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WHY DONT WANT MEET ATTACHED MEN IN IRELAND

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi just wondered why so hard to meet couple or single people on swinger site i mean i can give just as much than the next guy . i just want to pleasure people and it impossible when noone like to meet how can i change this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because no one has time for a cheat and dishonesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Point taking .....I apoligise to all I offended how do I delete this forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the way we look at it if u dont have any respect for your wife or partner then cant see us as complete strangers getting any!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the way we look at it if u dont have any respect for your wife or partner then cant see us as complete strangers getting any!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your only using and abusing them,they arent part of your relationship so why worry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is fab SWINGERS not fab cheats! its not swinging when your on here looking some one to fuck behind your partners back! i wouldn't like it done to me so as the saying goes treat others how you;d like to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is fab SWINGERS not fab cheats! its not swinging when your on here looking some one to fuck behind your partners back! i wouldn't like it done to me so as the saying goes treat others how you;d like to be treated. "

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"this is fab SWINGERS not fab cheats! its not swinging when your on here looking some one to fuck behind your partners back! i wouldn't like it done to me so as the saying goes treat others how you;d like to be treated. "

While I don't know the original poster of this thread I do think the comment above is a little bit laughable. There are tons of men and women on here cheating on their partners. While I know you may not like it done to you, I do think you were slightly out of order with your comment knowing the very nature of this site.

If you think most men and women on here are here with their partners consent then you really have not grasped the nature of how "SOME" humans work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the way we look at it if u dont have any respect for your wife or partner then cant see us as complete strangers getting any!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is fab SWINGERS not fab cheats! its not swinging when your on here looking some one to fuck behind your partners back! i wouldn't like it done to me so as the saying goes treat others how you;d like to be treated.

While I don't know the original poster of this thread I do think the comment above is a little bit laughable. There are tons of men and women on here cheating on their partners. While I know you may not like it done to you, I do think you were slightly out of order with your comment knowing the very nature of this site.

If you think most men and women on here are here with their partners consent then you really have not grasped the nature of how "SOME" humans work."

how is it out of order??? what she said is true!!if yur gonna cheat on yur partner then do the decent think and split up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people who find it laughable are those who are cheating on their partners for what ever excuse! if the shoe fits etc.

this is a forum for voicing opinions, this is my opinion, everyone else is entitled to theirs. i wouldn't be willing to swing unless both partners are in the loop. but im happy to leave each to their own. its just something i not interested in! the nature of this site is swinging.

Swinging or partner swapping is a non-monogamous behavior, in which singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity at informal gatherings of friends to planned regular social meetings.

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"The only people who find it laughable are those who are cheating on their partners for what ever excuse! if the shoe fits etc.

this is a forum for voicing opinions, this is my opinion, everyone else is entitled to theirs. i wouldn't be willing to swing unless both partners are in the loop. but im happy to leave each to their own. its just something i not interested in! the nature of this site is swinging.

Swinging or partner swapping is a non-monogamous behavior, in which singles or partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity at informal gatherings of friends to planned regular social meetings."

Where would we be without a search engine?

If you read my profile you see it says my Husband knows so if you think I am cheating sorry to dissapoint you (see your comment about people who find it laughable). Nobody should make assumptions on any kind of website more so this type lol.

YOU SAID "this is fab SWINGERS not fab cheats! its not swinging when your on here looking some one to fuck" the reason I said "I do think you were slightly out of order with your comment knowing the very nature of this site." is because from your very own opinion you are judging others based on your likes and dislikes.

It's fine having an opinion but I was and am merely pointing out by the very nature of this website the wrong thing to do is to judge others.If we like it or not it's going to happen and this site has made some money from them LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, this site is about swinging, but swinging is different things to different people.

We all have our own opinions, which is fair enough and right, but these opinions shouldn't then be forced on others who simply have different opinions.

If someone has an issue with married people being on here, fine, just move on and ignore the people who don't interest you. It's pretty simple, it's not rocket science, so any and everybody should be able to manage it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am not having a go at any individual on this site. i am fully aware that it takes all sorts, i would never judge anyone but we all have our views and like i said treat others as you would want to be treated.

i know this site is making a huge amount of money just like a lot of other sites.

i was replying to the post, i can only reply in my own experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your only using and abusing them,they arent part of your relationship so why worry lol"

gotta agree. Its just about sex. Their relationship is none of yer business til she comes knocking on yer door!!!!

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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago

southend


"the way we look at it if u dont have any respect for your wife or partner then cant see us as complete strangers getting any!"

