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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

…to get chatting. All the girls must have a million creepy off putting messsges a day to work through ?? Question for the girls what messages catch the eye? ??

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Prepare to be told “the eye catching ones”, or “dic pics”……

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

People who read profiles first, make sure they match our preferences and send thought out message (anything that isn't forward, creepy or repetitve/boring) or genuinely funny joke tend to catch our eye

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

A profile catches my eye more than a message. If the profile doesn't interest me then I may not read the message .

I don't get a lot of messages as I keep filters tight but I look at profiles before I answer and if the profile really doesn't appeal I may not even read the message .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A profile catches my eye more than a message. If the profile doesn't interest me then I may not read the message .

I don't get a lot of messages as I keep filters tight but I look at profiles before I answer and if the profile really doesn't appeal I may not even read the message ."

one line, one pic, zero to go on really

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im the same as Bo filters set as tight as a Cavans man wallet so i never get many messages,on the one's that i do get is what's on the profile that catches my eye..There bio and how much of an effort with it and pics if they don't interest me generally I won't open the message simply because if they can't make an effort with there profile they generally don't make one with messages

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By *lue eyesMan
over a year ago

cavan

Please please please don't confuse a cavan man's wallet with a kerry man's wallet I have no problem with bringing you out on a night and getting you d*unk and I'd even bring you to the chipper after lol

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


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one line, one pic, zero to go on really"

Yep, those with no photos and no detail in their profile. Even worse if they have the "been here before, know the story" bullshite and then a blank profile. Some are even site supporters, tells its own story.

We won't ever interact with those accounts, wether it's men, women or couples.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"…to get chatting. All the girls must have a million creepy off putting messsges a day to work through ?? Question for the girls what messages catch the eye? ?? "

Ones with the sender listed as Michael McCarthy!

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
over a year ago

From a galaxy far far away


"

one line, one pic, zero to go on really

Yep, those with no photos and no detail in their profile. Even worse if they have the "been here before, know the story" bullshite and then a blank profile. Some are even site supporters, tells its own story.

We won't ever interact with those accounts, wether it's men, women or couples."

This

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I concur. Messages don’t mean much if the profile is crap. One liner messages with zero effort usually come from one liner profiles with zero effort . They get zero attention from me.

Maybe look at the profiles of other men? See what they have up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…to get chatting. All the girls must have a million creepy off putting messsges a day to work through ?? Question for the girls what messages catch the eye? ??

Ones with the sender listed as Michael McCarthy! "

They make me giddy with excitement

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"…to get chatting. All the girls must have a million creepy off putting messsges a day to work through ?? Question for the girls what messages catch the eye? ??

Ones with the sender listed as Michael McCarthy!

They make me giddy with excitement "

Stripey legs go to the head of the queue.

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary

I like them ones that just read “Hi”

It’s so overwhelming that someone would sit there and put that much effort into getting into ur personal space.

Mind blowing stuff

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By *isnameismargaretMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It's always hilarious when bare profiles start complaining about how the women on here won't talk to them.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

#notallcreeps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Learnt a lot here ??

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"A profile catches my eye more than a message. If the profile doesn't interest me then I may not read the message .

I don't get a lot of messages as I keep filters tight but I look at profiles before I answer and if the profile really doesn't appeal I may not even read the message ."

This. I'm not going to conduct an in-depth interview with every man who messages me to discover if I'm interested or not. If the profile is blank or bland, I just delete.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


" if they can't make an effort with there profile they generally don't make one with messages "

Not to mention in the bedroom Low effort in the streets, low effort in the sheets!

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"A profile catches my eye more than a message. If the profile doesn't interest me then I may not read the message .

I don't get a lot of messages as I keep filters tight but I look at profiles before I answer and if the profile really doesn't appeal I may not even read the message .

This. I'm not going to conduct an in-depth interview with every man who messages me to discover if I'm interested or not. If the profile is blank or bland, I just delete. "

Same.

When I get a message, if it catches my eye with the code word, it means they’re read my profile. I’ll look at the profile (checking height, location, age, smoker, then bio). If that checks out, and the message is good, I might reply if I like the pics too. Otherwise it’s 99% a delete.

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By *uddleboycharlieMan
over a year ago

swords

I always try to read the profile and tailor my message to the person. I never message if I have that "didn't respond" warning and still, I don't get many replies, I think it's due to maybe how my profile is written or my physical looks

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Do you have a Sky remote OP?

Might just have an idea for a new approach for you...

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