FabSwingers.com forum: Share your tips for having an enjoyable fab existence

By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Be a person of your word

Someone who can be expected to keep or follow through with his promises or intentions such as turning up when you said you would

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Trust peoples actions and not their words.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Don't take it too seriously, or personally for that matter. Enjoy the journey - you'll need a sense of humour.

Ignore the toxic, just have a laugh, even if it means laughing at your self

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Don't run others down to make yourself look bigger

Be yourself and don't try to be all things to all people

Don't be a dick

Enjoy what you do with whoever you do it with...

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By *atekeeperAndKeymasterCouple
over a year ago

Derry/Donegal

Accept that you aren’t for everyone and that’s ok , don’t gossip about others or be nasty , don’t be flaky , keep an open mind to all experiences and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax...don't rush things

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from drama .

Meet the people who make you smile and distance yourself from those who don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect little,be polite, be honest. Respect others and dont take it to heart if you dont get replies to your messages.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

For me its using the message filters, having a profile that puts people off and meeting on my own terms, that has made my time much more enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never be afraid to say no and don't allow yourself to be pressured into something you're uncomfortable with.

Communicate

Be yourself

Be patient

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

"Don't run others down to make yourself look bigger"

This is almost a textbook definition of Malignant Narcissism, a personality disorder associated with Adolf Hitler, Benito Mussolini, Saddam Hussein and unsurprisingly, Donald Trump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your gut

Take the compliments and the nasty comments with a pinch of salt

But most of all enjoy the ride

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Have a vagina

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Don't run others down to make yourself look bigger

This is almost a textbook definition of Malignant Narcissism, a personality disorder associated with Adolf Hitler, Benito Mussolini, Saddam Hussein and unsurprisingly, Donald Trump."

And none of them had a great Fab experience

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Trust peoples actions and not their words. "

Definitely that… a lot of two faced people around

But also a lot of lovely people

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By *ohnFKMan
over a year ago

Where the Streets Have No Name

"Don't take it too seriously, or personally for that matter. Enjoy the journey - you'll need a sense of humour.

Ignore the toxic, just have a laugh, even if it means laughing at your self

I do like this. Nicely put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely always believe ur gut instinct.

Enjoy ur time on here and engage with people when ur at events.

Pay no attention to the ones that try put ya down.

Everyone has their own tastes and reasons for been here xxxx

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By *illiwontiCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Be a person of your word

Someone who can be expected to keep or follow through with his promises or intentions such as turning up when you said you would "

I never listen to other people's opinions about another fab couple.what doesn't suit one cpl doesn't mean it won't suit d other, so I like to judge for myself and not be a sheep

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By *ymbunny2016Man
over a year ago

Bangor

Don’t take anything personally. Laugh at the tools. Enjoy yourself and be yourself!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Don't see others (of the same sex) as competition. Those who support each other tend to have a better experience and have more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont take yourself too serious , dare to say no and accept a no. be kind

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Don't yuck someone elses yum

If you don't ask you won't get

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By *208numeWoman
over a year ago

Navan

Thanks for your wise words. I benefitted from reading these messages today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave my filters on i found this really helps my experience because i am not annoyed by constant messages. Spend time on an off fab go private for a few days or weeks, a time out definitely makes it more enjoyable for me. And of course being a supporter and having full value of the site.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"Leave my filters on i found this really helps my experience because i am not annoyed by constant messages. Spend time on an off fab go private for a few days or weeks, a time out definitely makes it more enjoyable for me. And of course being a supporter and having full value of the site.

Agreed. Pay for what you enjoy. Be a Fab supporter. You don't have to wear a jersey, though an ankle bracelet might give a hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid drama queens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed. Pay for what you enjoy. Be a Fab supporter. You don't have to wear a jersey, though an ankle bracelet might give a hint

Great idea i like it

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Have a big penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a big penis

Oh what's rare is wonderful and have nice ass too, not much to ask for right lol.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Send more dick pictures.

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By *ickyjoe88Man
over a year ago

Carlow

"Have a big penis

Oh what's rare is wonderful and have nice ass too, not much to ask for right lol.

No harm in being greedy with high standards lol

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By *lugoneMan
over a year ago

rathmicheal

Every one to their own

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Travel your own path and avoid the ones filled with bullshit and drama. Don't be swayed by others opinions make up your own mind. Find the right people who you want to enjoy the journey with and if it stops being fun them take a break .

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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway

Never judge anyone for what they are into. We are all different in our own ways and not everyone is into the same kink. Never disclose or talk about others from here because you just never know who's lips it will end up in. Some people can be cruel if they start talking to others about what your into so be careful.

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Never assume you are entitled to anything be it a reply to your message or a meet or anything.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Don't take things too seriously

Trust your instincts

Understand you won't be everyone's cup of tea

Foe couples, don't take 1 for the team

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