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"I was talking about there profile’s,reading them and how they describe what they like and what they want,I never said I was over there experiencing it,and not saying I’m correct in what I’m saying just asking what people think,full of shit for asking what people think,which you never answered lol " Ther is some great Irish profiles and some great English profiles just like there are some crap ones. Some are open about they like and some are here to find put what they like. I always why people get so hung up on other peoples profiles, way I see its their profile their " shop window " if they want to leave it blank that's OK, if they dress their window up all shiny and glittery that's OK too. Its when you enter the shop and decide whether to stay is what's important  | |||
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 ..no matter where they're from. | |||
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"Yes so true alot more open and more advanced years ahead off us" I wouldn't say its a question of ahead or behind. Just different | |||
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"Yes so true alot more open and more advanced years ahead off us I wouldn't say its a question of ahead or behind. Just different " We live codown we are afraid of what peoole think here thats why peope are more secret. We want to visit club in dublin soon. We are worried people might say their english. | |||
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"Yes so true alot more open and more advanced years ahead off us I wouldn't say its a question of ahead or behind. Just different We live codown we are afraid of what peoole think here thats why peope are more secret. We want to visit club in dublin soon. We are worried people might say their english. " Co. Down? So not Kensington then? People in Ireland don't give a monkeys where you're from, just that you're nice people and appreciate the craic | |||
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"One of the differences we see on the forums is if someone posts a thread about a particular kink/topic they like on the UK forum, the general response is from others who like the same kink and they engage positively in the thread. Doing the same thing on the Irish thread leads to derailing and piss taking....generally by the same people. Of course it's not always that straight forward but it's true for the most part." Exactly. | |||
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"One of the differences we see on the forums is if someone posts a thread about a particular kink/topic they like on the UK forum, the general response is from others who like the same kink and they engage positively in the thread. Doing the same thing on the Irish thread leads to derailing and piss taking....generally by the same people. Of course it's not always that straight forward but it's true for the most part. Exactly. " Yes agreed.. the clique judge & jury are always hovering over and if someone outside that little community gives an opinion they’re slated . Sad living really that they have nothing better to be doing with their life UK forum much better and less judgemental of other people | |||
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"Much broader range of topics and a very much more broadminded group of users on the English forums. Same small group of individuals are constant on the Irish forums sniping at users the dont appove of etc and that does not happen on the UK forums, I never PM anyone yet several Irish profiles have blocked me but zero blocks from UK users that I know of, all in all they are much more approachable, the forums are much more fun and light hearted." You hit the nail on the head.. | |||
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"Much broader range of topics and a very much more broadminded group of users on the English forums. Same small group of individuals are constant on the Irish forums sniping at users the dont appove of etc and that does not happen on the UK forums, I never PM anyone yet several Irish profiles have blocked me but zero blocks from UK users that I know of, all in all they are much more approachable, the forums are much more fun and light hearted." How would you explain why dozens of regular posters have left the site blaming the abuse they received on those forums or are refusing to use the forums at all because of the constant sniping and nastiness if the "English" fab is so much better? Does being approachable account for the same level of information sharing and outing people in social media that has also driven people away or is that acceptable because it's more fun over there? | |||
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"One of the differences we see on the forums is if someone posts a thread about a particular kink/topic they like on the UK forum, the general response is from others who like the same kink and they engage positively in the thread. Doing the same thing on the Irish thread leads to derailing and piss taking....generally by the same people. Of course it's not always that straight forward but it's true for the most part. Exactly. Yes agreed.. the clique judge & jury are always hovering over and if someone outside that little community gives an opinion they’re slated . Sad living really that they have nothing better to be doing with their life UK forum much better and less judgemental of other people " This single male profile joined 6 months ago, the opening post is this thread was the first ever post and “Any body from Liverpool need help guys come help us out” is the latest status update. How seriously do you really expect this profile or post to be taken? | |||
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" How seriously do you really expect this profile or post to be taken?" It costs nothing to join, you dont even need a valid email address to register a profile and you are surprised people dont take fab seriously  | |||
