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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs "It's normally when he isn't at the same level as they expect the people in the other couple to be at. Never been pleasantly surprised yet when we were shown pics of the shy male half Miss_tattoo | |||
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"I kinda assume it's when he is considerably fatter/uglier than she is "I would assume the reason you don't see the pics of male halfs so often is due to reactions like that. Women dont tend to hold back on body shaming men. | |||
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"I kinda assume it's when he is considerably fatter/uglier than she is
I would assume the reason you don't see the pics of male halfs so often is due to reactions like that. Women dont tend to hold back on body shaming men." | |||
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"Most couples profiles we would assume would be more female pics than male as the female part is the more of a draw to get people to look at profile. Ours is quite fairly spread 10 of female 4 of male 6 both of us " You have a good range of great pics
We have far more pics of me than of himself simply because I enjoy it more, but I always get pics of us as a couple in there as well for the female of other couples to see.
I also think it's important to see pics of the couple together to show unity as a couple. But it wouldn't be a deal breaker for us.
Zero pics of the male is though, which is why I'm trying to understand it | |||
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"Most couples profiles we would assume would be more female pics than male as the female part is the more of a draw to get people to look at profile. Ours is quite fairly spread 10 of female 4 of male 6 both of us " Similar 11 of BB 5 of me 2 of us It's a nice spread and too be honest can't have enough hot boobs and ass pics on yer profile | |||
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"It's not really a conscious decision on our part, I (Casey) simply like taking pics of myself and putting them up and have a lot of lingerie, plus our "target market" is single males as well as couples. There are pics of Lee both in public and our friends only folder. " Yep, the ratio of the pics is largely irrelevant. It's when a couple's gallery is that of a female and he wants to be part of the action (as opposed to being a Cuck or Stag) that I question it | |||
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"I kinda assume it's when he is considerably fatter/uglier than she is
I would assume the reason you don't see the pics of male halfs so often is due to reactions like that. Women dont tend to hold back on body shaming men."Damn. As the male half of this couple im now fat, ugly, AND a body shamer. I'm really not sure that either sex have a monopoly on body shaming... and I'm not sure that using "fat" as a descriptor IS body shaming, particularly when I'm including myself in the category. | |||
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"Most couples profiles we would assume would be more female pics than male as the female part is the more of a draw to get people to look at profile. Ours is quite fairly spread 10 of female 4 of male 6 both of us Similar 11 of BB 5 of me 2 of us It's a nice spread and too be honest can't have enough hot boobs and ass pics on yer profile "A nice spread  | |||
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"It's not really a conscious decision on our part, I (Casey) simply like taking pics of myself and putting them up and have a lot of lingerie, plus our "target market" is single males as well as couples. There are pics of Lee both in public and our friends only folder. Yep, the ratio of the pics is largely irrelevant. It's when a couple's gallery is that of a female and he wants to be part of the action (as opposed to being a Cuck or Stag) that I question it "I don't bother questioning it anymore, having done so in the past with guys who said they would do something about it but didn't. I just make it clear in our profile that we won't be engaging. Up to others what they do with their profiles, I'm concentrating on this with the cop-on to make the effort in the first place | |||
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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs "I've raised this issue many times over the years...I'm all about equal opportunities
From experience as a single girl and as part of a couple if there aren't pics of the male part of the couple I've no interest.
I think it gas when I see posts from couples complaining that they cannot find a 'unicorn' when all they have are pics of the female half. Why hide pics of your partner? People want to see both parts of the couple.
