FabSwingers.com forum: People and parties

By *winger212 OP Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Hi there, I'm curious to know what people expect from a party and what they think they should pay towards the costs.

For example e.g. party, sleepover and breakfast, how much?

(Party, not social)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi there, I'm curious to know what people expect from a party and what they think they should pay towards the costs.

For example e.g. party, sleepover and breakfast, how much?

(Party, not social) "

Depends on the party and clientele €150/200 ?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It depends in the circumstances. If accommodation is hired then the costs for thay should be shared with the attendees. Likewise the costs of food and other items bought for use at the party. There is nothing wrong with organisers taking a small amount for their time in organising either. It's important that everything is clear and up front and everyone knows the costs involved and they can decide if it's something they are comfortable with.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Also some parties will go all put with very high end accommodation etc and the prices will reflect that. Others might allow someone to crash on a floor or a sofa. It's hard to generalise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on venue.

Depends on sleeping arrangements. Do you get a bedroom or couch?

We usually just book our own accommodation so room and board is separate from other costs

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Yep, i agree. Totally depends on venue and effort that you put into it.

Just dont leave yourself short.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Yep, i agree. Totally depends on venue and effort that you put into it.

Just dont leave yourself short.

We nearly always lost money when we used to run parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on venue.

Depends on sleeping arrangements. Do you get a bedroom or couch?

We usually just book our own accommodation so room and board is separate from other costs "

You are right… not a hope would I sleep on a couch or share a bedroom.

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By *winger212 OP Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

The house I rent out has 12 ensuite bedrooms, but people (singles) do end up sharing a room.

I only charge €30 and the amount of people who think this is expensive is laughable so I'm just interested to hear newbies perspective on this.

Nibbles and breakfast, ice and water all provided. Seasoned party people snap my hand off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The house I rent out has 12 ensuite bedrooms, but people (singles) do end up sharing a room.

I only charge €30 and the amount of people who think this is expensive is laughable so I'm just interested to hear newbies perspective on this.

Nibbles and breakfast, ice and water all provided. Seasoned party people snap my hand off "

30 euros sounds like a bargain for this tbh, some people just expect a free ride -excuse the pun

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"The house I rent out has 12 ensuite bedrooms, but people (singles) do end up sharing a room.

I only charge €30 and the amount of people who think this is expensive is laughable so I'm just interested to hear newbies perspective on this.

Nibbles and breakfast, ice and water all provided. Seasoned party people snap my hand off "

Up the price to filter out the timewasters. €30 for B&B with private room is very inexpensive

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

You are not charging nearly enough for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree.you are seriously undervaluing yourself.

Up,up the price if people want a private or shared room.

For anyone else going who's not staying have a fixed price.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be a few tight people on fab I wouldn't moan over 30 euro it wouldn't get you to fare on a night out _winger212

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

People think partys and socials are free but as you know you got to pay for the place your renting out that been an Airbnb or function room in a hotel, takes a lot of planning to host a night,cost does depend on where you go,you can't be out of pocket

On fab I found you have to travel and pay for events and it's worth it, meet some amazing people

So €30 is nothing for B&B for a night and you get extremely well ran party also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 is very cheap. We have not been to one yet but thought it would be more. We would probably book our own accommodation anyway And bring drink. Is that the norm? Please let us know

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

You wouldn't get a hostel bunk bed in Dublin for 30quid.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Belfast

€30 is ridiculously cheap

If anyone has an issue paying that then you prob don’t want to be spending too much time with them

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I think think u should charge more cause u do do go all out the last time I went u literally had everything and the breakfast spread next morning was unreal..

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By *laymates30Couple
over a year ago

The West

We think it’s fair to at least cover the costs for those organising the party. Like anything else you pay for what you get.