Ohhhhh harsh but definiely a good point!! Like it lol

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By *ilk69Man
over a year ago

city.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way.Whether we are swinging with your partner,wife,what ever, cheating or with consent we are all commiting adultery .

Simple id a thought.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Married or not this is a site to meeet like minded people if they are honest and have been up front it ur decision to carry on contact or not I have chatted with peeps who had no problem and those who had. Those who made their view known and we said or good bys and that's fine those who haven't have kept contact and id say we have enjoyed some good fun and laughs if its not for U move on simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have it on our profile in caps no married guys and if we see it on a profile we pass on by but still get them emailing us !!

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster


"Married or not this is a site to meeet like minded people if they are honest and have been up front it ur decision to carry on contact or not I have chatted with peeps who had no problem and those who had. Those who made their view known and we said or good bys and that's fine those who haven't have kept contact and id say we have enjoyed some good fun and laughs if its not for U move on simple"

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

In every walk of life U get some prats bifor that can't read or for some can't retain what they have read best action is to block I will always read a profile before contacting happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way I look at it is if a man in his 30's can't accomadate on his profile ( not that I want him to ) he's either married or still living with ' Mammy' sad or what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way I look at it is if a man in his 30's can't accomadate on his profile ( not that I want him to ) he's either married or still living with ' Mammy' sad or what "

Never hear of housemates?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had housemates they'd all want to join in!!

Lol

Hey that's not a bad idea!....

Spit roast anyone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amazing how many 40 yr old men have house mates,think fab men must be way above average for flat sharing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"amazing how many 40 yr old men have house mates,think fab men must be way above average for flat sharing!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have read all the postings for this,really people,most of you should read before posting lol.first of all it is a swinging site,there is only 1 rule for swinging,have fun regardless.does it matter if people are married or not.now i have heard all the arguements,the wife etc,why all about the men,there are plenty of married women on here too,nad by the way peeps,have a look and see how many women cant accom,is it because they live with mammy??? dont think so lol.so please,this isnt facebook ie.we are not kids,please dont get so judgemental about relationships,as bugs wouls say,thats all for now folks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol take a bow m8!!!!

Only thing is tho these expressions come to mind when women are concerned.

In a fellas perspective; "even when we are right, we are wrong" and "anything for an easy life"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have read all the postings for this,really people,most of you should read before posting lol.first of all it is a swinging site,there is only 1 rule for swinging,have fun regardless.does it matter if people are married or not.now i have heard all the arguements,the wife etc,why all about the men,there are plenty of married women on here too,nad by the way peeps,have a look and see how many women cant accom,is it because they live with mammy??? dont think so lol.so please,this isnt facebook ie.we are not kids,please dont get so judgemental about relationships,as bugs wouls say,thats all for now folks lol "

Aint that right !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about single men who are also single fathers ?? .. We do exist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about single men who are also single fathers ?? .. We do exist lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have on our profile if u cant accom for any reason we arent interested as so many bullshiters nursing granny and such like maybe a few genuine people get ignored but better safe than sorry.

As for its a swingers site for fun no matter what status people are,well some of us have standards and morals and if u think we are judging you harshly then tough ur a cheating dirtbag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing how judgemental people can be on a what is meant to a site that is meant to be for liberal thinking people.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

You said it right jsdd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just get on and do your own thing...people are too fixated on what others are up to on here...sitting passing judgement when looking for blokes to fuck your husband/wife really doesn't make you any better than anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just get on and do your own thing...people are too fixated on what others are up to on here...sitting passing judgement when looking for blokes to fuck your husband/wife really doesn't make you any better than anyone else "

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By *he Fun WeekendersCouple
over a year ago

somewhere about the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just get on and do your own thing...people are too fixated on what others are up to on here...sitting passing judgement when looking for blokes to fuck your husband/wife really doesn't make you any better than anyone else "

To bring back an old chat phase from old irish room.....

