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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good morning fabbers ok i am getting quite annoyed at the amount of guys who tell me what i should do. Do other women have the same happen and feel the same way. I get told quite often "you should do porn" or "you should do fans only" it does get annoying. Is that all guys think of women today that we should be paid for our bodies. Discuss anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt coz guys would love to get fun for free lol.

Jokes aside, that is considered a compliment by some. porn stars are known to have perfect assets and skills. So may be not meant to mean sell your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine that could be very frustrating for a women, but at the end of the day it’s only a suggestion and nothing else. No male can make a women do either. I wouldn’t read too much into it if I were you. Your a big girl and can make your own decisions

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If we didn't spend our day telling women what they should think and do then what else would we do with our time?

Also, since women's brains haven't fully developed to the same capacicity as men's then our ascice is essential to ensure they don't make mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pass no heed its lie when a guy messages saying your gorgeous hun I just jog on mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would imagine that could be very frustrating for a women, but at the end of the day it’s only a suggestion and nothing else. No male can make a women do either. I wouldn’t read too much into it if I were you. Your a big girl and can make your own decisions "

Yes but it's how it's worded "you should" as apposed to "would you ever" or better again "do you like the idea of"

Etc. Anyway no i don't and i won't, i prefer to keep my own bit of self value, worth, esteem, respect some what in tact. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we didn't spend our day telling women what they should think and do then what else would we do with our time?

Also, since women's brains haven't fully developed to the same capacicity as men's then our ascice is essential to ensure they don't make mistakes. "

Some mens brains are only in one place though lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably think it's a compliment. I know plenty on here do what your talking about and make plenty from it but keep it on the QT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "should" thing I'd imagine is just language. I wouldn't read any more into than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we didn't spend our day telling women what they should think and do then what else would we do with our time?

Also, since women's brains haven't fully developed to the same capacicity as men's then our ascice is essential to ensure they don't make mistakes.

Some mens brains are only in one place though lol. "

I agree

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By *DE101Man
over a year ago

Shankill

I think people misunderstand the possible aggressive undertones of the word “should” and perhaps the better phraseology would be to say “could”?

I am sure in a lot of cases when it is said it is meant in the context that they see you as so good looking or that you have such superior sexual prowess that you could apply it in a professional context (if you wanted to) and the most professional context for sex in their mind is porn where they watch these perfectly honed women perform amazing sex acts completely ignoring that is not natural, all an act and directed and edited to make it look as good as it is.

Men are so bad at giving sincere compliments that they can’t do it by simply saying how good looking you are without applying a benchmark

I suppose at least when suggesting a professional outlet for your sexual prowess they are not suggesting prostitution….

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Good morning fabbers ok i am getting quite annoyed at the amount of guys who tell me what i should do. Do other women have the same happen and feel the same way. I get told quite often "you should do porn" or "you should do fans only" it does get annoying. Is that all guys think of women today that we should be paid for our bodies. Discuss anyone? "

I've been told by a couple of lads that I 'should' do porn (when they saw me play in a club), I just laughed it off. I'll only do what I want too thanks

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

The way one person positioned it to me was that they would get turned on by me being a 'whore', fucking anyone and being 'tipped' for it. Of course he wasn't suggesting I should get paid for sex because that would be prostitution..he said all outraged

Phone sex has been suggested by a few - this one I could do. I could get paid for waffling in a sexy voice and swatting a spatula every so often if I thought they were getting bored.

And charging for handjobs. No thank you, I stroke who I want.

Bear in mind that anyone suggesting it wouldn't expect to be charged because they 'came up with the idea'.

They're delusional enough to believe from the tips of their toes that this is a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their cack-handed idea of a compliment, poor social skills more than anything IMO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just think it's a different level and couldn't imagine it actually being healthy for the mind, body or more importantly the soul. Maybe someone who's actually doing it might share how they feel about it. It would be interesting to hear from the other side again the pyscology of it intrigues me, is it people are struggling financially or maybe feeding an addiction or something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think it's a different level and couldn't imagine it actually being healthy for the mind, body or more importantly the soul. Maybe someone who's actually doing it might share how they feel about it. It would be interesting to hear from the other side again the pyscology of it intrigues me, is it people are struggling financially or maybe feeding an addiction or something else. "

I believe the new term is "monetising one's assets", it wouldn't be for me, but it's probably as legitimate a life choice as many others, assuming it is a conscious choice freely made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we didn't spend our day telling women what they should think and do then what else would we do with our time?

Also, since women's brains haven't fully developed to the same capacicity as men's then our ascice is essential to ensure they don't make mistakes.

Some mens brains are only in one place though lol. "

....."Some"????

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By *nardriMan
over a year ago

near town

I’m gonna be another one of them guys who tells you what you should do.

You should tell them to F#%^* off and mind their own business and then block their a55es!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m gonna be another one of them guys who tells you what you should do.

