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By *jMac OP   Man
over a year ago

Derry

Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

If you dont have erectile dysfunction then don't take erectile dysfunction drugs. As with all drugs there are side effects.

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By *ottie00Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes......and no

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?"

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

KK


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus "

It's a cardiovascular drug to solve what is essentially a secondary problem to cardiovascular issues.

There shouldn't be stigma like this around it.

It doesn't mean the person isn't attracted to you.

OP, it's available without prescription now.

But as I was saying, it can be a sign your health is declining somewhat.

No harm talking to your GP about it.

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By *hyeyesMan
over a year ago

meath


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus "

I thought pornstars take it ...

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus

It's a cardiovascular drug to solve what is essentially a secondary problem to cardiovascular issues.

There shouldn't be stigma like this around it.

It doesn't mean the person isn't attracted to you.

OP, it's available without prescription now.

But as I was saying, it can be a sign your health is declining somewhat.

No harm talking to your GP about it."

You completely misread my comment.

I did specify that I've nothing against genuine medical conditions and I was solely talking about people who don't need it, just take it for better "performance"

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus

I thought pornstars take it ..."

Yep.. plus sometimes a variety of different drugs also. I wouldn't use that as a reason to take any of them.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus

It's a cardiovascular drug to solve what is essentially a secondary problem to cardiovascular issues.

There shouldn't be stigma like this around it.

It doesn't mean the person isn't attracted to you.

OP, it's available without prescription now.

But as I was saying, it can be a sign your health is declining somewhat.

No harm talking to your GP about it.

You completely misread my comment.

I did specify that I've nothing against genuine medical conditions and I was solely talking about people who don't need it, just take it for better "performance""

I know exactly what you're saying. If someone without erectile dysfunction needed erectile dysfunction drugs to have sex with me then I wouldnt be happy either.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus

It's a cardiovascular drug to solve what is essentially a secondary problem to cardiovascular issues.

There shouldn't be stigma like this around it.

It doesn't mean the person isn't attracted to you.

OP, it's available without prescription now.

But as I was saying, it can be a sign your health is declining somewhat.

No harm talking to your GP about it.

You completely misread my comment.

I did specify that I've nothing against genuine medical conditions and I was solely talking about people who don't need it, just take it for better "performance"

I know exactly what you're saying. If someone without erectile dysfunction needed erectile dysfunction drugs to have sex with me then I wouldnt be happy either."

Bingo!

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By *hyeyesMan
over a year ago

meath


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus

It's a cardiovascular drug to solve what is essentially a secondary problem to cardiovascular issues.

There shouldn't be stigma like this around it.

It doesn't mean the person isn't attracted to you.

OP, it's available without prescription now.

But as I was saying, it can be a sign your health is declining somewhat.

No harm talking to your GP about it.

You completely misread my comment.

I did specify that I've nothing against genuine medical conditions and I was solely talking about people who don't need it, just take it for better "performance"

I know exactly what you're saying. If someone without erectile dysfunction needed erectile dysfunction drugs to have sex with me then I wouldnt be happy either.

Bingo! "

What about an aphrodisiac ?

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

KK


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus

It's a cardiovascular drug to solve what is essentially a secondary problem to cardiovascular issues.

There shouldn't be stigma like this around it.

It doesn't mean the person isn't attracted to you.

OP, it's available without prescription now.

But as I was saying, it can be a sign your health is declining somewhat.

No harm talking to your GP about it.

You completely misread my comment.

I did specify that I've nothing against genuine medical conditions and I was solely talking about people who don't need it, just take it for better "performance"

I know exactly what you're saying. If someone without erectile dysfunction needed erectile dysfunction drugs to have sex with me then I wouldnt be happy either."

I'm telling you that erectile dysfunction is most likely physical, not psychological

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Is it as good as they say it is and does it have any effect if a woman takes it ?