I concur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gettin a bit miaowwwwwwwww this thread each to their own everyone is different just get on with it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that is right,each to their own lol,but at the end of the day it is a swingers site,not for singles,married,cohabitating,but for all to have fun,it isnt for people looking to date etc,just fun lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 'attached' in that I have a girlfriend. Our sex life is grand, but as I say on my profile, I want to experience greater variety and have the kind of encounters a site like this can only provide. Yes, I'm cheating on my gf, but the difference is that the people I meet (hopefully will meet) on here won't be looking for any emotional input from me, nor will I expect then same from them. I'd love to have my gf join in, or get to the stage where she is aware and happy with my lifestyle choices. An unlikely pipe dream, perhaps. So, any encounters I have here will be fun and emotion free. Yes, I'd expect to want to like the people I play with and hope I'm agreeable to them. Many women will look at this and declare, "Typical man. Wants his cake and eat it," but is this site not here for adults to have adult fun without judging anyone's lifestyle choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am 'attached' in that I have a girlfriend. Our sex life is grand, but as I say on my profile, I want to experience greater variety and have the kind of encounters a site like this can only provide. Yes, I'm cheating on my gf, but the difference is that the people I meet (hopefully will meet) on here won't be looking for any emotional input from me, nor will I expect then same from them. I'd love to have my gf join in, or get to the stage where she is aware and happy with my lifestyle choices. An unlikely pipe dream, perhaps. So, any encounters I have here will be fun and emotion free. Yes, I'd expect to want to like the people I play with and hope I'm agreeable to them. Many women will look at this and declare, "Typical man. Wants his cake and eat it," but is this site not here for adults to have adult fun without judging anyone's lifestyle choice?"

think you can dress it up whatever way you want the fact is your still cheatin on her and when the day does come that you tell her do you think she,ll like the fact you were meetin orther women behind her back and be happy about it ? come on live in the real world lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do live in the real world, and I'm not trying to be all 'Jack the lad.' Nor am I proud of my situation. Maybe if I'd taken this step a year ago, I wouldn't be in a relationship. But even with my limited contact with other people on here, my sex life at home has increased and improved. I'm sorry that my situation offends you (and I don't mean that with any sarcasm)but for a long time I've wanted to have these kinds of experiences, so I joined here. It's not ideal, but it is what it is.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Yes it's a swinger's site, and yes it's about meeting liberal like-minded people, but we've had plenty of abuse hurled at us from married men we won't meet because apparently we're "judging them".

The truth is, I couldn't give a crap what other people get up to in their personal lives, the problem with me lies with morals (not their's, mine). I can not knowingly be an accomplice to a potentially devastating experience on someone else's life. I wouldn't like it done to me, so I will not assist other's who are looking to play behind their partner's back.

Yes I know that most on here lie about their marital status but you can only trust your own judgements, and for all who openly admit to being married and playing without your partner's consent, I do appreciate your honesty.

- Amy. x

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By *uteirishaWoman
over a year ago

ghost town


"What about single men who are also single fathers ?? .. We do exist lol"
and this is another reason why single women cant accomodate..being a single parent..for those who get on their soap boxes and think that married men are just cheating.. no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.. everyone has a story and reason for being here.. if the ring is there and you dont approve.. as they say.. move on..some people may not agree with all your ways..there so many judgemental people.. who has the right to judge anyone? and there are alot of married men that show respect

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By *uteirishaWoman
over a year ago

ghost town


"that is right,each to their own lol,but at the end of the day it is a swingers site,not for singles,married,cohabitating,but for all to have fun,it isnt for people looking to date etc,just fun lol. "
Not for singles?.. a single woman may not be in your preferences.. but they are for so many..I would be inundated with invites from couples as well as single men..some come here to satisfy curiosity and fulfill fantasies...can you say you have never been to a party or gathering large or small that didnt include single guys or gals?

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By *uteirishaWoman
over a year ago

ghost town


"we have on our profile if u cant accom for any reason we arent interested as so many bullshiters nursing granny and such like maybe a few genuine people get ignored but better safe than sorry.

As for its a swingers site for fun no matter what status people are,well some of us have standards and morals and if u think we are judging you harshly then tough ur a cheating dirtbag!"
that last comment was harsh..so much for people have open minds... hope that horse isnt too high..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about single men who are also single fathers ?? .. We do exist lol and this is another reason why single women cant accomodate..being a single parent..for those who get on their soap boxes and think that married men are just cheating.. no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.. everyone has a story and reason for being here.. if the ring is there and you dont approve.. as they say.. move on..some people may not agree with all your ways..there so many judgemental people.. who has the right to judge anyone? and there are alot of married men that show respect"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u are fucking about behind your wifes/husbands back there isnt much respect tbh is there??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if u are fucking about behind your wifes/husbands back there isnt much respect tbh is there??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God it must be breezy up there on that moral high ground what with the pro lifers and mothers of seven against contraception and the far right and the far lefts and the middle ground brigade. It is amazing how in a swinging site there can be so very many folk who are happy to have an opinion on others they do nothing about.

I find it hard to keep up with my own prejudices without commenting on other people. So as some sensible posters have said, if it dosent suit, then move on down the road. Nothing to see here

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