FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the men!!

By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never have done but then I don't have a routine of any description apart from turning up.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Absolutely not

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress

If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Never

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress

If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon"

I never considered there were two types of meet!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol no ... have never done that ... reminds me of that scene from the inbetweeners where Neil advises Jay to have that "tactical" wank before having sex with his gf for the first time. I suppose the idea was to prevent premature ejaculation. It didn't work out that well...

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.

Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.

Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended. "

Each to their own but I've never taken any recommendations on this site and don't intend to start now.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I like wait until the last second and as soon as I arrive for meet I start wanking

Seems just rude to start without her there

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.

Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended. "

If he's lasting 3 minutes it's recommended for the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't that in the film "there's something about Mary" with Ben stiller and Cameron Diaz??

No, it wouldn't be something that I would do!!

But I would do Cameron Diaz though!!!

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.

Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended.

Each to their own but I've never taken any recommendations on this site and don't intend to start now. "

It’s not a recommendation for people who don’t have that issue.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

There's also the fact that some women like a heavy cummer so by having a wank first you take something from their enjoyment

Some men can last for hours...some women love it....some women hate it

Some men last a normal length of time and go again

Its all about finding the balance really isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.

Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended. "

I've never did it or even though about doing it.

Lasting less than 3 minutes is definitely not the problem goes on more for 30minutes

Which isn't great for some girls either.

So what I'm asking is can it last too long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

Never. At least not in a tactical sense.

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By *atekeeperAndKeymasterCouple
over a year ago

Derry/Donegal

It's never good to wank before a meet. Not in our experience. Xx

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By *tevecabra7Man
over a year ago

cabra

Never have a wank before a meet I like to be full up if I know i have a meet coming up I won't wank for few days qnd have a nice big load for the girl and when I off load I will go again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

Didn't that guy recommend one in the film " There's something about Mary "

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I've done it. Sometimes the excitement of being with a new person can lead one to get, er, carried away, shall we say, so I aim to avoid that by emptying the magazine first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't suffer from premature ejaculation OP, although i do like to meet up with a regular fb if possible for a good session several hours before a first date. It definitely helps to take the edge off, plus I'm much more chatty and energised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never & always try not to for couple of days before hand, still able to last the pace & sometimes ready again for the second coming

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By *ro_boner_publicoMan
over a year ago

North County

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By *ro_boner_publicoMan
over a year ago

North County

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By *oungukbull97Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I feel like doing that would be like running a half marathon before you're actual marathon

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By *ro_boner_publicoMan
over a year ago

North County

Apologies for the multiple posts. Had to rethink.

Some couples love the theatre of cum, so I would avoid doing so if that were on the cards.

If I just need raw unrelenting fuck power, it's a smart move.

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By *ayne KerrMan
over a year ago

Lust

Never have. The poster that mentions “There’s Something About Mary” is correct. It was used in that movie.

I can neither confirm or deny that I may have had a “well that didn’t go as expected!” wank after a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Could potentially cancel said meet once I get the bold thoughts out of my head

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress

If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon"

should you not want to impress everyone you have a meet with?? or is that just me who does that??

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Nope never

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By *ligolad321Man
over a year ago

Donegal

'Tactical wanks ' brilliant...

, I would never waste an orgasm like that if I had the opportunity to share.

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By *unguyhere2020Man
over a year ago

Galway can travel

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

Well that be very wastefull

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress

If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon

should you not want to impress everyone you have a meet with?? or is that just me who does that??

Perhaps it doesn’t come as naturally to everyone….

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress

If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon

should you not want to impress everyone you have a meet with?? or is that just me who does that??

Perhaps it doesn’t come as naturally to everyone….

now Mr Linden you always impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago in my twenties I did, now I have more control.

It's definitely a help if you are going into a situation where you are really turned on, as in group situations but one on one, no need anymore.

It works , but as some posers said, it takes away from the load

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress

If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon

should you not want to impress everyone you have a meet with?? or is that just me who does that??

Perhaps it doesn’t come as naturally to everyone….

now Mr Linden you always impress

It’s a lot of work…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure many of the guys on this thread have tried it before but aren’t open to admitting it as it might hurt their ego. I’ve done it a few times before…only if I haven’t sex in a good while and was afraid I might get abit too excited during proceedings. Usually it works fine. I’m always ready for round 2 & 3 in minutes anyways if they are ready to keep going!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

A good string of pearls or an adequate internal would be spoiled by a personal handjob beforehand!

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By *ro_boner_publicoMan
over a year ago

North County

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By *ro_boner_publicoMan
over a year ago

North County

"I’m sure many of the guys on this thread have tried it before but aren’t open to admitting it as it might hurt their ego. I’ve done it a few times before…"

Agreed. Bravado is the order of the day.

