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By *penyoureyes2722 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Been chatting to a guy on here for a while. We talk about meeting. I ask to meet him for a chat to see if we are both interested in taking things further. I sugest a night, doesn't suit him, next one doesn't suit me. Next thing is "what about a car meet" I call him tacky and in return get abuse and blocked. I just wanted a chat to see if we were compatible(obviously we're not). The sad thing is he's not the only guy to act like this. So many guys seem to think you meeting for a chat/coffee is guaranteed sex in their car after. Single guys wonder why they get a bad name???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree whats wrong with a meet and greet in coffee shop some nutters out there and need to be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy probably was just attached or married & a cheapskate & didnt want to spend a few £ on a hotel room lol car meets are for teenagers haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should always be the womans choice if she is comfy with a car chat so be it , but a public cuppa or hotel is only fair . I agree he was def married ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy on here for a while. We talk about meeting. I ask to meet him for a chat to see if we are both interested in taking things further. I sugest a night, doesn't suit him, next one doesn't suit me. Next thing is "what about a car meet" I call him tacky and in return get abuse and blocked. I just wanted a chat to see if we were compatible(obviously we're not). The sad thing is he's not the only guy to act like this. So many guys seem to think you meeting for a chat/coffee is guaranteed sex in their car after. Single guys wonder why they get a bad name??? "

I was chatting to a woman. Wanted to meet for a coffee. Suggested several times, none suited. Eventually I suggested that really maybe she liked the idea of talking about a meet rather than a meet (I had a lot of texts from her wondering what we would do if we met).

In return I got abuse and blocked.

No wonder single women in here get a bad name???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure you know what it's like...the place is full of nut jobs..male and female

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By *penyoureyes2722 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Sure you know what it's like...the place is full of nut jobs..male and female "

I know, he just pissed me off. Tbh think I'm more annoyed that he blocked me and I didn't get the last word lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure you know what it's like...the place is full of nut jobs..male and female "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure you know what it's like...the place is full of nut jobs..male and female

I know, he just pissed me off. Tbh think I'm more annoyed that he blocked me and I didn't get the last word lol "

Grrr i hate that too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its when u get emails from guys who obviously havent even bothered to read your profile and when u say no thanks read the profile they block u after emailing you saying they didnt want to meet u anyway hilarious!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatting to a guy on here for a while. We talk about meeting. I ask to meet him for a chat to see if we are both interested in taking things further. I sugest a night, doesn't suit him, next one doesn't suit me. Next thing is "what about a car meet" I call him tacky and in return get abuse and blocked. I just wanted a chat to see if we were compatible(obviously we're not). The sad thing is he's not the only guy to act like this. So many guys seem to think you meeting for a chat/coffee is guaranteed sex in their car after. Single guys wonder why they get a bad name???

I was chatting to a woman. Wanted to meet for a coffee. Suggested several times, none suited. Eventually I suggested that really maybe she liked the idea of talking about a meet rather than a meet (I had a lot of texts from her wondering what we would do if we met).

In return I got abuse and blocked.

No wonder single women in here get a bad name??? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Car fun can b great lol go on u know u want to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as its a nice big comfy car with plenty of room in it on a cold winters nite with the heat blastin makin feet marks on the wind screen live a little ppl lol well if he turns up that is haha

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By *penyoureyes2722 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Car fun can b great lol go on u know u want to lol "

Behave yourself or I'll take you for a drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Car fun can b great lol go on u know u want to lol

Behave yourself or I'll take you for a drive "

You dirty girl let's get it on then big girl let's go for a drive will u blindfold me so I don't know our destination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree whats wrong with a meet and greet in coffee shop some nutters out there and need to be safe

TOTALLY AGREE ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree whats wrong with a meet and greet in coffee shop some nutters out there and need to be safe

TOTALLY AGREE .. "

in a coffee shop make it a bar get them d*unk stupid n have ur wicked way wi them lolol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree whats wrong with a meet and greet in coffee shop some nutters out there and need to be safe

TOTALLY AGREE .. "

I agree.....if they are nutters on here what wud they be like in real life???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure you know what it's like...the place is full of nut jobs..male and female

I know, he just pissed me off. Tbh think I'm more annoyed that he blocked me and I didn't get the last word lol "

Damn right I blocked you, thought you'd be honoured to have a leg out the window job in the back of my motor!

