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By *on Draper2.0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Question for the other guys here. Have you ever experienced being with a woman you really are into that you can go for hours but if your with someone who you maybe aren't as attracted to that you often finish quicker without even trying. It's like your body is reacting to the level of physical attraction and pleasure this person brings to you. The more pleasurable being with her is, the more stamina you have but if the sparks aren't flying, your body is saying OK, let's just get this over with.

Has anyone ever experienced this?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Sounds like an excuse when you weren't really that attracted to her

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"No darling, dont be upset, it means the exact OPPOSITE of that, it means I find you WAY hotter than the others. My brain is like opposite-land when it comes to cumming"

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll consult the notes I took at the time and get back to you.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"In fact if I walk past someone I find incredibly unattractive then I literally cum in my pants"

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By *on Draper2.0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


""No darling, dont be upset, it means the exact OPPOSITE of that, it means I find you WAY hotter than the others. My brain is like opposite-land when it comes to cumming""

Lol, read the post again. It's not about PE. I'm asking has anyone found that the more animal attraction they have for someone they are with, the longer you tend to go on for. Conversely, has anyone experienced it not lasting as long where there aren't the same sparks flying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm not attracted to someone it ain't happening in the first place.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

There's many factors involved but if you cum quickly why not just keep playing? If I cum quickly for any reason I almost always stay hard and just keep on playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine that human males are hardwired to seek out and mate with females who have desirable physical characteristics. So if you find yourself getting overexcited during a sexual encounter with a hottie, you can blame millions of years of biological evolution

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By *tranTV/TS
over a year ago

City

Its probably some fetish for things you dont like..

Shes so fucking filthy, of fuck Im gonna cum. As soon as you cum you think "what an ugly bitch", then your dick gets hard and your fucking her and cumming quick again.

These are the type of guys when you reject them they say things like "who would fuck you anyway fat cow", they will fuck people that in their eyes they see as fat cows, and cum harder than they ever have before.

I prefer guys who cum hard when they are with someone they like, even if its quick.

Being a trans I have to be careful of people who will fuck someone they dont like. A lot of trans end up murdered or beaten to a pulp after the guy cums really hard then decides he will insult and beat you. In new york it was quite common for trans prostitutes who just got paid a load of money to make a guy cum harder than he ever did before to escape out a window or run down the road as fast as they can to avoid the men like that after the fact.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Generally yes. For a number of reasons.

1. I enjoy being with them more so I'll make the most of the opportunity.

2. In the early stages there's also an element of wanting to ensure you get to see/do them again. Realistically if I shoot my load after 30 seconds then that's not going to help.

If I'm not that pushed about them then I don't mind if it's a quick in and out job and I don't see them again. I've reach the point where if I'm not that interested I'd rather not do it at all though.

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By *apperMan
over a year ago

Galway City

Really if you are not attracted to them ..why are you even having sex with them ..I'd never be with anyone unless I'm attracted to them..., Question do you tell them that I'm not really attached to you but I'll sleep with you because I can't get anyone I'm attracted to... seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's many factors involved but if you cum quickly why not just keep playing? If I cum quickly for any reason I almost always stay hard and just keep on playing "

Mmmmm that sounds okay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to just get it up

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Really if you are not attracted to them ..why are you even having sex with them ..I'd never be with anyone unless I'm attracted to them..., Question do you tell them that I'm not really attached to you but I'll sleep with you because I can't get anyone I'm attracted to... seriously "

I'm having sex with them because I want to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really if you are not attracted to them ..why are you even having sex with them ..I'd never be with anyone unless I'm attracted to them..., Question do you tell them that I'm not really attached to you but I'll sleep with you because I can't get anyone I'm attracted to... seriously "

Brilliantly explained!!!

Has to be some attraction whether it's personality or looks!

Not one for having a quickie just for self indulgence!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the other guys here. Have you ever experienced being with a woman you really are into that you can go for hours but if your with someone who you maybe aren't as attracted to that you often finish quicker without even trying. It's like your body is reacting to the level of physical attraction and pleasure this person brings to you. The more pleasurable being with her is, the more stamina you have but if the sparks aren't flying, your body is saying OK, let's just get this over with.