Last time I posted this topic there were a few more male pics posted....OP I hope your post results in lots of new male pics 
Come on guys don't be shy 
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"tbh..i dont know where i land on this. but...something you may have not considered. this being a site where male to female ratio that's way off balance. now...imagine walking through a field. it's not the grass that's everywhere that you look at...its the flowers or the the tall tufts of grass that stand out. so..it's the ladies that have become the main selling point of profiles. there is a far far different reaction to the fuller figured ladies than to the fuller figured gents. that no one on site can disagree with. one will deffo get meets regardless..the other if he is lucky or stands out enough in other ways ." But would you buy a car without seeing that car. I would not blind meet either. Not hard to have a pic or 2 on the site. Fully clothet is perfectly fine as well | |||
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"This is a massive pet peeve for the Mrs aswell. Kinda puts her off people, what's the big mystery for? Is it a red flag? Not entirely, but it raises doubt when there shouldn't be any!" Exactly it definitely raises a red flag/casts some doubt. We would never meet a couple unless we have seen both parts of the couple and there's a mutual attraction. Obviously personalities are super important but pics are required for the initial attraction. B xx | |||
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"tbh..i dont know where i land on this. but...something you may have not considered. this being a site where male to female ratio that's way off balance. now...imagine walking through a field. it's not the grass that's everywhere that you look at...its the flowers or the the tall tufts of grass that stand out. so..it's the ladies that have become the main selling point of profiles. there is a far far different reaction to the fuller figured ladies than to the fuller figured gents. that no one on site can disagree with. one will deffo get meets regardless..the other if he is lucky or stands out enough in other ways . But would you buy a car without seeing that car. I would not blind meet either. Not hard to have a pic or 2 on the site. Fully clothet is perfectly fine as well " oh i understand completely. but the vibe of fab..especially for single males. is that males are noting special to look at unless they are hitting the gym a few times a week. it's bound to spill over to couple profiles. it's an environment born from the M/F ratio. | |||
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"tbh..i dont know where i land on this. but...something you may have not considered. this being a site where male to female ratio that's way off balance. now...imagine walking through a field. it's not the grass that's everywhere that you look at...its the flowers or the the tall tufts of grass that stand out. so..it's the ladies that have become the main selling point of profiles. there is a far far different reaction to the fuller figured ladies than to the fuller figured gents. that no one on site can disagree with. one will deffo get meets regardless..the other if he is lucky or stands out enough in other ways ." Your selling point may be whatever it is - but you also have to consider your target market, no? If you, as an MF couple, want to entice single women and MF couples where both partners play, they all want to have an idea of both male and female counterparts they are engaging in conversation with online before making a decision on whether there's compatibility... And regardless of whether I'm a single woman or the female counterpart of an MF couple - I want to see body shots of both M and F of a couple! I'd be surprised if there are few exceptions. | |||
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"tbh..i dont know where i land on this. but...something you may have not considered. this being a site where male to female ratio that's way off balance. now...imagine walking through a field. it's not the grass that's everywhere that you look at...its the flowers or the the tall tufts of grass that stand out. so..it's the ladies that have become the main selling point of profiles. there is a far far different reaction to the fuller figured ladies than to the fuller figured gents. that no one on site can disagree with. one will deffo get meets regardless..the other if he is lucky or stands out enough in other ways . Your selling point may be whatever it is - but you also have to consider your target market, no? If you, as an MF couple, want to entice single women and MF couples where both partners play, they all want to have an idea of both male and female counterparts they are engaging in conversation with online before making a decision on whether there's compatibility... And regardless of whether I'm a single woman or the female counterpart of an MF couple - I want to see body shots of both M and F of a couple! I'd be surprised if there are few exceptions." i'm not disagreeing with anything here. when Mr wolf is ready to put his up. they will. but the environment that has formed on fab gives males second thoughts on such pics. we here talk as individuals. but all the negative talk and mocking of men on here over the years (deserved and not)..single or otherwise has created that effect. they put themselves out even less. and the idiots think it's their cock size that is the only thing that will make them stand out. imagine coming in to a post. then as you read down. you come across an argument. first thing that's usually hit on is the guys looks and profile pics. happens way to often. that has an effect. then..lets not forget the status updates berating over weight guys that come along from time to time. | |||
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"But women get body shamed all the time. If I ever said no the fat ugly cunt was mentioned a few times. So I don't see it as a valid reason if both are meeting for the male half to not have pics up. " We swap if interested | |||
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"But women get body shamed all the time. If I ever said no the fat ugly cunt was mentioned a few times. So I don't see it as a valid reason if both are meeting for the male half to not have pics up. We swap if interested " we talking in PM or forums? in PM. thats a smooth brained fool who can't accept rejection i'm sure. but..if in forum....how many jumped to her defense?...and not grouped up on and mocked in a group effort? | |||
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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs "Doris is the worst photographer on planet earth ! and that's no joke | |||
