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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

What does being on fabswingers mean to you? Most guys I chat too seem to only want fun with me but that's not what swinging is for me though?

Is it just me or do others find its the same when chatting to others they seem to think it's a sex site and not a proper swinging site?

Answers on a postcard...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just posted in the lounge

I'm here to gave fun would order it with one or two regular guys as I think sex gets better when you know someone

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're looking for people we can have a laugh with primarily. Friends who can get naked together

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

What do you mean by swinging

I always assumed the couples meeting other couples for sex...just like the keys in a bowl stories

Then it changed ...to what thought

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm just here for the receipes. Anyone know what I can do with an overly ripe peach?

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm just here for the receipes. Anyone know what I can do with an overly ripe peach? "

Add to a smoothie

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I'm just here for the receipes. Anyone know what I can do with an overly ripe peach?

Add to a smoothie "

I do like smooth things.... Thanks for the tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just posted in the lounge

I'm here to gave fun would order it with one or two regular guys as I think sex gets better when you know someone "

Damn I left Sligo far too soon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just here for the receipes. Anyone know what I can do with an overly ripe peach? "

Oh I dint think your peach is overripe looks quite fresh to me

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

The site is whatever you want it to be and whatever works for you. Simples

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I wouldn't get caught up in what other people think the site should be. Some want just hook ups, some want fbuddys, some want fwb, some are looking for a kinky partner. Just do what works for you. The beauty of here is you will find people looking for the same thing.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

This site is what every person wants it to be use it how you see fit

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I'm just here for the receipes. Anyone know what I can do with an overly ripe peach?

Oh I dint think your peach is overripe looks quite fresh to me "

I believe the best way to be sure is to squeeze them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just here for the receipes. Anyone know what I can do with an overly ripe peach?

Oh I dint think your peach is overripe looks quite fresh to me

I believe the best way to be sure is to squeeze them "

I'm on my way

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I'm just here for the receipes. Anyone know what I can do with an overly ripe peach?

Oh I dint think your peach is overripe looks quite fresh to me

I believe the best way to be sure is to squeeze them

I'm on my way "

I'll just go wash the fruit bowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger.

I dont use the site to swing.

I would say I possibly shouldn't be here but there are loads and loads of people like me that are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think different people will use the site in different ways and that's ok.

I'd say a large proportion of the messages I receive are hook up requests. And I think it's not the nature of the request that irks me, more the manner in which it's done. I don't want a regular thing with anyone as I'm already part of a couple. Repeats possibly but not necessarily. I don't want taken out for dinner. So by definition maybe hook ups are what I'm / we're after too?

But I love the social side of it too and value the friendships I've made along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely just a hook up site for me, in saying that , I am not looking to fuck half the site, only those that stir the loins, so about a third of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly when we were singles we still used it as a swingers site but we ended up dating because of fab. Now we use it as the creators of the site intended it to be used. As a swingers site. Fab is what you want to be depending on whatever you are looking for on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy to meet a woman for regular fun from here knowing she is also meeting others for fun. If she was up for group stuff even better

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

I think everyone has there own idea as to what this site is for.. fun, sex, chat, friends,fb, etc. For me I'd love a fwb if possible x

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm just here for the receipes. Anyone know what I can do with an overly ripe peach?

Add to a smoothie

I do like smooth things.... Thanks for the tip "

Hey, if you're here for recipes, then A la carte *should* be able to give the occasional tip (Did I mention I'm shite at anything to do with cooking, baking or preparing food in any way? )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you ask person what swingers mean they would think lots of sex. I'm sure it's like that in other places like states but not here in Ireland lot women want get know people and make connection etc.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I think if you ask person what swingers mean they would think lots of sex. I'm sure it's like that in other places like states but not here in Ireland lot women want get know people and make connection etc. "

The true definition of Swing is exactly that ... getting to know people and making connections. A lot of swingers don't have 'lots of sex'.

We've met and befriended a good few people that we haven't played with and we love bumping into them at socials and parties.

It's as much about socialising with liberated, like-minded people for us as it is about having group sex with strangers.

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I think if you ask person what swingers mean they would think lots of sex. I'm sure it's like that in other places like states but not here in Ireland lot women want get know people and make connection etc.

The true definition of Swing is exactly that ... getting to know people and making connections. A lot of swingers don't have 'lots of sex'.

We've met and befriended a good few people that we haven't played with and we love bumping into them at socials and parties.

It's as much about socialising with liberated, like-minded people for us as it is about having group sex with strangers."

Vanilla world seems to have this mad warped view of swingers as if all they do all day is hit on other people and fuck anyone who approaches them at every given opportunity.

Austin Powers has a lot to answer for...

Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you ask person what swingers mean they would think lots of sex. I'm sure it's like that in other places like states but not here in Ireland lot women want get know people and make connection etc.

The true definition of Swing is exactly that ... getting to know people and making connections. A lot of swingers don't have 'lots of sex'.

We've met and befriended a good few people that we haven't played with and we love bumping into them at socials and parties.

It's as much about socialising with liberated, like-minded people for us as it is about having group sex with strangers."

Exactly what this sexy lady has to say. Swinging to me is about being in a community with other like minded people. Yes I do fuck some of these people but it's not always on the agenda. I'm more likely to be seen with a cocktail in my hand at party rather than a cock..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here to annoy others...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Fab has always been a swinging site for me. If I wanted "random hook ups" I'd go to bars/clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it's kinda like dating site but you can date couples too lol

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