You should tell them to F#%^* off and mind their own business and then block their a55es!

"

I agree ??

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

To be honest, Ive been told by both men and women that I should be in porn and I take that as a massive complimemt

I finally followed their advice and am almost there haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest, Ive been told by both men and women that I should be in porn and I take that as a massive complimemt

I finally followed their advice and am almost there haha"

Ok so this is my point where you say men and women told that you "should" be in porn so had you wanted to do it before that? Were the people telling you and giving you advice in porn/ only fans themselves?

What you mean nearly there? Oh and how do you really feel about it? Exited, happy, anxious etc?

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk


"To be honest, Ive been told by both men and women that I should be in porn and I take that as a massive complimemt

I finally followed their advice and am almost there haha

Ok so this is my point where you say men and women told that you "should" be in porn so had you wanted to do it before that? Were the people telling you and giving you advice in porn/ only fans themselves?

What you mean nearly there? Oh and how do you really feel about it? Exited, happy, anxious etc? "

To be honest, I think most younger guys would love to do porn haha. The dream of fucking beautiful women and being paid. But to answer your question, they didnt force me. They said I had a beautiful body, so why not use it to make some money? I believe 100% there was no bad intent in the compliment or anything.

And I am excited starting out in the porn haha. I will be starting out doing solo stuff but soon will be looking for some female partners to help me out.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I just think it's a different level and couldn't imagine it actually being healthy for the mind, body or more importantly the soul. Maybe someone who's actually doing it might share how they feel about it. It would be interesting to hear from the other side again the pyscology of it intrigues me, is it people are struggling financially or maybe feeding an addiction or something else. "

On a more serious note it sounds like you don't like men saying those things to is because you think there is something "wrong" with the people who do porn or are on fans. Saying people must be on fans because financial issues or their drug addicts is quite the leap.

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I just think it's a different level and couldn't imagine it actually being healthy for the mind, body or more importantly the soul. Maybe someone who's actually doing it might share how they feel about it. It would be interesting to hear from the other side again the pyscology of it intrigues me, is it people are struggling financially or maybe feeding an addiction or something else.

On a more serious note it sounds like you don't like men saying those things to is because you think there is something "wrong" with the people who do porn or are on fans. Saying people must be on fans because financial issues or their drug addicts is quite the leap. "

Not all addictions are to drugs.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"Good morning fabbers ok i am getting quite annoyed at the amount of guys who tell me what i should do. Do other women have the same happen and feel the same way. I get told quite often "you should do porn" or "you should do fans only" it does get annoying. Is that all guys think of women today that we should be paid for our bodies. Discuss anyone? "

Ah, I think they are just trying to compliment you in their own limited way. It's the only reference they have to go by in many cases. Who knows....maybe an airline traffic controller will tell you that you should learn to fly a plane someday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just think it's a different level and couldn't imagine it actually being healthy for the mind, body or more importantly the soul. Maybe someone who's actually doing it might share how they feel about it. It would be interesting to hear from the other side again the pyscology of it intrigues me, is it people are struggling financially or maybe feeding an addiction or something else.

On a more serious note it sounds like you don't like men saying those things to is because you think there is something "wrong" with the people who do porn or are on fans. Saying people must be on fans because financial issues or their drug addicts is quite the leap. "

I didn't say there were i said "is it that people are xyz" reread the text i was asking as it intrigues me and sex is like a drug to and highly addictive. I also did say it was wrong only wrong for me and just interested as to why and how people feel when taking it on as a means for a living that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't say it was wrong.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Didn't say it was wrong. "

No, just that it " couldn't imagine it actually being healthy for the mind, body or more importantly the soul."

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By *unner4funMan
over a year ago

Belfast-Coleraine


"The way one person positioned it to me was that they would get turned on by me being a 'whore', fucking anyone and being 'tipped' for it. Of course he wasn't suggesting I should get paid for sex because that would be prostitution..he said all outraged

Phone sex has been suggested by a few - this one I could do. I could get paid for waffling in a sexy voice and swatting a spatula every so often if I thought they were getting bored.

And charging for handjobs. No thank you, I stroke who I want.

Bear in mind that anyone suggesting it wouldn't expect to be charged because they 'came up with the idea'.

They're delusional enough to believe from the tips of their toes that this is a compliment. "

If your gonna do phone sex you would need to have a sexy voice..... Do you??

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"To be honest, Ive been told by both men and women that I should be in porn and I take that as a massive complimemt

I finally followed their advice and am almost there haha"

On a side note... I was under the impression there was pretty much zero porn industry in Ireland beyond camming/OF. Are there movies being made here now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Didn't say it was wrong.

No, just that it " couldn't imagine it actually being healthy for the mind, body or more importantly the soul." "

Exactly but that's just an imagination not based on true facts which is why i would be interesting to hear views on it. And that's how i would imagine it being but obviously for people it's not like that otherwise why would people do out then. Hence why i was asking to see if people that do it would share how it is for them.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

There is nothing wrong with sex work.

