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"Yes I would give someone a job who had served time and paid for their crimes. As long as they had the knowledge and experience necessary. I would keep a closer eye on them though than I would someone else. I wouldn't write someone off for life after a conviction. " Regardless of what the conviction was for? | |||
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"I think so. I've interviewed and employed quite a few people over the years, and I don't recall ever asking about criminal convictions. Everyone deserves a second chance " Do you think the type of work matters? This is starting to feel like an interview | |||
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"Yeah it’s a complicated one Theoretically if you repay your debt to society and show remorse then you should be able to rebuild your life, but does the severity and nature of the crime affect this? Redemption is one of the most powerful narratives in human nature so to deny someone the chance to redeem themselves is a bad thing So overall, it’s fairly complicated and i don’t know " Thats pretty much the thought process cycle I've gone through. Phrased much better though | |||
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"Depending on the crime committed and if they are actually sorry for it I would believe rehabilitation is possible. Do I believe that they should get opportunities like others yes but that depends on the crime they committed. You mentioned the player being hired by the Scottish club. I believe people who committed such a crime and violence against women and kids shouldn't be allowed those opportunities. They should burn in hell in my opinion. " But theu don't just burn in hell so they either earn a living or sponge off the state. What level of employment is acceptable? | |||
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"Depending on the crime committed and if they are actually sorry for it I would believe rehabilitation is possible. Do I believe that they should get opportunities like others yes but that depends on the crime they committed. You mentioned the player being hired by the Scottish club. I believe people who committed such a crime and violence against women and kids shouldn't be allowed those opportunities. They should burn in hell in my opinion. But theu don't just burn in hell so they either earn a living or sponge off the state. What level of employment is acceptable? " I'm fairly harsh when it comes to what I would deem fit for people guilty of those crimes but let's just say I don't think they should see the light of day never mind looking for employment. | |||
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"Problem being is how do you truly know they are rehabilitated" Well I guess it's do you believe in the process for all regardless of the individual results? | |||
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"Problem being is how do you truly know they are rehabilitated Well I guess it's do you believe in the process for all regardless of the individual results? " Depends on the crime tbh. With something like what you talk about the answer is no | |||
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"I’m not sure I believe jail is rehabilitating, it’s punishment sure but does it truly rehabilitate someone?" Not in the least. It alienates and traumatises | |||
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"Problem being is how do you truly know they are rehabilitated" You don't and can't. You have to think of what justice is supposed to look like, and what things like incarceration are actually meant to achieve | |||
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"A decision to hire anyone is always based on an interview with the person to gauge what they are like and if you feel they are the right fit for that place of work. My own decision would also be significantly influenced by those discussions so it is hard to answer a hypothetical. On saying that I do believe people can be rehabilitated, but not everyone can so I don't think a blanket policy/approach should be taken to situations. " Employers might not be the best people to administer justice | |||
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"A decision to hire anyone is always based on an interview with the person to gauge what they are like and if you feel they are the right fit for that place of work. My own decision would also be significantly influenced by those discussions so it is hard to answer a hypothetical. On saying that I do believe people can be rehabilitated, but not everyone can so I don't think a blanket policy/approach should be taken to situations. Employers might not be the best people to administer justice" Hence the reason they aren't asked to administer justice. | |||
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"A decision to hire anyone is always based on an interview with the person to gauge what they are like and if you feel they are the right fit for that place of work. My own decision would also be significantly influenced by those discussions so it is hard to answer a hypothetical. On saying that I do believe people can be rehabilitated, but not everyone can so I don't think a blanket policy/approach should be taken to situations. Employers might not be the best people to administer justice Hence the reason they aren't asked to administer justice. " Lol, read over your post again | |||
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"A decision to hire anyone is always based on an interview with the person to gauge what they are like and if you feel they are the right fit for that place of work. My own decision would also be significantly influenced by those discussions so it is hard to answer a hypothetical. On saying that I do believe people can be rehabilitated, but not everyone can so I don't think a blanket policy/approach should be taken to situations. Employers might not be the best people to administer justice Hence the reason they aren't asked to administer justice. Lol, read over your post again" I did. My point remains. | |||