If someone who doesn't have a legitimate medical reason to take it let's me know that they plan on taking it for a "meet" with me - I will make sure not to have sex with them and avoid all sexual contact all together. It is a big turn off for me to even think that someone needs medical help to get aroused enough to have sex with me (not saying that everyone should automatically be aroused by me. I mean I'm not interested in sexual contact with people who aren't.)

I have taken it myself once to see if it has any effect on women.

Nothing happened.

Missus

It's a cardiovascular drug to solve what is essentially a secondary problem to cardiovascular issues.

There shouldn't be stigma like this around it.

It doesn't mean the person isn't attracted to you.

OP, it's available without prescription now.

But as I was saying, it can be a sign your health is declining somewhat.

No harm talking to your GP about it.

You completely misread my comment.

I did specify that I've nothing against genuine medical conditions and I was solely talking about people who don't need it, just take it for better "performance"

I know exactly what you're saying. If someone without erectile dysfunction needed erectile dysfunction drugs to have sex with me then I wouldnt be happy either."

I’d imagine it’s a fine line for some between having a problem and admitting there is a problem, not a simple subject.

I haven’t taken it myself but have been accused in of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies appear to have a pretty mucked up view on what Viagra is - it's nothing to do with being aroused and in no way equates to sexual attraction. With Viagra you still have to be aroused or it still won't work. It is a drug to get men hard that are finding it hard to perform- do ladies have any idea what it feels like to have performance insecurity and be met with that kind of attitude of " oh you need drugs to find me attractive "?? All that does is make the man more likely to fail and feel like absolute shit. There should never be a stigma about a man trying his best to perform to the best of his ability to satisfy the woman he has chosen to pursue. ED is life stifling and can really torture a man. Women should be supportive as it's being taken for them! I've had ED in the past and it is an absolute nightmare which is a negative spiral as the more you can't perform the more you worry about it, making you more likely to fail. So if any man ever tells you he's going to be taking Viagea before a meet, pound to a penny he feels he needs it and should be supported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies appear to have a pretty mucked up view on what Viagra is - it's nothing to do with being aroused and in no way equates to sexual attraction. With Viagra you still have to be aroused or it still won't work. It is a drug to get men hard that are finding it hard to perform- do ladies have any idea what it feels like to have performance insecurity and be met with that kind of attitude of " oh you need drugs to find me attractive "?? All that does is make the man more likely to fail and feel like absolute shit. There should never be a stigma about a man trying his best to perform to the best of his ability to satisfy the woman he has chosen to pursue. ED is life stifling and can really torture a man. Women should be supportive as it's being taken for them! I've had ED in the past and it is an absolute nightmare which is a negative spiral as the more you can't perform the more you worry about it, making you more likely to fail. So if any man ever tells you he's going to be taking Viagea before a meet, pound to a penny he feels he needs it and should be supported."

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Ladies appear to have a pretty mucked up view on what Viagra is - it's nothing to do with being aroused and in no way equates to sexual attraction. With Viagra you still have to be aroused or it still won't work. It is a drug to get men hard that are finding it hard to perform- do ladies have any idea what it feels like to have performance insecurity and be met with that kind of attitude of " oh you need drugs to find me attractive "?? All that does is make the man more likely to fail and feel like absolute shit. There should never be a stigma about a man trying his best to perform to the best of his ability to satisfy the woman he has chosen to pursue. ED is life stifling and can really torture a man. Women should be supportive as it's being taken for them! I've had ED in the past and it is an absolute nightmare which is a negative spiral as the more you can't perform the more you worry about it, making you more likely to fail. So if any man ever tells you he's going to be taking Viagea before a meet, pound to a penny he feels he needs it and should be supported."

Your suffered from ED. You treated your ED. Nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with being gives with women You were planning sex with.

That's not the same thing as using ED drugs when you DONT have ED.

