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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Do you have any things you must do/wear/pack before meeting someone from fab ?

There are a couple I ll keep to myself but I like to wear blue boxers to meets . I also like getting to the hotel room beforehand and having a shower .

Let me know yours

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By *eddybear37Man
over a year ago

everywhere kildare longford

Definitely a shower beforehand

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By *atience178Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

A drink or 2, just to settle the nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure I haven't a wash, put some perfume on to smell nice, put some sexy lingerie or out fit on me that's if it's a planned play meet. A social then most of the time I like to dress well and smell good in general anyway but if it's spontaneous I just go casual .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One would hope a shower would be a pre-requisite for all!

We don't have any usual routines/superstitions before a meet other than speculating as to what the person/people will be like

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Shower,change of clothes,condoms,Donuts,my sparkling personality....right I'm packed

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Usual stuff change of clothes/something a little comfortable to wear,a bag of toys and lubes and condoms,drink and munchies just a few essentials really!

Ohh and definitely a shower before and after fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower. Aftershave. Good pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure I haven't a wash, put some perfume on to smell nice, put some sexy lingerie or out fit on me that's if it's a planned play meet. A social then most of the time I like to dress well and smell good in general anyway but if it's spontaneous I just go casual . "

I meant have a wash lol there all corrected ha ha.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Make sure I haven't a wash, put some perfume on to smell nice, put some sexy lingerie or out fit on me that's if it's a planned play meet. A social then most of the time I like to dress well and smell good in general anyway but if it's spontaneous I just go casual .

I meant have a wash lol there all corrected ha ha. "

I wasn't sure if someone you were meeting had a bit of a kink ....so said nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure I haven't a wash, put some perfume on to smell nice, put some sexy lingerie or out fit on me that's if it's a planned play meet. A social then most of the time I like to dress well and smell good in general anyway but if it's spontaneous I just go casual .

I meant have a wash lol there all corrected ha ha.

I wasn't sure if someone you were meeting had a bit of a kink ....so said nothing "

Okay but not sure if being smelly is a kink is it?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Make sure I haven't a wash, put some perfume on to smell nice, put some sexy lingerie or out fit on me that's if it's a planned play meet. A social then most of the time I like to dress well and smell good in general anyway but if it's spontaneous I just go casual .

I meant have a wash lol there all corrected ha ha.

I wasn't sure if someone you were meeting had a bit of a kink ....so said nothing

Okay but not sure if being smelly is a kink is it? "

Probably not....in fairness its just a natural smell ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make sure I haven't a wash, put some perfume on to smell nice, put some sexy lingerie or out fit on me that's if it's a planned play meet. A social then most of the time I like to dress well and smell good in general anyway but if it's spontaneous I just go casual .

I meant have a wash lol there all corrected ha ha.

I wasn't sure if someone you were meeting had a bit of a kink ....so said nothing

Okay but not sure if being smelly is a kink is it?

Probably not....in fairness its just a natural smell ..."

No I think it's a kink for some. I briefly dated a girl years ago that dumped me because I washed too much. It was a turn off apparently. She wanted a man to smell like a man. Her description of that was basically someone smelly after a hard weeks work. Yes a week's work, not a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have any things you must do/wear/pack before meeting someone from fab ?

There are a couple I ll keep to myself but I like to wear blue boxers to meets . I also like getting to the hotel room beforehand and having a shower .

Let me know yours "

A shower ,once lm clean and fresh lm good to go , l do not dress up to meet anyone , lm a very very casual dresser but hygiene is important to me so l always shower before a meet .( I just want to add In the real world or here at the end of the night etc ,and if lm lucky ,showers don't bother me if a lady wants to get it on straight away , it's just pure animalistic sex )

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

The SSS routine is bottom line necessary - shit, shave and shower.

No matter if its play or social or anything else - when meeting anyone we both present ourselves in our best form.

Missus

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Make sure I haven't a wash, put some perfume on to smell nice, put some sexy lingerie or out fit on me that's if it's a planned play meet. A social then most of the time I like to dress well and smell good in general anyway but if it's spontaneous I just go casual .

I meant have a wash lol there all corrected ha ha.

I wasn't sure if someone you were meeting had a bit of a kink ....so said nothing

Okay but not sure if being smelly is a kink is it?

Probably not....in fairness its just a natural smell ...

No I think it's a kink for some. I briefly dated a girl years ago that dumped me because I washed too much. It was a turn off apparently. She wanted a man to smell like a man. Her description of that was basically someone smelly after a hard weeks work. Yes a week's work, not a day "

Definitely a kink. Napoleon used to send his wife a message weeks before he would arrive home letting her know not to wash herself.

