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By *aulm2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Why do people prefer to use Fab instead of Tinder ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a community, theres more here than hook-ups.

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By *ford dudeMan
over a year ago

County

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By *ford dudeMan
over a year ago

County

One word... verifications

You can cut out a lot of catfishing if someone has veris.

There are other reasons, but that's the biggest I'd say.

That's assuming your just looking for a hookup and nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't display my sparkling personality on tinder

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Dare I say...I get more depth from people on fab than tinder

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im not looking to date or a relationship so i get what i want from fab....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake to Real ratio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because Tinder is full of fakes.........Oh wait....

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

No interest in dating so Ive never been on Tinder but from what I have heard from fab guys it can be quiet successful for getting meets. I think for a woman fab is safer, the verification process etc. I tend to steer clear of newbies and after a while here the fakes and time wasters tend to show their colours early with interogation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No interest in dating so Ive never been on Tinder but from what I have heard from fab guys it can be quiet successful for getting meets. I think for a woman fab is safer, the verification process etc. I tend to steer clear of newbies and after a while here the fakes and time wasters tend to show their colours early with interogation "

Do you handcuff them to a chair and blindfold for your interrogations ?

Asking for a friend

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Haven't heard a a Fab Swindler yet, there was plenty of Tinder Swindlers though

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"Haven't heard a a Fab Swindler yet, there was plenty of Tinder Swindlers though

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Fab Dwindlers maybe more appropriate as the pool of well verified, reliable guys are over run here by time wasters and fake profiles!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Haven't heard a a Fab Swindler yet, there was plenty of Tinder Swindlers though

"

There was a bloke on fab about 2 years ago trying to get everyone to invest 500 with him

He had a thread going for a while about how much he was making everyday on crypto and stocks ....He wasn't impressed when he started getting called The stockbroker in the forums ....arrogant fucker too

He got deleted I believe

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There's no cock pics on tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no cock pics on tinder. "

Ooooh! Naughty lady

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By *omebirdWoman
over a year ago

N7

Tinder is tedious.

Fab is....fabulous?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there aren't as many couples on tinder as there is on fab

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

They serve different purposes so it depends on what you are looking for.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"They serve different purposes so it depends on what you are looking for."
Not on tinder better things for using my fingers for !!! But as was said above dates sites have there Merits as I enjoy a chat that may become lovers friends or both or just distance acquaintances , This time of year we are snuggled up chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They serve different purposes so it depends on what you are looking for."

This is my perspective on it too.

If I’m looking for mostly connections with single women, I would probably use Tinder. If I’m hoping to get to know couples and have more direct and varied experiences I might prioritise Fab

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

I find people on tinder are so much more lazy, needy and repetitive.

Fab over tinder all day long.

Also swingers are a community. We are here for it.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"They serve different purposes so it depends on what you are looking for.Not on tinder better things for using my fingers for !!! But as was said above dates sites have there Merits as I enjoy a chat that may become lovers friends or both or just distance acquaintances , This time of year we are snuggled up chatting "

You do know that you can have normal conversations and become all of those things with people you find on fab right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people on tinder are so much more lazy, needy and repetitive.

Fab over tinder all day long.

Also swingers are a community. We are here for it. "

Yes it’s possible that things get repetitive on tinder and possibly lazy - from either gender

But as a guy, I suspect tinder is much “easier” than fab for a single guy - particularly in the “burn in” period.

Fab requires much more of a getting to know the ropes I’ve found in my experience (which was probably much more impacted due to covid too tho)

I enjoy the more direct thing here and possible less expected pathways which might develop

But on tinder/dating apps, I've had much more “success” in finding physical and other types of connections with single women.

That’s also somewhat to do with how much I put into either here or apps too. But, I think here requires you to be more invested time wise as a guy due to the ratio of men to women and needing to stand out more.

Even actually on dating apps I think men vastly outnumber women too so you need to standout there compared to meeting in “real life”

From a woman’s perspective I suspect here it’s the opposite conundrum - you get bombarded with messages and sheer numbers of Lena profiles so you have to spend time sifting - similar to tinder but possibly less of a barrage

They’re just some rambling unfocused thoughts

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I find people on tinder are so much more lazy, needy and repetitive.

