FabSwingers.com forum: Have any of you been recognised from here

By *ancy38 OP Woman
over a year ago

galway

This has probably been asked loads on here. Just wondering if anyone has ever been recognised by someone they know on here?

I have recognised a few cples from here and I know they know its me from my cple profile, although we never say anything but I am abit uncomfortable with some knowing about me in the town I live in.

Ireland has moved on so much in recent times, but there is still the small town mentality amongst some people who like to ridicule people for having adult fun. I think its going to take maybe another decade or two for swinging to be socially acceptable here in Ireland without any feelings of embarrassment for having adult fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the majority of people who are on here would hope anyone that recognises them on here would have the decency to say nothing.

I've had the odd message from blank profiles saying they recognise or seen me on the local shop. I just says thanks but wasn't me and if they persist I just block.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

On a previous profile I recognised a guy who worked for me and had a facepic on his couples profile.

He messaged me but I ignored it and then blocked.

A few weeks later he disobeyed a direct order from me and said he would tell everyone my secret if I didn't let him do things his own way. There was nothing in my profile that could have identified me as I only had 2 pics so I called his bluff and he was sent to a disciplinary and then went on long term sick after that.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The perverse morality of the Cathic Church in Ireland will take another generation or two to be eradicated from living memory.

Regrettably, the small town (valley of the squinting windows) mentality still persists in places, but is slowly dissipating.

Sex is a normal part of the human animal's life, and it will come to be accepted that monogamy is only one manifestation of sexual relationships that not all of the Irish population adhere to.

In the meantime, for at least another 20+ years, swinging will have to continue to be a private personal secret interest.

The legacy of conservative narrow-minded Catholic morality is long-lasting, regrettably.

Oh, and no-one has ever mentioned my interest in swinging to me; I keep that aspect of my life very carefully under wraps.

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By *ancy38 OP Woman
over a year ago

galway

"I think the majority of people who are on here would hope anyone that recognises them on here would have the decency to say nothing.

I've had the odd message from blank profiles saying they recognise or seen me on the local shop. I just says thanks but wasn't me and if they persist I just block. "

I think this too although there is a small minority that like to talk which is disturbing. I did get one msg about 8 years ago when I was part of cple profile thst mentioned our names but then the profile blocked us. It does get you paranoid.

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By *ancy38 OP Woman
over a year ago

galway

"The perverse morality of the Cathic Church in Ireland will take another generation or two to be eradicated from living memory.

Regrettably, the small town (valley of the squinting windows) mentality still persists in places, but is slowly dissipating.

Sex is a normal part of the human animal's life, and it will come to be accepted that monogamy is only one manifestation of sexual relationships that not all of the Irish population adhere to.

In the meantime, for at least another 20+ years, swinging will have to continue to be a private personal secret interest.

The legacy of conservative narrow-minded Catholic morality is long-lasting, regrettably.

Oh, and no-one has ever mentioned my interest in swinging to me; I keep that aspect of my life very carefully under wraps.

You do have valid points about the Catholic Church having a part in this mindset. I do prefer mine to be very private but you an only keep it private to a certain extent because it does involve meeting people.

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By *ancy38 OP Woman
over a year ago

galway

"On a previous profile I recognised a guy who worked for me and had a facepic on his couples profile.

He messaged me but I ignored it and then blocked.

WOW!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was recognised after I sent a message to someone we had matched on tinder, we spoke briefly but nothing came of it.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"On a previous profile I recognised a guy who worked for me and had a facepic on his couples profile.

He messaged me but I ignored it and then blocked.

How did he recognise you if there was nothing in your profile that could identify you?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"On a previous profile I recognised a guy who worked for me and had a facepic on his couples profile.

He messaged me but I ignored it and then blocked.

How did he recognise you if there was nothing in your profile that could identify you?"

I didn't say he did. That's why I called his bluff. I recognised him from his facepic and when he made the threat so soon after it was the only thing I could think he might be referring to.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Not that I know of but I have had a couple of men claiming they know me in messages one even telling me he went to school with me which is highly unlikely as we lived at opposite ends of the country then. I had two convinced I was someone else,one sent me a woman's name and address trying to convince me I was her. All just went on my block list.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Recently heard of a business near us going downhill when word got out. The business is still going, so hopefully they get over the 'hump'.