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"To make my point in a less flippant way. I strongly believe this is because the male half of the couple considers himself to be less visually appealing than the female half... and that is mainly a question of weight/fitness (rightly or wrongly), and how physically attractive he perceives himself to be. If he were more confident in himself then he would put up more pics. That's not bodyshaming. That's how some men (incl myself) think. " ^^^^^there is also this. | |||
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" But would you buy a car without seeing that car. I would not blind meet either. Not hard to have a pic or 2 on the site. Fully clothet is perfectly fine as well oh i understand completely. but the vibe of fab..especially for single males. is that males are noting special to look at unless they are hitting the gym a few times a week. it's bound to spill over to couple profiles. it's an environment born from the M/F ratio." I've seen plenty of profiles on here with really good pics of men who were not gym bunny's. A bit of effort, the right lighting, a favourable pose and away you go! Not everybody is for you, thats life, but many will be when you make an effort! | |||
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"It is interesting to see the comments from a man's perspective - be that do do with bodyshaming or otherwise. But the bottom line - if your target market as an MF couple is single women and other MF couples - you are immediately reducing your chances with being approached by another couple or, God forbid, the occasional single woman, particularly if you're not one to send a first message or attend socials for networking. You are also reducing your chances of another profile engaging with you in chat if you don't have pics displayed of the male half of the couple. Even couples sending pics of the male half, where there are no pics on the profile - there's psychologically speaking an undercurrent which has negative implications - for me personally anyway. Simply because it does beg the question - what's to hide? Probably the nature of the site and the messing about by too many people... And, even though couples may be as popular or rare to have fun with, considering the ratio of male to female or male to couples, couples have a tough enough time finding compatible others because there are 2 in it where chemistry is important." I was just about to say the same thing. Surely having at least one photo of the male half public will increase the chances of other people having interest in said couple, than having none at all? The way I see couples profiles, who are looking to meet other couples or single women with no photos of a male half displayed - those profiles are the equivalent of a single man's profile with no photos at all and we all know how popular and welcome they are in everyone's inboxes. Nobody will ever be everyone's cup of tea and it has nothing to do with body shaming. It's just nature. Bottom line is - there's a bigger chance of someone finding you attractive when they can see you. Than someone finding you attractive just because your other half finds you attractive. Missus | |||
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"I think part of it is that I think ladies prefer /enjoy taking more pictures of them selves and they have so many sexy options with lingerie etc...blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. I had terrible pics ...and after looking at some good profiles attempted to improve them ....tho Sarah definitely has the hotter pics " Totally agree..we are very limited as men In what photo we can take...what we wear....and show in photos .... | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. " Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
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"I think part of it is that I think ladies prefer /enjoy taking more pictures of them selves and they have so many sexy options with lingerie etc...blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. I had terrible pics ...and after looking at some good profiles attempted to improve them ....tho Sarah definitely has the hotter pics Totally agree..we are very limited as men In what photo we can take...what we wear....and show in photos .... " Mr Coco you have lots of pics of you on your profile and they show a very good representation of you
We are talking about the many couple profiles that don't have any males pics. Even just one pic gives the person looking some kind of idea of what the male half looks like. There doesn't have to be a million pics just one!
By having no male pics on the profile you are cutting your target market down significantly 
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it "You're probably right, I don't believe you need to apologise, just ignore the less imaginative / lazy / entitled, and just hang out / communicate with the couples who do make the effort. Lee | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it "Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation. I also found some profiles do get offended if we say no cause the male half is hidden | |||
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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs "Couldnt agree with you more 2ofus x it's a headwreck. If the couple have no pics of the male, but everything else on their profile looks good, we will ask for pics of male. Unfortunately mostly we get a dick pic and nothing else in response thatd be grand if their dick is detachable and is the only part of him joining us lol in reality its a big red flag.
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Sorry, just giving another perspective on it "Well ...given most couples profiles have no male pics ...I did make an effort ...attempted to be tasteful , creative etc ...bit like I am in bed...(hint of sarcasm..) Taking photos for a bloke is like, well shopping, or some other activity that woman generally enjoy more than men...and they are in my humble opinion a lot more photegenic... | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Well ...given most couples profiles have no male pics ...I did make an effort ...attempted to be tasteful , creative etc ...bit like I am in bed...(hint of sarcasm..)
Taking photos for a bloke is like, well shopping, or some other activity that woman generally enjoy more than men...and they are in my humble opinion a lot more photegenic..."I think the point everyone is trying to make here that at least one photo is enough. Women aren't really looking for galleries of professional photo shoots, just enough to have a rough visual of both parts of a couple. Your photos are pretty much what most women want to see- classy and just enough revealing | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Well ...given most couples profiles have no male pics ...I did make an effort ...attempted to be tasteful , creative etc ...bit like I am in bed...(hint of sarcasm..)
Taking photos for a bloke is like, well shopping, or some other activity that woman generally enjoy more than men...and they are in my humble opinion a lot more photegenic...
