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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has there ever been a group meeting on here where attached makes and females (without their partners knowledge) have met up?

Or do married/attached people usually prefer to meet for one on ones?

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone tried to set one up here recently but it fell flat on it's face. Maybe do forum search. I think the issue was lots of guys wanted to join but feck all ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I must have a check… I do know there are lots of married attached people here but many are afraid to come forward in a forum I find.

Why should that be the case? People are very hard on other peoples situations and just want to bash them I find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone tried a few months ago but there was a total Karen came in shaming and judging everyone so never got off ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone tried a few months ago but there was a total Karen came in shaming and judging everyone so never got off ground "
ah we can always count on Karen to fuck everything up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“If you build it …..they will come “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“If you build it …..they will come “"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m having some private messages about this subject… would there be people interested?

Say I’m in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m having some private messages about this subject… would there be people interested?

Say I’m in!! "

im in im in im in im in im in

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It was tried before, but the participants jist couldn't commit fully to it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"It was tried before, but the participants jist couldn't commit fully to it... "

Yeah I remember a lot of people posting in the thread saying they wanted in, but when it came down to it they just didn't keep their word...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was tried before, but the participants jist couldn't commit fully to it...

Yeah I remember a lot of people posting in the thread saying they wanted in, but when it came down to it they just didn't keep their

word..."

In fairness there was a lot of engagement on that thread..

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I think this might be the thread…

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1201895

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was tried before, but the participants jist couldn't commit fully to it... "

I got ya lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Another year of hidden profiles saying I'm in before it hits the 175

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I think this might be the thread…

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1201895"

Ahh but that thread is old and boring and there hasn't been any action in it for ages.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"It was tried before, but the participants jist couldn't commit fully to it...

Yeah I remember a lot of people posting in the thread saying they wanted in, but when it came down to it they just didn't keep their

word...

In fairness there was a lot of engagement on that thread.."

Bit of a Willy festival if I remember correctly. You really need a 50/50 split for something like that to work I think. Maybe I'm wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Maybe the group members just don't understand eachother or have miss aligned sex drives

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Unfortunately Encanto, the usual roaring assholes ruin any discussion that offends their delicate moral sensibilities, (regardless of their own personal history of course) so no there is no such group.

However you will find lots of people that are happy to chat and meet and have friendships and banter without judgement, knowing that everyone has their own path and reasons.

Good luck!!

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By *oodieMan
over a year ago

Mayo

Im in

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By *arahsluttyireTV/TS
over a year ago

on the move


"Unfortunately Encanto, the usual roaring assholes ruin any discussion that offends their delicate moral sensibilities, (regardless of their own personal history of course) so no there is no such group.

However you will find lots of people that are happy to chat and meet and have friendships and banter without judgement, knowing that everyone has their own path and reasons.

Good luck!! "

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By *arahsluttyireTV/TS
over a year ago

on the move

First paragraph beautifully put and I can think of two in particular!!!

Like anything on the internet - don’t like it, just move the f*ck on!

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By *ilkennyguy1Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Sounds good. Married man in Kilkenny looking for discreet fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be very interested in this

I’m in

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I think there was commiment issues

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"I think there was commiment issues

"

I rest my case.

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

c

count me in...

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Ennis


"Maybe the group members just don't understand eachother or have miss aligned sex drives "

That is it, exactly as you say.

I would be so in.

I hope this thread will work for everyone.

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By *oredmarried2022Man
over a year ago

wicklow

I’d be up for a group like that

Count me in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there was commiment issues

I rest my case. "

Yes there is always the one that ruins it for others. Maybe they should have their own comedy forum?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

You've had loads of replies. Nobody has ruined anything. Enjoy your group

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By *untimes_83Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"I think this might be the thread…

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1201895

Ahh but that thread is old and boring and there hasn't been any action in it for ages. "

Fair few sanctimonious a#%holes on this thread.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

..and yet only 1 side of this discussion has lowered themselves to personal insults. It's almost as if they just aren't able to resist their lowest urges.

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

I'm in

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By *untimes_83Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"..and yet only 1 side of this discussion has lowered themselves to personal insults. It's almost as if they just aren't able to resist their lowest urges. "

I'm on neither side. I'm merely observing. You hijacking a thread that you don't agree with in your sanctimonious overbearing fashion is more insulting to genuine posters on this thread than me simply calling you an a#&hole.

But you can't see that with your arrogance. You don't even know what you don't know. The height of ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *iam756Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Kildare laois

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No shortage of male input anyway… be careful though guys…

Outing yourself here will lead to certain people blocking you

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"..and yet only 1 side of this discussion has lowered themselves to personal insults. It's almost as if they just aren't able to resist their lowest urges.

I'm on neither side. I'm merely observing. You hijacking a thread that you don't agree with in your sanctimonious overbearing fashion is more insulting to genuine posters on this thread than me simply calling you an a#&hole.

But you can't see that with your arrogance. You don't even know what you don't know. The height of ignorance.

"

I don't disagree with these threads at all. They are actually really handy as they make all the hidden cheaters pop out of the woodwork and identify themselves. It makes blocking them easier for me and others. Keep it going

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you have nothing good to say please don’t.

Thanks very much

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By *icklowbiguyMan
over a year ago

Wicklow


"If you have nothing good to say please don’t.

Thanks very much "

Ah but the fab forum policeman and miss opinion on everything under the fucking sun love to give a fuck about everyones threads on here.