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"Yes I would give someone a job who had served time and paid for their crimes. As long as they had the knowledge and experience necessary. I would keep a closer eye on them though than I would someone else. I wouldn't write someone off for life after a conviction. " | |||
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"I read that article about the footballer in Scotland this morning, and as always it made me think of the Mike Tyson trial. He was convicted of the crime, bu the majority people and media act as if it never happen. He still gets money from advertisers, tv shows and films. It baffles me how a convicted rapist can be so opening accepted in the celebrity world. " I think Michael Jackson is an even bigger example of this... Never criminaly convicted but made huge settlements. Multiple allegations yet still has millions of followers. | |||
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"I think so. I've interviewed and employed quite a few people over the years, and I don't recall ever asking about criminal convictions. Everyone deserves a second chance " I suppose you would have to think about the people they would be working next to. Last thing you want is to put a Convicted rapist working with other females possibly putting them in danger. | |||
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"Yes I would give someone a job who had served time and paid for their crimes. As long as they had the knowledge and experience necessary. I would keep a closer eye on them though than I would someone else. I wouldn't write someone off for life after a conviction. " What about an unvaccinated person? Considering your comments on the forum regarding them. Drugs, r*pe, violence are okay, but not unvaccinated people? Just curious, thanks | |||
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"Yes I would give someone a job who had served time and paid for their crimes. As long as they had the knowledge and experience necessary. I would keep a closer eye on them though than I would someone else. I wouldn't write someone off for life after a conviction. What about an unvaccinated person? Considering your comments on the forum regarding them. Drugs, r*pe, violence are okay, but not unvaccinated people? Just curious, thanks " If you remember correctly I had a vulnerable person close to me who I needed to protect from covid. That person has since been allowed to be vaccinated, and everyone else close to me is boosted too so I feel free to interact more closely with unvaccinated people. Thanks for the concern though. | |||
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"Yes I would give someone a job who had served time and paid for their crimes. As long as they had the knowledge and experience necessary. I would keep a closer eye on them though than I would someone else. I wouldn't write someone off for life after a conviction. What about an unvaccinated person? Considering your comments on the forum regarding them. Drugs, r*pe, violence are okay, but not unvaccinated people? Just curious, thanks " Can antivaxxers be rehabilitated?! I know I won't be | |||
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"Depends on the crime and the job, wouldn't hire a pedophile to be a school caretaker like! They don't deserve no chance at life, But most people deserve a second chance at some sort of life." People who work with or around kids or the vulnerable need garda vetting, so noone who commits violent or sexual crimes would be allowed to work in that kind of role. | |||
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" The problem with footballers is that they are seen as role models " And that is a problem considering if many of them weren't quite naturally decent at kicking a ball around they'd just be another annoying local bellend who you'd go out of your way to avoid if you saw them in the high street on a Saturday night after the pubs closed. Elevating people to godlike status because they have talent then acting surprised when they turn out to be perfectly normal people or have a nasty darkside is ridiculous. Talent doesn't make anyone a better human. | |||
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"Depends on the crime and the job, wouldn't hire a pedophile to be a school caretaker like! They don't deserve no chance at life, But most people deserve a second chance at some sort of life." Certain jobs require Garda vetting, and a conviction of that nature probably wouldn't ever be spent, plus they'd be on a register | |||
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"I don't know about this case in particular i will look it up, but in general i do think there's a good chance of rehabilitation. It does depend of the severity of it and how many repeat offending there is. I would like to think everyone is entitled to a glimmer of hope to recover. " David Goodwillie's criminal case was thrown out because of a lack of evidence. He and his assailant instead faced a civil case, and were found guilty on the balance of probability, and ordered to pay £100,000 in compensation. He hasn't spent any time in jail, but he also doesn't have a criminal conviction for this. Whatever happened that night doesn't reflect well on him, even if there isn't clear evidence or it falls short of a criminal charge. But dealing with this through civil law is murky, and the social justice is arguably worse. | |||
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"Personally no I don't and I've qualified experience with criminals." You definitely shouldn't be working where you are so | |||
