FabSwingers.com forum: Being called a "slut"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does the word "Slut" have a different (positive) meaning nowadays in the world of swing?

I have found that people enjoy being called it lately which is great. Who takes that and other similar words as a compliment?

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By *eckycd41TV/TS
over a year ago

Navan

I'm not sure people do like being called it , I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the word "Slut" have a different (positive) meaning nowadays in the world of swing?

I have found that people enjoy being called it lately which is great. Who takes that and other similar words as a compliment? "

For me it's in content. I don't mind been somebodies slut and aiming to please them but I don't like been called a slut as an insult. If that makes sense.

Like if someone who doesn't know me called me one I'd be offended but if it's my then daddy called me his slut I'm okay with that.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Degradation play.

Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does the word "Slut" have a different (positive) meaning nowadays in the world of swing?

I have found that people enjoy being called it lately which is great. Who takes that and other similar words as a compliment?

For me it's in content. I don't mind been somebodies slut and aiming to please them but I don't like been called a slut as an insult. If that makes sense.

Like if someone who doesn't know me called me one I'd be offended but if it's my then daddy called me his slut I'm okay with that. "

Yep. That makes perfect sense. I totally agree.

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By *ottie00Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Offensive and I would not be pleased.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a Slut, it's a term I'm very comfortable with. Yes I can understand why some uptigh folk still find the term offensive. In my humble opinion a slut is mearly a free spirited person who engages in sexual activity with whomever they choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't do anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks not for ne

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Degradation play.

Not for me. "

Or me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Context and individual preference. And if there malice behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Context and individual preference. And if there malice behind it.

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By *arythatsmeWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I am a Slut, it's a term I'm very comfortable with. Yes I can understand why some uptigh folk still find the term offensive. In my humble opinion a slut is mearly a free spirited person who engages in sexual activity with whomever they choose. "

Yep, I agree.

I do understand peoples offense to the term but I enjoy (in context) being called it

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By *uckypuppy007Woman
over a year ago

dublin

"Degradation play.

Not for me.

Or me"

nor me!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's quite a loaded world and not the sort of thing that anyone should be called unless you are sure they are into it.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

A Disgusting word used to insult a woman

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

If there was an established 'relationship' and the context and intent were clear then I'd quite enjoy it.

Only under those circumstances though.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Depends on the context but in the majority of cases it would not be well received and may result in a knee in the balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind being called it

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't like it and it would not go down well if someone called me it. It's usually used as a derogatory term and that's not something I'm interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the context but in the majority of cases it would not be well received and may result in a knee in the balls

Ha ha ouch!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Two words i absolutely hate:

Slut

Cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most things in life it will depend on the context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fine with being called it actually xx

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By *ustyBrunette100Woman
over a year ago

City

Got a msg earlier from a lad whose first msg to me ever was "hey dirty slut"!!!

Instant block right there

If we had been talking for a while, i wud have reacted differently but don't expect a reply from me if that's all you cud come up with in your first msg!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us , respect at all times xx

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

In the traditional context, definitely not

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Context. Some people like it, some like using the term. Fair enough. Personally, I'm extremely uncomfortable with it.

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By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

I regularly use it to describe myself. Words have power, so I take the power of that word back for myself to use.

Coming from anyone else though, it depends on context. Mostly it depends on who is saying it. Someone I know, who knows I use it about myself, especially if it's said with affection/lust? All good. Randomers saying it in an opening mail? Gwantaefuck.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

At the right time with a right person - yes, love it.

Internet randos - nope. Not an acceptable form to address a stranger.

Missus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I probably should have clarified. Do people enjoy it being used by partners or playmates?

Some random keyboard warrior using it will never be acceptable.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

I wouldn't be a lover of the word tbh ,even if it was my hubby using it ,quite like bitch tho lol R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, i find it a turn off.

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By *lamingo57Woman
over a year ago

Carrick

In context/roleplay it's fine. As an intended insult, it's not fine.

During sex the other day, my FB looked down and said "you're fucking gorgeous" (I'm completely average), it turned me on so much. Words can be so powerful.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"A Disgusting word used to insult a woman "

Used by many women in their profiles or profile names.

Always a hard pass for me when I see that.