Fab over tinder all day long.

Also swingers are a community. We are here for it.

Yes it’s possible that things get repetitive on tinder and possibly lazy - from either gender

But as a guy, I suspect tinder is much “easier” than fab for a single guy - particularly in the “burn in” period.

Fab requires much more of a getting to know the ropes I’ve found in my experience (which was probably much more impacted due to covid too tho)

I enjoy the more direct thing here and possible less expected pathways which might develop

But on tinder/dating apps, I've had much more “success” in finding physical and other types of connections with single women.

That’s also somewhat to do with how much I put into either here or apps too. But, I think here requires you to be more invested time wise as a guy due to the ratio of men to women and needing to stand out more.

Even actually on dating apps I think men vastly outnumber women too so you need to standout there compared to meeting in “real life”

From a woman’s perspective I suspect here it’s the opposite conundrum - you get bombarded with messages and sheer numbers of Lena profiles so you have to spend time sifting - similar to tinder but possibly less of a barrage

They’re just some rambling unfocused thoughts "

Well... if most single guy's on fab profiles would be more similar to their tinder ones (photos, effort etc) it shouldn't take any more effort to meet someone off fab compared to tinder.

I have a single profile here too.

It genuinely doesn't take that much effort to sift through all 2 "hi" messages I get a day

Problem with fab is representation.

So many men join it because their mate told them about this magical place where everyone just fucks all the time. That you will get more pussy than you ever wished for and will be going to all these mad sex parties where women just put out for everyone.

So of course they will want a discreet profile hiding everything anyone might ever recognise. I mean I wouldn't want to be caught in a place like I just described either...

Then a few weeks after joining they realise that fab isn't what their mates told them is and they take it out on unsuspecting women who are just minding their business and doing their own thing here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder is more relationship based, ya I've had the odd hook up but that's it.

Here, there's a clearer view of who you are and what you want, it saves time explaining. Also, in Fab you do already share a similar interest - Swinging.

There's a great community here on Fab. The forums are full of people just having the crack, getting to know eachother etc.

That's just my two cents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... unsuspecting women who are just minding their business and doing their own thing here..

"

We dont stay unsuspecting long ...and suspicion often becomes the default unfortunately.

But at least with the verifications there's some accountability which you dont get elsewhere.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

on tinder I suppose you have instant facial attraction or not. fab, you're sending that initial message and women are getting loads. online sites are tough cookies though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people on tinder are so much more lazy, needy and repetitive.

Fab over tinder all day long.

Also swingers are a community. We are here for it.

Yes it’s possible that things get repetitive on tinder and possibly lazy - from either gender

But as a guy, I suspect tinder is much “easier” than fab for a single guy - particularly in the “burn in” period.

Fab requires much more of a getting to know the ropes I’ve found in my experience (which was probably much more impacted due to covid too tho)

I enjoy the more direct thing here and possible less expected pathways which might develop

But on tinder/dating apps, I've had much more “success” in finding physical and other types of connections with single women.

That’s also somewhat to do with how much I put into either here or apps too. But, I think here requires you to be more invested time wise as a guy due to the ratio of men to women and needing to stand out more.

Even actually on dating apps I think men vastly outnumber women too so you need to standout there compared to meeting in “real life”

From a woman’s perspective I suspect here it’s the opposite conundrum - you get bombarded with messages and sheer numbers of Lena profiles so you have to spend time sifting - similar to tinder but possibly less of a barrage

They’re just some rambling unfocused thoughts

Well... if most single guy's on fab profiles would be more similar to their tinder ones (photos, effort etc) it shouldn't take any more effort to meet someone off fab compared to tinder.

I have a single profile here too.

It genuinely doesn't take that much effort to sift through all 2 "hi" messages I get a day

Problem with fab is representation.

So many men join it because their mate told them about this magical place where everyone just fucks all the time. That you will get more pussy than you ever wished for and will be going to all these mad sex parties where women just put out for everyone.

So of course they will want a discreet profile hiding everything anyone might ever recognise. I mean I wouldn't want to be caught in a place like I just described either...

Then a few weeks after joining they realise that fab isn't what their mates told them is and they take it out on unsuspecting women who are just minding their business and doing their own thing here..

