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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I stopped watching porn sometime ago as it has a negative impact on me and I have one of those ‘addictive personalities .

Been reading a book recently which mentioned a number of socially responsible porn websites. It’s debatable whether the content even qualifies as porn hence the quotation marks . I might have a look at some point .

Is this a concept you have come across? Does it sound appealing ? Do you have a positive or negative relationship with porn ? Or a non existent one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you tell us the names of the socially responsible porn sites?

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Could you tell us the names of the socially responsible porn sites? "

I knew you d ask

One of them is called makelovenotporn

I ll look up the other one

Not sure if this will get me another forum ban hopefully not

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By *ro_boner_publicoMan
over a year ago

North County

Or anyone interested in producing their own?

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By *ara198Woman
over a year ago

maynooth

A large amount of porn is violent, showing hatred towards women, degrading, and yet is obviously meeting a demand that exists. Otherwise it wouldn't be produced. Am I wrong?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"A large amount of porn is violent, showing hatred towards women, degrading, and yet is obviously meeting a demand that exists. Otherwise it wouldn't be produced. Am I wrong? "

You are correct that there is demand for that content. The crucially important part for me though is that it's produced with full knowledge and consent of all the participants, and with responsible producers who treat the actors (and their limits) respectfully in preproduction and offcamera. Obviously this is not a given, and is very hard to gaurentee. The main issue as I see it is the studios content is amalgamated into the popular free streaming sites and they lose their provenance and will sit next to very questionably produced content. It's very difficult to maintain an ethical stance and be sure that what you are watching is "good" content when you are not sure where your content is from. Personally I believe that content that appears degrading or violent is a niche kink that many would find deeply unpleasant, but that should be allowed (with controls in place) for those who are happy to produce and act in that kind of content. Adults are able to consent to all kinds of sexual activity that others find unpleasant, but that doesn't mean they should be banned. Neither should there be an uncontrolled free for all with no regard given to the safety and wellbeing of everyone involved.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Could you tell us the names of the socially responsible porn sites?

I knew you d ask

One of them is called makelovenotporn

I ll look up the other one

Not sure if this will get me another forum ban hopefully not "

Erika lust (I assume not real name) also directs this type of material

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

There does seem to be a regrettable trend towards abusive and violent porn; but I prefer the more sensual interactions where the participants actually seem to be enjoying the experience even though this is probably faked.

Porn designed for female audiences seems to be of a more senual nature, whether hetero, bisexual, trans, lesbian, couples or group.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

My favourite porn is "porn made by women". Its sensuous , erotic, and a story to it, and quite natural. Or home made, amateur, where its natural and passionate, often between two lovers. I know one of the actors in the series you mention OP, and hes a fine fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you tell us the names of the socially responsible porn sites?

I knew you d ask

One of them is called makelovenotporn

I ll look up the other one

Not sure if this will get me another forum ban hopefully not

Erika lust (I assume not real name) also directs this type of material "

Have watched some Erika Lust porn and it is definitely aimed at women

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I will peruse . Possibly this morning as I am up at 4am again

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down


"Or anyone interested in producing their own?"

From my experience, the greatest difficulty with making amateur porn is getting the lighting right

The venue has to be very well lit; bounced off the ceiling is usually best.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

The best way to ensure your porn is socially responsible is to pay for it. That's what OF is for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had a similar experience as OP. I did subscribe to some queer porn and feminist porn sites as an alternative to the tube sites. Some nice videos but a lot of it was too arty! Fun to watch, but not something you'd have a wank to.

I stay away from tube sites these days though for ethical reasons, too much dubious content (is it consensual, is it revenge porn, etc), and because of the aforementioned trend towards abusive content in the professionally produced stuff.

I agree that only fans is probably the best route, or any other way to directly support content creators. But in terms of your personal relationship to it, if, like me, you can see an addictive streak in yourself, it might be best to leave it alone or at least only have a look very occasionally.

Had anyone watched The Deuce? Excellent series by the makers of The Wire on the "golden age" of porn, following sex workers transitioning from street work to peep shows and films. Maggie Gyllenhal is unreal in it, and the soundtrack is amazing!

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By *tiffler400Man
over a year ago

belfast

I think that if the actor's are comfortable with performing in the scene and give their consent it's their choice. If there was any producer's in Ireland north or south I would have applied to be one of the actors on the receiving side.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Have had a similar experience as OP. I did subscribe to some queer porn and feminist porn sites as an alternative to the tube sites. Some nice videos but a lot of it was too arty! Fun to watch, but not something you'd have a wank to.

I stay away from tube sites these days though for ethical reasons, too much dubious content (is it consensual, is it revenge porn, etc), and because of the aforementioned trend towards abusive content in the professionally produced stuff.

I agree that only fans is probably the best route, or any other way to directly support content creators. But in terms of your personal relationship to it, if, like me, you can see an addictive streak in yourself, it might be best to leave it alone or at least only have a look very occasionally.

Had anyone watched The Deuce? Excellent series by the makers of The Wire on the "golden age" of porn, following sex workers transitioning from street work to peep shows and films. Maggie Gyllenhal is unreal in it, and the soundtrack is amazing! "

Maggie is amazing in everything she does

I see she is directing now , with the lost daughter recently under her belt

I watched a bit of the deuce but the allegations about Franco make a controversial show unpalatable really

I am just gonna stay away tbh whether it’s socially responsible or not . A slippery slope I reckon for me

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Have had a similar experience as OP. I did subscribe to some queer porn and feminist porn sites as an alternative to the tube sites. Some nice videos but a lot of it was too arty! Fun to watch, but not something you'd have a wank to.

I stay away from tube sites these days though for ethical reasons, too much dubious content (is it consensual, is it revenge porn, etc), and because of the aforementioned trend towards abusive content in the professionally produced stuff.

I agree that only fans is probably the best route, or any other way to directly support content creators. But in terms of your personal relationship to it, if, like me, you can see an addictive streak in yourself, it might be best to leave it alone or at least only have a look very occasionally.

Had anyone watched The Deuce? Excellent series by the makers of The Wire on the "golden age" of porn, following sex workers transitioning from street work to peep shows and films. Maggie Gyllenhal is unreal in it, and the soundtrack is amazing! "

Yeah as Casual says, James Franco produced and starred that show is (at the very least) problematic. This is a minefield.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

Lust produces all kinds of porn, including some very beautiful films where the interaction is between men. I remember one set in Berlin where one of the guys is a refugee. To her credit, she's also done documentary porn about older lovers (in their 70s).


"Could you tell us the names of the socially responsible porn sites?

I knew you d ask

One of them is called makelovenotporn

I ll look up the other one

Not sure if this will get me another forum ban hopefully not

Erika lust (I assume not real name) also directs this type of material

Have watched some Erika Lust porn and it is definitely aimed at women "

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