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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I much prefer art house films , but Hitch is my guilty pleasure.

I was wondering if this thread can be a bit like a hitch service , with posts which help one navigate how to interact with others on fab and related apps/groups .

In theory this thread can be equally useful for men and women I suppose but ratios mean it ll End up being much more focused on the approach of those with single male profiles .

Hitch gets a bad name because people think he helps guys be sneaky and get laid . Ultimately though he refuses to work with anyone who operates that way . It’s about helping guys who are interested in meeting others and are respectful show their best side .

So with this in mind I was thinking apart from maybe elements that have been discussed before (such as take good pics , join the forum etc ) a more detailed discussion regarding interaction and approach would be useful .

Two things which immediately spring to mind and which are sort of linked are :

1. Try to talk about something other than sex

And

2. Reveal a bit about you . If your posts are the exact replica of other people’s why would anyone be interested ?

Other bits of advice about how to make a good impression would be much appreciated

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By *ussieGuyInDubMan
over a year ago

Docklands

Hitch is an absolute favourite of mine too. Similar to the second one, put yourself out there as it's better to be the best you than a second rate someone else.

But also expect that you're not going to be to everyone's tastes. You don't like everyone, so why are you trying to get everyone to like you? (this works for all parts of life). Let them self filter themselves away so you don't need to work it out later.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Came here to say

North by northwest

Vertigo

The lady vanishes

My top 3 hitch films

Am disappointed

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Came here to say

North by northwest

Vertigo

The lady vanishes

My top 3 hitch films

Am disappointed "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Came here to say

North by northwest

Vertigo

The lady vanishes

My top 3 hitch films

Am disappointed "

Can't believe you didnt mention

The Birds

And feckin Psycho

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Just be yourself would be the main thing don't try and pretend to be something you're not just to suit others.

As for your profile make an effort with it,write a bit about yourself and put up pics. And if you are happy with what you put up don't change it to suit others. But blank profiles won't appeal to too many especially of you are a man on here.

As for talking to others this is an adult site and honestly if people need hints on how to chat to the people who appeal to them then what hope do they have if they actually meet someone.Most adults would know that faf messages to someone you don't know won't work but yet again if that's what want to send then let them it's better to know at the start then waste time chatting to people or meeting those who are hiding behind a false facade.

The simple truth is no matter what you do on here you won't appeal to everyone so just being you works best.

And yes it's a swingers site but no one is entitled to meets and sex off here just because you joined up and yes that includes if you are a site supporter it makes me laugh when I see comments about how how people are not paying the fees anymore because it hasn't helped them get sex off here. You pay for the extra little things like seeing more messages from someone ,being able to post more pics and being able to watch vids and who looked at you not so you are guaranteed sex.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Came here to say

North by northwest

Vertigo

The lady vanishes

My top 3 hitch films

Am disappointed

Can't believe you didnt mention

The Birds

And feckin Psycho "

I couldnt spell psycho till you did.

But for sure top 3.

I had to have a British oldie on any hitch list tho

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I’ve nothing to contribute, I tend to make it up as I go along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Came here to say

North by northwest

Vertigo

The lady vanishes

My top 3 hitch films

Am disappointed

Can't believe you didnt mention

The Birds

And feckin Psycho "

I don't rate Psycho whatsoever. I really like The Trouble with Harry though. A real underated gem

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I've always struggled why people want to encourage other people to "fake" their personality and how they behave.

If someone thinks or wants to send a faf message then why not let them? Not only that, but this whole idea that if someone doesn't send a faf message and instead ask about what book you like to read because they are genuinely interested in what book you like to read is comical.

99% don't care what book you are reading, what drives there motivation to message you is sex. The exact same as a faf message.

I'm always intrigued by the lack of opneness, and even appreciation, for honest communication.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"I've always struggled why people want to encourage other people to "fake" their personality and how they behave.

If someone thinks or wants to send a faf message then why not let them? Not only that, but this whole idea that if someone doesn't send a faf message and instead ask about what book you like to read because they are genuinely interested in what book you like to read is comical.

99% don't care what book you are reading, what drives there motivation to message you is sex. The exact same as a faf message.

I'm always intrigued by the lack of opneness, and even appreciation, for honest communication.

"

Not so much fake but show more of

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

If you are yourself and people don't like you then that's their downfall not yours.

But embellish or lie on your profile and you will get no where except blocked.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I've always struggled why people want to encourage other people to "fake" their personality and how they behave.

If someone thinks or wants to send a faf message then why not let them? Not only that, but this whole idea that if someone doesn't send a faf message and instead ask about what book you like to read because they are genuinely interested in what book you like to read is comical.

99% don't care what book you are reading, what drives there motivation to message you is sex. The exact same as a faf message.

I'm always intrigued by the lack of opneness, and even appreciation, for honest communication.

Not so much fake but show more of

"

I agree. Nothing wrong with a nice dick picture to break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always struggled why people want to encourage other people to "fake" their personality and how they behave.

If someone thinks or wants to send a faf message then why not let them? Not only that, but this whole idea that if someone doesn't send a faf message and instead ask about what book you like to read because they are genuinely interested in what book you like to read is comical.

99% don't care what book you are reading, what drives there motivation to message you is sex. The exact same as a faf message.

I'm always intrigued by the lack of opneness, and even appreciation, for honest communication.

"

Some of the unrealistic expectations outlined on profiles may be driving some of those faf messages. I mean come on! the expectation that you still have some teeth, wash at least once a week, use deoderant.... and they actually expect you to turn up on the right day....totally unrealistic, they are living in dreamland right next to far far away. Surely they know the standard here is the messeger will been driving all day but will be passing your area at some ungodly hour tonight so if ya fancy a quick shag they can swing by but make sure your good n ready cos they wont have time for foreplay....sure who could turn that offer down

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Pick an appropriate name, its the very first thing we see and some names are disgusting.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"Pick an appropriate name, its the very first thing we see and some names are disgusting.

"

Who's we?

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Pick an appropriate name, its the very first thing we see and some names are disgusting.

Who's we?"

We the people.

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