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By *erri AnneTV/TS
over a year ago

Shannon and Costa Blanca

I have been medically prescribed it but I don’t take it as the side effects are far worse than the ED for me


"Ladies appear to have a pretty mucked up view on what Viagra is - it's nothing to do with being aroused and in no way equates to sexual attraction. With Viagra you still have to be aroused or it still won't work. It is a drug to get men hard that are finding it hard to perform- do ladies have any idea what it feels like to have performance insecurity and be met with that kind of attitude of " oh you need drugs to find me attractive "?? All that does is make the man more likely to fail and feel like absolute shit. There should never be a stigma about a man trying his best to perform to the best of his ability to satisfy the woman he has chosen to pursue. ED is life stifling and can really torture a man. Women should be supportive as it's being taken for them! I've had ED in the past and it is an absolute nightmare which is a negative spiral as the more you can't perform the more you worry about it, making you more likely to fail. So if any man ever tells you he's going to be taking Viagea before a meet, pound to a penny he feels he needs it and should be supported."

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Being *honest

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ladies appear to have a pretty mucked up view on what Viagra is - it's nothing to do with being aroused and in no way equates to sexual attraction. With Viagra you still have to be aroused or it still won't work. It is a drug to get men hard that are finding it hard to perform- do ladies have any idea what it feels like to have performance insecurity and be met with that kind of attitude of " oh you need drugs to find me attractive "?? All that does is make the man more likely to fail and feel like absolute shit. There should never be a stigma about a man trying his best to perform to the best of his ability to satisfy the woman he has chosen to pursue. ED is life stifling and can really torture a man. Women should be supportive as it's being taken for them! I've had ED in the past and it is an absolute nightmare which is a negative spiral as the more you can't perform the more you worry about it, making you more likely to fail. So if any man ever tells you he's going to be taking Viagea before a meet, pound to a penny he feels he needs it and should be supported.

Your suffered from ED. You treated your ED. Nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with being gives with women You were planning sex with.

That's not the same thing as using ED drugs when you DONT have ED."

I feel like I'm in some alternate reality.... they don't get it! They just fell into this victim role and feel so strongly personally attacked that they can't seem to grasp what we're trying to say.

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

KK


"

Your suffered from ED. You treated your ED. Nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with being gives with women You were planning sex with.

That's not the same thing as using ED drugs when you DONT have ED.

I feel like I'm in some alternate reality.... they don't get it! They just fell into this victim role and feel so strongly personally attacked that they can't seem to grasp what we're trying to say.

"

It's actually you that don't get it.

I wouldn't class it as a recreational drug.

It alters your blood flow.

It's not a "fake" erection if someone has taken it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree..well said...support not judgement


"Ladies appear to have a pretty mucked up view on what Viagra is - it's nothing to do with being aroused and in no way equates to sexual attraction. With Viagra you still have to be aroused or it still won't work. It is a drug to get men hard that are finding it hard to perform- do ladies have any idea what it feels like to have performance insecurity and be met with that kind of attitude of " oh you need drugs to find me attractive "?? All that does is make the man more likely to fail and feel like absolute shit. There should never be a stigma about a man trying his best to perform to the best of his ability to satisfy the woman he has chosen to pursue. ED is life stifling and can really torture a man. Women should be supportive as it's being taken for them! I've had ED in the past and it is an absolute nightmare which is a negative spiral as the more you can't perform the more you worry about it, making you more likely to fail. So if any man ever tells you he's going to be taking Viagea before a meet, pound to a penny he feels he needs it and should be supported."

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Nobody has said that it's a fake erection. Nobody has said there is anything wrong with someone who has ED using it. Nothing to get upset about. If you suffer from ED then you SHOULD be able to get viagra and use it under the necessary medical supervision.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Ah the judgey mcjudgeypants brigade is out again. Ffs. I’m seeing my own brain at this stage with all the eye-rolling.

If you don’t have ED, don’t take an ED drug. What a load of bollox.

If there weren’t 100 reasons why men need a medication to help them stay hard during a long sessions of sex, then the medication wouldn’t be available over the counter.

Simples.