If I've been anticipating a meet for a while, my fluids are so high-pressure I can't think straight, let alone function and get there tidy, punctual, and prepared.

Some kind of pressure release is the only sane option if they want someone they can talk with and not just an engorged priapist.

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By *ustyboyMan
over a year ago

Greater Dublin & Belfast now onwards

I think there is no point of going with tactics . I don’t think car meets happens in reality so if you are in hotel room then why not take full value for money and use the whole night instead of only one shot

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I’m sure many of the guys on this thread have tried it before but aren’t open to admitting it as it might hurt their ego. I’ve done it a few times before…

Agreed. Bravado is the order of the day.

If I've been anticipating a meet for a while, my fluids are so high-pressure I can't think straight, let alone function and get there tidy, punctual, and prepared.

Some kind of pressure release is the only sane option if they want someone they can talk with and not just an engorged priapist.

(will get better at forum posting. Apologies for deletes!)"

And snipers make every shot count

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By *ere70Man
over a year ago

Rovinj Istria

i am heavy cummer and i am proud of it so no way of ruining quantity of cum by jerking. and if its not enough 30-40 minutes in next 30 i am ready for next round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a heavy cummer regardless but having a tactical tug helps me last longer.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

All depends. If they're a cum lover,then probably wait and keep them happy almost as soon as arriving, due to excitement.

If not, then yes, shoot one off beforehand and shower before meeting, just to calm the nerves.

All ideally discussed in advance but, if unsure, I'd go with releasing in advance and enjoy the foreplay that little bit longer.

Or, if she considers you cumming as part of foreplay, then hold off.

Oh! It's so complicated, without discussing in advance.

As I've said many times, always better if the woman brings the guy to orgasm first, then he brings her to orgasm before any penetration, or even no penetration and just enjoyment of each other in whatever comes naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar or an amateur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar or an amateur. "

if you need to before a meet then thats your choice but dont know why you would want to call those who dont liars! Thats quite arrogant of you to insult every guy who doesnt need to.

Never needed to have a "tactical" wank befre a meet myself. Generally last quite a while and want to enjoy every moment of it i would think a "tactical" wank would reduce that enjoyment. But that's just me.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

No definitely not as always social meet first for me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Always. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar or an amateur. "

Ah so that's what professional means? Fabspeak for wanker

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

The "tactical wank" before a date originates from North America and was made popular by the film THERE'S SOMETHING ABOUT MARY

Proponents of this method advocate that it prevents early eruptions

on the mere sight of a well endowed lady

as demonstrated in the film AMERICAN PIE rendering embarrassment to the male's ego, pride and ability to perform immediately afterwards

Have heard stories of some men who got very excited, aroused and came very quickly (while she was stripping off). So in some cases, a tactical wank might be a great idea

But for myself and the vast majority of men, we don't

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Not me try not to do anything for at least 24hrs before a meet try hold it all for the lady in question

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

Why on earth would a guy do that?

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

I never do. I dont want to ruin a great night with finshing with a small load. Plus, for me at least, i can last regardless if i have a tactical wank or not.

I do know some guys who do it, but i personally dont. See no point in doing to be honest.

Hope that helps OP

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By *ickyjoe88Man
over a year ago

Carlow

Try not to for a while before, heightens the anticipation and larger load when you do cum

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it?

Why on earth would a guy do that? "

I’ve asked men to do it in the past when I know they come very quickly. Especially if they aren’t repeaters or you don’t have much time together. At one point I had a run of 3 meets that all finished within 30 seconds. So it is an issue for some men. More than are posting on here.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it?

Why on earth would a guy do that?

You have asked men to do this before meeting you?

You should have just not have met them again if they didn't suit you

Out of order imo

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it?

Why on earth would a guy do that?

You have asked men to do this before meeting you?

You should have just not have met them again if they didn't suit you

Out of order imo"

Well they didn’t mind and the sex lasted longer than 5mins next time around.

Why is that out of line?

Why are YOU offended that I communicated with a lover something that I thought would make future meets more satisfying?? They were happy to get positive feed back.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it?

Why on earth would a guy do that?

You have asked men to do this before meeting you?

You should have just not have met them again if they didn't suit you

Out of order imo

Well they didn’t mind and the sex lasted longer than 5mins next time around.

Why is that out of line?

Why are YOU offended that I communicated with a lover something that I thought would make future meets more satisfying?? They were happy to get positive feed back. "

Few men would be happy to be told that.

Read the responses to your thread

It's not a thing men do,in general,so to be told to do it for reasons you said is totally out of order

You are telling a man to wank,if he wants to or not

You have no right to.

You can only tell him how you feel about his PE.

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!

I think this is more of a YOU problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!

I think this is more of a YOU problem. "

Maybe he’s has a gun with no bullets lol lol

He gets the blankety blank cheque book and pen

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I think this is more of a YOU problem.

