *exesranger OP Man
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

"I think possibly what the OP is asking why the site is telling him that a number of people looked at him but he can't see who?

Seeing who looked at you is a site supporter feature, so the site saying that someone has and you can't see who is them trying to get you to upgrade to paid membership

True, it is a site supporter feature.

But in your updates, it also tells you who has looked at your profile as an update.

I just checked mine, and OP is correct - the numbers don't add up...as in I don't see all the profiles who've looked at me in the update but as a site supporter can see who's looked at me and when..."

I get the site supporter part but if most ppl have it turned off for whatever reason, im guessing being a supporter or not fab doesn't take away someone's privacy .

Just a a side note for ppl who have a certain area on their profile such as idk....from "down the back alley" or "MYOB" or done made up pave name that can show up even if you've hidden yourself.

You can thank me later

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I have mine set to snoop mode, I look at lots of potential party guests and don't want to be seen doing it as then I'll get messaged.

In fairness though I do love looking at the 'who liked at me' section. So far my count is at 794, I take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always in ninja mode, but the who's looked at me numbers can be a bit strange, over the weekend I had 15 views for the day

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

We have ours turned off.

Much for the reasons mentioned above and to avoid the ‘like what you see’ style messages we used to get when we didn’t hide it.

Rhett and Scarlett x

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

I don't know how to put it in 'ninja' mode so yes I've looked and enjoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know how to put it in 'ninja' mode so yes I've looked and enjoyed"

It's in the privacy settings you can choose to be hidden

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By *exesranger OP Man
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

"We have ours turned off.

Much for the reasons mentioned above and to avoid the ‘like what you see’ style messages we used to get when we didn’t hide it.

Rhett and Scarlett x"

Pmsl like what you see

That's priceless

This is great I'm getting done great tips here today haha get ready ladies

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"I don't know how to put it in 'ninja' mode so yes I've looked and enjoyed

It's in the privacy settings you can choose to be hidden "

Thank you I didn't know that, will have a look

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Anyone whose list I'm appearing on

Yes I was having a gawk... I make no apologies.

You big ride

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By *omebirdWoman
over a year ago

"Anyone whose list I'm appearing on

Yes I was having a gawk... I make no apologies.

You big ride

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Anyone whose list I'm appearing on

Yes I was having a gawk... I make no apologies.

You big ride

*ahem*

Howya...

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Because I’m a perv….

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

"Anyone whose list I'm appearing on

Yes I was having a gawk... I make no apologies.

You big ride

I hope it was a good gawk

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Anyone whose list I'm appearing on

Yes I was having a gawk... I make no apologies.

You big ride

I hope it was a good gawk

You can consider yourself well and truly gawked at an' all

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

"Anyone whose list I'm appearing on

Yes I was having a gawk... I make no apologies.

You big ride

I hope it was a good gawk

You can consider yourself well and truly gawked at an' all

Ha ha i might have a gawk back

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

im also in ninja mode for all tne reasons the above posters have said x

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

I don't do stealth.

Brazen perv here

Not a pic collector though. No point. There's just too much to ogle as it is

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"We have ours turned off.

Much for the reasons mentioned above and to avoid the ‘like what you see’ style messages we used to get when we didn’t hide it.

Rhett and Scarlett x

Pmsl like what you see

That's priceless

This is great I'm getting done great tips here today haha get ready ladies

Only flaw in that approach was that our response was generally something alone the lines of ‘if we viewed and didn’t wink or message then we didn’t feel it was a good match. Happy fabbing!’

So, I’d say that it is an approach with a low success rate. Still, it’s fab so you never know your luck

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"So I've got a question, if I may?

(I'll take your silence as permission to continue)

Now I know the option is there to turn off this so that it doesn't show up but surely everyone can't have it turned off.

I do understand that this for the ladies/ couples ect as it will likely only invite unwanted interest. But id be interested to hear the guys input on it too.

So do you hide it are you happy enough to show yourself?... or is fab just lying to us haha

Answers on a postcard please and don't forget to add your eircode as well

Yes

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By *exesranger OP Man
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

"We have ours turned off.

Much for the reasons mentioned above and to avoid the ‘like what you see’ style messages we used to get when we didn’t hide it.

Rhett and Scarlett x

Pmsl like what you see

That's priceless

This is great I'm getting done great tips here today haha get ready ladies

Only flaw in that approach was that our response was generally something alone the lines of ‘if we viewed and didn’t wink or message then we didn’t feel it was a good match. Happy fabbing!’

So, I’d say that it is an approach with a low success rate. Still, it’s fab so you never know your luck"

Ah here... you can't be moving the goalposts on me now. That's like giving something and then taking it back.

It was only an attempt at humour though so rest assured

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

We have ours off too. If interested we wink or message

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"We have ours turned off.

Much for the reasons mentioned above and to avoid the ‘like what you see’ style messages we used to get when we didn’t hide it.

Rhett and Scarlett x

Pmsl like what you see

That's priceless

This is great I'm getting done great tips here today haha get ready ladies

Only flaw in that approach was that our response was generally something alone the lines of ‘if we viewed and didn’t wink or message then we didn’t feel it was a good match. Happy fabbing!’

So, I’d say that it is an approach with a low success rate. Still, it’s fab so you never know your luck

Ah here... you can't be moving the goalposts on me now. That's like giving something and then taking it back.

It was only an attempt at humour though so rest assured

Don’t try to backpedal now, dude. You’ve already been added to the LIST.

Just kidding, knew you were goofing

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By *exesranger OP Man
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

Awww shucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have ours turned on. We think it's nice to know you've been checked out.

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin

I had no clue you could turn that off

Guess that's my answer covered

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

I assume almost everyone is in ninja mode as it's very rare I get anyone viewing my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definetly explains the low views, There must be 100s viewing me in ninja mode right? Right?

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Ninja mode here too… if we are interested we message though I do go and see the who’s looked at me from time to time… interesting

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By *egsyWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Ninja dragon mode here!

I think most women are in ninja mode tbh.

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

"Ninja dragon mode here!

I think most women are in ninja mode tbh.

Absolutely

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By *uccubus1Woman
over a year ago

unknown

I keep my own I don't really give a fuck if people see me creeping

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