Ridiculous really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got two creepy messages saying they either recognised me or knew where I lived.

First time I was in local shop wearing a distinct pair of yoga pants that appeared on Fab. They sent me a very creepy message saying they knew my arse anywhere

Second time I had taken photos in my bell tent which was up on my front lawn at the time. A guy message asking me did I live on such a road and could he pop over.

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By *uskysoundsCouple
over a year ago

Mazarrón, Spain

We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.

Still friends 5 years later

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By *aidRXTV/TS
over a year ago

ashbourne

I dont so much have an issue being recognised as I believe were all in the same boat so still respect the discreetness of our hobby.

That said... years ago... me and my partner were on another site and she was recognised... got a couple of messages and then one christmas when she was in her hometown at a bar, the guy started shouting things across the bar "Mistress xxx" and such.

Obviously gave her a fright and now due to that bad experience, coupled with that she was trying all this for me, she is no longer involved.

Some people just dont have any sense!!!

We all just need to respect each other and the privacy of our hobby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I know a few people but since we're all in the same boat it doesn't bother me too much. That said, I wouldn't be keen to play on my own doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me as such...

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I’ve had people recognise me from tinder by my lips apparently

Doesn’t particularly bother me but it’s creepy when they refuse to tell you where they recognise you from.

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork

"I’ve had people recognise me from tinder by my lips apparently

Doesn’t particularly bother me but it’s creepy when they refuse to tell you where they recognise you from. "

Yeh thats a bit one way.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently heard of a business near us going downhill when word got out. The business is still going, so hopefully they get over the 'hump'.

Ridiculous really."

Heard of a similar situation in a small town but after fee months was forgotten..business as usual then

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

On a previous profile a person told me they were friends with my brother and knew who I was. He thought that because we lived a few streets away that we should be fwbs.

From what he said he absolutely did know my brother. I've never known who he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I possibly have been but I am not even aware of it. I don't care at this stage as I am single and it is not affecting anyone else. I am still careful and discreet because I do not want unwanted attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.

Still friends 5 years later

Lovely story. So it's not always a bad thing to be recognised. Hope you gave that dog a reward!

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By *ford dudeMan
over a year ago

County

Have recognised a handful of people and also been recognised myself by others. Few minutes embarrassment followed then by the realisation that we are all on this for similar reasons and its not a biggie.

I'd never go broadcasting it about them and they don't about me. Works out.

I guess I'm lucky that way!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.

Still friends 5 years later

Looked at your very sexy pictures 15 times so far....still can't see the dog....I'll have another look

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We have recognised a couple of people but we just blocked and said nothing, not sure if we have been recognised though

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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago

mullingar

"On a previous profile a person told me they were friends with my brother and knew who I was. He thought that because we lived a few streets away that we should be fwbs.

From what he said he absolutely did know my brother. I've never known who he was.

That's scary.... creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that resonates here with me is recognising women who ended up on here after I had told them about the site

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By *reative ideasMan
over a year ago

Next door

I've been recognised twice, once by a cousin's husbands sister. She recognised me from the wedding, no issues or awkwardness at all in fairness.

We still chat.

I don't think I've ever recognised anyone.

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By *anto3087Man
over a year ago

dun laoghaire

Recognised by fellow tennis club member at meet and greet.

It eas a couple, the fem was a member of club. Very sexy lady.

No issues.

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By *uskysoundsCouple
over a year ago

Mazarrón, Spain

"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.

Still friends 5 years later

Looked at your very sexy pictures 15 times so far....still can't see the dog....I'll have another look

Lol... removed coz he had a distinctive head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.

Still friends 5 years later

Looked at your very sexy pictures 15 times so far....still can't see the dog....I'll have another look

Lol... removed coz he had a distinctive head

I would settle for regular head

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.