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By *eddybear37Man
over a year ago

everywhere kildare longford

I have not attended any partys yet but I certainly agree 30 euro is very cheap and u should not be out of pocket as everyone that attends Are there for a enjoyable night and I’m sure wud be happily divide out the costs equally

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

It's like in business, raise your price enough to attract the best clients and eliminate the tyre kickers. As soon as they start to question the price, the red flag means they're out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the moaners ....some on here and in general... if they got it for free they'd still moan...

Moany bastards....

right price.. right crowd leads to right ambiance and experience..

Best of luck

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By *winger212 OP Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I know I'm very cheap but I don't mind add i just love to host, it's when you get the messages that it's a con, a fake, a money grabber that I laugh my socks off and think..... good luck mate, block.

It's my 12th party this weekend

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I know I'm very cheap but I don't mind add i just love to host, it's when you get the messages that it's a con, a fake, a money grabber that I laugh my socks off and think..... good luck mate, block.

It's my 12th party this weekend "

We never hosted any play parties, but what you're experiencing is actually quite common.

We've been called those things too lol

If someone can't grasp the amount of work and money that hosting and organizing takes up - you don't want them as your guests as they'll obviously not appreciate what you do.

Have a good one on 12th x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my 12th party this weekend "

You party animal you

We like to host too but anyone organising a party knows there's a lot of work in it that people Don't see like the before ,during, and after, running costs aren't always visible!!

12 no bother to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if going to a party that ur invited to let us know.

- do u bring or own alcohol?

- expect to stay ? Or book ur own hotel

- bring any food?

Or is this all stipulated by the guest if invited?

Cheers all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amend your prices . Don't entertain the begrudgers.

When I think about it we have often payed to go for a social party. Booked a hotel, probably have used a taxi to and from not to mention paying for drink and have never complained.Not made of money either but it doesn't happen every weekend and always had a great time.

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By *rish PDI ReprobatesCouple
over a year ago

Holiday to Gran Canaria

"So if going to a party that ur invited to let us know.

- do u bring or own alcohol? Yes

- expect to stay ? Or book ur own hotel Depends on room and event that's been ran

- bring any food? All chip in for a take away, host could have finger food,hotel restaurant

Or is this all stipulated by the guest if invited? A host will inform what's happing to guests it's their party/event

Cheers all. "

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By *asterandhissparklesCouple
over a year ago

tipperary

I am quite sure those are the same people that do not complain to spend 15+ euro for fags or 20 euro for a bottle vodka... And more importantly... They have never been to a party to even understand the work behind it.

Just block them Swinger212

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By *uskysoundsCouple
over a year ago

Mazarrón, Spain

That seems very cheap considering a hotel is €120+. Have never been to a party but imagined that they would be a hell of a lot more expensive.

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"The house I rent out has 12 ensuite bedrooms, but people (singles) do end up sharing a room.

I only charge €30 and the amount of people who think this is expensive is laughable so I'm just interested to hear newbies perspective on this.

Nibbles and breakfast, ice and water all provided. Seasoned party people snap my hand off "

30 euro is way to low for accommodation

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By *winger212 OP Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

"So if going to a party that ur invited to let us know.

- do u bring or own alcohol?

- expect to stay ? Or book ur own hotel

- bring any food?

Or is this all stipulated by the guest if invited?

Cheers all. "

It all depends on the host and where the party is and the size of it.

Yes you bring your own alcohol

Most places cannot / do not accommodate overnight, unless it's a small party. Mine are always between 30 to 50 people.

Most hosts provide nibbles but with most parties few arrive empty handed

The host provides condoms but again never arrive to any meet or party without your own.

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By *onnieBMan
over a year ago

in the middle of

The cost of something and the value of something is two different figures. You're underselling yourself substantially. Know your value when hosting.

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

I think 30pp is really reasonable especially when you factor in staying the night. We spent hundreds staying in Dublin to attend parties.

We did attend a party locally once and we didn't stay and we were asked for a small donation of 10euro per head to cover condoms food an snacks. That was extremely reasonable too great party also x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

€30-50 is entirety reasonable. Never leave yourself out of pocket though.

