FabSwingers.com forum: What's your cover story?

By *lueAndBoo OP Couple
over a year ago

Meath

Hey all.

Wondering what you tell people if you get spotted on a date?

Like couples meeting another couple for a drink and something after maybe. But you are seen by someone you know.

Who are you with and what are you doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things I have being when I get spotted on coffee or drink dates. Insurance broker for couple an old work colleague college friends in the middle of job interview the list goes on. At one point I used to bring a notebook to coffees to look like it was business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having coffee with a friend or dinner with a friend

Way I see it noones business.

Had one guy tell me would only meet in tesco car park as he was too well known to be seen having coffee with a woman fml

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By *lueAndBoo OP Couple
over a year ago

Meath

"Things I have being when I get spotted on coffee or drink dates. Insurance broker for couple an old work colleague college friends in the middle of job interview the list goes on. At one point I used to bring a notebook to coffees to look like it was business! "

Haha mad, I was thinking of an elaborate pen pal cover but bringing a notebook sounds fun. Role play it as actual business.

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By *lueAndBoo OP Couple
over a year ago

Meath

"Having coffee with a friend or dinner with a friend

Way I see it noones business.

Had one guy tell me would only meet in tesco car park as he was too well known to be seen having coffee with a woman fml"

Yeah I am thinking of one or two particularly nosey best friends if they had seen us. They would not stop until they knew why we were out having fun without them lol

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By *reative ideasMan
over a year ago

Next door

"Having coffee with a friend or dinner with a friend

Way I see it noones business.

Had one guy tell me would only meet in tesco car park as he was too well known to be seen having coffee with a woman fml

Yeah I am thinking of one or two particularly nosey best friends if they had seen us. They would not stop until they knew why we were out having fun without them lol"

Boo, you really shouldn't have to explain yourselves, especially to friends to be honest!

However, I do understand how it can be, meeting another person or couple with a view to renting or buying their holiday home in Bulgaria, simples

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Keep it to the truth...having coffee with friends.. .thats what you're actually doing

Dont complicate things with lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all.

Wondering what you tell people if you get spotted on a date?

Like couples meeting another couple for a drink and something after maybe. But you are seen by someone you know.

Who are you with and what are you doing? "

If someone asks its a simple answer. None of your fucking business

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By *lueAndBoo OP Couple
over a year ago

Meath

"Keep it to the truth...having coffee with friends.. .thats what you're actually doing

Dont complicate things with lies "

Yeah maybe it's just my friends but I know they would be asking, which friend? How do you know them and everything.

One guy in particular, we're very close, he's a great friend though to be fair.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Keep it to the truth...having coffee with friends.. .thats what you're actually doing

Dont complicate things with lies

Yeah maybe it's just my friends but I know they would be asking, which friend? How do you know them and everything.

One guy in particular, we're very close, he's a great friend though to be fair. "

Yeah a bit awkward....work friends it is so....shuts down the conversation

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By *lueAndBoo OP Couple
over a year ago

Meath

Yeah maybe friends from work is the best approach.

Oh what's their names? Uhm

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Yeah maybe friends from work is the best approach.

Oh what's their names? Uhm"

And whats wrong with fitasfuckcock and lovelypussylips

They're a lovely couple ....both drive forklift trucks in the warehouse

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I just wing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah maybe friends from work is the best approach.

Oh what's their names? Uhm

And whats wrong with fitasfuckcock and lovelypussylips

They're a lovely couple ....both drive forklift trucks in the warehouse "

Oh this is my friend Dick Fitzwell we are in a book club together

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By *j2000Man
over a year ago

mayo

Happened me in hotel, was a planned meet, I booked in went down to meet her in bar, we were having drink when person I know very well arrived in, made beline straight over.

Said I was in hotel for course and girl was giving it, (covered bags left on floor lol) even ask why drink, all I could say was we were early

When I got home next day found she had told my entire family about seeing me. I still laugh! If she only knew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not friends with the kind of nosey people who would ask who the person was if they saw me having coffee or a drink with someone

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By *lueAndBoo OP Couple
over a year ago

Meath

"Having coffee with a friend or dinner with a friend

Way I see it noones business.

Had one guy tell me would only meet in tesco car park as he was too well known to be seen having coffee with a woman fml

Yeah I am thinking of one or two particularly nosey best friends if they had seen us. They would not stop until they knew why we were out having fun without them lol

Boo, you really shouldn't have to explain yourselves, especially to friends to be honest!

However, I do understand how it can be, meeting another person or couple with a view to renting or buying their holiday home in Bulgaria, simples

Adding this to the list! Mind you some friends would help with bartering for our new holiday home lol

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Book club meeting

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

We just say friends of ours, no one really presses us.

But it can be awkward when Mrs D is having a solo coffee with a single guy, but we don't get hung up on it, again we just say a friend from home who's visiting the area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it simple is always the best option. When you start making a big elaborate explanation about anything, you'll get yourself tied up in knots ... and not the ones you might like ...

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm not friends with the kind of nosey people who would ask who the person was if they saw me having coffee or a drink with someone "

Most of my friends would have a fair idea that i was on a "date" and would give me a smile and nod and go about their day. Even my non kinky prudish mates have done the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not friends with the kind of nosey people who would ask who the person was if they saw me having coffee or a drink with someone

Most of my friends would have a fair idea that i was on a "date" and would give me a smile and nod and go about their day. Even my non kinky prudish mates have done the same. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not friends with the kind of nosey people who would ask who the person was if they saw me having coffee or a drink with someone

Most of my friends would have a fair idea that i was on a "date" and would give me a smile and nod and go about their day. Even my non kinky prudish mates have done the same. "

Since I'm part of a couple and we don't discuss our sex life with others, it's pretty unlikelythey'd assume this, they're just not nosey, they would wave and go about their business, same as I would if I saw them with someone I didn't know.

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Anywhere

"Keep it to the truth...having coffee with friends.. .thats what you're actually doing

Dont complicate things with lies "
This.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

I tell them I joined a sex site and the girl was contemplating fucking me… they usually piss themselves laughing and say “aye..right

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Some good tips, thanks.

Notebook at the ready

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