Are all the McPerfect couples on here saying that they wouldn’t use Viagra also stating that they never use lube!?

“But surely if a woman wants to have sex and is temporarily dry due to stress or antibiotics or 100 other reason she shouldn’t use a lubricant?”

I’d love to see my call to the Dr. “Hey, I’m hoping for the ride but I’m a bit dry sometimes as I’m not sleeping and I’m working long hours. Can I have a prescription for some lube.”

To have sex, men need an erection and women need to be wet.

So if men take viagra or woman use lube - who bloody cares. Get the hell over yourselves.

Christ almighty. It’s 2022 people, not 1964.

Sheeeeesshhhhh

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Viagra has side effects that lube doesn't. For example if you have issues with blood pressure then it can be dangerous for you. It can also interact with other medication. It actually has quite a profound effect on the body and side effects are very common. Headaches, flushing, indigestion, changes in vision, back pain, nausea, dizziness, nasal congestion, rash and muscle pain.

I've seen men on viagra at parties who are red faced sweaty messes who were robbed of their ability to cum because of it.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

Oh! Ok. Sorry. You only judge them because you are concerned about their health.

Right ok. Got that wrong there. Who knew!!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I think you need to go back and reread my posts. I wasn't judgemental

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

KK


"Nobody has said that it's a fake erection. Nobody has said there is anything wrong with someone who has ED using it. Nothing to get upset about. If you suffer from ED then you SHOULD be able to get viagra and use it under the necessary medical supervision. "

Did I not read earlier in the thread that you'd be upset by its use?

The necessary medical supervision is a short consultation with a doctor or pharmacist.

Yes, a medicine that lowers blood pressure can have unwanted effects, and it isn't a good idea to take excessive doses.

The only real major caution would be combining it with nitrates (p*ppers). Anyone reading, do not do this.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ah the judgey mcjudgeypants brigade is out again. Ffs. I’m seeing my own brain at this stage with all the eye-rolling.

If you don’t have ED, don’t take an ED drug. What a load of bollox.

If there weren’t 100 reasons why men need a medication to help them stay hard during a long sessions of sex, then the medication wouldn’t be available over the counter.

Simples.

Are all the McPerfect couples on here saying that they wouldn’t use Viagra also stating that they never use lube!?

“But surely if a woman wants to have sex and is temporarily dry due to stress or antibiotics or 100 other reason she shouldn’t use a lubricant?”

I’d love to see my call to the Dr. “Hey, I’m hoping for the ride but I’m a bit dry sometimes as I’m not sleeping and I’m working long hours. Can I have a prescription for some lube.”

To have sex, men need an erection and women need to be wet.

So if men take viagra or woman use lube - who bloody cares. Get the hell over yourselves.

Christ almighty. It’s 2022 people, not 1964.

Sheeeeesshhhhh

"

I think it boils down to personal experience.

Clearly you never had a conversation with someone that went like:

"I'm going to book a hotel for us and take a viagra so I can fuck you all night"

"Oh, do you need to take it? Are you okay?"

"Oh no, I don't need it, just want to make sure I get to fuck you all night long"

Those kinds of conversations DO happen to lots of people. All the time.

You will not see the point in our experiences because you've never been there yourself.

And I'm NOT talking about nervous situations, parties etc.

I'm talking about people you already met for a coffee (at a social) making those statements.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Nobody has said that it's a fake erection. Nobody has said there is anything wrong with someone who has ED using it. Nothing to get upset about. If you suffer from ED then you SHOULD be able to get viagra and use it under the necessary medical supervision.

Did I not read earlier in the thread that you'd be upset by its use?

The necessary medical supervision is a short consultation with a doctor or pharmacist.

Yes, a medicine that lowers blood pressure can have unwanted effects, and it isn't a good idea to take excessive doses.

The only real major caution would be combining it with nitrates (p*ppers). Anyone reading, do not do this."

No I didn't say I would be upset with its use. I said I didn't want to have sex with someone who took it but didn't have ED.That pharmacist consultation is there for good reason. People have died.