"

I make effort on both sites and it’s been my experience that it doesn’t happen as much for me here - not a moaning - just an observation - and I don’t mind it at all. Just trying to give some honest and subjective thoughts

I would agree with you that there are lots of guys who assume it’s going to be like dial a ride and then don’t think effort is required! I also suspect there are some women/couples who think it’s like dial a ride and expect some men to be available almost immediately when asked.

I think maybe in my opinion there’s not as much “return” in terms of meets for guys compared to tinder as there’s prob a much higher ratio of men to women here than tinder. Simply supple and demand

Also, I find I possibly do better that women on tinder have already seen my face and know if they’re attracted or not already. Whereas here, word of mouth possibly plays a decent part - for meets and events - “is your man safe/sound/chilled out/a good ride” etc

That is definitely not something people do on tinder

So I suspect once you’re into the swing of things here (pun beautifully intended!) it pays off exponentially as a single guy due to people knowing you are a decent prospect. Takes time to get that though is what I guess I’m saying here compared to tinder

I still do think even with better profiles like you suggested, this would be the case. I’ve had previous profiles here which were very fleshed out (another pun ) in all aspects and not much response. Again, no big deal and simply an observation.

Glad it isn’t much annoyance for you to sift through all the messages! I do see some women suggest that it can be an arduous task though

Thanks for your thought out response

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"... unsuspecting women who are just minding their business and doing their own thing here..

We dont stay unsuspecting long ...and suspicion often becomes the default unfortunately.

But at least with the verifications there's some accountability which you dont get elsewhere."

That is very true. Sad that this suspicion rubs off onto guys that are actually decent and are forced to jump through extra hoops.

And yes, you're very right about verifications, although they can put people off just as much as attract some completely depending on what's in them.

I plain refused to meet dirk for as much as a coffee because of his trashy veris left by his old fuckbuddies

Missus

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

From my experience, people are more upfront on fab about what they’re looking for than on tinder. So many on tinder are just looking for hookups (which is fine) but masquerade behind wanting to date etc.

Tinder is a complete waste of my time, as far as I’m concerned. In fact, I only go on there when I’m extremely bored.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

New been on tinder don't see the point

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I find people on tinder are so much more lazy, needy and repetitive.

Fab over tinder all day long.

Also swingers are a community. We are here for it.

Yes it’s possible that things get repetitive on tinder and possibly lazy - from either gender

But as a guy, I suspect tinder is much “easier” than fab for a single guy - particularly in the “burn in” period.

Fab requires much more of a getting to know the ropes I’ve found in my experience (which was probably much more impacted due to covid too tho)

I enjoy the more direct thing here and possible less expected pathways which might develop

But on tinder/dating apps, I've had much more “success” in finding physical and other types of connections with single women.

That’s also somewhat to do with how much I put into either here or apps too. But, I think here requires you to be more invested time wise as a guy due to the ratio of men to women and needing to stand out more.

Even actually on dating apps I think men vastly outnumber women too so you need to standout there compared to meeting in “real life”

From a woman’s perspective I suspect here it’s the opposite conundrum - you get bombarded with messages and sheer numbers of Lena profiles so you have to spend time sifting - similar to tinder but possibly less of a barrage

They’re just some rambling unfocused thoughts

Well... if most single guy's on fab profiles would be more similar to their tinder ones (photos, effort etc) it shouldn't take any more effort to meet someone off fab compared to tinder.

I have a single profile here too.

It genuinely doesn't take that much effort to sift through all 2 "hi" messages I get a day

Problem with fab is representation.

So many men join it because their mate told them about this magical place where everyone just fucks all the time. That you will get more pussy than you ever wished for and will be going to all these mad sex parties where women just put out for everyone.

So of course they will want a discreet profile hiding everything anyone might ever recognise. I mean I wouldn't want to be caught in a place like I just described either...

Then a few weeks after joining they realise that fab isn't what their mates told them is and they take it out on unsuspecting women who are just minding their business and doing their own thing here..

I make effort on both sites and it’s been my experience that it doesn’t happen as much for me here - not a moaning - just an observation - and I don’t mind it at all. Just trying to give some honest and subjective thoughts

I would agree with you that there are lots of guys who assume it’s going to be like dial a ride and then don’t think effort is required! I also suspect there are some women/couples who think it’s like dial a ride and expect some men to be available almost immediately when asked.