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"I don't know about this case in particular i will look it up, but in general i do think there's a good chance of rehabilitation. It does depend of the severity of it and how many repeat offending there is. I would like to think everyone is entitled to a glimmer of hope to recover. David Goodwillie's criminal case was thrown out because of a lack of evidence. He and his assailant instead faced a civil case, and were found guilty on the balance of probability, and ordered to pay £100,000 in compensation. He hasn't spent any time in jail, but he also doesn't have a criminal conviction for this. Whatever happened that night doesn't reflect well on him, even if there isn't clear evidence or it falls short of a criminal charge. But dealing with this through civil law is murky, and the social justice is arguably worse." Tho if it was the average male next door non celeb the people would have him hung even if innocent | |||
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"Depends on the nature of the crime. Would anyone want Lar*y Mur*hy living next door?" Absolutely not. That is the type of individual who needs to be monitored until the day he departs. I often wonder what drives an individual to behave in this manner; some EEG brain wave researchers have speculated that their brain structures and neuro chemistry is faulty from birth or has been damaged by physical or emotionally traumatic injury. | |||
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"Depends on the nature of the crime. Would anyone want Lar*y Mur*hy living next door? Absolutely not. That is the type of individual who needs to be monitored until the day he departs. I often wonder what drives an individual to behave in this manner; some EEG brain wave researchers have speculated that their brain structures and neuro chemistry is faulty from birth or has been damaged by physical or emotionally traumatic injury." What ever the reasons for their behaviour they should be treated as the animals they are | |||
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"Personally no I don't and I've qualified experience with criminals. You definitely shouldn't be working where you are so" I'm sure the people I've helped / saved will have a differing opinion | |||
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"Personally no I don't and I've qualified experience with criminals. You definitely shouldn't be working where you are so I'm sure the people I've helped / saved will have a differing opinion " you have helped and saved criminals,so you do believe in rehabilitation so? | |||
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"I was in a bar in Amsterdam once and all the staff were ex prisoners. It was some kind of government rehabilitation scheme." So...they were still behind the bars... | |||
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"I was in a bar in Amsterdam once and all the staff were ex prisoners. It was some kind of government rehabilitation scheme. So...they were still behind the bars..." Lol on a serious note great initiative really. | |||
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"What's interesting is the psychology people involved in these crimes or any serious crimes. " Criminology and the importance of criminogenic environments is a fascinating subject which draws upon many other specialisms, such as: Psychology Psychiatry Neurobiology, etc. A criminogenic environment is one which encourages criminal behaviour. Studies have found that a very high percentage have Borderline Personality Disorder, the genesis of which is traumatising abuse, often sexual abuse in childhood, within dysfunctional families, where alcohol or drug abuse and parental mental illness is evident. Intergenerational transmission passes the problems on, into the next generation (of criminals). Breaking the cycle by a variety of interventions lessens crime and the damage and cost to society | |||
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"Once a person has served their sentence the slate is wiped clean, unfortunately the feelings police will inevitably have something to say about that, in UK victims of crime have the chance to meet their assailants in the form of restorative justice and can ask questions that many have unanswered, this is a great idea in my opinio" Kindof. Some serious covictions are never considered spent and must be announced to potential employers on asking. Others that involve sexual offenses or those involving children or the vulnerable will be on record for life. Some offenses will mean restrictions of travel for life. No such thing as a clean slate for some offenders. | |||
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"What's interesting is the psychology people involved in these crimes or any serious crimes. Criminology and the importance of criminogenic environments is a fascinating subject which draws upon many other specialisms, such as: Psychology Psychiatry Neurobiology, etc. A criminogenic environment is one which encourages criminal behaviour. Studies have found that a very high percentage have Borderline Personality Disorder, the genesis of which is traumatising abuse, often sexual abuse in childhood, within dysfunctional families, where alcohol or drug abuse and parental mental illness is evident. Intergenerational transmission passes the problems on, into the next generation (of criminals). Breaking the cycle by a variety of interventions lessens crime and the damage and cost to society " Definitely i do find the criminology very interesting pity not much jobs in Ireland not sure why but it's being said in colleges that one would have to think of travelling for a job in it. | |||
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