Has anyone ever experienced this?"

I'm sure plenty do this and I'm sure some are in long term relationships with the person. I know when I was in my 20s there were ages guys I was with and it would have been a case of finishing them quickly as I didn't know or realise I was allowed or deserved to enjoy the sex, it was the intimacy I craved. I guess now I'm at the age if I've met a guy socially and we have kissed and I'm attracted to them I'm not going to rush the sex , I'm going to enjoy every minute of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but the go for hours with the right attraction I prefer for sure. Equally I have had some good quick and fast plays but longer always wins.

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Anywhere


"If I'm not attracted to someone it ain't happening in the first place. "
Ditto

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By *on Draper2.0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Some people don't seem to have gotten the gist of what I was asking. Its not about PE or blowing your wad quickly because the lady is scorching hot.

You never really know how compatible you are with someone, in a physical sense, until you get physical.

At that point, body shape, size and proportion do come into play I guess but also there is some unspoken x factor I think. Some people just fit together with each other physically better than they do with others. I think that maybe when your body subconsciously senses this, it wants to stay there for as long as possible and prolong the experience. The opposite can be true when it feels like something is missing maybe.

Does that make sense to anyone else?

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Yeah, I get what you are saying.

Personally, in my fucking anything days, it was a case of,if I didn't fancy her much, I could fuck for quite a while before cumming. After orgasm, I wasn't much interested in anything other than sleeping. With women I did fancy, I came quicker but was much more playful afterwards. I'd usually give them an oral/finger orgasm before sex and found that after we'd fucked, they were much more enthusiastic in encouraging me for more. Needless to say, as I fancied them, that happened that there was regularly more and longer interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the other guys here. Have you ever experienced being with a woman you really are into that you can go for hours but if your with someone who you maybe aren't as attracted to that you often finish quicker without even trying. It's like your body is reacting to the level of physical attraction and pleasure this person brings to you. The more pleasurable being with her is, the more stamina you have but if the sparks aren't flying, your body is saying OK, let's just get this over with.

Has anyone ever experienced this?"

Nope if no spark it's very hard to cum lots of sparks then yes I have cum sometimes too quick but then use the finger & tongue and make sure she cums too

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Ennis

Physical attraction would not be a key factor for me in this situation. I would have to be more like on mental connection if you wish...soarks as manny people say...would be the most important to me but not too this extent that i would have cum faster...nah

Like someone mentioned here, i would not mind to take another go and maybe squeeze 3 time...without any medication ofcoufse, la natural so far

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By *teppenwolfMan
over a year ago

Cork


"Physical attraction would not be a key factor for me in this situation. I would have to be more like on mental connection if you wish...soarks as manny people say...would be the most important to me but not too this extent that i would have cum faster...nah

Like someone mentioned here, i would not mind to take another go and maybe squeeze 3 time...without any medication ofcoufse, la natural so far "

Agree with this.....physical attraction can be somewhat generic.....loads of pretty ladies out there....its the one that get you hard from mental interaction....thats the one you know your gonna have a real intimate connection with.

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By *on Draper2.0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"Yeah, I get what you are saying.

Personally, in my fucking anything days, it was a case of,if I didn't fancy her much, I could fuck for quite a while before cumming. After orgasm, I wasn't much interested in anything other than sleeping. With women I did fancy, I came quicker but was much more playful afterwards. I'd usually give them an oral/finger orgasm before sex and found that after we'd fucked, they were much more enthusiastic in encouraging me for more. Needless to say, as I fancied them, that happened that there was regularly more and longer interaction "

That's almost the exact opposite of my experience. I couldn't be with anyone at all unless I like them and feel a mental and physical attraction to begin with but i tend not to go on for a particularly long time unless we really connect on a mental level and something about the interaction of our bodies just feels extra good. I have difficulty putting it into words, which is what prompted me to come here and see if anyone else has similar experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the other guys here. Have you ever experienced being with a woman you really are into that you can go for hours but if your with someone who you maybe aren't as attracted to that you often finish quicker without even trying. It's like your body is reacting to the level of physical attraction and pleasure this person brings to you. The more pleasurable being with her is, the more stamina you have but if the sparks aren't flying, your body is saying OK, let's just get this over with.

