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How local is too local?

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By *r_Insatiable666 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cork

I'd imagine some people would want to avoid meeting any of their neighbors on her (bar that one guy) but how local is too local?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Doesn’t bother me as long as the person isn’t psycho.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I'd imagine some people would want to avoid meeting any of their neighbors on her (bar that one guy) but how local is too local?

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wouldn't matter. what's important is discretion.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I seen a photo of a girl on a site not here but somewhere else and nearly died cos I see her most mornings . I kept it a secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how hot she is!!!

And how big is her husband!!!

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

More local the better.

We don't like long distances- it puts expectations in people's heads

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Being local isn't the issue; after a social meet to determine whether we click, that there is interest alround, and that everyone is seeking discretion are the real issues.

Being local means if everyone is happy after we have played there will be the potential of repeat meets, discreetly of course!

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By *humper22Woman
over a year ago

waterford

I'm free and single have nothing to hide so local isnt a problem. At the same time I dont want people knowing my business either

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Once theres trust n discretion local would'nt be an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferably not in the same area as us because unfortunately we live in an area full of gossips and that's one thing we detest

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I must be the odd one out but I have zero interest in meeting anyone who is living within my direct locality. Maybe it's because I live in the countryside and not in a town or city,that might change how I would view it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be the odd one out but I have zero interest in meeting anyone who is living within my direct locality. Maybe it's because I live in the countryside and not in a town or city,that might change how I would view it."

How we see it too, rural Ireland is a hotbed of gossip because an awful lot of people use it as a currency to make themselves appear more interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Localish is fine, probably even convenient however I wouldn't want the people in my area gossiping.

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

When you bump into someone at mass it can be very interesting

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Next door would be too close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less what people think i like meeting locals. Whilst they are talking about people they are leaving others alone, who likes gossips anyway. If i was to live my life the whole time thinking what do others think god i be living under a shell for the rest of my days or feeling guilt and remorseful for having fun. Everyone to their own but convenience works well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't care less what people think i like meeting locals. Whilst they are talking about people they are leaving others alone, who likes gossips anyway. If i was to live my life the whole time thinking what do others think god i be living under a shell for the rest of my days or feeling guilt and remorseful for having fun. Everyone to their own but convenience works well for me. "

It's got nothing to to with guilt, everything to do with a vulnerable teenage daughter who would undoubtedly be the target of bullying if our private life were up for public discussion.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Everything in an half hour driving distance is too close. I want to keep my worlds apart from each other for various reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything in an half hour driving distance is too close. I want to keep my worlds apart from each other for various reasons. "

Half hour driving sounds about right to us too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local would be ideal long as she was attached and discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't care less what people think i like meeting locals. Whilst they are talking about people they are leaving others alone, who likes gossips anyway. If i was to live my life the whole time thinking what do others think god i be living under a shell for the rest of my days or feeling guilt and remorseful for having fun. Everyone to their own but convenience works well for me.

It's got nothing to to with guilt, everything to do with a vulnerable teenage daughter who would undoubtedly be the target of bullying if our private life were up for public discussion. "

I totally understand and rightly so but that's why i said everyone to their own way of thinking and living.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't care less what people think i like meeting locals. Whilst they are talking about people they are leaving others alone, who likes gossips anyway. If i was to live my life the whole time thinking what do others think god i be living under a shell for the rest of my days or feeling guilt and remorseful for having fun. Everyone to their own but convenience works well for me.

It's got nothing to to with guilt, everything to do with a vulnerable teenage daughter who would undoubtedly be the target of bullying if our private life were up for public discussion.

I totally understand and rightly so but that's why i said everyone to their own way of thinking and living. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't care less what people think i like meeting locals. Whilst they are talking about people they are leaving others alone, who likes gossips anyway. If i was to live my life the whole time thinking what do others think god i be living under a shell for the rest of my days or feeling guilt and remorseful for having fun. Everyone to their own but convenience works well for me.

It's got nothing to to with guilt, everything to do with a vulnerable teenage daughter who would undoubtedly be the target of bullying if our private life were up for public discussion.

I totally understand and rightly so but that's why i said everyone to their own way of thinking and living. "

I just think that there's still so much shame around being sexy as if it's wrong. Kids today are bullied for far less and it's usually personal to the kid themselves but yeah i totally understand the prevention side. Although it's hard to prevent bullying these days it's happening as adults in work places aswells. It's just something that when it happens one must just guide their kids how to deal with it in the correct manner.

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

i would be ok with it. single very discreet guy would love to know some of the sexy married mums around would be into some nsa fun.but known never happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm In Sligo since a little after first lockdown.

Besides a few Fwbs I've met barely anyone through Fab. I just feel it's far less private and to many people would know my business.

Moving back to Dublin soon where I'll be a lot more comfortable, definitely looking forward to a few socials and such.

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

We think anything inside a half hour drive is to close. We like to keep the kinky side of our life our business. Also adds to the excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got chatting to a lady from wexford all was going well until we discovered we lived two doors away from each other …… we’ve been chatting since but no meet ups…. It’s kinda kinky both known each other’s secrets…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mad a man message saying he was only a mile away. Freaked me out because when I told him I wasnt interested he kept creating fake profiles to chat to me after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The funny thing about this is one can turn up at a swing party and actually end up meeting either a neighbour, family member, friends, teachers, colleagues etc. So I think life is to short to worrying.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We tend to stay away from any that live in the same town as us

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Anyone within about 3 miles is too close.

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