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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone ever use winks? Do you get much luck or are they mostly pointless?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever use winks? Do you get much luck or are they mostly pointless?"

That's like asking why men send dick pics or why women show their pussys or why block men if you here to meet men. Or random friend requests.

For some they work for others they don't. If I get a wink and I look at the profile and I like it I wink back, if not I ignore but I never delete the wink cause they can't wink ya again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone ever use winks? Do you get much luck or are they mostly pointless?

That's like asking why men send dick pics or why women show their pussys or why block men if you here to meet men. Or random friend requests.

For some they work for others they don't. If I get a wink and I look at the profile and I like it I wink back, if not I ignore but I never delete the wink cause they can't wink ya again "

Ohh your naughty haha not like spammed by winks lol

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Winks aren't really of much benefit as an initial means of contact, but after contact has been established it's nice to send a wink as a reminder that, "I'm still thinking about you!"; memories are often as important as the time spent together....

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

The wink button for me is similar to a "like" button. If I like the look and profile I'll give it a like/wink that way I'm not annoying anyone with unwanted msgs and they can take or leave the wink. If they wink back? I change eyes and things get real interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks aren't really of much benefit as an initial means of contact, but after contact has been established it's nice to send a wink as a reminder that, "I'm still thinking about you!"; memories are often as important as the time spent together...."

This subtlety was completely lost on me

I dont understand the wink thing at all

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"The wink button for me is similar to a "like" button. If I like the look and profile I'll give it a like/wink that way I'm not annoying anyone with unwanted msgs and they can take or leave the wink. If they wink back? I change eyes and things get real interesting "

This

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


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This subtlety was completely lost on me

I dont understand the wink thing at all "

Some people are just shy…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that sending a wink can be a nice icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm winking myself right now

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"I'm winking myself right now"

Winking you back vigorously as I can't in reality

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin


"I'm winking myself right now"

I’m too old to wink at you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm winking myself right now"

Winked right back ??

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Why not

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Why not "
A wink a day keeps the blues away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see the point ...a profile appeals to me I message them with very low expectations ...

People winking and saying nothing after that!!!

I don't get it . What a waist of someone's time

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By *idnight and LaceCouple
over a year ago

your town


"Does anyone ever use winks? Do you get much luck or are they mostly pointless?

That's like asking why men send dick pics or why women show their pussys or why block men if you here to meet men. Or random friend requests.

For some they work for others they don't. If I get a wink and I look at the profile and I like it I wink back, if not I ignore but I never delete the wink cause they can't wink ya again "

Well ya learn something new I never knew if you didn't delete them they couldn't wink you again so thank you

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By *hiteKniteMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Winks are like an expression of interest without wasting anyones time. I often get winks from couples and I take it as an invitation to send them a message.

I also wink couples and if they wink back, I’ll follow up with a message, if they don’t, I won’t waste their time or mine. I find wonks very useful

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By *hiteKniteMan
over a year ago

Nearby

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By *hiteKniteMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"Winks are like an expression of interest without wasting anyones time. I often get winks from couples and I take it as an invitation to send them a message.

I also wink couples and if they wink back, I’ll follow up with a message, if they don’t, I won’t waste their time or mine. I find wonks very useful "

And ‘wonks’, they are useful too but not as enjoyable as wanks lol

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I've found winks rather confusing . We receive winks, sometimes himself will wink back. And then there's....... you guessed it - nothing.

I personally will send a message if I come across a profile of interest (herself).

I know himself sends winks to test the water. The reality is that where single women's profiles are concerned, you get no response to either a wink or a message...

We must attend more socials and parties

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've had some meets from here that started with one of us winking at the other to get their attention.So yes the cab be useful to get someone's attention .

But nowadays I don't even look at them anymore I just got out of the habit of looking.

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane

I don't mind the odd wink alright.

*apologies I got my I and A mixed up again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find that sending a wink can be a nice icebreaker "

Exactly this

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"We find that sending a wink can be a nice icebreaker

Exactly this "

Exactly this for us as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah a nice wink is always appreciated a mutual wink well that can start something

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