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By *un biguyMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Ladies appear to have a pretty mucked up view on what Viagra is - it's nothing to do with being aroused and in no way equates to sexual attraction. With Viagra you still have to be aroused or it still won't work. It is a drug to get men hard that are finding it hard to perform- do ladies have any idea what it feels like to have performance insecurity and be met with that kind of attitude of " oh you need drugs to find me attractive "?? All that does is make the man more likely to fail and feel like absolute shit. There should never be a stigma about a man trying his best to perform to the best of his ability to satisfy the woman he has chosen to pursue. ED is life stifling and can really torture a man. Women should be supportive as it's being taken for them! I've had ED in the past and it is an absolute nightmare which is a negative spiral as the more you can't perform the more you worry about it, making you more likely to fail. So if any man ever tells you he's going to be taking Viagea before a meet, pound to a penny he feels he needs it and should be supported."

Well said that man

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By *un biguyMan
over a year ago

belfast


"

I think it boils down to personal experience.

Clearly you never had a conversation with someone that went like:

"I'm going to book a hotel for us and take a viagra so I can fuck you all night"

"Oh, do you need to take it? Are you okay?"

"Oh no, I don't need it, just want to make sure I get to fuck you all night long"

Those kinds of conversations DO happen to lots of people. All the time.

You will not see the point in our experiences because you've never been there yourself.

And I'm NOT talking about nervous situations, parties etc.

I'm talking about people you already met for a coffee (at a social) making those statements.

"

Well said that lady

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

KK


"Ah the judgey mcjudgeypants brigade is out again. Ffs. I’m seeing my own brain at this stage with all the eye-rolling.

If you don’t have ED, don’t take an ED drug. What a load of bollox.

If there weren’t 100 reasons why men need a medication to help them stay hard during a long sessions of sex, then the medication wouldn’t be available over the counter.

Simples.

Are all the McPerfect couples on here saying that they wouldn’t use Viagra also stating that they never use lube!?

“But surely if a woman wants to have sex and is temporarily dry due to stress or antibiotics or 100 other reason she shouldn’t use a lubricant?”

I’d love to see my call to the Dr. “Hey, I’m hoping for the ride but I’m a bit dry sometimes as I’m not sleeping and I’m working long hours. Can I have a prescription for some lube.”

To have sex, men need an erection and women need to be wet.

So if men take viagra or woman use lube - who bloody cares. Get the hell over yourselves.

Christ almighty. It’s 2022 people, not 1964.

Sheeeeesshhhhh

I think it boils down to personal experience.

Clearly you never had a conversation with someone that went like:

"I'm going to book a hotel for us and take a viagra so I can fuck you all night"

"Oh, do you need to take it? Are you okay?"

"Oh no, I don't need it, just want to make sure I get to fuck you all night long"

Those kinds of conversations DO happen to lots of people. All the time.

You will not see the point in our experiences because you've never been there yourself.

And I'm NOT talking about nervous situations, parties etc.

I'm talking about people you already met for a coffee (at a social) making those statements.

"

They're lying to you (but mostly themselves) about not needing it

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I got one stuck in my throat once. I had a stiff neck for hours after it.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ah the judgey mcjudgeypants brigade is out again. Ffs. I’m seeing my own brain at this stage with all the eye-rolling.

If you don’t have ED, don’t take an ED drug. What a load of bollox.

If there weren’t 100 reasons why men need a medication to help them stay hard during a long sessions of sex, then the medication wouldn’t be available over the counter.

Simples.

Are all the McPerfect couples on here saying that they wouldn’t use Viagra also stating that they never use lube!?

“But surely if a woman wants to have sex and is temporarily dry due to stress or antibiotics or 100 other reason she shouldn’t use a lubricant?”

I’d love to see my call to the Dr. “Hey, I’m hoping for the ride but I’m a bit dry sometimes as I’m not sleeping and I’m working long hours. Can I have a prescription for some lube.”