I think the point everyone is trying to make here that at least one photo is enough.
Women aren't really looking for galleries of professional photo shoots, just enough to have a rough visual of both parts of a couple.
Your photos are pretty much what most women want to see- classy and just enough revealing "Thank you
Now photos don't get me going ...but videos ...I've got all sorts of kinky pink pantheresque , leaping out of closets scripts in my head ....we will enact at some point ...if I can avoid getting the giggles ..and persuade Sarah  | |||
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Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit "Glad that my true personality is shinning the way I was hopping to. Seen enough and put up with enough on this site to not give to shits about how some see me. Miss_tattoo | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Well ...given most couples profiles have no male pics ...I did make an effort ...attempted to be tasteful , creative etc ...bit like I am in bed...(hint of sarcasm..)
Taking photos for a bloke is like, well shopping, or some other activity that woman generally enjoy more than men...and they are in my humble opinion a lot more photegenic...
I think the point everyone is trying to make here that at least one photo is enough.
Women aren't really looking for galleries of professional photo shoots, just enough to have a rough visual of both parts of a couple.
Your photos are pretty much what most women want to see- classy and just enough revealing
Thank you
Now photos don't get me going ...but videos ...I've got all sorts of kinky pink pantheresque , leaping out of closets scripts in my head ....we will enact at some point ...if I can avoid getting the giggles ..and persuade Sarah "go for it! that sounds like great fun, and then you can take stills from the video for pics | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit
Glad that my true personality is shinning the way I was hopping to.
Seen enough and put up with enough on this site to not give to shits about how some see me.
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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs "He's mowing the lawn, putting the washing on , doing the cooking, gone shopping ,and everything else that he has to do and the last thing he wants to do when he has all that done is photos , he just wants to put his feet up | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit "I can see her point though Jaffa. Mrs is not keen on female dominant couples. It's not that she fears the female, more likely to be attracted to her actually. But more often than not,the male in that couple just won't be her type! | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit
I can see her point though Jaffa. Mrs is not keen on female dominant couples. It's not that she fears the female, more likely to be attracted to her actually. But more often than not,the male in that couple just won't be her type!"You put it better then me. I need a dominant man to be able to let my female energy come to front. If the man can't do that I have seen that they aren't comfortable around me. Seen it at socials and in day to day situation. X | |||
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"This is going no where If you don’t like a profile don’t message them If you don’t like a profile that messaged you just say no thanks no big deal " Exactly, if anything, couples not bothered with putting up a male pic are helpfully filtering themselves out | |||
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"This is going no where If you don’t like a profile don’t message them If you don’t like a profile that messaged you just say no thanks no big deal Exactly, if anything, couples not bothered with putting up a male pic are helpfully filtering themselves out "Bang on You will not be interested in meeting everyone and not everyone will be interested in you | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit
I can see her point though Jaffa. Mrs is not keen on female dominant couples. It's not that she fears the female, more likely to be attracted to her actually. But more often than not,the male in that couple just won't be her type!"Amen to that, apart from the bit about me being attracted to the female
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"This is going no where If you don’t like a profile don’t message them If you don’t like a profile that messaged you just say no thanks no big deal " If you don't like the thread - you don't have to click on it. If you don't like people's discussions - you don't have to comment.
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit
Glad that my true personality is shinning the way I was hopping to.
Seen enough and put up with enough on this site to not give to shits about how some see me.
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit
Glad that my true personality is shinning the way I was hopping to.
Seen enough and put up with enough on this site to not give to shits about how some see me.
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit
Glad that my true personality is shinning the way I was hopping to.
Seen enough and put up with enough on this site to not give to shits about how some see me.
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Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Don't be sorry. I am with you. I am super intimidating to most men. So men that hide behind the female of the profile more then likely won't be able to keep up with me even in conversation.
Christ that makes you sound like a awful dipshit
Glad that my true personality is shinning the way I was hopping to.
Seen enough and put up with enough on this site to not give to shits about how some see me.
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We've found that the majority of couples are bi female, straight male. So people are more inclined to shy away from showing too many male pics.
Boys are hot, just saying
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"All the same I bet most of the single men on fab thought that couples had it easy on here "Most of the single men would probably be wrong
In fairness, I don't think it matters who you are - single woman, couple, single man, TV/TS - we all have to sift through the profiles out there, decide on whether we want to make contact, entice contact or if we'll consider contact if it is made, before deciding if we want to meet for a social to see if things may go further.