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

in ur bed

To be honest €30pp for a social night out isn't bad never mind a party with accommodation do people Actually think about the cost of running such a event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

€30 is great value. Your definitely underselling yourself. I know most socials cost more than that not including the accommodation etc.

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Depends on the venue, arrangements etc.. parties take a lot of effort and time, ive no problem with organisers being properly compensated for that time and effort

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Don't doubt yourself......I've heard nothing but praise for your party's. €30 is nothing and agree with others your selling yourself short xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 quid abd they get to stay. Some people are never happy.

I have paid over 200 quid to stay in a hotel for 2 nights to attend a social on one of the night.

There will always be someone giving out, either you charge too much, your making money etc but let them try and organise a party.

If you rent an air bnb for any large group you are charged appropriately, you often have to pay a deposit. If you rent someone that's anyway decent you can bet your stressing about something getting damaged etc

I know from speaking to people who organise socials and parties the work that goes into it, the grief and hassle that can be involved.

Way I see it if someone has an issue with the cost tell them jog on as I'm sure plenty willing to pay it, I have heard nothing but good things about your parties, and will get to one this year x

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By *uietman1964Man
over a year ago

carlow

"30 quid abd they get to stay. Some people are never happy.

I have paid over 200 quid to stay in a hotel for 2 nights to attend a social on one of the night.

There will always be someone giving out, either you charge too much, your making money etc but let them try and organise a party.

I know from speaking to people who organise socials and parties the work that goes into it, the grief and hassle that can be involved.

Way I see it if someone has an issue with the cost tell them jog on as I'm sure plenty willing to pay it, I have heard nothing but good things about your parties, and will get to one this year x

Well said

and thirty euro cant be argued with In fact could be a bit low

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By *ummer_XOWoman
over a year ago

Tyrone

"The house I rent out has 12 ensuite bedrooms, but people (singles) do end up sharing a room.

I only charge €30 and the amount of people who think this is expensive is laughable so I'm just interested to hear newbies perspective on this.

Nibbles and breakfast, ice and water all provided. Seasoned party people snap my hand off "

Wow! Bargain! I'd definitely expect to pay alot more

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By *ummer_XOWoman
over a year ago

Tyrone

It's my 12th party this weekend "

I hope to make one of your parties sometime

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Id expect to pay at least 40 or 50 for a single space in a room

Isn't it 40 for vanilla and you also pay extra for a hotel

Seriously undervalued if you want my opinion

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By *isspafWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm a newbie and 30euro is very reasonable.

I'd easily spend 100 euros on a night out to the pub like between taxis, drink and a chipper afterwards.

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By *winger212 OP Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I know!!!!! I have to cop the frig on and stop being so reasonable, it literally consums every evening for 2 months in advance.

I just love to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know!!!!! I have to cop the frig on and stop being so reasonable, it literally consums every evening for 2 months in advance.

I just love to do it"

If you love doing it then continue. If you were not doing it, what else would you be doing? Netflix and chill.

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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway

I wouldn't mind paying between 50-100e depending on what is involved. 30e is very reasonable.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I think €30 to attend is reasonable and then would expect to pay extra to stay over.

You should definitely charge higher and that would also put off some people that should be put off and be compensated for your time and effort.

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By *ueenbeetipp43Woman
over a year ago

my own world

"The house I rent out has 12 ensuite bedrooms, but people (singles) do end up sharing a room.

I only charge €30 and the amount of people who think this is expensive is laughable so I'm just interested to hear newbies perspective on this.

Nibbles and breakfast, ice and water all provided. Seasoned party people snap my hand off "

I've been to your party and I have seen the effort you put into them as well as the food you supply. I can tell you straight out that you don't charge enough.

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By *ngel and EvilCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

€30 is an entry fee only to some m&g then accomodation on top. Dont worry about the nay sayers and complainers. You could easily charge more x

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By *exysamXXXWoman
over a year ago

The Land of Make Believe

You need to up the cost of attending. €30 is too low for accommodating plus including breakfast.