Has anyone ever experienced this?"

Wether you believe it or not attraction starts in the mind , you may be " physically " attracted to some one but it starts in the mind , everything starts in the mind , well I think so anyway.

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By *on Draper2.0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"Question for the other guys here. Have you ever experienced being with a woman you really are into that you can go for hours but if your with someone who you maybe aren't as attracted to that you often finish quicker without even trying. It's like your body is reacting to the level of physical attraction and pleasure this person brings to you. The more pleasurable being with her is, the more stamina you have but if the sparks aren't flying, your body is saying OK, let's just get this over with.

Has anyone ever experienced this?

Wether you believe it or not attraction starts in the mind , you may be " physically " attracted to some one but it starts in the mind , everything starts in the mind , well I think so anyway. "

Can't and wouldn't want to disagree with that point but what I'm trying to describe is a physical reaction to a mental stimulus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the other guys here. Have you ever experienced being with a woman you really are into that you can go for hours but if your with someone who you maybe aren't as attracted to that you often finish quicker without even trying. It's like your body is reacting to the level of physical attraction and pleasure this person brings to you. The more pleasurable being with her is, the more stamina you have but if the sparks aren't flying, your body is saying OK, let's just get this over with.

Has anyone ever experienced this?

Wether you believe it or not attraction starts in the mind , you may be " physically " attracted to some one but it starts in the mind , everything starts in the mind , well I think so anyway.

Can't and wouldn't want to disagree with that point but what I'm trying to describe is a physical reaction to a mental stimulus."

I know what you're trying to describe but each situation is different to different people , each person is gonna have their own take on it , like you are , no matter how attracted you are to that person physically or visa versa everything starts in the mind , I think , and l could be way out here , but the body only follows the mind, it only does or goes where the mind takes it ,every situation is different unless it's regular , then it's a different story but it's mind first .. physical follows

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Question for the other guys here. Have you ever experienced being with a woman you really are into that you can go for hours but if your with someone who you maybe aren't as attracted to that you often finish quicker without even trying. It's like your body is reacting to the level of physical attraction and pleasure this person brings to you. The more pleasurable being with her is, the more stamina you have but if the sparks aren't flying, your body is saying OK, let's just get this over with.

Has anyone ever experienced this?"

I wonder if perhaps this person who you had a great connection with and was really into, was perhaps not that skilled in bed.. while the one who you weren't that attracted to was a fantastic fuck and so made you cum quicker.

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

There are times where on paper everything matches chat looks laughs but when it gets down to business a smell not washing after a pee or not touching can dry you up like the desert or drop you like a stone

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"There are times where on paper everything matches chat looks laughs but when it gets down to business a smell not washing after a pee or not touching can dry you up like the desert or drop you like a stone "

Completely agree.

Went for dinner with a lady as an ice breaker before any fun. Few drinks first and was delightful and sexy. Then dinner. She hardly kept her mouth shut the whole time,as in eating with mouth open, not closed, as well as talking with food in centre of mouth. I nearly wretched! Said something didn't agree with my stomach, made my excuses and left, never to meet again.

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Ennis


"There are times where on paper everything matches chat looks laughs but when it gets down to business a smell not washing after a pee or not touching can dry you up like the desert or drop you like a stone

Completely agree.

Went for dinner with a lady as an ice breaker before any fun. Few drinks first and was delightful and sexy. Then dinner. She hardly kept her mouth shut the whole time,as in eating with mouth open, not closed, as well as talking with food in centre of mouth. I nearly wretched! Said something didn't agree with my stomach, made my excuses and left, never to meet again."