Yes, there are a ton more men out there for the ladies (and couples) to choose from - that is definitely a luxury, a bonus, an advantage for them - but most will still want attraction and chemistry (and I dare say that is true for a lot of blokes too - certainly from my experience as someone who had a single woman's profile). This makes it more difficult for couples because there are 2 of us looking to involve at least one, if not more, others... that's a whole lot of chemistry to go round a room - and we don't all get pissed or high to get it on a little easier | |||
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Most of the single men would probably be wrong
In fairness, I don't think it matters who you are - single woman, couple, single man, TV/TS - we all have to sift through the profiles out there, decide on whether we want to make contact, entice contact or if we'll consider contact if it is made, before deciding if we want to meet for a social to see if things may go further.
Yes, there are a ton more men out there for the ladies (and couples) to choose from - that is definitely a luxury, a bonus, an advantage for them - but most will still want attraction and chemistry (and I dare say that is true for a lot of blokes too - certainly from my experience as someone who had a single woman's profile). This makes it more difficult for couples because there are 2 of us looking to involve at least one, if not more, others... that's a whole lot of chemistry to go round a room - and we don't all get pissed or high to get it on a little easier "Maybe ..just maybe ...it's easier to stick on a good movie ..maybe | |||
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"A prime example why alot of couples tend to have more pics of female part of couple is just take how pics get noticed For example if we put up a pic of mrs Gs she will get quite alot of Fabs in the 1st 24hrs Mr puts a pic up and lucky to get 3 or 4 (that's an exaggerated amount) This can be off putting and if the male isn't confident then it could put them off adding more. Luckily I don't mind and knew from the start how this place works Mr " But isn't that skewed thinking? Are you after your photos being fabbed or are you after your profile being targeted, messaged and winked at by your target audience for the possibility of meeting others for socials and fun? The site is rife with men in search of fun with women and couples - and those men will fab photos put up by women, especially if they are straight or have more of a "leaning" to straight than otherwise (for want of a better description ). A lot of men are after the female half of a couple - so again, if your target audience is couples and single women, not having a pic of male is going to lose you some winks and messages.
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"All the same I bet most of the single men on fab thought that couples had it easy on here
Most of the single men would probably be wrong
In fairness, I don't think it matters who you are - single woman, couple, single man, TV/TS - we all have to sift through the profiles out there, decide on whether we want to make contact, entice contact or if we'll consider contact if it is made, before deciding if we want to meet for a social to see if things may go further.
Yes, there are a ton more men out there for the ladies (and couples) to choose from - that is definitely a luxury, a bonus, an advantage for them - but most will still want attraction and chemistry (and I dare say that is true for a lot of blokes too - certainly from my experience as someone who had a single woman's profile). This makes it more difficult for couples because there are 2 of us looking to involve at least one, if not more, others... that's a whole lot of chemistry to go round a room - and we don't all get pissed or high to get it on a little easier
Maybe ..just maybe ...it's easier to stick on a good movie ..maybe "I do - regularly . Any Netflix recommendations | |||
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Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Well ...given most couples profiles have no male pics ...I did make an effort ...attempted to be tasteful , creative etc ...bit like I am in bed...(hint of sarcasm..)
Taking photos for a bloke is like, well shopping, or some other activity that woman generally enjoy more than men...and they are in my humble opinion a lot more photegenic..."You've got far more pics of yourself on yours than most (I hadn't looked) so you must be an animal in the sack  | |||
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Most of the single men would probably be wrong
In fairness, I don't think it matters who you are - single woman, couple, single man, TV/TS - we all have to sift through the profiles out there, decide on whether we want to make contact, entice contact or if we'll consider contact if it is made, before deciding if we want to meet for a social to see if things may go further.
Yes, there are a ton more men out there for the ladies (and couples) to choose from - that is definitely a luxury, a bonus, an advantage for them - but most will still want attraction and chemistry (and I dare say that is true for a lot of blokes too - certainly from my experience as someone who had a single woman's profile). This makes it more difficult for couples because there are 2 of us looking to involve at least one, if not more, others... that's a whole lot of chemistry to go round a room - and we don't all get pissed or high to get it on a little easier
Maybe ..just maybe ...it's easier to stick on a good movie ..maybe
I do - regularly . Any Netflix recommendations "Here ya go https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1247038 | |||
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"All the same I bet most of the single men on fab thought that couples had it easy on here
Most of the single men would probably be wrong
In fairness, I don't think it matters who you are - single woman, couple, single man, TV/TS - we all have to sift through the profiles out there, decide on whether we want to make contact, entice contact or if we'll consider contact if it is made, before deciding if we want to meet for a social to see if things may go further.