Don't under sell yourself and be left forking out a big balance for hiring a venue. You should also charge a non refundable deposit with the amount of dropouts that do happen for parties and socials, leaving you short again

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I used to host parties at a Dublin venue. There were two of us organizing, and it was a full time job the day before , the night itself and cleaning up the next day. We provided nibbles, some drinks , and condoms, hot tub , sauna, and massage. We had to pitch the price quite high just to break even, but we got a good mix of appreciative people. I see on the UK forum lots of people complaining about €20/€30 being too expensive, but the demographic must be different there. Id say it would be hard to break even at €30. And hopefully there would be no damages to pay for.

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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Having attended a couple of your parties and seeing the effort, food, supplies and amazing work you put into hosting these parties and only asking for €30 and this includes a place to crash....anyone whinging needs their heads read! I wouldn't give a dam if it's a blow up mattress, a couch or fecken bathtub! Christ it would cost most people more for a taxi home after a night out. This amazing woman provides way more than €30 would ever cover and people should be thankful she loves doing it and arranging nights like this instead of moaning... See ya Saturday A xxx

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

"The house I rent out has 12 ensuite bedrooms, but people (singles) do end up sharing a room.

I only charge €30 and the amount of people who think this is expensive is laughable so I'm just interested to hear newbies perspective on this.

Nibbles and breakfast, ice and water all provided. Seasoned party people snap my hand off "

30 euro are you insane. Jesus that's for nothing all that preparation to get it to your standards, the stress of getting the right people not just for the mix of ppl but ones who will respect the accommodation and the clean up the next morning before you hand over the kegs. Girl know your worth and up your prices its 2022. Id pay double that to attend a party of those high standards.

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By *ackd1000Man
over a year ago

Donegal

It's my 12th party this weekend "

Fair play to you keep up the good work

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By *winger212 OP Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

Ok, increased to €45, thanks a million for all the input. I've hired more rooms within the house LOL...... I just love it.

4 new party dates posted in forums if anyone interested, please comment on the relevant forum please.

Friday 8th April BBW ladies and appreciators night

Saturday 9th April - couples and singles night

Friday 11th June - Greedy girls night 3:1 ratio minimum

Saturday 12th June - couples and singles night.

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By *ajRallying555Man
over a year ago

Galway .Limerick

Hi Swinger. Great Value. U A Fantastic Host

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

"Ok, increased to €45, thanks a million for all the input. I've hired more rooms within the house LOL...... I just love it.

Well done OP and still very reasonably priced at that. I’ve heard fantastic things about your parties. Best of luck with your upcoming events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The house I rent out has 12 ensuite bedrooms, but people (singles) do end up sharing a room.

I only charge €30 and the amount of people who think this is expensive is laughable so I'm just interested to hear newbies perspective on this.

Nibbles and breakfast, ice and water all provided. Seasoned party people snap my hand off "

Yep would snap that up and even bring a gift for the host at that price for that standard

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Ok, increased to €45, thanks a million for all the input. I've hired more rooms within the house LOL...... I just love it.

4 new party dates posted in forums if anyone interested, please comment on the relevant forum please.

Friday 8th April BBW ladies and appreciators night

Saturday 9th April - couples and singles night

Friday 11th June - Greedy girls night 3:1 ratio minimum

Saturday 12th June - couples and singles night. "

Do we get a Receipt??

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By *winger212 OP Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

"Ok,

Do we get a Receipt??

Yes, I'll put my stamp on your ass, how's that?

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By *PittMan
over a year ago

Dublin

€30 is way low, willing to pay more ... when is the party and how can you be invited? X

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By *winger212 OP Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

"€30 is way low, willing to pay more ... when is the party and how can you be invited? X"

I got your message in the other forum and info sent

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By *affinlarryMan
over a year ago

tipperary

"Hi there, I'm curious to know what people expect from a party and what they think they should pay towards the costs.

For example e.g. party, sleepover and breakfast, how much?

(Party, not social) "

I think €45 is very reasonable

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