To have sex, men need an erection and women need to be wet.

So if men take viagra or woman use lube - who bloody cares. Get the hell over yourselves.

Christ almighty. It’s 2022 people, not 1964.

Sheeeeesshhhhh

I think it boils down to personal experience.

Clearly you never had a conversation with someone that went like:

"I'm going to book a hotel for us and take a viagra so I can fuck you all night"

"Oh, do you need to take it? Are you okay?"

"Oh no, I don't need it, just want to make sure I get to fuck you all night long"

Those kinds of conversations DO happen to lots of people. All the time.

You will not see the point in our experiences because you've never been there yourself.

And I'm NOT talking about nervous situations, parties etc.

I'm talking about people you already met for a coffee (at a social) making those statements.

They're lying to you (but mostly themselves) about not needing it"

If they aren't lying - I don't want to meet them.

If they are lying - I also don't want to meet them - what else will they lie about?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Wasn't going to but I will

I'm on so many tablets for a medical condition that I rattle in the mornings when I walk

It also means I suffer from ED especially when condoms are involved

Never had to wear them for 30 years and still absolutely hate them...

So I went to the doctor,he gave me a script...I got the little Blue pill ...it works....a few side effects like a red face as noticed by someone sitting near me last weekend at a social

I took one a few times thinking something might happen at a meet ,it didnt but I still had the bloody side effects which is a pain ( not an erection,you still need stimulation)

I've also not taken one not realising something would happen at a meet ....and nothing happened because of that....feck my bad I apologised and she was absolutely brilliant about it....so if you're reading this I thank you from the bottom of my heart...

So if my arm was broken I'd see a doctor

If my dick is not as good as it should be I see a doctor....end off ...no shame or embarrassment

Lads if you need one just buy them in a chemist

If you don't...don't touch them

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Wasn't going to but I will

I'm on so many tablets for a medical condition that I rattle in the mornings when I walk

It also means I suffer from ED especially when condoms are involved

Never had to wear them for 30 years and still absolutely hate them...

So I went to the doctor,he gave me a script...I got the little Blue pill ...it works....a few side effects like a red face as noticed by someone sitting near me last weekend at a social

I took one a few times thinking something might happen at a meet ,it didnt but I still had the bloody side effects which is a pain ( not an erection,you still need stimulation)

I've also not taken one not realising something would happen at a meet ....and nothing happened because of that....feck my bad I apologised and she was absolutely brilliant about it....so if you're reading this I thank you from the bottom of my heart...

So if my arm was broken I'd see a doctor

If my dick is not as good as it should be I see a doctor....end off ...no shame or embarrassment

Lads if you need one just buy them in a chemist

If you don't...don't touch them

"

That's a very honest reply. Thank you.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Wasn't going to but I will

I'm on so many tablets for a medical condition that I rattle in the mornings when I walk

It also means I suffer from ED especially when condoms are involved

Never had to wear them for 30 years and still absolutely hate them...

So I went to the doctor,he gave me a script...I got the little Blue pill ...it works....a few side effects like a red face as noticed by someone sitting near me last weekend at a social

I took one a few times thinking something might happen at a meet ,it didnt but I still had the bloody side effects which is a pain ( not an erection,you still need stimulation)

I've also not taken one not realising something would happen at a meet ....and nothing happened because of that....feck my bad I apologised and she was absolutely brilliant about it....so if you're reading this I thank you from the bottom of my heart...

So if my arm was broken I'd see a doctor

If my dick is not as good as it should be I see a doctor....end off ...no shame or embarrassment

Lads if you need one just buy them in a chemist

If you don't...don't touch them

"

Your last two lines summed it up 100%

Thank you for your honesty. There's no shame in admitting that you actually need it when you do xx

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I would have a problem with someone using one just cause they wanted to go all night and not that they have ED. Like any medication, if you don’t need it, don’t use it.

If you need it, use it.

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