Yes, there are a ton more men out there for the ladies (and couples) to choose from - that is definitely a luxury, a bonus, an advantage for them - but most will still want attraction and chemistry (and I dare say that is true for a lot of blokes too - certainly from my experience as someone who had a single woman's profile). This makes it more difficult for couples because there are 2 of us looking to involve at least one, if not more, others... that's a whole lot of chemistry to go round a room - and we don't all get pissed or high to get it on a little easier
Maybe ..just maybe ...it's easier to stick on a good movie ..maybe
I do - regularly . Any Netflix recommendations
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"A prime example why alot of couples tend to have more pics of female part of couple is just take how pics get noticed For example if we put up a pic of mrs Gs she will get quite alot of Fabs in the 1st 24hrs Mr puts a pic up and lucky to get 3 or 4 (that's an exaggerated amount) This can be off putting and if the male isn't confident then it could put them off adding more. Luckily I don't mind and knew from the start how this place works Mr But isn't that skewed thinking? Are you after your photos being fabbed or are you after your profile being targeted, messaged and winked at by your target audience for the possibility of meeting others for socials and fun? The site is rife with men in search of fun with women and couples - and those men will fab photos put up by women, especially if they are straight or have more of a "leaning" to straight than otherwise (for want of a better description ). A lot of men are after the female half of a couple - so again, if your target audience is couples and single women, not having a pic of male is going to lose you some winks and messages.
And, on a side note, I (herself) rarely fab any photos. That's mostly his doing. I don't know how other couples or ladies operate the fab a pic thing. I generally only fab pics of people I've made friends with."I should really leave these kind of posts to mrs as she is better at explaining things lol I see where your coming from and no we don't put pics up solely just to get FABS but they do provide a boost in confidence if they we do get them Our profile does have a fair few of both of us and hopefully it shows us as we are and what we are looking for aswell | |||
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"A prime example why alot of couples tend to have more pics of female part of couple is just take how pics get noticed For example if we put up a pic of mrs Gs she will get quite alot of Fabs in the 1st 24hrs Mr puts a pic up and lucky to get 3 or 4 (that's an exaggerated amount) This can be off putting and if the male isn't confident then it could put them off adding more. Luckily I don't mind and knew from the start how this place works Mr But isn't that skewed thinking? Are you after your photos being fabbed or are you after your profile being targeted, messaged and winked at by your target audience for the possibility of meeting others for socials and fun? The site is rife with men in search of fun with women and couples - and those men will fab photos put up by women, especially if they are straight or have more of a "leaning" to straight than otherwise (for want of a better description ). A lot of men are after the female half of a couple - so again, if your target audience is couples and single women, not having a pic of male is going to lose you some winks and messages.
And, on a side note, I (herself) rarely fab any photos. That's mostly his doing. I don't know how other couples or ladies operate the fab a pic thing. I generally only fab pics of people I've made friends with.
I should really leave these kind of posts to mrs as she is better at explaining things lol
I see where your coming from and no we don't put pics up solely just to get FABS but they do provide a boost in confidence if they we do get them
Our profile does have a fair few of both of us and hopefully it shows us as we are and what we are looking for aswell "Your profile is a lovely representation of what a profile "should" be with regards to who you are and what you are looking for! I believe I know what you meant. I hope I didn't come across as insinuating that you're here for the Fabs! Apologies if I could have expressed myself more clearly. Understandably, fabs are a confidence boost. My other half always says "your pics" got fabbed, and yes, my (herself) pics have more fabs than his - but I'm of the opinion it's "our" profile, hence "our" photos because we're here to meet together with both our input, both of us have to agree on who we want to meet. My pics might get more attention from men but the reality is, that's just noise, it's not the attention we're looking for here where meeting is concerned but it's the nature of the site... | |||
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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs " | |||
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"A prime example why alot of couples tend to have more pics of female part of couple is just take how pics get noticed For example if we put up a pic of mrs Gs she will get quite alot of Fabs in the 1st 24hrs Mr puts a pic up and lucky to get 3 or 4 (that's an exaggerated amount) This can be off putting and if the male isn't confident then it could put them off adding more. Luckily I don't mind and knew from the start how this place works Mr But isn't that skewed thinking? Are you after your photos being fabbed or are you after your profile being targeted, messaged and winked at by your target audience for the possibility of meeting others for socials and fun? The site is rife with men in search of fun with women and couples - and those men will fab photos put up by women, especially if they are straight or have more of a "leaning" to straight than otherwise (for want of a better description ). A lot of men are after the female half of a couple - so again, if your target audience is couples and single women, not having a pic of male is going to lose you some winks and messages.