Maybe he’s has a gun with no bullets lol lol

He gets the blankety blank cheque book and pen

Honestly I’m a bit horrified at the suggestion that any man would feel he HAS to do something a woman suggests. What happened to body autonomy? Women fought for it for years, bizarre that some don’t feel they have the right to say “no”. Sad really.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

Yes, but it's more enjoyable if you think about the meet! And timing is everything.

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, never.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I think this is more of a YOU problem. "

I've met a lot of single guys as part of a couple and 3 in a row of guys with PE seems like a lot to me

So maybe it's a YOU problem

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I think this is more of a YOU problem.

I've met a lot of single guys as part of a couple and 3 in a row of guys with PE seems like a lot to me

So maybe it's a YOU problem

How can premature ejaculation be a woman’s fault? Am I too sexy?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I think this is more of a YOU problem.

Maybe he’s has a gun with no bullets lol lol

He gets the blankety blank cheque book and pen

That wouldn't even be funny if you knew what those phrases meant and used them in the proper context.

What does being sterile have to do with premature ejaculated??

I await your response

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I think this is more of a YOU problem.

I've met a lot of single guys as part of a couple and 3 in a row of guys with PE seems like a lot to me

So maybe it's a YOU problem

How can premature ejaculation be a woman’s fault? Am I too sexy?

That's 1 possibility..

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Ejaculation not ejaculated obv

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I think this is more of a YOU problem.

I've met a lot of single guys as part of a couple and 3 in a row of guys with PE seems like a lot to me

So maybe it's a YOU problem

How can premature ejaculation be a woman’s fault? Am I too sexy?

That's 1 possibility.."

Thanks but no. I’m not that vain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

Yes absolutely has to be done nice guys finish last and all that

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

I'm intrigued. Never heard of a tactical wank. Is it like target practice I wonder.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Is it not easier to just think of your granny or something to stop yourself from cumming too soon .....opens popcorn

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

It amusing now many are getting so defensive about something as simple as a wank and a situation discussed between two adults.

Unless I’m in the mood to take some cumshot pics, I couldn’t give a rats arse how much of it there is. Load size really doesn’t matter in most scenarios.

If a tactical wank let’s a guy relax more, take his time, not be worried about popping off earlier than he wants, there’s absolutely no harm in it.

From my point of view, if time allows, I like to get the first orgasm for the guy done early and then have lots of fun until he’s ready for the second.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Is it not easier to just think of your granny or something to stop yourself from cumming too soon .....opens popcorn "

You haven't seen my granny

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Is it not easier to just think of your granny or something to stop yourself from cumming too soon .....opens popcorn

You haven't seen my granny

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

I think this is more of a YOU problem. "

I actually agree with you

I have cum quite soon at some meets and at others have been one of the I can go all night brigade.

I'd have no problem having a "tactical " wank if I thought the occasion required it.

Whats the big deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

Never did.....most people dnt know staying longer is all psychological thing...there is diet and different meditation(in yoga) which can help men stay longer....it always works for me.....again as i mentioned its psychological thing so some men believe if they do so they might stay longer...so it helps them coz they think like that way placebo effect you can say.....

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By *usbyXXXMan
over a year ago

County Waterford

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

When i was in my 20s (oh i so wish now) it would be needes to prevent an early finish. Now in my 60s definitvely not an option. Can now last an hour or more if i have a days rest in betwéen bouts. Nowadays it is so so enjoyable.

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I think this is more of a YOU problem.

I actually agree with you

I have cum quite soon at some meets and at others have been one of the I can go all night brigade.

I'd have no problem having a "tactical " wank if I thought the occasion required it.

Whats the big deal? "

I’m don’t see the issue either. We’re all (cough) grown ups. If I’ve got all day, superb. But I’ve a family and a busy life so I’m not wasting a precious short meet on someone’s recovery.

Mean? Maybe.

Coercive? No.

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"It amusing now many are getting so defensive about something as simple as a wank and a situation discussed between two adults.

Unless I’m in the mood to take some cumshot pics, I couldn’t give a rats arse how much of it there is. Load size really doesn’t matter in most scenarios.

If a tactical wank let’s a guy relax more, take his time, not be worried about popping off earlier than he wants, there’s absolutely no harm in it.

From my point of view, if time allows, I like to get the first orgasm for the guy done early and then have lots of fun until he’s ready for the second. "

Jaffa. You speak the truth. I agree 100%. Really not sure why all the drama either.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I do this regularly, no actual meets planned but, you know, just in case…..

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

"I do this regularly, no actual meets planned but, you know, just in case…..

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practice makes perfect

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I do this regularly, no actual meets planned but, you know, just in case…..

practice makes perfect

I’d say I’m just about to turn professional so….