I agree on hygiene part...happend to me once...not on fab though...went down on girl in order to perform a bit of my favourite (esting crotch) and she tasted like crisps...cheese and onion and spur cream...it was so off putting...which made me go go soft...and had to terminate the whole thing. If I was a girl and knew i had yeast infection or similar...I would have get it fixed before meeting anyone.

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By *flashMan
over a year ago

Town

I'd always make sure she was pleased first before anything.. that way if I came quick it wouldn't be so bad..and it's a win win for everyone

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By *on Draper2.0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"Question for the other guys here. Have you ever experienced being with a woman you really are into that you can go for hours but if your with someone who you maybe aren't as attracted to that you often finish quicker without even trying. It's like your body is reacting to the level of physical attraction and pleasure this person brings to you. The more pleasurable being with her is, the more stamina you have but if the sparks aren't flying, your body is saying OK, let's just get this over with.

Has anyone ever experienced this?

I wonder if perhaps this person who you had a great connection with and was really into, was perhaps not that skilled in bed.. while the one who you weren't that attracted to was a fantastic fuck and so made you cum quicker."

No, definitely not that.

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By *uddleboycharlieMan
over a year ago

swords

my personal answer is however long my partner wants it for. I can go forever (not bragging, I am unable to finish) but I would do what I can to make my partner as pleased as possible. it would take a while, banter build-up, massage, foreplay etc. I don't think it should be quick unless they ask for it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"There are times where on paper everything matches chat looks laughs but when it gets down to business a smell not washing after a pee or not touching can dry you up like the desert or drop you like a stone "

Urgh I've had that. Fantastic rapport. Great coffee neet and chats that went on and on. Came down to business shortly after at a private party and as soon as she got undressed I was blasted by an overpowering smell of BO. Was so gross. I ended up making an excuse and left her to another guy there who was sniffing around. He had the right idea and guided her into the shower for steamy session.

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Ennis


"There are times where on paper everything matches chat looks laughs but when it gets down to business a smell not washing after a pee or not touching can dry you up like the desert or drop you like a stone

Urgh I've had that. Fantastic rapport. Great coffee neet and chats that went on and on. Came down to business shortly after at a private party and as soon as she got undressed I was blasted by an overpowering smell of BO. Was so gross. I ended up making an excuse and left her to another guy there who was sniffing around. He had the right idea and guided her into the shower for steamy session."

I still do not get it, why people would do it to others? Or maybe it is their fetish or just lack of personal hygiene?

Not mentioning the

Fingernails...ill stop here

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By *on Draper2.0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"There are times where on paper everything matches chat looks laughs but when it gets down to business a smell not washing after a pee or not touching can dry you up like the desert or drop you like a stone

Urgh I've had that. Fantastic rapport. Great coffee neet and chats that went on and on. Came down to business shortly after at a private party and as soon as she got undressed I was blasted by an overpowering smell of BO. Was so gross. I ended up making an excuse and left her to another guy there who was sniffing around. He had the right idea and guided her into the shower for steamy session.

I still do not get it, why people would do it to others? Or maybe it is their fetish or just lack of personal hygiene?

Not mentioning the

Fingernails...ill stop here "

Do what?

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Ennis


"There are times where on paper everything matches chat looks laughs but when it gets down to business a smell not washing after a pee or not touching can dry you up like the desert or drop you like a stone

Urgh I've had that. Fantastic rapport. Great coffee neet and chats that went on and on. Came down to business shortly after at a private party and as soon as she got undressed I was blasted by an overpowering smell of BO. Was so gross. I ended up making an excuse and left her to another guy there who was sniffing around. He had the right idea and guided her into the shower for steamy session.

I still do not get it, why people would do it to others? Or maybe it is their fetish or just lack of personal hygiene?

Not mentioning the

Fingernails...ill stop here

Do what?"

Poor hygiene...all together and getting other people to please the orally

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

It's shocking people dressed to the hilt then expect you to lick them clean like a cat fuck that

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