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Definitely not

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By *atekeeperAndKeymasterCouple
over a year ago

Derry/Donegal

If we’ve been talking for a bit and have the type of dynamic where it’s acceptable, then it’s a huge turn on . Out of the blue from a stranger , I will absolutely go mental

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

I’m a Self confessed slut And make no apologies about it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much depends on the Individual and context

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

It’s a big difference being called “ a slut” or being admired as “my slut”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In context/roleplay it's fine. As an intended insult, it's not fine.

During sex the other day, my FB looked down and said "you're fucking gorgeous" (I'm completely average), it turned me on so much. Words can be so powerful. "

Yes definitely this

at the beginning i was kind of going along with the whole thing but then to be very honest it's not naturally what i'm about what so no i don't like it.

If i'm ask to humiliate and it's a huge turn on for the other i can do it and i laugh sometimes but there's lines i don't cross because some people take this humiliation way to far.

I actually get shocked with the extent a person wants to be put down sometimes but the psychological side of it interests me, personally it doesn't make me feel comfortable especially if it's deep and over the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl i used to go out with called herself my slut. She loved being called it during sex and particularly when we were role playing. Definitely wouldn’t use it as a vulgar term and very much depends on context.

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By *tockings199Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I enjoy it during role playing with someone special but outside of that then a big no no turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs loves being called a Slut and telling you she's a Slut but only whilst being fucked! It stops after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about context and permission. With a long term trusted partner who has permission to call me a slut then hell yes. If someone is calling me a slut out of malice then it's not welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In heat of the moment, its hot...

by someone you know.

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By *j1981Man
over a year ago

cork

"In heat of the moment, its hot...

by someone you know."

Yeh i think u spot on there... its one of those luvit or hateit... words and once u get to know somebodys likes/dislikes... can turn into fun then if both happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's even better when your wife is being fucked by her FB as you watch and he is telling you that she is his Slut now and also prompting her to tell you that she his Slut as well!

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

"In heat of the moment, its hot...

by someone you know."
exactly this x

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"In heat of the moment, its hot...

by someone you know.exactly this x"
Some ladies find being called Darling offensive !!! So only if it’s relevant to the lady in question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well,I dont like to be called babe

absolutely hate it!babe me arse

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Well,I dont like to be called babe

absolutely hate it!babe me arse

"
lie to me call me Handsome handsome lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a big difference being called “ a slut” or being admired as “my slut”

I agree with u,love when my Guy calls me his slut but nobody else will call me that,very disrespectfully...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well,I dont like to be called babe

absolutely hate it!babe me arse

lie to me call me Handsome handsome lol

Oiy!!!cheeky pup...

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Sum people on here think because there on a swing site that it gives them a rite to disrespect and degrade people i definitely wont be calling it to anyone its a no from me . Treat people with respect gets you further in life thats my view on it .

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By *uinn79Man
over a year ago

eh no

Agree if the lady like it it’s a turn only but only then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it. Instant mood killer

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By *londy84Man
over a year ago

Knockatallan

Been called like that few times before

Not a fan

And never done it to anyone else

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By *oleinone2020Man
over a year ago

hungtown

"Does the word "Slut" have a different (positive) meaning nowadays in the world of swing?

I have found that people enjoy being called it lately which is great. Who takes that and other similar words as a compliment?

For me it's in content. I don't mind been somebodies slut and aiming to please them but I don't like been called a slut as an insult. If that makes sense.

Like if someone who doesn't know me called me one I'd be offended but if it's my then daddy called me his slut I'm okay with that. "

That's a great answer just A, I think you hit the nail on the head there ??

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

For me, there is no insulting word for someone who loves sex. Slut whore fuckboy, all the same. From what I can tell, people who use those words to insult others are more often jealous of all the action they get haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me, there is no insulting word for someone who loves sex. Slut whore fuckboy, all the same. From what I can tell, people who use those words to insult others are more often jealous of all the action they get haha"

I fully agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been called a Gigolo on many occasion in my youth. From jumping from lady to lady on nights out

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have been called a Gigolo on many occasion in my youth. From jumping from lady to lady on nights out

Was the floor lava?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been called a Gigolo on many occasion in my youth. From jumping from lady to lady on nights out

Was the floor lava?"

No it was just me that was hot

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have been called a Gigolo on many occasion in my youth. From jumping from lady to lady on nights out

Was the floor lava?

No it was just me that was hot

Ah of course, should have known that myself. Silly me

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