Having any kind of job is literally just selling your body to perform a function to get paid for it.

The problem lies with the fact that if anyone god forbid finds out about any kind of sex work that one might or might not be doing - it automatically writes a woman off as unemployable. Well because "SHAME".

So even if one does decide to even dabble in it once - wrong person finds out - that's your life pretty much ruined.

I've been labelled as one before even though I never had any reason to do it - my carrier was always more important to me than gratification from horny men.

It's not nice.

Someone even went as far as creating a profile on escort site with my photos on it (thankfully it's now deleted after I contacted management of that site).

I do get random men tell me that I should be on OP's sites too. While they're just paying a compliment, in reality they're doing some damage too. They put an idea of easy money into women's heads.

Thing is, nobody ever thinks about the fact that its just customer service and its more than just a job. It's like being on fab, but having to reply to every single message you receive and photos/videos you post are open for grabs for anyone...

Big nope for me

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"The way one person positioned it to me was that they would get turned on by me being a 'whore', fucking anyone and being 'tipped' for it. Of course he wasn't suggesting I should get paid for sex because that would be prostitution..he said all outraged

Phone sex has been suggested by a few - this one I could do. I could get paid for waffling in a sexy voice and swatting a spatula every so often if I thought they were getting bored.

And charging for handjobs. No thank you, I stroke who I want.

Bear in mind that anyone suggesting it wouldn't expect to be charged because they 'came up with the idea'.

They're delusional enough to believe from the tips of their toes that this is a compliment.

If your gonna do phone sex you would need to have a sexy voice..... Do you?? "

Haha twat, yes I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be honest, Ive been told by both men and women that I should be in porn and I take that as a massive complimemt

I finally followed their advice and am almost there haha

Ok so this is my point where you say men and women told that you "should" be in porn so had you wanted to do it before that? Were the people telling you and giving you advice in porn/ only fans themselves?

What you mean nearly there? Oh and how do you really feel about it? Exited, happy, anxious etc?

To be honest, I think most younger guys would love to do porn haha. The dream of fucking beautiful women and being paid. But to answer your question, they didnt force me. They said I had a beautiful body, so why not use it to make some money? I believe 100% there was no bad intent in the compliment or anything.

And I am excited starting out in the porn haha. I will be starting out doing solo stuff but soon will be looking for some female partners to help me out."

Are you finding it hard to get women into trying it?

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk


"To be honest, Ive been told by both men and women that I should be in porn and I take that as a massive complimemt

I finally followed their advice and am almost there haha

Ok so this is my point where you say men and women told that you "should" be in porn so had you wanted to do it before that? Were the people telling you and giving you advice in porn/ only fans themselves?

What you mean nearly there? Oh and how do you really feel about it? Exited, happy, anxious etc?

To be honest, I think most younger guys would love to do porn haha. The dream of fucking beautiful women and being paid. But to answer your question, they didnt force me. They said I had a beautiful body, so why not use it to make some money? I believe 100% there was no bad intent in the compliment or anything.

And I am excited starting out in the porn haha. I will be starting out doing solo stuff but soon will be looking for some female partners to help me out.

Are you finding it hard to get women into trying it? "

The thing is, I want to find a way where I could meet people who are interested in doing that sort of thing. Dont want to ask random girls on the street haha

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

There used to be a lady on here who was quite open about the fact she made porn. Can't remember the username, sorry. She mentioned where she was going for shoots and actively asked others to join her.

Personally I don't think I ever would suggest it to someone, as if they're that good, I'd get selfish and want to keep her to myself

I'd expect, as others have said, it's just a sideways compliment, from folks that have seen porn that matches something that you have done, or that they wished to see. I'd not put much time into it regardless

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By *outh_of_EdenMan
over a year ago

Fota


"I would imagine that could be very frustrating for a women, but at the end of the day it’s only a suggestion and nothing else. No male can make a women do either. I wouldn’t read too much into it if I were you. Your a big girl and can make your own decisions

Some people think that just because you are on a site like this they can get away with being rude and ignorant. Block and move on

Yes but it's how it's worded "you should" as apposed to "would you ever" or better again "do you like the idea of"

Etc. Anyway no i don't and i won't, i prefer to keep my own bit of self value, worth, esteem, respect some what in tact. Lol "

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By *ick manMan
over a year ago

longford


"To be honest, Ive been told by both men and women that I should be in porn and I take that as a massive complimemt

I finally followed their advice and am almost there haha

Ok so this is my point where you say men and women told that you "should" be in porn so had you wanted to do it before that? Were the people telling you and giving you advice in porn/ only fans themselves?

What you mean nearly there? Oh and how do you really feel about it? Exited, happy, anxious etc? "
seems too me like your very curious about it and are actually thinking about doing it but want too see people’s reactions first just been honest

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