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By *ed just Red OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"I do this regularly, no actual meets planned but, you know, just in case…..

BAHAHHAA

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"It amusing now many are getting so defensive about something as simple as a wank and a situation discussed between two adults.

Unless I’m in the mood to take some cumshot pics, I couldn’t give a rats arse how much of it there is. Load size really doesn’t matter in most scenarios.

If a tactical wank let’s a guy relax more, take his time, not be worried about popping off earlier than he wants, there’s absolutely no harm in it.

From my point of view, if time allows, I like to get the first orgasm for the guy done early and then have lots of fun until he’s ready for the second.

Jaffa. You speak the truth. I agree 100%. Really not sure why all the drama either. "

My God! Women who think like I do!

Fab truly is a wonderful place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

Definitely not for me. It takes away from the craic I’d potentially have with the woman/women/couple. And it already takes me quite a while to cum so it would only be working against my own potential enjoyment by getting off just before it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.

Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended. "

Not a hope should it be recommended. What should be recommended is that guys who blow after a few minutes not be taking on 3somes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar or an amateur. "

Lol nope

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork

Bit of honesty.... if know going to only be meeting for a short while....

Then deffo hav a'tactical' wank in the last cpl hours leading up to meet time.

Means can both enjoy our selves.... and not cum prematurely.

For the over night meets when more time to relax and enjoy and have several rounds of fun and keep cumming ....then wouldnt perhaps of played tactics before.

Come on lads.... dont be shy...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No pre-match nerves.

No tactical discussions.

No concern about shooting on sight.

No worrying about getting it in the box early.

Just play our own game and it will all fall into place.

Too many armchair pundits on here.

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Mungret

My self, never like to waste an ammo. Rather cum with a play partner then squeeze the poor chicken.

There is plenty of different ways, not to cum for men...plus...I always do my best...and make sure ladies come first. Just my humble opinion.

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By *ac147Man
over a year ago

Belfast East

It can be a bit of a double edged sword... I've done the old tactical fiddle before and had no response at all when the time for fun began

wee Percy didn't want to come out to play if you get my drift. Then there's also been a Random coffee meet of POF that turned into a full evening of passion and the wee man took it like a proper soldier..

I suppose nowadays with the help of certain pills and things there's a better chance of performing over and over so the pre-date fiddle is becoming a thing of the past..

Jeez I'm not exactly selling myself well here. Lol.

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By *heTantrixMan
over a year ago

Dublin 18

It’s a choice between tactical wank and long foreplay. I’ll choose latter.

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork

"It’s a choice between tactical wank and long foreplay. I’ll choose latter."

Hav done that too....long foreplay and alot of stop start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

No sharing is caring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the build up to ameet is countless flirty texts and suggestive pics and vids I'd be of the opinion it would be better all round to relieve some tension in advance.

That being said the opposite is also true just grabbing one another and fucking and both cumming together is pretty hot too.

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

Sher if you have the wank you don't need the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, it you think about sending a message to someone on here , a tactical wank could prevent sending the message

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

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over a year ago

This is working of the premise that the guy cumming is somehow the end of the meet, which isn't always the case.

Like everything its going to be down to personal preference.

I also find communication is important. I'm far from a marathon man but I make that very clear to any potential meets and I tend to avoid people that look for certain types of meets or talk about the how long a guy can last in certain terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix. "

Any recommendations?

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over a year ago

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations? "

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over a year ago

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations? "

Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near

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over a year ago

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations?

Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near"

Curtains all used up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations?

Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near

Curtains all used up? "

They are a bit more like wooden shutters now tbh

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over a year ago

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations?

Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near

Curtains all used up? "
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what if there are blinds ? What do you do then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations?

Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near

Curtains all used up?

They are a bit more like wooden shutters now tbh"

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"This is working of the premise that the guy cumming is somehow the end of the meet, which isn't always the case.

Like everything its going to be down to personal preference.

It sounds like you're traumatised...

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

Definitely not within 48hrs or so of the meet. Much better to do so during the meet!

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By *obert-DubMan
over a year ago

dublin

Hmm, cum to think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is working of the premise that the guy cumming is somehow the end of the meet, which isn't always the case.

Like everything its going to be down to personal preference.

It sounds like you're traumatised...

Ya but people love damaged goods right? I'm like that mostly fresh fruit pot for a €1 on the reduced shelf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to land in with a full tank!

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations? "

Come over for a visit some evening and you can go through my list.

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over a year ago

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations?

Come over for a visit some evening and you can go through my list. "

While you have the tactical wank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?

I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?

What’s your take on it? "

Years ago I did, to make me last longer. Haven't needed to in recent years, lasting longer over 40....

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.

Any recommendations?

Come over for a visit some evening and you can go through my list.

While you have the tactical wank? "

Hardly. I'd have you for that.

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