Seriously tho... wasn't it better you found out what he was like BEFORE you met him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fella I chat to on here offered me fun in the car. But took it grand wen I turned it dwn till I can accom. Not all single fellas are bad on here some lovely guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miz lol i think it's just the effect u have on ppl on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fella I chat to on here offered me fun in the car. But took it grand wen I turned it dwn till I can accom. Not all single fellas are bad on here some lovely guys "

glad to hear that he,s gonna wait till you can accomadate some are in a while hurry they seem to just want it NOW !! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye n sum that just want it now are to scared to turn up good about talkin bout it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miz lol i think it's just the effect u have on ppl on here "
. Wat effect wud that be lmao xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aye n sum that just want it now are to scared to turn up good about talkin bout it lol "

you hit the nail right on the head lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guy probably was just attached or married & a cheapskate & didnt want to spend a few £ on a hotel room lol car meets are for teenagers haha"

Maybe he was just into car fun and that's wat he gets his thrill from??? Lol just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 times a certain lady in here arranged a meet with me and 3 times she cancelled approx 1 hr beforehand , deleting her profile as she went only to reappear a day or 2 later with bullshit reasons why she left .. I agree some blokes give us single guys a bad name but there as some ladies that run men into the ground and can only talk a good meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god i love a bit of woman bashin just as much as i love men bashin !! bring it on lads lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 times a certain lady in here arranged a meet with me and 3 times she cancelled approx 1 hr beforehand , deleting her profile as she went only to reappear a day or 2 later with bullshit reasons why she left .. I agree some blokes give us single guys a bad name but there as some ladies that run men into the ground and can only talk a good meet"

Have heard that a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 times a certain lady in here arranged a meet with me and 3 times she cancelled approx 1 hr beforehand , deleting her profile as she went only to reappear a day or 2 later with bullshit reasons why she left .. I agree some blokes give us single guys a bad name but there as some ladies that run men into the ground and can only talk a good meet"

Maybe she kept forgetting she was really a man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 times a certain lady in here arranged a meet with me and 3 times she cancelled approx 1 hr beforehand , deleting her profile as she went only to reappear a day or 2 later with bullshit reasons why she left .. I agree some blokes give us single guys a bad name but there as some ladies that run men into the ground and can only talk a good meet

Maybe she kept forgetting she was really a man lol"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol .. Nah she was defo a lady... Haven't seen her in a while now .. Perhaps that's the cherry on the cake or do I mean icing ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao subtle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lmao subtle "

subtle as a brick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that clue too easy .. Hmmm .. Note to self .. Must try harder ... Anyway .. Fuck it ... I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was that clue too easy .. Hmmm .. Note to self .. Must try harder ... Anyway .. Fuck it ... I'm honest "

best policy no one like to be messed about

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By *penyoureyes2722 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *penyoureyes2722 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm confused the only person I can think of is certainly no lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused the only person I can think of is certainly no lady!"

think of a cake with icing and something on top lol the clue is there open lolol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol .. Nah she was defo a lady... Haven't seen her in a while now .. Perhaps that's the cherry on the cake or do I mean icing ??"

class lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol .. Nah she was defo a lady... Haven't seen her in a while now .. Perhaps that's the cherry on the cake or do I mean icing ??

class lmao "

belter clint lol

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster


"Lol .. Nah she was defo a lady... Haven't seen her in a while now .. Perhaps that's the cherry on the cake or do I mean icing ??"

Maybe u had a lucky escape then, did u think of that lol.

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By *penyoureyes2722 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm confused the only person I can think of is certainly no lady!

think of a cake with icing and something on top lol the clue is there open lolol xxx"

I get who they mean, but lady isn't one of the words I'd use to descibe that person lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ... I used the term loosely in this case as I in no way wish to sound derogatory .. Mum told me always to respect my elders , especially the ones who are prone to psychotic delusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh love a bit of dirt being dished lol

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster


"Lol ... I used the term loosely in this case as I in no way wish to sound derogatory .. Mum told me always to respect my elders , especially the ones who are prone to psychotic delusions "

totally agree with u there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused the only person I can think of is certainly no lady!

think of a cake with icing and something on top lol the clue is there open lolol xxx

I get who they mean, but lady isn't one of the words I'd use to descibe that person lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, poor bakewell.

Just wanted to add my two pennys worth- yes there are probably just as many crazy women as men, just like there's lots of horny decent ones of both sexes.

But (and, like my own, it's a big butt) women will always have the control over meets. That's why a woman moans on here about a guy who cancels 1 meet while the guys are complaining about women who cancel 3 or 4..and they'd probably give them a 5th chance if they thought there was even a slim possibility of a meet!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol, poor bakewell.

