FabSwingers.com forum: Would you? Do you?

By *ligolad321 OP Man
over a year ago

Donegal

Would you 'date' someone 10 years older or younger than you?

Why yes, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this stage of my life, 10 years younger or older is just equally middle-aged.

15 years or more, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married to a man 13 years older age is only a number

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

In my 40s or 50s yes. In my 30s or under no.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Morning, not 10 yrs older as be too old maybe tho always an exception to d rule, 10 yrs younger yes R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been very comfortable around ladies a little older. And lately I've found that I'm very comfortable with ladies a little younger. It's the ones around my own age I struggle with

As long as the company's good, you get on and have similar life goals / plans then for me age is totally just a number. But obviously being a big age difference you gotta be sure ye both know what each other want in the long run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten years older, definitely. Ten years younger, not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older yes….younger, I probably would’nt have the patience

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I wouldn't date anyone at all at this point in my life. I'd happily shag someone ten years older though.

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

I'm currently dating someone 8 years younger and I don't see any problems with it , I think we are same level of maturity so I would say Yes although obviously it will depend on the person themselves . Age shouldn't put you off , it's only a number . If their on the same page as you then go for it

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By *teppenwolfMan
over a year ago

Cork

Dont see an issue if attraction is there tbh

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Would you 'date' someone 10 years older or younger than you?

Why yes, why not?"

Depends on the person surely, and not the age so much.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

At my age they tend to be younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be concerned about any 35 year old who felt we had lots in common

Surely though, OP, it depends on whether you're dating for fun or looking for long term

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I wouldn't date anyone at all at this point in my life. I'd happily shag someone ten years older though.

This, may I add I'd also happily shag someone ten years younger.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I wouldn't date anyone at all at this point in my life. I'd happily shag someone ten years older though.

This, may I add I'd also happily shag someone ten years younger.

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By *olves at bayCouple
over a year ago

cork

Yup..and do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't date anyone at all at this point in my life. I'd happily shag someone ten years older though.

This, may I add I'd also happily shag someone ten years younger.

Same, or even 20 at times

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

There's 11 and a bit years between us so yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to both, it’s not about the age it’s about the person for me

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By *ai18Man
over a year ago

Templemore

Yeaj i would have no problem age is only a number and its all about the connection.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Dating then yes,10yrs older or 20yrs younger, all depends on their personality, attitude and outlook.

Just sex, then 15yrs older and 25-30yrs younger, yet again depending on same factors above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger? No...for obvious reasons lol!!

But older absolutely, I had a thing with a girl who was 15 years older than myself. Still a great friendship to this day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be concerned about any 35 year old who felt we had lots in common

Surely though, OP, it depends on whether you're dating for fun or looking for long term "

Eh I'm 37

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt think I would but here I am - 15 yr age gap with a younger man.

I could get hung up on the taboo of it but thats a really stupid reason not to follow the feels.

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Once upon a time I never looked at younger men not even by one year… but I was young and silly

Then I met my hubby… 5 years younger.

On Fab I have had great connections with people up to 15 years younger.

So it all depends on the person’s personality and the connection. I usually prefer men around my age or a little older but never say never

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't date anyone at all at this point in my life. I'd happily shag someone ten years older though.

This, may I add I'd also happily shag someone ten years younger.

Same, or even 20 at times

Lee tends to prefer around his own age or a few years younger

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

It's all in the attitude, skill and self-respect. That said, I just don't find 20-year-olds attractive. If I have baggage, I need to sense baggage in order to connect.

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

"Would you 'date' someone 10 years older or younger than you?

Why yes, why not?"

Yes and I have, both.

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

"Would you 'date' someone 10 years older or younger than you?

Why yes, why not?"

Yes and I have, both.

It worked at the time.

Age is just a number (well as long as its a legal number)

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

With our children in their 20s we wont go under 35. Thats around the 10 yrs younger. Tho we have spoke to some really lovely 30 to 34 yr olds. We consider 10 yrs older so up to 55/56 but our parents are in their 60s so wouldnt go older.

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

And thats just our personal opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my ‘maturity’ 10 years younger would be the norm

Doubt if many 10 years older ladies are here but absolutely would, life experience and very interesting

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By *somfuntimeCouple
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

We are at the perfect age for plus or minus 10 years??

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By *icevicebabyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin North

Older yes, younger probably not. I just don't find I have enough in common with 20s guys to have anything substantial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the " click " some people just push the right buttons and there's nothing you can do about it . Age don't matter if both Click.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I wouldn't date anyone at all at this point in my life. I'd happily shag someone ten years older though.

This, may I add I'd also happily shag someone ten years younger.

Same, or even 20 at times

Its an age thing

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Am certainly not looking too date anyone of any age but if need to pick any of those two options would go 10 years older ...younger most definitely not!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Am certainly not looking too date anyone of any age but if need to pick any of those two options would go 10 years older ...younger most definitely not!

Just the ten

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Chronological age is not a principal consideration in my decision on who I would meet, or be intimate with, should we agree to take that route!

Personality, 'attitude to life' and the chemistry between us are my criteria

I have been with several attractive women near my own age whom I could not wait to be rid of, and others who exuded vitality enthusiasm and schutzpah!

Age indicates the length of time a person has been on their own journey; their attitude to the vicissitudes of life usually determines the success they will enjoy enroute, to the inevitable fate we will all face.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"Am certainly not looking too date anyone of any age but if need to pick any of those two options would go 10 years older ...younger most definitely not!

Just the ten

Yeah that was the options the OP give lol but am certainly not looking to date haha ??

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Younger yes ,older no .

I've a preference for younger males

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Regrettably, there is ageism in society; success thus depends on marketing one's personal brand more intensively!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

Age is only a number. All about maturity levels for me

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

It depends on the person. I spoken with lads younger and they came across as mature, confident and able to hold a conversation amd then ones from older who act like theyre teenage boys trying to convince a girl to let them cop a feel of her boob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chronological age is not a principal consideration in my decision on who I would meet, or be intimate with, should we agree to take that route!

Personality, 'attitude to life' and the chemistry between us are my criteria

I have been with several attractive women near my own age whom I could not wait to be rid of, and others who exuded vitality enthusiasm and schutzpah!

Aaahhh....ya didn't have to go and remind me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the person "
exactly this

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

im a bit scared of the young lads to be honest! although a young man on this thread did quiet well with me

however for dating I don't think I could as I've a older daughter...

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