FabSwingers.com forum: Can I get some advice please.

By *iscreteguy321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

I've been on fab swingers since October and have been to RVC for the Halloween party. But, my real fantasy is to play with a couple. I have tried messaging some couples but got no replies. I am very open minded and easy going. I don't want to keep messaging couples for fear that I am being an annoying git. Can anyone give me some advice on what to do. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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By *urFabFun21Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere

Go to more events and get talking to people in real life. Clean up your profile with a bit about yourself and better pics.

If we received a message from you, we would look at your profile before reading it and just delete it based on your profile alone.

Your 2 pics aren't very nice and you say absolutley nothing about yourself apart from wanting to clean up a cream pie.

I dont intend this to sound harsh but you asked for advice. But from what we have seen and heard so far from others and in our own experience, going to socials and events is the best way to network and meet people.

Best of luck with things.

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By *iscreteguy321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Thanks very much for the advice. I was really at a loss at what to do. I'll get working on it.

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By *urFabFun21Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Thanks very much for the advice. I was really at a loss at what to do. I'll get working on it."

That reads a million times better than it did earlier. Fair play.

Best of luck with things.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I'd find your profile a bit dull tbh.

Discrete, clean, not into drama or hassle and enjoys mutual pleasure - yea you and every other guy on fab.

Looking at your profile, why would a single women or couple pick you over everyone else? I can't see anything there that makes you any different to all the other Tom, Dicks and Harry's who are messaging as well.

One photo doesn't exactly set a high bar either.

You're in a competitive market. You need to figure out what it is you offer that most other men don't or can't and highlight that.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Without you thinking am judging in anyway am not I've plenty of married fab friends but that could be the one thing ppl don't go for when meeting others for fun..so my guess is probably to meet ppl at parties is the best way and sometimes profiles that are short and sweet can leave a little space for chatting too!

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