I think maybe in my opinion there’s not as much “return” in terms of meets for guys compared to tinder as there’s prob a much higher ratio of men to women here than tinder. Simply supple and demand

Also, I find I possibly do better that women on tinder have already seen my face and know if they’re attracted or not already. Whereas here, word of mouth possibly plays a decent part - for meets and events - “is your man safe/sound/chilled out/a good ride” etc

That is definitely not something people do on tinder

So I suspect once you’re into the swing of things here (pun beautifully intended!) it pays off exponentially as a single guy due to people knowing you are a decent prospect. Takes time to get that though is what I guess I’m saying here compared to tinder

I still do think even with better profiles like you suggested, this would be the case. I’ve had previous profiles here which were very fleshed out (another pun ) in all aspects and not much response. Again, no big deal and simply an observation.

Glad it isn’t much annoyance for you to sift through all the messages! I do see some women suggest that it can be an arduous task though

Thanks for your thought out response "

What I meant about fab profile being more like tinder - is less naked and more face etc. But I do know that will never happen so there's no point in even mentioning it.

No matter what your profile is like you also have to deal with majority of women already having a massive guard up too.

Also yes, some women do complain about a crazy amount of messages, that is only ever true if:

1. Her profile is new.

2. She doesn't have any message filters.

3. She happened to be on page 1 of hot photos (what recently happened to me, ending up with 600+ messages from all over the world).

On a normal day average woman gets no more than 5-6 messages. A couple - a lot less!

Take away dial a ride and "hi" messages and you're lucky to get one decent one maybe once every fortnight if you're lucky

Chances are the person who sent it isn't what you're looking for either and it breaks your heart to let them down.

I'm obviously talking from my own experience as a single woman as well as experience of being in a couple.

Missus

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"From my experience, people are more upfront on fab about what they’re looking for than on tinder. So many on tinder are just looking for hookups (which is fine) but masquerade behind wanting to date etc.

Tinder is a complete waste of my time, as far as I’m concerned. In fact, I only go on there when I’m extremely bored. "

It's so bloody tiring to pretend to be a "good girl" though isn't it?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"From my experience, people are more upfront on fab about what they’re looking for than on tinder. So many on tinder are just looking for hookups (which is fine) but masquerade behind wanting to date etc.

Tinder is a complete waste of my time, as far as I’m concerned. In fact, I only go on there when I’m extremely bored.

It's so bloody tiring to pretend to be a "good girl" though isn't it? "

I don’t play pretend very well

My issue with it is that if the conversation turns to sexual likes and dislikes, most of the guys I’ve chatted to seem to presume that you’re only interested in hook ups. How the heck are you supposed to find someone to date without discussing your sexual compatibility?!?

I do think fab has ruined me for vanilla life tbh. I can’t be arsed with the games etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on what the end goal is. Purely for dates then tinder is far more efficient in terms of time spend/dates.

There's a lot more work ground work you've to put into on fab for dates - detailed profile, good photos, post on the forums etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been on Tinder, or PoF or Bumble or any of the dating apps.

Am I missing out?

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By *omebirdWoman
over a year ago

N7


"I've never been on Tinder, or PoF or Bumble or any of the dating apps.

Am I missing out?"

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people on tinder are so much more lazy, needy and repetitive.

Fab over tinder all day long.

Also swingers are a community. We are here for it.

Yes it’s possible that things get repetitive on tinder and possibly lazy - from either gender

But as a guy, I suspect tinder is much “easier” than fab for a single guy - particularly in the “burn in” period.

Fab requires much more of a getting to know the ropes I’ve found in my experience (which was probably much more impacted due to covid too tho)

I enjoy the more direct thing here and possible less expected pathways which might develop

But on tinder/dating apps, I've had much more “success” in finding physical and other types of connections with single women.

That’s also somewhat to do with how much I put into either here or apps too. But, I think here requires you to be more invested time wise as a guy due to the ratio of men to women and needing to stand out more.

