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The ins and outs of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Prompted by a recent message, how important...on a scale of 1 - 10 perhaps...is the actual "penis going in and out of the vagina" part of sex to you, good men and women of the Irish forum?

As someone who prefers to dip in and out of it (no pun intended) during a sexual encounter, who enjoys ebb and flow, and considers fore, during, and after play equally important and rewarding, I'd probably put the ins and outs at a 6, preferring a full body experience than just a good hard fuck.

Do you tolerate the frippery but your eye is really on the prize? Would you happily forego the jiggy if the encounter makes your toes curl in other ways?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prompted by a recent message, how important...on a scale of 1 - 10 perhaps...is the actual "penis going in and out of the vagina" part of sex to you, good men and women of the Irish forum?

As someone who prefers to dip in and out of it (no pun intended) during a sexual encounter, who enjoys ebb and flow, and considers fore, during, and after play equally important and rewarding, I'd probably put the ins and outs at a 6, preferring a full body experience than just a good hard fuck.

Do you tolerate the frippery but your eye is really on the prize? Would you happily forego the jiggy if the encounter makes your toes curl in other ways?

Mrs

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Probably a 5, definitely all about the fore & After for me ensuring my partner is totally satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't it all add up to the one answer, depending in my mood I might want more oral, I may want go give more oral ( turns me on to hear a guy react to my touch) and than sometimes you just need a good fuck , than you have the point where he teases you so much with his tip, you have to beg to be fucked ah memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't it all add up to the one answer, depending in my mood I might want more oral, I may want go give more oral ( turns me on to hear a guy react to my touch) and than sometimes you just need a good fuck , than you have the point where he teases you so much with his tip, you have to beg to be fucked ah memories"

Hmm you make a good point

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

8 or 9. The flirting, the planning, and the foreplay are all preludes for to actual p in v sex.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Prompted by a recent message, how important...on a scale of 1 - 10 perhaps...is the actual "penis going in and out of the vagina" part of sex to you, good men and women of the Irish forum?

As someone who prefers to dip in and out of it (no pun intended) during a sexual encounter, who enjoys ebb and flow, and considers fore, during, and after play equally important and rewarding, I'd probably put the ins and outs at a 6, preferring a full body experience than just a good hard fuck.

Do you tolerate the frippery but your eye is really on the prize? Would you happily forego the jiggy if the encounter makes your toes curl in other ways?

Mrs

"

It isn’t about the Hokey Cokey, it’s about the dance....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8 or 9. The flirting, the planning, and the foreplay are all preludes for to actual p in v sex. "

How I see it too

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Doesn't it all add up to the one answer, depending in my mood I might want more oral, I may want go give more oral ( turns me on to hear a guy react to my touch) and than sometimes you just need a good fuck , than you have the point where he teases you so much with his tip, you have to beg to be fucked ah memories"

When your whole body aches for it. So hot!

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

10 no question for me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'd say about a 9. I like penetration that feeling as he first enters the build up to a climax nothing else beats it for me especially .

But in saying that without foreplay and teasing each other it wouldn't work either there has to be a bit of it all in order for sex to be great.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

It's a 10 when a lot of other things are also 10s, if that makes sense. But sex as a three-act play that reminds you of a lot of other three-act plays, just for the sake of the reveal (Colonel Mustard in the garden with the ice pick!), can get a bit same-old, same-old.

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By *rishguy3217Man
over a year ago

Sunny Southeast / Dublin

Love the in and out but only after plenty of foreplay

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Different things at different times.

Sometimes I’m desperate DESPERATE to be royally fucked to pieces and other times I can’t wait to get my mouth on him. Some men are just amazing at oral and I need them down there or it’s all I’d been thinking about.

Equally I sometimes flip between needing to be taken quickly and roughly and needing to be kissed to death and made love to after hours of foreplay.

So while the p in v ratio needs to be significant, different men and different scenarios all make a huge impact.

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