And, on a side note, I (herself) rarely fab any photos. That's mostly his doing. I don't know how other couples or ladies operate the fab a pic thing. I generally only fab pics of people I've made friends with.
I should really leave these kind of posts to mrs as she is better at explaining things lol
I see where your coming from and no we don't put pics up solely just to get FABS but they do provide a boost in confidence if they we do get them
Our profile does have a fair few of both of us and hopefully it shows us as we are and what we are looking for aswell
Your profile is a lovely representation of what a profile "should" be with regards to who you are and what you are looking for!
I believe I know what you meant. I hope I didn't come across as insinuating that you're here for the Fabs! Apologies if I could have expressed myself more clearly.
Understandably, fabs are a confidence boost. My other half always says "your pics" got fabbed, and yes, my (herself) pics have more fabs than his - but I'm of the opinion it's "our" profile, hence "our" photos because we're here to meet together with both our input, both of us have to agree on who we want to meet. My pics might get more attention from men but the reality is, that's just noise, it's not the attention we're looking for here where meeting is concerned but it's the nature of the site...
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"I have seen loads of couples pics where mister is included But ususlly only the top of his head or his eyes looking up from between mrs legs Just saying not really a fair repesentation considering most guys dont stay down there long enough according to previous research carried out on other threads "But I thought you men can lick for hours - have you just smashed another one of my realities | |||
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" blokes (i.e me) tend to be a bit lazy and unimaginative. Are you like this in bed too? Because this is what a lack of male pics can suggest to a lady.
Sorry, just giving another perspective on it
Well ...given most couples profiles have no male pics ...I did make an effort ...attempted to be tasteful , creative etc ...bit like I am in bed...(hint of sarcasm..)
Taking photos for a bloke is like, well shopping, or some other activity that woman generally enjoy more than men...and they are in my humble opinion a lot more photegenic...
You've got far more pics of yourself on yours than most (I hadn't looked) so you must be an animal in the sack "You say the nicest things
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"The female pictures tend to be the bait .....however my Ollie is the man bait hence the reason there are far more pictures of him.....plus he is the pretty one "Same...think there are more of E on ours too. He's a hottie and I enjoy taking photos of him. I'd quite happily have none of me but if people are meeting both of us then they should be able to see both of us. | |||
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But I thought you men can lick for hours - have you just smashed another one of my realities "I am just going on the previous threads where women have said that guys that declare they can lick for Ireland are lucky to last long enough to lick a stamp | |||
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Hmm..concerning CJ..maybe a leaf out of Mr wolfs book may help. He regularly eats yogurts from the tub without a spoon. Most caveman thing I've ever seen. But you can not argue with the results. "Pmsi brillant | |||
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"The excuses on this thread are fascinating… from the self deprecating “men are lazy”, “men are unimaginative”… to the pitiful “fear of being body shamed”. It was the lack of respect and equity issues that used to make us reluctantly stop when we encountered these profiles, but now we have additional reason to stop without any reluctance." Very dismissive of you. Hate to tell you. The world is a dynamic place. It will never be the way you want it to be. Not matter how much you may scowl at it | |||
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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs
I've raised this issue many times over the years...I'm all about equal opportunities
From experience as a single girl and as part of a couple if there aren't pics of the male part of the couple I've no interest.
I think it gas when I see posts from couples complaining that they cannot find a 'unicorn' when all they have are pics of the female half. Why hide pics of your partner? People want to see both parts of the couple.
Last time I posted this topic there were a few more male pics posted....OP I hope your post results in lots of new male pics
Come on guys don't be shy
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Couldnt agree with you more 2ofus x it's a headwreck. If the couple have no pics of the male, but everything else on their profile looks good, we will ask for pics of male. Unfortunately mostly we get a dick pic and nothing else in response thatd be grand if their dick is detachable and is the only part of him joining us lol in reality its a big red flag.