Even actually on dating apps I think men vastly outnumber women too so you need to standout there compared to meeting in “real life”

From a woman’s perspective I suspect here it’s the opposite conundrum - you get bombarded with messages and sheer numbers of Lena profiles so you have to spend time sifting - similar to tinder but possibly less of a barrage

They’re just some rambling unfocused thoughts

Well... if most single guy's on fab profiles would be more similar to their tinder ones (photos, effort etc) it shouldn't take any more effort to meet someone off fab compared to tinder.

I have a single profile here too.

It genuinely doesn't take that much effort to sift through all 2 "hi" messages I get a day

Problem with fab is representation.

So many men join it because their mate told them about this magical place where everyone just fucks all the time. That you will get more pussy than you ever wished for and will be going to all these mad sex parties where women just put out for everyone.

So of course they will want a discreet profile hiding everything anyone might ever recognise. I mean I wouldn't want to be caught in a place like I just described either...

Then a few weeks after joining they realise that fab isn't what their mates told them is and they take it out on unsuspecting women who are just minding their business and doing their own thing here..

I make effort on both sites and it’s been my experience that it doesn’t happen as much for me here - not a moaning - just an observation - and I don’t mind it at all. Just trying to give some honest and subjective thoughts

I would agree with you that there are lots of guys who assume it’s going to be like dial a ride and then don’t think effort is required! I also suspect there are some women/couples who think it’s like dial a ride and expect some men to be available almost immediately when asked.

I think maybe in my opinion there’s not as much “return” in terms of meets for guys compared to tinder as there’s prob a much higher ratio of men to women here than tinder. Simply supple and demand

Also, I find I possibly do better that women on tinder have already seen my face and know if they’re attracted or not already. Whereas here, word of mouth possibly plays a decent part - for meets and events - “is your man safe/sound/chilled out/a good ride” etc

That is definitely not something people do on tinder

So I suspect once you’re into the swing of things here (pun beautifully intended!) it pays off exponentially as a single guy due to people knowing you are a decent prospect. Takes time to get that though is what I guess I’m saying here compared to tinder

I still do think even with better profiles like you suggested, this would be the case. I’ve had previous profiles here which were very fleshed out (another pun ) in all aspects and not much response. Again, no big deal and simply an observation.

Glad it isn’t much annoyance for you to sift through all the messages! I do see some women suggest that it can be an arduous task though

Thanks for your thought out response

What I meant about fab profile being more like tinder - is less naked and more face etc. But I do know that will never happen so there's no point in even mentioning it.

No matter what your profile is like you also have to deal with majority of women already having a massive guard up too.

Also yes, some women do complain about a crazy amount of messages, that is only ever true if:

1. Her profile is new.

2. She doesn't have any message filters.

3. She happened to be on page 1 of hot photos (what recently happened to me, ending up with 600+ messages from all over the world).

On a normal day average woman gets no more than 5-6 messages. A couple - a lot less!

Take away dial a ride and "hi" messages and you're lucky to get one decent one maybe once every fortnight if you're lucky

Chances are the person who sent it isn't what you're looking for either and it breaks your heart to let them down.

I'm obviously talking from my own experience as a single woman as well as experience of being in a couple.

Missus "

I find that very informative actually on the messages front!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cast the net wide as I’m not looking for the same thing in every meet so I’m on various dating apps too.

Dating apps are handy for local meets as it suits me best and I’ve found gems in each one of them.

Plus you can tell the fab folk from their tinder profile, just something about them that stands out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been on Tinder, or PoF or Bumble or any of the dating apps.

Am I missing out?"

If you're looking for dates and casual hook-ups then absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty and no hidden agenda... we're all here for the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cast the net wide as I’m not looking for the same thing in every meet so I’m on various dating apps too.

Dating apps are handy for local meets as it suits me best and I’ve found gems in each one of them.

Plus you can tell the fab folk from their tinder profile, just something about them that stands out.

"

Very well put in terms of variety!

I never recognise fab users tho! How do you do that??

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Honesty and no hidden agenda... we're all here for the same thing"

No, we are absolutely not!

Fab is what you make of it!

Some are looking for a new sex friend circle.

Some are looking for one off hook ups.

Some are looking to piss others off.

Some are looking to just chat to people online.

Some are looking for casual one off hook ups with complete strangers.

Some want to meet same people.

