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By *NawtyCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Around and about

Kinda a spin off of another forum topic but it got me thinking that we never really approach or message single female profiles.

I think I assume they are either inundated with emails and offers already, only interested in single males or would email us if we caught their eye.

Be interested to hear what your thoughts are, do you welcome emails from couples or not?

Couples, do u approach single females and make the first move?

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We would be the same OP, especially when you hear they have 100's of unread messages

We probably should start to message them as we never no our luck and we might get a reply

Mrs Gs

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By *ewCoupl01Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin

Much the same as you both, we assume that their inbox's are flooded so we tend to be a bit trigger shy with reaching out.

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Personally speaking id love for couples to reach out. Id see them looking at me but if theres no wink or message i just assume they arent interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so glad I stumbled upon this thread!

Single gal here =)

I guess I assume y’all have a list of things you’d like in someone you’re inviting in, so I leave it with you to approach me. I do wink couples that catch my eye, but I rarely get to spend time searching profiles so it’s not something I get to do often.

So reach out! I definitely prefer hearing from couples and, ya know, actual swingers! on Fab. (It’s always struck me as odd how many single people are on here looking for other single people… )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female here, I have no problem messaging a single female. Yes their inboxes are probably very full but I often get replies and if I don’t then that’s ok too. We have had some amazing meets and made some wonderful friends from making the first move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" only interested in single males"

Every single male reading this probably loling to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda a spin off of another forum topic but it got me thinking that we never really approach or message single female profiles.

I think I assume they are either inundated with emails and offers already, only interested in single males or would email us if we caught their eye.

Be interested to hear what your thoughts are, do you welcome emails from couples or not?

Couples, do u approach single females and make the first move?"

Well,when it comes to this,I've been trying to find genuine fun couple for ages...impossible to find.funny that,as all you can see is couples looking for unicorns.

Here I am,waiting I have certain criteria obviously, if I see they didn't read my profile, it's a big no.

Some couples rude,texting some shit,like wtf?I'm on here for my own pleasure too,I'm not on here to do everything that ye want.and I'm definitely not on here to pleasure your guy,or make your guys dream come true.im looking for respect in a first place.hard to get on here unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally speaking id love for couples to reach out. Id see them looking at me but if theres no wink or message i just assume they arent interested"

I agree! If they don't wink or message I don't make contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally speaking id love for couples to reach out. Id see them looking at me but if theres no wink or message i just assume they arent interested"

I dont even look at winks,it's clear on my profile I don't do them.but constantly getting them it just says,they don't give a shit about you ,and what you looking for if they not bothered to read your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to send a wink and a message… doubling my chances of getting a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to send a wink and a message… doubling my chances of getting a response "

As long as there is message...all I get is fecking winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll have to slide into your dm’s then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll have to slide into your dm’s then "

Be gentle. Lol

Nah,fuck it,dont like it gentle...

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By *NawtyCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Around and about

Well well looks like both sides were holding back from making the first move. Think we are going to be more proactive as a cpl and reach out, no harm in it certainly.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Well well looks like both sides were holding back from making the first move."

It’s not just a problem for couples, I think everyone is afraid to message us single guys too….

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By *NawtyCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Around and about

Thought there would be a few more opinions on the one ??

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Single ladies aren't interested in us because I'm straight (Mrs) so when we message, it's usually to do with a Forum topic, or we have already met in person. Our response rate is pretty high.

Not what you were asking about really OP

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Well well looks like both sides were holding back from making the first move. Think we are going to be more proactive as a cpl and reach out, no harm in it certainly. "

As long as you respect what others are looking for and you think you match that, I don't see why you shouldn't approach that person/couple. We're all here for new adventures.

Unfortunately some couples have as much random and ignorant approaches as some single men if not even worse.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Thought there would be a few more opinions on the one ??"

We'd sometimes make the first move though himself will generally send a wink rather than a message. I'd be more inclined to send a message myself because I know how I used to deal with winks as a single woman

If that's reciprocated by even a "view", or a wink, I'll follow up with a message for sure.

I'd rarely send a message to a single woman myself because

a) I had a single's profile and wasn't too bothered with couples, so my own prejudices coming into the equation

b) Jee, those single women who we'd feel might be compatible are just so few and far between, and then my own doubts creep in (but funny enough, I'd never have been that way in approaching a man as a single woman - weird that!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well well looks like both sides were holding back from making the first move. Think we are going to be more proactive as a cpl and reach out, no harm in it certainly.

As long as you respect what others are looking for and you think you match that, I don't see why you shouldn't approach that person/couple. We're all here for new adventures.

Unfortunately some couples have as much random and ignorant approaches as some single men if not even worse. "

Absolutely

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By *anillabelliniCouple
over a year ago

Cork limerick and in-between

We message single ladies but unfortunately the message remains unopened in the ether of 100’s of messages or else opened and unreplied to. If deleted we know they’re not interested but left opened but no reply leaves us in limbo, then we don’t know whether to message again after some time in the hopes the forgot to reply or just leave it.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Well well looks like both sides were holding back from making the first move.

It’s not just a problem for couples, I think everyone is afraid to message us single guys too…. "

They're intimidated because we are so thin on the ground perhaps

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask


"Well well looks like both sides were holding back from making the first move.

It’s not just a problem for couples, I think everyone is afraid to message us single guys too….

They're intimidated because we are so thin on the ground perhaps "

Its the boxers photos that have me too distracted. Too busy staring to message

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

Have messaged some..and others have messaged us...

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

On another site I meet a couple and he pinned me again a wall and said you are not interested in me. NEVER again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some amazing couples on here and have had great memories and made great friends. But on the other side of the equation I'll get messages thinking of me as if I'm on the Just Eat menu. Will you come over and blow the hubby at nine for a hour and bring chips oh no pictures of hubby on profile he's shy but promise he's hot and doesn't need the brown paper bag.

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

don't tend to meet couples one on one but I've met a few a parties etc and clicked that way..

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Have got more single girls off tinder than fab... alot of "single" girls tend to have a male friend or dom

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I almost never get in contact with couples any more because I'm very cautious about meeting them after a few scary and ridiculous meets over the years.

People say finding a single bi fem to meet couples is a unicorn. I think finding a couple that are genuinely on the same page with no jealousy issues or hang ups is just as hard to find.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Well well looks like both sides were holding back from making the first move.

It’s not just a problem for couples, I think everyone is afraid to message us single guys too….

They're intimidated because we are so thin on the ground perhaps

Its the boxers photos that have me too distracted. Too busy staring to message "

Well when you're done staring then message away....

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