FabSwingers.com forum: What's your biggest failing

By *aptain Caveman41 OP Man
over a year ago

Home

Mine is I'm far too quite for my own good

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

In general, I'm a slow starter...I tend to dip my toes and wade in very, very, very slowly rather than just jumping in the deep end.

Motivation - but when I do find it, finishing what I started...

Always that fear of the unknown, taking myself out of the comfort zone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest failing is not knowing my own worth. Fear of failure and of being arrogant at the back of it.

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By *rad25irlMan
over a year ago

Carrigaline

Not getting any veris after being in here for over 3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Motivation is pants at moment

I trust people too much

Not valuing my self worth more

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By *rad25irlMan
over a year ago

Carrigaline

"Motivation is pants at moment

I trust people too much

Not valuing my self worth more"

Motivation is a tough one alright… I think we’re all a bit withered from the last cpl years!!! But hang in there… as the days get longer and the sun shines that Vitamin D hit will work wonders (well as much as it can in Ireland

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Stay strong!! You are a beautiful & fun woman…

Being trustful isn’t a failing…. It’s a gift that others can abuse at times but that’s their failing… not yours xx

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By *aptain Caveman41 OP Man
over a year ago

Home

"Not getting any veris after being in here for over 3 months

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thats not a failing, show your weakness like the rest of us have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Motivation is pants at moment

I trust people too much

Not valuing my self worth more"

Motivation is cyclical. It'll come back.

Trust is not a bad thing. Better than cynicism.

I agree on self worth. That's a tough cookie to crack.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Not having enough mirrors in house to make me realise how far Covid, WFH and beer have made me, so I have the motivation to do something about it.

Time for a mirror on the fridge in my house

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Comparing

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I personally do not regard the following as a failing, in fact I regard it as a positive trait, but those who know me say that I am much too honest, excessively forthright and frankly, blunt; to the point of offending people, although that is neither my objective nor intent.

I abhor any form of lies, obfuscation, dishonesty, trickery and falsehood.

I would be a nightmare in any situation requiring tact, diplomacy and nuance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest failing ?...here's a few ,

..too shy

.. putting my trust in people..( wrong people l suppose )

..self worth

..holding the door all the time instead of going in and taking a seat ( lm talking about life in general )

I could go on but l won't if you could click on any of the above they would open up way more times. I have been told to " man up " more than a few times, once in particular and it hurt simply because it's just the way lm wired, I'd rather someone else got it than me , suppose that's what happens when you're not greedy or feel entitled to something , greedy and entitled are simply not in my vocabulary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is I'm far too quite for my own good "

Also one of my many failings along with not know my own self worth and a lack of confidence at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being too independent of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being shy and afraid to share my opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking everything to heart, the feeling of being let down awalys,so tend to do things on my terms,heird a great saying lately, always expect disappoint then you never get disappointed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy/socially awkward …I overthink everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being too independent of others"

That's not a failing....

I'm fiercely independent after being let down too often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being too independent of others

That's not a failing....

I'm fiercely independent after being let down too often"

I see it as a failing, I'm too happy in my own company, so I can neglect to nurture my relationships, I have to remind myself to make the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too blunt for my own good

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By *abblingInDUBMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Not being selfish enough

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Being too driven by my libido

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Always having an opinion, don't like bn told I can't do something .then I do d opposite ect ect long list lol R x

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Being worried I’m not enough

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
over a year ago

From a galaxy far far away

Thinking im not good enough and when rejection comes, taking it to heart as a confirmation im not good enough...

body issues that still make me not able to look in a mirror somedays

And trusting too much, giving all of myself hoping for a piece of love or affection back...

Oh and cake....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indecisiveness

Typical Libra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being worried I’m not enough "

You shouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always having an opinion, don't like bn told I can't do something .then I do d opposite ect ect long list lol R x"

Well I hate to break it too you so but you can't have sex with me then

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

"Being too driven by my libido"

Libidinousness is the raison d'etre of any healthy human being; it is a life force to be cherished and nurtured.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

"Being too independent of others

That's not a failing....

I'm fiercely independent after being let down too often

I see it as a failing, I'm too happy in my own company, so I can neglect to nurture my relationships, I have to remind myself to make the effort. "

That's a real virtue, in my opinion; don't try to fight it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh.... introspection. too much of that is a failing

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By *horty_80sWoman
over a year ago

askme

I'm told people pleasing but I think overthinking

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Could be indecisiveness but I’m not sure….

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Could be indecisiveness but I’m not sure…."

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Not thinking I'm good enough

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Not thinking I'm good enough

I know I'm biased but I think you're pretty fuckin amazing and more than good enough....

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Not thinking I'm good enough

I’m the same.

But I’m also with Bog. You absolutely are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a cunt

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Not thinking I'm good enough

I’m the same.

But I’m also with Bog. You absolutely are. "

As are you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its mad reading the comments on this thread for all of ye I know you are all fabulous and definitely rough

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Overthinking and letting things stew until I explode.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Not thinking I'm good enough

I know I'm biased but I think you're pretty fuckin amazing and more than good enough....

I know I'm a very lucky lady to have met you xxx

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Not thinking I'm good enough

I know I'm biased but I think you're pretty fuckin amazing and more than good enough....

I know I'm a very lucky lady to have met you xxx"
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OMG. Sob. **clutches pearls**

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Not thinking I'm good enough

I know I'm biased but I think you're pretty fuckin amazing and more than good enough....

I know I'm a very lucky lady to have met you xxxm

OMG. Sob. **clutches pearl necklace **

Fixed that for ya Red

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

"Not thinking I'm good enough

I know I'm biased but I think you're pretty fuckin amazing and more than good enough....

I know I'm a very lucky lady to have met you xxxm

OMG. Sob. **clutches pearl necklace **

Fixed that bed for ya

Fixed that for ya Bog

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Overthinking

And defo not feeling good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too gorgeous for my own good, therefore don't get taken seriously

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

I'm far too honest

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

My biggest failing is that I'm perfect in every possible way and it leaves no room for improvement. It's such a burden.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

I have none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have none

Go you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My biggest failing is that I'm perfect in every possible way and it leaves no room for improvement. It's such a burden.

I'm sure you'll survive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably being too shy and a lack of self confidence

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

These damn spidey senses can be a curse at times

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

"Overthinking and letting things stew until I explode. "

That's a surprising revelation;

I would have thought that your education and experience would have encouraged you to display a more modulated approach to issues that inevitably arise in life!

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