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By *untimes_83Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"..and yet only 1 side of this discussion has lowered themselves to personal insults. It's almost as if they just aren't able to resist their lowest urges.

I'm on neither side. I'm merely observing. You hijacking a thread that you don't agree with in your sanctimonious overbearing fashion is more insulting to genuine posters on this thread than me simply calling you an a#&hole.

But you can't see that with your arrogance. You don't even know what you don't know. The height of ignorance.

I don't disagree with these threads at all. They are actually really handy as they make all the hidden cheaters pop out of the woodwork and identify themselves. It makes blocking them easier for me and others. Keep it going "

You assume males on here would be interested in your profile??? . Block away, I'm sure the masses won't be too bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah would love to join one of these groups but they never usually happens unfortunately, but if it is feel free to add me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just set up a group and get people to pm you to be added, some might not want to say they'd join so to avoid the serpents tongue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I hear you pal…

Pm Me to be considered for the group please..

Let’s see how this goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Getting quite a few messages here folks.. quite surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting quite a few messages here folks.. quite surprised "

Many from attached ladies as it seems like a bit of a dong fest looking back at the posts ?

Each to there own but I read a stat today that only 16% of married people cheat and of that 80% are men

That’s a very small pool to pull from??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You’d be very surprised

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The ladies just don’t want to out themselves here as most of the lads on here can be bad mannered and untrustworthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I hear you pal…

Pm Me to be considered for the group please..

Let’s see how this goes "

Can't pm ya

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By *ary 200Man
over a year ago

ennis

I'm in

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By *ark44xMan
over a year ago

Antrim

I'm in too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not able to pm you encanto but would love to join

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By *ustfun73Man
over a year ago

cork

Im.in too but are there any ladies wanting in ? Thought it needs to be 50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be happy to join also

Dbeerbaron is user on a place that sounds like tik lol

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"If you have nothing good to say please don’t.

Thanks very much

Ah but the fab forum policeman and miss opinion on everything under the fucking sun love to give a fuck about everyones threads on here."

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1239479#message_31278582

None of them commented on this thread

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

I'll join. Already clearly states married on profile

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1239479#message_31278582

None of them commented on this thread "

But..but...but... that doesn't fit their narrative that they are only a small number of haters that cause problems for them and that they should be free to inflict whatever hurt they want on their wives and families without fear of anyone speaking up and condemning it.

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By *hysoserious2012Man
over a year ago

meath louth border

Be interested in this

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1239479#message_31278582

None of them commented on this thread

But..but...but... that doesn't fit their narrative that they are only a small number of haters that cause problems for them and that they should be free to inflict whatever hurt they want on their wives and families without fear of anyone speaking up and condemning it."

Stop being so judgemental

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

They way I see it... if I saw someone hurting someone in public, then I would speak up. Same goes.

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By *in when youre winningMan
over a year ago

near here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own here , if a married or attached person wants to cheat on their partner off they go and do so , there are many reasons why they do , am not being judgemental here at all , each to their own , l personally don't get involved with Married or attached , it says so on my profile nor am l whiter than white but married or attached are just not for me as it can and does bring its own drama ,how much heartache would be brought to the table if whoever was cheating was found out ? They may cheat because of certain issues but l would prefer not to be a part time solution to any of their problems,in these cases, as the ol' saying goes , the ride certainly isn't worth the fall.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Each to their own here , if a married or attached person wants to cheat on their partner off they go and do so , there are many reasons why they do , am not being judgemental here at all , each to their own , l personally don't get involved with Married or attached , it says so on my profile nor am l whiter than white but married or attached are just not for me as it can and does bring its own drama ,how much heartache would be brought to the table if whoever was cheating was found out ? They may cheat because of certain issues but l would prefer not to be a part time solution to any of their problems,in these cases, as the ol' saying goes , the ride certainly isn't worth the fall."

There's actually not a single good reason for it. Its been asked many times on here and unfortunately the people cheating cant actually justify it. Of course prove me wrong if you think otherwise.

It also always the single people who support the cheaters. Most couples on here if they found themselves in a situation were they had no sex life because of say illness, they have an understanding that it wouldn't prevent them seeking out other people for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own here , if a married or attached person wants to cheat on their partner off they go and do so , there are many reasons why they do , am not being judgemental here at all , each to their own , l personally don't get involved with Married or attached , it says so on my profile nor am l whiter than white but married or attached are just not for me as it can and does bring its own drama ,how much heartache would be brought to the table if whoever was cheating was found out ? They may cheat because of certain issues but l would prefer not to be a part time solution to any of their problems,in these cases, as the ol' saying goes , the ride certainly isn't worth the fall.

There's actually not a single good reason for it. Its been asked many times on here and unfortunately the people cheating cant actually justify it. Of course prove me wrong if you think otherwise.

It also always the single people who support the cheaters. Most couples on here if they found themselves in a situation were they had no sex life because of say illness, they have an understanding that it wouldn't prevent them seeking out other people for sex."

I fully agree with what you say , cheating is a total no no from me but people do and will cheat simply because they feel they want more than what they have , if people cheat and are wanted by others they have options and feel justified in doing so , people cheat maybe because they have discovered better sex and they still won't leave the security of their home , they have jam on both sides , who knows ? Those that do cheat do it for certain reasons and l won't be anyway judgmental , l just don't have anything to do with cheaters . Illness ,as you say , is a totally different kettle of fish in my eyes and sex is the last thing you'd be thinking of if your partner became ill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was tried before, but the participants jist couldn't commit fully to it... "

I'm dead

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