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" How would you explain why dozens of regular posters have left the site blaming the abuse they received on those forums or are refusing to use the forums at all because of the constant sniping and nastiness if the "English" fab is so much better? Does being approachable account for the same level of information sharing and outing people in social media that has also driven people away or is that acceptable because it's more fun over there? " "Dozens" you say, in the past month alone I can think of two threads started here where the OP claimed to be the subject of abuse from a single male, whilst they may have been 100% genuine they offered no proof to back this up but posted about it anyway and que the usual fawning and thats terrible etc etc, whilst they could not post details of the so called abuser on the forums I asked why not post the abusive profile on their status or on their profile notes so as other users would be aware of the culprit. The OP never did this. | |||
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" How would you explain why dozens of regular posters have left the site blaming the abuse they received on those forums or are refusing to use the forums at all because of the constant sniping and nastiness if the "English" fab is so much better? Does being approachable account for the same level of information sharing and outing people in social media that has also driven people away or is that acceptable because it's more fun over there? "Dozens" you say, in the past month alone I can think of two threads started here where the OP claimed to be the subject of abuse from a single male, whilst they may have been 100% genuine they offered no proof to back this up but posted about it anyway and que the usual fawning and thats terrible etc etc, whilst they could not post details of the so called abuser on the forums I asked why not post the abusive profile on their status or on their profile notes so as other users would be aware of the culprit. The OP never did this." Doing what you said would equate to badmouthing another site user which is against the site rules. | |||
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"One of the differences we see on the forums is if someone posts a thread about a particular kink/topic they like on the UK forum, the general response is from others who like the same kink and they engage positively in the thread. Doing the same thing on the Irish thread leads to derailing and piss taking....generally by the same people. Of course it's not always that straight forward but it's true for the most part. Exactly. Yes agreed.. the clique judge & jury are always hovering over and if someone outside that little community gives an opinion they’re slated . Sad living really that they have nothing better to be doing with their life UK forum much better and less judgemental of other people This single male profile joined 6 months ago, the opening post is this thread was the first ever post and “Any body from Liverpool need help guys come help us out” is the latest status update. How seriously do you really expect this profile or post to be taken?" How long a user is on the site or how often they have posted on the forums doesn't mean people can derail or make fun of the thread. Intentional derailing of a thread was against the forum rules the last I checked. | |||
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"I was talking about there profile’s,reading them and how they describe what they like and what they want,I never said I was over there experiencing it,and not saying I’m correct in what I’m saying just asking what people think,full of shit for asking what people think,which you never answered lol I have been to a few clubs in uk people are a lot more open there Ther is some great Irish profiles and some great English profiles just like there are some crap ones. Some are open about they like and some are here to find put what they like. I always why people get so hung up on other peoples profiles, way I see its their profile their " shop window " if they want to leave it blank that's OK, if they dress their window up all shiny and glittery that's OK too. Its when you enter the shop and decide whether to stay is what's important " | |||
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" How would you explain why dozens of regular posters have left the site blaming the abuse they received on those forums or are refusing to use the forums at all because of the constant sniping and nastiness if the "English" fab is so much better? Does being approachable account for the same level of information sharing and outing people in social media that has also driven people away or is that acceptable because it's more fun over there? "Dozens" you say, in the past month alone I can think of two threads started here where the OP claimed to be the subject of abuse from a single male, whilst they may have been 100% genuine they offered no proof to back this up but posted about it anyway and que the usual fawning and thats terrible etc etc, whilst they could not post details of the so called abuser on the forums I asked why not post the abusive profile on their status or on their profile notes so as other users would be aware of the culprit. The OP never did this. Doing what you said would equate to badmouthing another site user which is against the site rules. " But the OP can badmouth another user on forums without offering anything to back up what they say | |||
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" How would you explain why dozens of regular posters have left the site blaming the abuse they received on those forums or are refusing to use the forums at all because of the constant sniping and nastiness if the "English" fab is so much better? Does being approachable account for the same level of information sharing and outing people in social media that has also driven people away or is that acceptable because it's more fun over there? "Dozens" you say, in the past month alone I can think of two threads started here where the OP claimed to be the subject of abuse from a single male, whilst they may have been 100% genuine they offered no proof to back this up but posted about it anyway and que the usual fawning and thats terrible etc etc, whilst they could not post details of the so called abuser on the forums I asked why not post the abusive profile on their status or on their profile notes so as other users would be aware of the culprit. The OP never did this." The point being that there is virtually no difference in the forums or the fab experience. Good and bad in both. There is obviously a much bigger club and social scene over there but in general is just an XL version of the Irish experience. | |||