Just wanted to add my two pennys worth- yes there are probably just as many crazy women as men, just like there's lots of horny decent ones of both sexes.

But (and, like my own, it's a big butt) women will always have the control over meets. That's why a woman moans on here about a guy who cancels 1 meet while the guys are complaining about women who cancel 3 or 4..and they'd probably give them a 5th chance if they thought there was even a slim possibility of a meet!

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a big butt no u have a great ass lol

and yes i do agree just as many crazies on both sexes but may i add always good to hear of a fem crazy lol

now bend over till i rimm u xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting over coffee is safer on first meets ,some men have check on them ,just think women do things at drope of a hat for them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think most of us are in agreement .. Whether it be males , females or couples .. There's a few on here with more issues than the magazine stand in Easons , but that said the nice people outweigh them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think most of us are in agreement .. Whether it be males , females or couples .. There's a few on here with more issues than the magazine stand in Easons , but that said the nice people outweigh them "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest joe here lol

Some and I repeat, some!!!!! of the women on fab think they are perfect and they are really not perfect at all. they punch above their weight and wen they are told that the male isn't interested they take it bad and post about it. after a whole lot of insults l8r it leaves you with the dreaded block button lol just accept it and move on like everyone else does. Obviously not everyone on the site is willing nor wants to meet you. Obviously there's certain men on here too that are the same but I'd just like to point out that women do it just as often as the men that they complain about. (Fact) rant over!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to say that someone is punching above their weight is an awful thing to say about anyone...apart from a rare few non of us are model material, but we're all here to have adult fun with like minded people surely.

But having read the original post again, thats not what the OP had been saying.

The block button is there for a reason and thank god as things can turn very nasty on here...but for someone to throw their dummy out of the pram in a childish way and then hide behind a block says more about them really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who sed I was talking about the original post at all? U trying to tell me something? I was just stating facts that some women on here are portraying themselves as great swinging icons but in natural fact they are far from it. They like to put men down and when in natural fact they can be every bit as bad as the men they so often complain about.

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By *penyoureyes2722 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I think to say that someone is punching above their weight is an awful thing to say about anyone...apart from a rare few non of us are model material, but we're all here to have adult fun with like minded people surely.

But having read the original post again, thats not what the OP had been saying.

The block button is there for a reason and thank god as things can turn very nasty on here...but for someone to throw their dummy out of the pram in a childish way and then hide behind a block says more about them really."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only fair to point out that sheer economic 'Supply & demand,' dictates that women can afford to be more selective. Men outnumber women on here by a huge percentage. Add to that fact, that each woman will receive a significantly higher number of messages. There are those members who simply cannot understand why they don't get a response. well if I had to sit through 20 messages per day (I wish) would I really bother replying to each one I'm NOT interested in? The time it takes to; read the message, check the profile and compose a response x 20, sure you'd never be done. So when members get frustrated and continue to send messages, which aren't being replied to then the recipient can only really resort to blocking them as clearly the sender isn't picking up on the obvious.

I think I will impose a 2 message rule on myself. Send 2, get no response, move on and don't bother her / them again. I'll take no offence, just accept it. But by becoming a pest you loose any chance of getting on.

I think that in normal circumstances it's polite to respond, even with a, "Sorry, not interested." But this isn't exactly a normal situation on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only fair to point out that sheer economic 'Supply & demand,' dictates that women can afford to be more selective. Men outnumber women on here by a huge percentage. Add to that fact, that each woman will receive a significantly higher number of messages. There are those members who simply cannot understand why they don't get a response. well if I had to sit through 20 messages per day (I wish) would I really bother replying to each one I'm NOT interested in? The time it takes to; read the message, check the profile and compose a response x 20, sure you'd never be done. So when members get frustrated and continue to send messages, which aren't being replied to then the recipient can only really resort to blocking them as clearly the sender isn't picking up on the obvious.

I think I will impose a 2 message rule on myself. Send 2, get no response, move on and don't bother her / them again. I'll take no offence, just accept it. But by becoming a pest you loose any chance of getting on.

I think that in normal circumstances it's polite to respond, even with a, "Sorry, not interested." But this isn't exactly a normal situation on here.

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I totally agree, we do try to reply to all our messages, but sometimes they are ridiculous, we have had ones that just say 'x'. That has to be the least amount of effort required to do anything ever lol. What would one even reply to that?

I find on here people can be very harsh a lot of the time, I used to get frustrated with messages myself, but I suppose what is the point in that really. You are expecting a standard of communication from someone you don't know. Not really that much point in getting angry and frustrated but I suppose it is hard not to, we are only human!!

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