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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.

A polite way of saying no or genuine ?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.

A polite way of saying no or genuine ?

"
suppose some people think along those lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get told that on meets all the time as they put the brown paper bag over my head

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I get told that on meets all the time as they put the brown paper bag over my head "

Lol it burns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I get told that on meets all the time as they put the brown paper bag over my head "

I get told to turn and face the wall

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

If you believed that one OP I've some magic money beans I'm looking to sell I'd you're interested?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I get told that on meets all the time as they put the brown paper bag over my head

I get told to turn and face the wall "

With that body ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you believed that one OP I've some magic money beans I'm looking to sell I'd you're interested? "

Jealousy is an awful thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.

A polite way of saying no or genuine ?

"

I might steal this to use myself, it's a great excuse

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

What a nice way of saying no ..heart warming lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.

A polite way of saying no or genuine ?

I might steal this to use myself, it's a great excuse "

If only I could steal you

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by


"Was texting a localish woman on here things were going good, got to the point of swapping face pictures. I went first…. Message back saying she recognised me from school years ago and I was out of her league, I was too good looking. Wouldn’t bother sending hers as she “knew” I would not be interested in her.

A polite way of saying no or genuine ?

"

Is that possible?

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"If you believed that one OP I've some magic money beans I'm looking to sell I'd you're interested?

Jealousy is an awful thing "

You should work on your jealousy issues then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you believed that one OP I've some magic money beans I'm looking to sell I'd you're interested?

Jealousy is an awful thing

You should work on your jealousy issues then. "

No issues here baby

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

And you say you're straight lol

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It sounds like she has very low confidence / self esteem

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

I was told that I looked like her brother. We didnt meet again after that.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

I would never dissrespect anyone for there looks once sumone has good personality and has sense of humour and up for the craic im no brad pitt meself

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By *omebirdWoman
over a year ago

N7


"I was told that I looked like her brother. We didnt meet again after that."

That'll do it.

Note to self: Don't resemble a relative

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By *andyman.snrMan
over a year ago

leixlip

did you turn left and pull blue steel ?? always too powerful on first contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And you say you're straight lol"

I was joking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And you say you're straight lol

I was joking "

Sorry to disappoint guys

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

[Removed by poster at 09/02/22 12:51:35]

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk


"I was told that I looked like her brother. We didnt meet again after that.

That'll do it.

Note to self: Don't resemble a relative "

Unless you resemble a relative but she still wants the ride....

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I would take what she said at face value.

She thinks you'll not be interested in her bc she thinks you're good looking and she doesn't have that same opinion of herself.

She might also think you're shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"did you turn left and pull blue steel ?? always too powerful on first contact "

PMSL

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Yeah it's a common problem for all us gorgeous people on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A polite way of saying no or genuine ?

"

Defo genuine...I'm always turning down women on fab for being too gorgeous

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

I had a similar experience, texting a girl, all going great and potential meet arranged and then the ‘face pic’ text happened. She replied ‘fuck, no way!’ , and yeah, I knew it was because she felt i was out of her league. It’s just part of the process .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like she has very low confidence / self esteem"

Or is leading him on to believe that when in fact she might not even know him and it's quite the opposite she's not actually into him at all. Or she could be a he you never know what on here who's begind the screen, we should rename this place "fake fab" ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a similar experience, texting a girl, all going great and potential meet arranged and then the ‘face pic’ text happened. She replied ‘fuck, no way!’ , and yeah, I knew it was because she felt i was out of her league. It’s just part of the process ."
yes it happens quite often

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Interesting tactic, stroking the ego to dampen the blow of being turned down... it might help to cut down on abuse, but there's a way simpler way of doing so.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

This thread reminds me of the plane episode in Father Ted

"I should get the parachute because I'm great. In fact I think I should get both parachutes in case one doesn't work"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often ghosted someone for this reason as I don't see why they would be interested in me when they could actually have anyone they wanted. I don't have the perfect body, I ain't the best looking and can be a cunt so my brain goes into over drive and be like why would a good looking lad want sex from me?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I have often ghosted someone for this reason as I don't see why they would be interested in me when they could actually have anyone they wanted. I don't have the perfect body, I ain't the best looking and can be a cunt so my brain goes into over drive and be like why would a good looking lad want sex from me?

"

A man's approach could be anything from 'every hole is a goal' to finding you totally sexy just the way you are. So why are making the decision for him?

Besides you're reducing everything down to looks and looks = success. How can you be sure they could have everyone they wanted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often ghosted someone for this reason as I don't see why they would be interested in me when they could actually have anyone they wanted. I don't have the perfect body, I ain't the best looking and can be a cunt so my brain goes into over drive and be like why would a good looking lad want sex from me?

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...." I ain't the best looking".

What are ya saying? FFS. You're only gorgeous woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often ghosted someone for this reason as I don't see why they would be interested in me when they could actually have anyone they wanted. I don't have the perfect body, I ain't the best looking and can be a cunt so my brain goes into over drive and be like why would a good looking lad want sex from me?

"

Can’t match what you said to your photos. What an absolute hottie

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