Some want friendships with like minded individuals.

People aren't looking for the same thing and the assumption that they are is quite damaging to the site and users themselves as its where the misunderstandings come from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos I'm banned from Tinder so Fab over Tinder

Note: Never make a profile for your dog and start sending inspo messages to pass time over lockdown

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Cos I'm banned from Tinder so Fab over Tinder

Note: Never make a profile for your dog and start sending inspo messages to pass time over lockdown "

I would swipe for your dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I'm banned from Tinder so Fab over Tinder

Note: Never make a profile for your dog and start sending inspo messages to pass time over lockdown

I would swipe for your dog"

Loads did, I got a good 8 weeks out of it. Then someone obviously wasn't a dog lover and reported the page haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cos I'm banned from Tinder so Fab over Tinder

Note: Never make a profile for your dog and start sending inspo messages to pass time over lockdown

I would swipe for your dog Loads did, I got a good 8 weeks out of it. Then someone obviously wasn't a dog lover and reported the page haha"

Hahaha thats a giggle. lockdown life needed a bit of lighthearted messing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty and no hidden agenda... we're all here for the same thing"

I think it’s quite naive to think there’s only honesty and no hidden agendas here - or anywhere else in life

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I’ve never been on Tinder, and I though if I read this thread it might enlighten me and help me to make a decision as to whether I should perhaps join or not….

It hasn’t……

Very disappointed……

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *mokey and the bandit 1Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

For men it's because they think that a swinging site would be easier to get the ride and would have to put less effort in than on tinder or any other "dating" site.

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

I dont know. I use both tinder and fab haha

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Fabswingers is a reliable means of connecting with like-minded individuals who are in this for the long-haul, to develop meaningful connections and interact on a cerebral level; Tinder is a means of getting a quick shag as rapidly as possible.

Many who join fab have a fundamental misconception about its raison d'etre and the type of people it is actually designed for.

These are the people who whinge on the forum, slate those who refuse to engage with them and rapidly head for the exit!

Therein lies the essential difference!

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

I give up, what’s the answer OP?..

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

We tried Tinder, got banned not so user friendly for cpls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use both, I think I prefer Tinder cos I can tell right away if I'm going to be at least somewhat physically attracted - i very much go for face over body. There's usually a bit more of someone's personality as well. And you can send gifs and proper emojis!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer fab i gave up tinder a few years ago now. I find here there's more of a social outlet so it gives one time to get to know people. With tinder the match and unmatch two seconds later lol, i do not miss that at all. Also on here there is the forums to chat about all sorts of things and build up connections and friendships.

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By *onho30Man
over a year ago

cork


"I prefer fab i gave up tinder a few years ago now. I find here there's more of a social outlet so it gives one time to get to know people. With tinder the match and unmatch two seconds later lol, i do not miss that at all. Also on here there is the forums to chat about all sorts of things and build up connections and friendships. "
100 percent agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cast the net wide as I’m not looking for the same thing in every meet so I’m on various dating apps too.

Dating apps are handy for local meets as it suits me best and I’ve found gems in each one of them.

Plus you can tell the fab folk from their tinder profile, just something about them that stands out.

Very well put in terms of variety!

I never recognise fab users tho! How do you do that??"

The way they look at the camera, a quiet confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lot on fab on tinder aswell.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I seem to be getting ghosted a lot on Tinder lately lots of messers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally, I prefer Tinder. Due to the fact there is more conversation there. I have matched with people on tinder that are from here but never mentioned it to them as people like to keep their fab life private. I find with alot of these online sites/apps will attract the wrong type of people but the advantage of fab is that they seem to be filtered out quite quickly due to it being more of a comunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cast the net wide as I’m not looking for the same thing in every meet so I’m on various dating apps too.

Dating apps are handy for local meets as it suits me best and I’ve found gems in each one of them.

Plus you can tell the fab folk from their tinder profile, just something about them that stands out.

Very well put in terms of variety!

I never recognise fab users tho! How do you do that??

The way they look at the camera, a quiet confidence "

Jesus I’d be shit at spotting people then!

Most women would see me on apps and think butter wouldn’t melt and that I’d be a quiet and mannerly fella

I’ve been told that quite a bit when they were surprised about fab life etc

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