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" How would you explain why dozens of regular posters have left the site blaming the abuse they received on those forums or are refusing to use the forums at all because of the constant sniping and nastiness if the "English" fab is so much better? Does being approachable account for the same level of information sharing and outing people in social media that has also driven people away or is that acceptable because it's more fun over there? "Dozens" you say, in the past month alone I can think of two threads started here where the OP claimed to be the subject of abuse from a single male, whilst they may have been 100% genuine they offered no proof to back this up but posted about it anyway and que the usual fawning and thats terrible etc etc, whilst they could not post details of the so called abuser on the forums I asked why not post the abusive profile on their status or on their profile notes so as other users would be aware of the culprit. The OP never did this. Doing what you said would equate to badmouthing another site user which is against the site rules. But the OP can badmouth another user on forums without offering anything to back up what they say "Just as they do every single day across every other forum on the site. That's not unique to this one. | |||
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" How would you explain why dozens of regular posters have left the site blaming the abuse they received on those forums or are refusing to use the forums at all because of the constant sniping and nastiness if the "English" fab is so much better? Does being approachable account for the same level of information sharing and outing people in social media that has also driven people away or is that acceptable because it's more fun over there? "Dozens" you say, in the past month alone I can think of two threads started here where the OP claimed to be the subject of abuse from a single male, whilst they may have been 100% genuine they offered no proof to back this up but posted about it anyway and que the usual fawning and thats terrible etc etc, whilst they could not post details of the so called abuser on the forums I asked why not post the abusive profile on their status or on their profile notes so as other users would be aware of the culprit. The OP never did this. Doing what you said would equate to badmouthing another site user which is against the site rules. But the OP can badmouth another user on forums without offering anything to back up what they say "Im only saying what I've seen and what's in the rules for the site. | |||
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"I find It easier to chat with Scottish and English on fab than the Irish. Being verified isn't than important to have a chat with them. " Thank God you tell it. I fully agree | |||
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" How would you explain why dozens of regular posters have left the site blaming the abuse they received on those forums or are refusing to use the forums at all because of the constant sniping and nastiness if the "English" fab is so much better? Does being approachable account for the same level of information sharing and outing people in social media that has also driven people away or is that acceptable because it's more fun over there? "Dozens" you say, in the past month alone I can think of two threads started here where the OP claimed to be the subject of abuse from a single male, whilst they may have been 100% genuine they offered no proof to back this up but posted about it anyway and que the usual fawning and thats terrible etc etc, whilst they could not post details of the so called abuser on the forums I asked why not post the abusive profile on their status or on their profile notes so as other users would be aware of the culprit. The OP never did this." Yeah thats bullshit. You can't bash someone for not breaking the site rules. Also - what kind of proof of abuse would you consider they should have provided. Victim blaming bullshit. | |||
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"One of the differences we see on the forums is if someone posts a thread about a particular kink/topic they like on the UK forum, the general response is from others who like the same kink and they engage positively in the thread. Doing the same thing on the Irish thread leads to derailing and piss taking....generally by the same people. Of course it's not always that straight forward but it's true for the most part. Exactly. Yes agreed.. the clique judge & jury are always hovering over and if someone outside that little community gives an opinion they’re slated . Sad living really that they have nothing better to be doing with their life UK forum much better and less judgemental of other people This single male profile joined 6 months ago, the opening post is this thread was the first ever post and “Any body from Liverpool need help guys come help us out” is the latest status update. How seriously do you really expect this profile or post to be taken? How long a user is on the site or how often they have posted on the forums doesn't mean people can derail or make fun of the thread. Intentional derailing of a thread was against the forum rules the last I checked. " Your 100 % correct and right here | |||
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"Call it bullshit if you like, but I could equally call claims of being bullied here without a shred of proof bullshit too, works both ways." How can it be bullying when nobody was named? | |||
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"One of the differences we see on the forums is if someone posts a thread about a particular kink/topic they like on the UK forum, the general response is from others who like the same kink and they engage positively in the thread. Doing the same thing on the Irish thread leads to derailing and piss taking....generally by the same people. Of course it's not always that straight forward but it's true for the most part." Agree 100% with this. Maybe English forum has the critical mass of contributors to dilute those who would otherwise seek to dominate all discourse? | |||
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"Have a look at a thread in lounge called Where are? if you seriously think fabbers there are having different conversations." .. and then there is this one https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1262500 | |||
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"English fab keep their toasters in cupboards" We really buzz off of statues, and they don't so much  | |||
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