Lucily Mr Bugs is a total ride and lets me post a pic of him on occasion "Agree with all of that | |||
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"The excuses on this thread are fascinating… from the self deprecating “men are lazy”, “men are unimaginative”… to the pitiful “fear of being body shamed”. It was the lack of respect and equity issues that used to make us reluctantly stop when we encountered these profiles, but now we have additional reason to stop without any reluctance. Very dismissive of you. Hate to tell you. The world is a dynamic place. It will never be the way you want it to be. Not matter how much you may scowl at it " Yip. Expecting our Mrs to engage without the same info that the other three parties were privy to was enough for us to be dismissive. If the only explanations offered here is a ‘couldn’t be bothered’ attitude, a lack of imagination or a lack of confidence… then it’s given us extra cause to be dismissive. This is just for us but energy, imagination and confidence are important and attractive qualities. | |||
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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs "Agree with you and we have tried to balance. We get asked for more of Mrs though!!! Misters ass doesn’t do it for anyone | |||
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"I'm always harping on about this I know, but it's Monday and I feel like a rant! Could couples who are looking to meet other couples please enlighten me as to why you have loads of public pics of the female but not one of the couple together or of the male? Just one pic of the male, clothed or otherwise (not a cock pic) seems to be a rarity and yet you are looking to meet other couples. At least 50% of couples profiles are like this and frankly I'm sick of it. Maybe couples could explain the reasons so that I can understand. Thanks all, Mrs ". Just my tuppance worth, but the reality is 99% of attention (ie through mails and fabs) is directed to the female , and let's be fair single guys get more attention than guys in cpls, when's the last time a guy in a cpl has made the ireland hot pics , people just fab the ladies pics and that's the fact of the matter. Another reason maybe guys prefer to let there personality be there selling point through parties, clubs and meets & greets settings. Mr crazy | |||
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"I have seen loads of couples pics where mister is included But ususlly only the top of his head or his eyes looking up from between mrs legs Just saying not really a fair repesentation considering most guys dont stay down there long enough according to previous research carried out on other threads
Hmm..concerning CJ..maybe a leaf out of Mr wolfs book may help. He regularly eats yogurts from the tub without a spoon. Most caveman thing I've ever seen. But you can not argue with the results. "The result is mainly yogurt all over his face I guess?? | |||
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It's so damned difficult to get a look in though, Mrs.O just loves to take the limelight and in fairness..she is far more photogenic..and all thumbs when asked to be the photographer
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"I have seen loads of couples pics where mister is included But ususlly only the top of his head or his eyes looking up from between mrs legs Just saying not really a fair repesentation considering most guys dont stay down there long enough according to previous research carried out on other threads
Hmm..concerning CJ..maybe a leaf out of Mr wolfs book may help. He regularly eats yogurts from the tub without a spoon. Most caveman thing I've ever seen. But you can not argue with the results.
The result is mainly yogurt all over his face I guess?? "Omg I can not get that image out of my head..lmao. as uncouth as it is. He is actually dexterous and elegant'ish. I get to see how how his tongue works when he decides he wants a "snack". | |||
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"The excuses on this thread are fascinating… from the self deprecating “men are lazy”, “men are unimaginative”… to the pitiful “fear of being body shamed”. It was the lack of respect and equity issues that used to make us reluctantly stop when we encountered these profiles, but now we have additional reason to stop without any reluctance." I (Mrs) completely get what you mean about the lack of respect thing. I felt a bit insulted that I was almost expected to blind date the male half of other couples, that I just had to take whoever showed up regardless of whether I found that person attractive, like my preferences and what I wanted were bottom of the pile or an afterthought. Now we don't bother with profiles that won't/can't/don’t show the male half | |||
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"The excuses on this thread are fascinating… from the self deprecating “men are lazy”, “men are unimaginative”… to the pitiful “fear of being body shamed”. It was the lack of respect and equity issues that used to make us reluctantly stop when we encountered these profiles, but now we have additional reason to stop without any reluctance. I (Mrs) completely get what you mean about the lack of respect thing. I felt a bit insulted that I was almost expected to blind date the male half of other couples, that I just had to take whoever showed up regardless of whether I found that person attractive, like my preferences and what I wanted were bottom of the pile or an afterthought. Now we don't bother with profiles that won't/can't/don’t show the male half" That's kinda how I feel too when such profiles approach us. And then they act all offended for letting them know why we're not interested. It's always "oh, but he has a very important job", "oh, he doesn't like his photos taken", "oh, his phone doesn't have a camera" (actually happened )
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