Still friends 5 years later

Looked at your very sexy pictures 15 times so far....still can't see the dog....I'll have another look

Lol... removed coz he had a distinctive head

It can't be just me that actually wants to see the doggie now

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

yes more then once.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I was only helping a couple in their hour of need . They were looking for a plumber but since I was in her locality I think I frightened her cos they disappeared .I would not have outed them

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Anyone got the fix for a broken record?

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By *omebirdWoman
over a year ago

"Anyone got the fix for a broken record?"

It's just an echo silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone got the fix for a broken record?"
I guess a muzzle will do.

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By *razygoalsMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Ive had a few messages saying they know me, mostly recently actually, my profile makes me fairly recognisable to anyone who would know me...

People here are roughly one in the same, those who arnt, fuck em, their opinions mean fuck all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were recognised by a couple that lived across the road, our dogs head was in the bottom of one of our pics and we never noticed him.. we have had great fun with them as they are a lovely couple.

Still friends 5 years later

Lucky people. Tigger here was actually recognised by a couple in our Legion yesterday. We will post more if things develop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing a disguise out in public always helps.

Or does it??

https://youtu.be/oCERfa8LcS4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My buddy recognises his ex wife on here . Someone tipped him off . I met my ex brother in law at a m+g ended up hanging out with him and his wife for the night. They got a free hotel room with me for their troubles

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By *ru9137Man
over a year ago

Billingham

I work all around the UK for a large distribution company. I was in Scotland and went to Strathclyde park the first night there and met a couple who took me back to there home for some fun. the next day she was introduced to me as my contact and I ended up working with her for 6 weeks.

The look on her face when she walked in the room was priceless, I was a regular at there house and had many meeting through her, a very good few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been recognized but it's a major fantasy of mine to be recognized by someone at work who proceeds to make me their bitch on the basis of it

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

We have been recognised but no idea by who, he put our names in the subject bar and that was it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been recognised, had a lad message me and ask me if I was (name) and if I worked in (workplace). He just wanted to drop a message and say hello. I don’t really mind people I know messaging me at all aslong as they are discrete and open with me

also I’ve recognised a few people on here from working in local shops, in my year in school ect but I wouldn’t dream of messaging them and saying I know them due to the fact they might not be comfortable with it

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By *inkyKaty33Woman
over a year ago

cork

I've recognised a good few people on here, never close connections thankfully! but work colleagues & acquaintances over the yrs & just blocked & never thought of them in that instance again. Each to there own

im not aware that ive ever been recognised thankfully ha!

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

"We have been recognised but no idea by who, he put our names in the subject bar and that was it

People should either introduce themselves or stay quite. But thats kinda creepy and just weird behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dee's been recognized a few times by people work related or locals. Only had to block one of them. I got recognized by one of the lads in work. Said to me on here who he was and nothing else.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Person on website....recognises other person on website....

Don't be a dickhead...

Say hello or stay quiet...

Try and not be creepy...

Again don't be a dickhead..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have been recognised, had a lad message me and ask me if I was (name) and if I worked in (workplace). He just wanted to drop a message and say hello. I don’t really mind people I know messaging me at all aslong as they are discrete and open with me

How do you think they recognised you in the first place. Your profile doesn’t give away much at all

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

"We have been recognised but no idea by who, he put our names in the subject bar and that was it

People should either introduce themselves or stay quite. But thats kinda creepy and just weird behaviour!

ya we were totally freaked out and deleted profile, this was a while back but said f××k it and f××k him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been recognised but no idea by who, he put our names in the subject bar and that was it

People should either introduce themselves or stay quite. But thats kinda creepy and just weird behaviour!

ya we were totally freaked out and deleted profile, this was a while back but said f××k it and f××k him!

Well done you guys we hopefully will react the same way it’s our time now and we can’t wait and fuck the begrudgers

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Have been recognised a few times on here both local and a few times outside my area as I travel for work I’m single so it dosnt mater I have had a good few meets off here and they didn’t want to be verified or verify me I respect their prificy it is only fun and respect

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Probably, but I'm not concerned about it because this is not a mainstream site that is well known!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s my attitude but people in Derry have no discretion

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