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
over a year ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/


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Definitely a kink. Napoleon used to send his wife a message weeks before he would arrive home letting her know not to wash herself.

"

Yep, however shower and teeth brushed are a given.

Just being careful on the amount of perfume/scent if you are meeting married ppl as it can be an onward issue.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"

Definitely a kink. Napoleon used to send his wife a message weeks before he would arrive home letting her know not to wash herself.

Yep, however shower and teeth brushed are a given.

Just being careful on the amount of perfume/scent if you are meeting married ppl as it can be an onward issue. "

Good advice for those who don't want to meet attached people too! I'll always make sure to put some extra perfume on as I would hate to even think that I met someone who pretends to be single and is secretly attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Definitely a kink. Napoleon used to send his wife a message weeks before he would arrive home letting her know not to wash herself.

Yep, however shower and teeth brushed are a given.

Just being careful on the amount of perfume/scent if you are meeting married ppl as it can be an onward issue. "

Nope because I don't have to worry that is their issue lol. That's the joy of being free

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I call it ticking all the S boxes.

Sussing out the proposed meet to fully assess them; are they really who they publicly say they are?

Shower, shave and shampoo.

Suit up.

And most important of all: security.

Without revealing any details, I always ensure that I leave details of where I am going and who the person is, and I also take several other precautions; in business it is called due diligence.

From my own experience there are some nasty people who are capable of putting on a good 'act' until they have got what they want, or are so close to getting what they want that their true traits and intentions then emerge, rapidly.

I have come across this on several occasions; there is an inherent nastiness in some people that lies just below the surface!

It is not hyperbolic to say that Fred and Rosemary West were skilled operators who gained the trust of their naive targets before revealing their true intentions.

If the first and last S boxes aren't ticked off satisfactorily, it's no go for me.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Make sure I haven't a wash, put some perfume on to smell nice, put some sexy lingerie or out fit on me that's if it's a planned play meet. A social then most of the time I like to dress well and smell good in general anyway but if it's spontaneous I just go casual .

I meant have a wash lol there all corrected ha ha.

I wasn't sure if someone you were meeting had a bit of a kink ....so said nothing

Okay but not sure if being smelly is a kink is it?

Probably not....in fairness its just a natural smell ...

No I think it's a kink for some. I briefly dated a girl years ago that dumped me because I washed too much. It was a turn off apparently. She wanted a man to smell like a man. Her description of that was basically someone smelly after a hard weeks work. Yes a week's work, not a day

Definitely a kink. Napoleon used to send his wife a message weeks before he would arrive home letting her know not to wash herself.

"

This is definitely not where I saw this thread going

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By *rankbMan
over a year ago

around

Definitely a shower and teeth brushed - I then like to walk anti clockwise around the room counting backwards from 50 - then I’m good to go!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Definitely a shower and teeth brushed - I then like to walk anti clockwise around the room counting backwards from 50 - then I’m good to go!"

When you're counting from 50 backwards....is that the number of people in the room

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By *rankbMan
over a year ago

around


"Definitely a shower and teeth brushed - I then like to walk anti clockwise around the room counting backwards from 50 - then I’m good to go!

When you're counting from 50 backwards....is that the number of people in the room "

That would scare me shitless!! Hahaha

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By *itenurse69Couple
over a year ago

Fermanagh/ Monaghan,


"The SSS routine is bottom line necessary - shit, shave and shower.

No matter if its play or social or anything else - when meeting anyone we both present ourselves in our best form.

Missus "

I once looked after a wee lady of about 80 yrs young.

I asked her one day if I could give her a wee hand to get washed, to this day I will always remember her reply

"Aww love all i need to do is wash the 3 F's" when asked what the 3 F's where she said "the face, feet and the fanny" I nearly wet myself laughing hearing this from a sweet old lady. Sorry folks for going of on a different tangent

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

It's 4 S's.

Shit, Shower, Shave, Shake one off!

Not in that order. Shower is last but you don't want to go out half cocked already and lose it at Hello!

Well, you might anyway, if they seriously tickle your fancy but, at least you'll be able to have a little restraint after a shake

Oh and yes,we know all posters above do this but just forgot to mention it

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Wear the wedding rings as we never normally wear them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wear the wedding rings as we never normally wear them "

Kinky devils!!

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Yeah try to wear some thing comfortable and I turn up early so I can get settled. Apart from that I just go with the flow.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Wear the wedding rings as we never normally wear them

Kinky devils!!"

Yep, far out

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